tollyboy5:
■ You're very adamant. If my future wife would be like this, i don't think its a problem. But not disrespecting my mother in a way you know i don't like under my roof. That's a big problem.

Plus4you:
Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like.
The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum
The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'.
I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out.

So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.

Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.

I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.

After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.

So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.

We have not been in good terms since then,

Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement?

Kobojunkie:
That is why I blame women who out of desperation stoop so low as to marry your kind only to end up regretting it in the end as they should have known they would.

tollyboy5:
■ Women are less intelligent, and meant to be less richer, not strong to stand as a best of burden. So its men that stoop so low to accept them as wife. Now they need to be trained by their husband to have more senses. Last last i go marry one of your young sisters

Plus4you:
Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like.
The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum
The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'.

Plus4you:
Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like.
The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum
The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'.
I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out.

So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.

Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.

I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.

After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.

So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.

We have not been in good terms since then,

Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement?

Plus4you:
Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like.
The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum
The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'.
I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out.

So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.

Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.

I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.

After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.

So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.

We have not been in good terms since then,

Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement?

pocohantas:


Even me done learn o.
I just calm since morning.

mariahAngel:


Iya mi ti binu.

UmmuFarrah:
If I am Op's wife, the way I will avoid talking about your mom ehn, you would think she doesn't exist.

Kobojunkie:
That is why I blame women who out of desperation stoop so low as to marry your kind only to end up regretting it in the end as they should have known they would.

Kobojunkie:
Again, I blame women who out of desperation stoop so low as to marry your kind only to end up regretting it in the end as they should have known they would.

Gmajor:
One of the many disadvantages of marrying a stubborn partner.
People would rather insist that they are right that apologise and allow peace to reign.
Even if she doesn't see anything wrong with her statement, the fact that you said that didn't like it should be enough for her to apologise.
Nawa oh

armyofone:


Iya mi,

Rara, just that I don't understand the thinking process of this op and his likes.

FRANCISTOWN:

I don't understand. How is "[b]don't turn my mom into a play thing" [/b]tantamount to my wife being a slave?

I don't get.

If your husband is comfortable with you using his relatives as comparative adjectives. Then that's on your husband and you, and I totally respect how you run your marriage.

But as long as I'm concerned , I won't run my home like that

Kobojunkie:
Your mother is your god so everyone must see and worship her as such? Do you equally worship everyone else's mother or is it just your mother that should be bowed down to?

Emmanuel30a:
Yes, for your mind; you don't make sense-not it don't make any senses...in&for your mind... Your blind mind...is one of a kind, so much that you can't rescind or so much that it can't be rescinded... Rewind, I don't need to reminds...you... You are not kind, not gonna say or not going to say-you are not that kind...

Plus4you:
Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like.
The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum
The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'.
I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out.

So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.

Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.

I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.

After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.

So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.

We have not been in good terms since then,

Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement?

IAmHim1:
go to youtube and type "Psyhacks: why women dont apologise"
...its a short talk by Doctor Orion Taraban.
all these problems would be solved then as you begin to see. cus for women its the emotions while for men its logic. a man apologises for his wrong doing to someone BUT A WOMAN DOESNT APOLOGISE FOR HER WRONG DOINGS OUTRIGHTLY.
SHE TRIES TO CHANGE THE EMOTIONS OF THE PERSON SHE OFFENDED FROM ANGER TO LOVE BY DOING THING THAT SHE FEELS WOULD MAKE THAT PERSON HAPPY. all these long story instead of simply apologising? lolzzz..yeah rightt this is just one of the gems. the others are in his video short talk

Kobojunkie:
What is wrong with mentioning his mother?

If OP doesn't want his mother mentioned at all in his marriage then OP should cut his mom off completely so she holds no place at all in his life and his marriage. You can't make a god out of a human being, and cause that god to feature in the lives of others around you, while expecting them not to mention the place that god occupies. It doesn't work that way.

LooneyLester:
You're a woman in a man's body

I know simps like you


Imagine a woman challenging you and flaunting your orders


Very soon she'll slap you and you'll be watching her do that



If your wife doesn't agree with you , it's up to you to discipline her and teach her a lesson that she won't forget


After that resort to hot fork


Don't apologize


She should be the one doing that after forking on her knees


If you are odogwu , she'll be submitting her salary to you

1TrippleCee:
When one marries a strong minded woman, marriage becomes a drill. That's why many men turn to wood internally after a while. The woman thinks her husband is her competition she can rubbish anyhow

mariahAngel:


What exactly was it about her words that offended you?

What I've observed is that you both are yet to fully understand each other.

Plus4you:
Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like.
The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum
The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'.
I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out.
Except more or similar utterances without remorse or reflections from her. I think wifes are like this. You need to learn to live with it. Air your disappointments and disapprovals always and move on.

So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.

Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.

I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.

After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.

So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.

We have not been in good terms since then,

Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement?

UjuJoan2:


How is what she said turning your mum into a plaything? This is just emotional blackmail on your part? You are the judge, jury and executioner!!

You know she’s right, and that’s why you are really upset and picking quarell with what she said.

I see nothing insulting or belittling in what she said.

ozonechrome:


Woman are marrying sha....