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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by 76RebelMoney(m): 9:55am On Apr 08 |
UselessBuharist: So far pride dey your heart,e don spoil everything. And also what kind of life have you lived thus far that you have trust issues? Maybe you too aren't trustworthy that's why you also don't find some women trustworthy as well. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by FuckYeyeMods: 9:55am On Apr 08 |
My friend! There are too many pressure in marriage. Marriage is a very crazy experience.... Marriage is a very terrible experience you have to keep quiet/mute about... Marriage is damaging if you're just 15% unlucky with a spouse... No oneness in marriage, your spouse can sell you out at any giving time. Marriage should be a contract thing by default but since religion frown at contract marriage, then we have no options. 80% of couple are living terribly together, but just keep pushing on because of the kids. That why couple resort to infidelity which often times worsen the situation. Hence, couple should not divulge too many secrete to each other because they're not one. Men mostly don't have problem but women are mostly the architect of bad and failed marriage. My advice to singles; That one thing you think that it doesn't matter during courtship, would really became center of your marriage/happiness. Flee from a habitual cheating girlfriend cos she's indirectly damaging your ability to trust which with greatly affect your marriage even if you marry the most faithful innocent girl on earth. Men should Date faithful girls even if you will end up not marrying each other, it's a good recipe for trust. Single dude should please do some background findings on their intend spouse. Not just her body count but her family background. Both of you met in different states away from your base, Asign somebody to help you do some little background check on her family especially her parent and siblings. kalufelix: That spouse you think you know, might not actually be what you think. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by ppogba: 9:55am On Apr 08 |
Namaster: @4, adverbial clause of assumption even though with the level of Oloshoism both coded and uncoded, written or unwritten, the possibility is there. Truth we all dread. @7, right when you marry without consulting your brain. Truth is, the tiny particles of attitudes like this are there but just that people stupidly ignore. Bottom line, you be Kolo man. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Abee79(m): 9:56am On Apr 08 |
For peace to reign, the wife should have greater control of the family finances - even if she doesn't bring anything to the table 🤐 And yes, she's ALWAYS right! 🥺🤣🤣 3 Likes |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by sweetkev(m): 9:56am On Apr 08 |
gerizzim:My brother we men are really seeing things. Its a pity 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by riverbird: 9:56am On Apr 08 |
Namaster: But the good part is that you can totally avoid all this things for life by avoiding marriage 6 Likes |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by udemzyudex(m): 9:56am On Apr 08 |
Rokiat: This is not always true oga Ade. |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Exceed15: 9:57am On Apr 08 |
The person you married will turn out to be like if they cast spell on you to Marry him/ her. People change when they get what they want especially WOMEN. 8 Likes |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by ppogba: 9:58am On Apr 08 |
UselessBuharist: Your problem is half solved. Do not bother going to any mountain to pray. |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by FuckYeyeMods: 9:58am On Apr 08 |
gerizzim:Some women are wicked.. |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by 76RebelMoney(m): 9:59am On Apr 08 |
free2ryhme: This generation no Sabi wetin be actual love. Na why marriages dey crash anyhow. Ignorance,pussilanimity and folly. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Acidosis(m): 9:59am On Apr 08 |
FOUR BRUTAL truths no one will tell you, but I will list them anyway: 1. You're not likely to have a greater marriage than your parent's. Think about it, we all claim that marriages of the previous generations are better. Isn't? Most people believe in the law of exemption only when they're personally involved. 2. The marriage between two f00ls will last longer than the marriage between two equal and calculative love birds 3. If you spend too much on your wedding, that celebration and fun fair will likely be the happiest moment/day of your marriage. Everything else will begin to tank from that day Iffahear say you keep up ke 😅 4. Your in-laws have a majority stake in your marriage whether you believe it or not. The longer you grow in marriage, the lower their stake. Prior to your wedding, they hold about 90% stake, 10 years after and all things being equal, that stake should drop to 55%. But they're never going below 50%. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by UselessBuharist: 10:00am On Apr 08 |
