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Will This Relationship Ends Well? by Akukoreporterne: 8:47am On Jul 16, 2023 |
Good morning everyone, i have dating this girl for more than 2yrs now and finally i meet her parent that i want to marry their daughter .so we go into courtship . along that period i rented a self con because most time i stay at work due to the distance. so after 6months i was havng financial issues in which i discuss with her and even she was not having enough money on her so i beg her to brrow money from fairmon which was like 15k and she agree before the loan due date i told her o change her atm card to avoid unessary debit from the bank so she agreed. not upto a week i lose my job and everything was so hard for me ,so i meet her and try to discuss thing with her that am not financially bouyant and that i will pay the when i have it. after one month pass she came to me and told me he was debited the 15k that i should get her back her money, i pleaded serverally but this girl insisited until after a month he promise to report me. the same girl i try my best paying her bill ,make hair and all that but seems she is not ready to plan with me. because she has been disturbing i told her to sell the phone i bought for her and the i will give her the remaing balance. i think my decision is right afterall every since i bought her the phone she has been having many affairs outside, love message etc. even since the money issue happen she has been keepin distance so i want if we are together what can she posibly do. guy what is your take in this. .................true life story>>>> 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by Nwodosis(m): 8:50am On Jul 16, 2023 |
Will you in every honesty advise your own sister to date a man like you? 10 Likes |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by dawnomike(m): 8:52am On Jul 16, 2023 |
Akukoreporterne:You're in a situationSHIP not a RelationSHIP... 2 Likes |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by Nobody: 8:52am On Jul 16, 2023 |
This one is just bitter and angry. Are u mad at her because she needs her money back which u forced her to take a loan on without repayment or ur mad at her for using the phone u bought for her to chat other guys? No be today u know say she dey chat other guys na? Why bring it now into the money matter? And u are even planning to marry her when u know she's probably jocking other pipes at random? Or ur just mad because things are slow for u now? I think ur confused. Pay her back the money and leave her alone so u can focus on urself ![]() |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by izonborn098(m): 8:58am On Jul 16, 2023 |
That is woman for u, i believe by now she don tell her friends and love ones how she raise u from nothing and how she stand by u when u have nothing just because she borrow u 15k, Many of u still never know that gender, if i am dating any girl she don't have the right to tell me what to do for her or what i should buy her, i only do it for her when i know something is giving her a very difficult time and don't buy things u can't afford to lose for any girl. If u are my brother i would have tell u to forget about that girl, somebody who is ready to breakup wit u because of ordinary 15k, it is well. 7 Likes |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by Akukoreporterne: 9:02am On Jul 16, 2023 |
am mad at her becos i dont think the money issue should have become a problem since we are into a serious relationshp. but i know borrowing or attach anything money with some girls out there are very bad but atleast one must be sure of the lady she is gonna marry |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by Slynation(m): 9:03am On Jul 16, 2023 |
Help yourself first, the next time money comes, know where your priorities lies... 4 Likes |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by muyico(m): 9:09am On Jul 16, 2023 |
don't go into it?? U bin doubting it 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by Nobody: 9:14am On Jul 16, 2023 |
Akukoreporterne:Bro believe me or not ur not in any serious relationship with her... Maybe with urself. Try pay her and delete her from ur memory. I still don't understand why ur seriously involved with a girl who obviously has strings of other guys which ur aware of? Is the pussy controlling u? Better wake the fvck up! 3 Likes |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by Akukoreporterne: 9:20am On Jul 16, 2023 |
Runnerzz: thank you but i already told her she should sell the phone and i will balance up the remaining one |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by Akukoreporterne: 9:22am On Jul 16, 2023 |
why not and what is wrong , am i that bad ? she is taking me for granted and i think it is time to let her know |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by Cassandraloius: 9:23am On Jul 16, 2023 |
Abeg fox your life first, forget her jare. 1 Like |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by Nobody: 9:27am On Jul 16, 2023 |
Akukoreporterne:Lol... And u think she will sell it when it's the only device she has for communication? Just try come up with the money no think am as loss. Think of it as all she's worth to u and pay it off... After that she nor go bold near ur domain except u want her to which u should not |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by Akukoreporterne: 9:29am On Jul 16, 2023 |
is a loss even the 15k self na him i take flex |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by izonborn098(m): 9:29am On Jul 16, 2023 |
Are u alright? Nwodosis: 1 Like |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by muyico(m): 9:41am On Jul 16, 2023 |
Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. I once wrote about the need for guys to stop giving their money to ladies and I also wrote about the need for ladies to drop their entitlement mentality and YES I still reiterate these facts as they referred to ladies with an unrealistic sense of entitlement but nevertheless, there is a wide gap between a lady making lame financial demands from a man and a man being sensitive to the needs of his woman. Giving should be a two-way street and it will be very selfish for any lady to expect her man to give without her reciprocating but it is no longer new that ladies love to be taken care of and any guy who has what it takes to take care of his lady and yet refrains is a stingy man who does not deserve to be with any lady and ladies who are looking for a real purposeful romance should avoid such guys not just for their sake but for the sake of the future as such a man may not be generous enough to take care of his family financially....and worse still, I believe a man who is not generous to his lady does not truly love her cos there is no love without giving. Now I want ladies to understand this...it is one thing if a guy does not have and it is another if he has but just chooses to be stingy....it is also very important to note that generosity should not be measured by the amount of substance be it money or gift but must be accessed based on the proportionality of the gesture in relation to the resources at the guy's disposal....this means a guy who earns 100k a month but gives his woman an average of 10k in a month has given 10% of his total income and he is more generous than a guy who makes far more but gives his lady sparingly. What is the point? John 3:16 KJV 16 For God so loved the world, that he gave... You can give without loving, but you can't love without giving. When a man truly loves a woman he will give even without her asking, he will be sensitive to her needs and will always give her from what he has no matter how small even if the lady is financially buoyant, there are still little gestures that go a long way to express your affection for her. If a man truly loves his woman he will give of his time and his resources. Those who truly love, hold nothing back. The measure of your giving reveals the measure of your love. Love is something we can't see, but we can see the evidence of love in the action it produces, which is giving. Where you give your time and resources also reveals what you love. If we think we love someone, yet never give to them of our resources, then we are just deceiving ourselves. Hope this makes sense. 1 Like |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by libertyfather(m): 9:42am On Jul 16, 2023 |
nah money be fine bobo |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by IamtheTruth1(m): 9:46am On Jul 16, 2023 |
Akukoreporterne: Guy? You think your decision is right? You are wrong man. You should not have put the idea of her borrowing with her card in her head. Just ask her for help of 15k. Trust me, if I a lady loves. You, na you go tire for love. You asking her to sell the phone you got her to settle the debt is another low. Stop being petty. I do not see anything wrong in your lady. For her to even agree to take loan with her details for is because she cares. You need to understand Nigerian Women. There money is there money and yours is theirs. Facts. |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by Akukoreporterne: 9:55am On Jul 16, 2023 |
this is aabsolutly rubbish, my money and time is so precious |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by chacoonder(m): 10:16am On Jul 16, 2023 |
Akukoreporterne:Forget about relationships for now. Get a job and fix yourself financially first. 2 Likes |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by Bluezy13(m): 10:31am On Jul 16, 2023 |
Akukoreporterne: You brought your situation to this platform, hoping everyone to be on your side, not knowing you are actually irresponsible. Now you're calling people's opinion rubbish. I pity any girl that will end up with you in this your state. 3 Likes |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by imagrg(m): 10:37am On Jul 16, 2023 |
It's funny your preek still dey raise as you nor get money so. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by IbrahimSkiba(f): 10:39am On Jul 16, 2023 |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by Akukoreporterne: 10:59am On Jul 16, 2023 |
is not your fault since u also love polyyamory 1 Like |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by advanceDNA: 11:39am On Jul 16, 2023 |
Akukoreporterne: ..women understand risk managenent better than men so most of them dont usually mix their money and love ..... find money ...pay her back for peace to resign.... this ur babe even try collect loan for you... baba...i can tell u for free....there are only two women that can do such....1) ur babe 2) ur babe... ![]() |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by Khd95(m): 11:45am On Jul 16, 2023 |
Diary of a finished weak man, you bought a phone for her and sheβ has been having multiple affairs outside yet you still went to her parents that you want to marry herππππ 2 Likes |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by Nonexisting1: 11:59am On Jul 16, 2023 |
Simps and their problems with vaginarians. Not my business. I'm too busy to entertain foolishness when the foolish person doesn't even know he is foolish and still fooling the more. Oya nau, go and force her to sell the phone you bought for her. Mugu. 2 Likes
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Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by Baronthecelebri: 12:42pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
Leave her |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by torqque7(m): 1:19pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
Akukoreporterne:How you go borrow money to take flex girl wey you know is fvcking other guys. Omoh the kind simping we see everyday is surpassing greater heights.. |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by marlow1962(m): 3:23pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
Both of you are mad When will guys like you ever learn ![]() |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by Sonnobax15(m): 3:23pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
![]() So many angry men on this thread....... Well,op, That banny isn't a wife material at all..... weren't you guys suppose to watch each other's back in the of DOWNS like this? Na wa.... Condition dey really dey open many people eyes to see wetin the reality of life cha. |
Re: Will This Relationship Ends Well? by HarunaWest(m): 3:35pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
Akukoreporterne:Pay up her money. Don't date if you are not comfortable to an extent. That you lost your job and everything went sideways means that you are still in the hustling phase. Go a notch higher,before you enter that dating thing. Women are only after comfort nowadays, nothing concern them and Naija condition. |
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