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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Mavinsoladele(m): 10:26am On Apr 08
WeirdAlien:
Life after marriage??
Does that mean at the end of marriage?
Life after wedding (ceremony) would have been the correct title!


As long as you understand what the topic is about, that's what matters.
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Honestey: 10:27am On Apr 08
The feeling of HOW DID I GET SCAMMED INTO THIS?
For a man o, I don't know what the holies think

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by DonroxyII: 10:32am On Apr 08
Offpointng:


You give woman millions of sperm and she gives you just a kid.

You're pointless
because just a sperm of yours fertilised her egg .... the remaining sperms went wayward like you the father grin

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by truthhurts2: 10:33am On Apr 08
Namaster:
1. Sex plummets.

2. Familiarity abounds and contempt follows.

3. Rebellion to prove you are not the boss of her is not unheard of.

4. You could end up raising the bastards of her boss, coworker or ex.

5. More responsibility, FEWER appreciation.

6. Unlimited entitlement.

7. Her family problem is yours to bear and your family should DISAPPEAR.

8. You will NEVER win another argument.

9. You are ALWAYS wrong.

10. You slave and slave and slave for her pleasure.
I absolutely have NOTHING more to say.... you've said it alllllllll.

But, one thing I know is.... it's not a do or die affair. It will get to a point that, as difficult as it may be you just have to retire and retirement can be in any form

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by GENES11S: 10:34am On Apr 08
free2ryhme:


una dey craze.

marriage wey your parents do and still going, e reach una turn una turn am to temple run




πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

No mind them. Too much of everything is bad.

The kind of mathematical analysis some people do all in the name of marriage no be small.

They start toasting and sleeping with anything on skirts in their quest to get the right partner.


In the days of most of our parents, you just get a girl you have little knowledge of.

It is left for both of you to work things out together and find love along the way. The funny thing is that their marriage usually last longer and has more respect between both partners.

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Pootle: 10:35am On Apr 08
married but marriage have outlived its original purpose

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by erniok(m): 10:36am On Apr 08
Namaster:
1. Sex plummets.

2. Familiarity abounds and contempt follows.

3. Rebellion to prove you are not the boss of her is not unheard of.

4. You could end up raising the bastards of her boss, coworker or ex.

5. More responsibility, FEWER appreciation.

6. Unlimited entitlement.

7. Her family problem is yours to bear and your family should DISAPPEAR.

8. You will NEVER win another argument.

9. You are ALWAYS wrong.

10. You slave and slave and slave for her pleasure.
2 things, you obviously married the wrong person or you are just regurgitating what you've heard people say. Marriage is very sweet if you marry the right person.

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by 76RebelMoney(m): 10:36am On Apr 08
Exceed15:


Take this for free from me. There's always something they hide until she enters your house.
I thought on this Abit.
Women? God gave man wisdom to discern.
What they hide?
1) past sexual history.
2) particular family history.
3) A probable ongoing external cheating(sexual fling)

To be honest,most secrets women have can easily be discovered if you enter their Whatsapp.
Finish.
Women aren't complicated.
Na conji dey blind man eye.

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Honestey: 10:39am On Apr 08
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Had a similar conversation with a married friend of mine two days ago.. I was complaining about how difficult it has become to find a good woman to marry.... He laughed and said to me --"life after marriage isn't easy at all bro....Most times you just have to accept each other's demon and live to manage dem together"

Omoh,na once I asked myself codedly--"Is marriage really meant for me"? grin


Kikikiki
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Taiwo20(m): 10:39am On Apr 08
Freedom gone.

Stay safe and stay alive.

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by donem: 10:39am On Apr 08
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Had a similar conversation with a married friend of mine two days ago.. I was complaining about how difficult it has become to find a good woman to marry ... He laughed and said to me --"life after marriage isn't easy at all bro....Most times you just have to accept each other's demon and live to manage dem together"

Omoh,na once I asked myself codedly--"Is marriage really meant for me"? grin
At the bolded very true, I weep for the next generation.
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by maestro299: 10:41am On Apr 08
gerizzim:
Money wahala.If the man is not very calculative and discipline with money, he wil find himself borrowing all the time to kip the home running.
Responsibility in d home dat goes wit solving it with money keeps hitting you back to back.to some extent,it bcoms pretty difficult for you to save.

As for the man, he may stay for like 1yr and doesnt buy himself a new t-shirt or jeans trouser because of lots of sacrifice and financial commitment he is making for the home.