76RebelMoney: I’ve seen it all with women bro, I have traveled deep into the world and I’ve seen women misbehave, I’ve seen married women wear their wedding bands to sleep with other men (younger guys). I’ve seen women working in cooperates organisations do shit. It’s scary though I think marriage is not for me 8 Likes |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by 76RebelMoney(m): 10:00am On Apr 08 |
Exceed15:Women don't change. Na you no see wetin dey clear. A woman's character is well evident in her behavior. I wish I could send voicenotes honestly. |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by 76RebelMoney(m): 10:02am On Apr 08 |
UselessBuharist: Look into your own life and see your flaws also as you easily see the flaws in women. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by ifyain: 10:02am On Apr 08 |
The only good thing that come out of marriage is kids. it only benefits women. it is even difficult to get quality companionship in marriage. |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Babastrong(m): 10:04am On Apr 08 |
[quote author=labake1 post=129213513]Life after marriage is not easy
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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Akalia(m): 10:04am On Apr 08 |
Namaster:Wow. You are experienced. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by sweetkev(m): 10:05am On Apr 08 |
Olajide200:You are right bro. |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by UselessBuharist: 10:05am On Apr 08 |
76RebelMoney: I’ve enjoyed being by myself for far too long. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve had healthy relationships where I showed no signs of mistrust, no pride but they dealt with me terribly. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by travelzcruix: 10:07am On Apr 08 |
All intending couples must get clearance from DSS and if possible CIA and FBI if you have the money. Put him or her on 24/7 surveillance for the next 6months, chats, calls, audio. Who is he or her meeting. This marriage thing is becoming warfare as the day go by. Anyway no let anybody rush u. 4 Likes |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Sumptylism: 10:07am On Apr 08 |
Offpointng: She gives you a baby or babies with trillion of cells each...for your "millions of sperm"…. It is in a woman's nature to multiply.... :-) :-) |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Abee79(m): 10:09am On Apr 08 |
ADVISE TO MARRIED MEN: 1. Take care of yourself! 2. Spend of the money you make on yourself. Family demands are unending & will NEVER stop taking from you. 3. Prioritize your own well-being. 4. Periodically do comprehensive health checks. 5. Rest & revitalize regularly. 6. Find inner peace. 7. Find (clean) hobbies that make you happy. 8. Don't waste your time getting angry or arguing with that other gender. 9. Do DNA test 🤐 10. Don't lose sight of your own personal goals & dreams. 11. Have an emergency fund. 12. Respect your wife, even if you don't trust or love her. RESPECT HER. 13. Let your wife have greater control of the family finances. (If you married a woman that cannot be trusted with money, this point is not for you.) 14. Don't waste your time monitoring your wife's communication with others. 15. Make time for your children. When they grow, they might not remember the sacrifices you made, only the memories you created with them. 16. Don't stress yourself. . . 17. If you let stress kìll you before your time, your wife and children will FEAST on all you laboured for. 15 Likes |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by free2ryhme: 10:10am On Apr 08 |
Namaster: Your mentality about marriage is devastating. You are irredeemable 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by sweetkev(m): 10:12am On Apr 08 |
riverbird:But men are more afraid of the stigma the society would give them by remaining single for life. Only strong men don't care. 3 Likes |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Exceed15: 10:13am On Apr 08 |
76RebelMoney: Take this for free from me. There's always something they hide until she enters your house. 12 Likes |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by TableLeg(m): 10:14am On Apr 08 |
Daily, Repeatedly, Infinitely............... Majority are not ready for that and you need to ask youself again, if you are not cut for that kind of commitment, dont fu...cking get married! Period. |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by illuminutty: 10:15am On Apr 08 |
You will be miserable if you don't consciously take care of yourself. |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by BluntCrazeMan: 10:18am On Apr 08 |
No two marriages are the same. Everybody has to work out their own marital balance, and it takes time and constant learning. |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by sweetkev(m): 10:18am On Apr 08 |
Exceed15:Hmm fact. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by rajiedreez: 10:20am On Apr 08 |
Reality sets in then you realize you can never be too prepared for marriage 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Zooposki(f): 10:23am On Apr 08 |
Think9ja: That is Nigerian men for you. The way they monitor Nigerian women should be termed witchcraft. 2 Likes |
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