Meeting someone and marrying them is a lot like pursuing your dream job.

There is an opening. You get excited. You write up a flashy resume, and you apply. You follow up, pass a series of interviews, and you get the job!

Congratulations.

But, that’s not the end of it; it’s just the beginning. Because now you actually have a job to do. Daily. Repeatedly. Indefinitely.

At this new workplace, you will spend years, deciphering, manoeuvring, managing, riding a rollercoaster, compromising, learning, laughing, growing, dedicating, working overtime, placating, understanding, failing and succeeding.

The outcomes of this job will vary. You might get sacked or be made redundant. You might quit. You might last decades and retire with a fantastic pension. There are no guarantees.

The one thing everyone will tell you is that you’ll get out of it what you put into it. Mostly anyway.

That’s marriage, in a nutshell.

~Feef

1. Sex plummets.

2. Familiarity abounds and contempt follows.

3. Rebellion to prove you are not the boss of her is not unheard of.

4. You could end up raising the bastards of her boss, coworker or ex.

5. More responsibility, FEWER appreciation.

6. Unlimited entitlement.

7. Her family problem is yours to bear and your family should DISAPPEAR.

8. You will NEVER win another argument.

9. You are ALWAYS wrong.

10. You slave and slave and slave for her pleasure.

I guess the poster above me has some experiences to share...

Namaster:
1. Sex plummets.

2. Familiarity abounds and contempt follows.

3. Rebellion to prove you are not the boss of her is not unheard of.

4. You could end up raising the bastards of her boss, coworker or ex.

5. More responsibility, FEWER appreciation.

6. Unlimited entitlement.

7. Her family problem is yours to bear and your family should DISAPPEAR.

8. You will NEVER win another argument.

9. You are ALWAYS wrong.

10. You slave and slave and slave for her pleasure.

You get what you put in.

the spark in the relationship dies out after a few years,couples just learn to live with themselves.

It is well...

Its harvest time

Life after marriage is not easy
I love you becomes I hate you

Had a similar conversation with a married friend of mine two days ago.. I was complaining about how difficult it has become to find a good woman to marry.... He laughed and said to me --"life after marriage isn't easy at all bro....Most times you just have to accept each other's demon and live to manage dem together"

Omoh,na once I asked myself codedly--"Is marriage really meant for me"?

Hmmm...

Ballzproblem2:
the spark in the relationship dies out after a few years,couples just learn to live with themselves.

That's just the truth. You hardly see people who have being married displaying affections for each other publicly.but in the beginning it was all love and butterflies in the tummy.na so e be.what matters is that despite all the issue.you prefer to be with this one person.

Rokiat:

You get what you put in.

That’s how it’s supposed to be but looks like crap is the only thing they can replicate in large quantities

obinna58:

That’s how it’s supposed to be but looks like crap is the only thing they can replicate in large quantities

😂😂😂😂😂.sometimes what you put in.you get nothing.

Aaaaarghmed:
😂😂😂😂😂.sometimes what you put in.you get nothing.

Absolute nothing, judging by the constant thread on nairaland: carry her go oyibo land, she go chase you out of the house and even deport you, train her for school, she go use am as opportunity to find someone better, start business for her and e go be like say you just kickstart competition for house and helping your inlaws, na you go begin ask yourself where’s the multiplication but then give her just one bulsh!t and she’ll give you back in large quantity as a lucky man you are else it’ll be a lifetime retaliation

That the woman is your foster-mother.

Life after marriage??
Does that mean at the end of marriage?
Life after wedding (ceremony) would have been the correct title!

Rokiat:

You get what you put in.

You give woman millions of sperm and she gives you just a kid. That to me is Nothing but Failure.

You're pointless

You will discover that your is earning never enough.

Those who had no intention of changing their behaviors shouldn't expect to change their partner's behavior after marriage

30 yrs

Rokiat:

You get what you put in.

nonsense quote from an efulefu feminist

WeirdAlien:
Life after marriage??
Does that mean at the end of marriage?
Life after wedding (ceremony) would have been the correct title!

which one is life after wedding ceremony,na everybody go do WHITE wedding?


Besides,wedding a non Nigerian-virgin is one of the 7 ways to be phoolish

tiswell:
which one is life after wedding ceremony,na everybody go do WHITE wedding?


Besides,wedding a non Nigerian-virgin is one of the 7 ways to be phoolish

Whether traditional or white or islamic or court. It's a wedding.
Marriage is the life you live after wedding.

The truth is, many men don't really know the implications of what they are getting into at the start.

When I see married men, I always pity them.

Rokiat:

You get what you put in.

I wonder what men who are victims of paternity fraud are giving to their wives. Well! What more could I ever expect from a gender with distorted hypothalamus?

papyjaypaul:
30 yrs

Let the man go for DNA test. Someone is def. being fooled.

FRANCISTOWN:

Let the man go for DNA test. Someone is def. being fooled.

Kai! One woman don wound you baad with baby wey no be ya own. Men see suffering.

Rokiat:

You get what you put in.

I don’t know where you find this dumb quotes to justify your stupidity.
Aunty rokiat, you are no more a teenager to be posting this trash meant for under 21

It is well...

If you want a good marriage, put in the work before the marriage. Screen, screen and screen. If you eventually marry the right person for you, it will be much easier.

The major cause of marital problems is a mismatch of people. Desperation and marrying for the wrong reasons is why people eventually have problems in marriage.

You are forced to smell/inhale your Partner's Farts most times. 😟😌

You are forced to see their Dirty Armpits.😌😌

VinnyBaba:


You are forced to smell/inhale your Partner's Farts most times. 😟😌

You are forced to see their Dirty Armpits.😌😌

Werey