Inevitably, sometimes husbandman gets broke. He starts to check the pocket of all his trousers if he could see some little cash he probably forgot . You can call it a life saver money.
At workplace,he bcoms cautious in situations dt wil warrant him a query or been sack because of the big effect his dismissal wil cause his family .
Husbandman absorbs insult from his supervisor or boss even when he is not at fault. He kips swallowing unpleasant incident, psychological and verbal abuse so as to keep his job.
Man is 45yrs. Wife is 25yrs. Irrespective of the age gap between him and his wife, the wife also serve him her own idiosyncrasies at home.
By virtue of marriage, the wife assumes to be equal to the man. ".....foolish man", "...yeye man","...you no get shame", "....idiot","....poor man", ".....I regret marrying you" ".......bla blaaaa blaaa" that is the usual ringtone when her hypothalamus bcoms skewed.

Husband gets cranky when he is broke. He wil keep shouting and complaining repeatedly about Wifey's act of wasting resources in d home. "Your water is boiling. Go and off the gas" , "the gdnut oil you added in the stew is too much. don't you know dt gdnut oil is now vry expensive "

"Husbandman gets caught up in buying wife gift for almost every public holiday. you buy for 1st January, you buy for February 14, you buy for Easter, you buy for mother's day,you buy on her bday, you buy on Christmas day at the request nd reminder of d wife not dt the man intentionally choose to.

Wife allows nacking base on how well husbnd buys her stuffs. sex may bcom like doing husbnd a favor. some husband somtyms practically beg to do sex wit the woman he paid her dowry.
Husbandman is stuck with the ocassional struggle to please inlaw. If you don't send stuffs to inlaw, you are branded a stingy husbnd.
Dia unending manipulation and emotional blackmail crawls into marriage.if husbandman is not the assertive nd firm type, he may be turned to a vegetable by the wife.
Solomonic wisdom needs to be applied once in a while as it is not all misunderstanding dat requires the man to bring out canon to quench it. You ignore some and you respond to some. the man needs to pick nd choose his fight.

e plenty oooo. make local man stop here and sip some burukutu


Words of wisdom gleaned from the silver hairs of experience.

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by FreedomArmy: 10:41am On Apr 08
Namaster:
1. Sex plummets.

2. Familiarity abounds and contempt follows.

3. Rebellion to prove you are not the boss of her is not unheard of.

4. You could end up raising the bastards of her boss, coworker or ex.

5. More responsibility, FEWER appreciation.

6. Unlimited entitlement.

7. Her family problem is yours to bear and your family should DISAPPEAR.

8. You will NEVER win another argument.

9. You are ALWAYS wrong.

10. You slave and slave and slave for her pleasure.
are you not exaggerating?
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Exceed15: 10:41am On Apr 08
76RebelMoney:

I thought on this Abit.
Women? God gave man wisdom to discern.
What they hide?
1) past sexual history.
2) particular family history.
3) A probable ongoing external cheating(sexual fling)

To be honest,most secrets women have can easily be discovered if you enter their Whatsapp.
Finish.
Women aren't complicated.
Na conji dey blind man eye.

You are now getting my point... They are so deep on God can unravel their to u. All the best bro.
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by DonroxyII: 10:42am On Apr 08
zed7:
If you want a good marriage, put in the work before the marriage. Screen, screen and screen. If you eventually marry the right person for you, it will be much easier.

The major cause of marital problems is a mismatch of people. Desperation and marrying for the wrong reasons is why people eventually have problems in marriage.
Women are Women ... The Higher She is the value chains, the more Craze she possessed because ordinary scope is never enough ....

Men ain't doing enough to Man the world nowadays ... na shortcut everyone dey find making most men to diminished in value while most that goes the High way also lost touches with Realities(Social Skills) .... Just all Bookworms without Sparks leading to dulling

For Marriage to Work, it Requires a Combo of Efforts from the Men's folks but who wants to stress for one fish when you can get Spoilt by Many Fishes(Options) & Once The girl wey dey manage your weyrey also sets foot outside influenced by all social media Platforms from dudes with Abs, to the one with Plugs, Limo, Rolls ... ....

Omoh, Marriage yen ti Cast .... Na Only God & Sense fit Help Marriage to the Promise Land ... The Present Contemporary Realities doesn't support Marriage .....

Na Married people some single/Married like to dey Chop.... Some people are hell bent to share your wife/husband with you ...

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by 76RebelMoney(m): 10:43am On Apr 08
TableLeg:
Daily, Repeatedly, Infinitely............... Majority are not ready for that and you need to ask youself again, if you are not cut for that kind of commitment, dont fu...cking get married!
Period.
But if na to knack now,you go dey eager to do dah one.
Buh to commit na wahala.
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by huptin(m): 10:44am On Apr 08
Aaaaarghmed:
πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.sometimes what you put in.you get nothing.

Most times it is pain that you will get back in multiple folds
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Benwems(m): 10:45am On Apr 08
Offpointng:


You give woman millions of sperm and she gives you just a kid.

You're pointless

don't mind her. She still talks nonsense at her old age. She's same girl called rokiatu that was on nairaland and talking trash in 2010-2014. She still grew old with the same foolishness. She's not a Nigerian (but that doesn't matter though) It's just her foolishness I'm talking about.

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by TrackerSK: 10:47am On Apr 08
Marriage nah scam.I don't want to get marry but my parents won't let me be.

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by achimendy(m): 10:51am On Apr 08
Rokiat:

You get what you put in.



Shit talk......
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by McLizbae: 10:52am On Apr 08
That's with everything in life. It's called maturity!
Aaaaarghmed:
That's just the truth. You hardly see people who have being married displaying affections for each other publicly.but in the beginning it was all love and butterflies in the tummy.na so e be.what matters is that despite all the issue.you prefer to be with this one person.
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by komzy589(m): 10:52am On Apr 08
76RebelMoney:


So far pride dey your heart,e don spoil everything.
And also what kind of life have you lived thus far that you have trust issues?
Maybe you too aren't trustworthy that's why you also don't find some women trustworthy as well.
Stop kidding yourself and accepting vegetable status because you’re married.
Pride represents one’s dignity and self respect.
You lose your pride, you lose everything.

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by TableLeg(m): 10:53am On Apr 08
76RebelMoney:

But if na to knack now,you go dey eager to do dah one.
Buh to commit na wahala.
Your father, anuofia!
No be me you suppose dey follow talk this nonsense.
Ashiere
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by achimendy(m): 10:57am On Apr 08
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Had a similar conversation with a married friend of mine two days ago.. I was complaining about how difficult it has become to find a good woman to marry.... He laughed and said to me --"life after marriage isn't easy at all bro....Most times you just have to accept each other's demon and live to manage dem together"

Omoh,na once I asked myself codedly--"Is marriage really meant for me"? grin



This your friend talk deep oh. But I think the best thing is to seek the face of God when it comes to marriage.

We have some many possessed demons parading themselves as wife materials.
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Pharaoh4rin(m): 10:57am On Apr 08
Namaster:
1. Sex plummets.

2. Familiarity abounds and contempt follows.

3. Rebellion to prove you are not the boss of her is not unheard of.

4. You could end up raising the bastards of her boss, coworker or ex.

5. More responsibility, FEWER appreciation.

6. Unlimited entitlement.

7. Her family problem is yours to bear and your family should DISAPPEAR.

8. You will NEVER win another argument.

9. You are ALWAYS wrong.

10. You slave and slave and slave for her pleasure.

Tell me you're not serious
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by drlateef: 10:59am On Apr 08
labake1:
Life after marriage is not easy
I love you becomes I hate you


You don’t have the experience, do you? πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. Let the grandmasters talkπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. You don’t get to hear that much as the marriage progresses no doubt. The men become more practical with that word β€œlove”, while the women always want to hear it being said. Otherwise you are not romantic.
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by McLizbae: 11:00am On Apr 08
Bros you choose to sound clownish one this!! Without that one egg to make a life, that your million sperms remains body fluid to be resbsorbed for nutrition balance in your body or discarded as waste. Or, why don't you name some or all of those millions sperms of yours and nurture them to adulthood, and watch them become things in life... Lols
Offpointng:


You give woman millions of sperm and she gives you just a kid.

You're pointless
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Starz825(m): 11:01am On Apr 08
Rokiat:

You get what you put in.


You are right tho but not all women...you will agree with me .
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Procashtips(m): 11:02am On Apr 08
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Had a similar conversation with a married friend of mine two days ago.. I was complaining about how difficult it has become to find a good woman to marry.... He laughed and said to me --"life after marriage isn't easy at all bro....Most times you just have to accept each other's demon and live to manage dem together"

Omoh,na once I asked myself codedly--"Is marriage really meant for me"? grin

But you also have a demon. The person marrying you would also think like you.

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by komzy589(m): 11:02am On Apr 08
76RebelMoney:


Look into your own life and see your flaws also as you easily see the flaws in women.
9 out of 10 times, any man who’s desperately pushing for other men to get married is in a terrible marriage.

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Auxtan(m): 11:03am On Apr 08
VinnyBaba:


You are forced to smell/inhale your Partner's Farts most times. 😟😌

You are forced to see their Dirty Armpits.😌😌
I swear, na girl be this 🀣
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Pharaoh4rin(m): 11:04am On Apr 08
VinnyBaba:


You are forced to smell/inhale your Partner's Farts most times. 😟😌

You are forced to see their Dirty Armpits.😌😌

Like seriously?

That's why I will never one of the major tribes in Nigeria. Very dirty, always dirty.

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