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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Sapasenator: 7:12pm On Apr 08 |
pretydiva: That person you quoted is wrong. In marriage, you can struggle and put in your best and If your partner is a selfish narcissist for example, you get nothing out. |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by CaptainGo: 8:36pm On Apr 08 |
Namaster: 😁 |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Zyxsc: 8:57pm On Apr 08 |
Rokiat: Rokiatu, dey there dey whine yourself. I put in trouble, I get double trouble abi? If I put in money, why she no double the money. |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Zyxsc: 9:00pm On Apr 08 |
Offpointng: We need a laugh emoji on Nairaland @seun |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by kalufelix(m): 10:16pm On Apr 08 |
FuckYeyeMods:now this is mad!..how can you know someone that you met after they have lived 25-40years of their lives... Also you cannot ascertain the kind of beings they are going to evolve to in their 35-55years.. |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Fearyourcreator: 10:20pm On Apr 08 |
Rokiat:Dey decieve yourself there |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by labake1(f): 10:23pm On Apr 08 |
drlateef: I don't have to experience it, there is enough to see around |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by kalufelix(m): 10:36pm On Apr 08 |
ifyain:ever wondered why women (in marriage) constantly refer to their kids as "her kids...just like in dating, men dey find sincere love women dey play serious survival games without rules and sportsmanship..lol...your marriage to her doesnt change a thing about her being a woman...women don dey run men street tey tey no be today... Who wan companion you?? Dey play... 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Sapasenator: 10:41pm On Apr 08 |
labake1: You are right, we live in the age of information where a 20yrs old can have more information than a 70year old on an issue. Also, the saying "experience is the beat teacher" does not neccessary have to be your own personal experience. |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by kalufelix(m): 10:48pm On Apr 08 |
Caleycash:even after the endless givings expect vigourous disrespect and disregard...women feel like they deserve a trophy when they insult and disrespect a man... 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by FuckYeyeMods: 12:18am On Apr 09 |
kalufelix:My friend! There are too many pressure in marriage. Marriage is a very crazy experience.... Marriage is a very terrible experience you have to be mute about... Marriage is damaging if you become unlucky with a spouse... No oneness in marriage, your spouse can sell you out at any giving time. Marriage should be a contract thing by default but since religion frown at contract marriage, then we have no options. 80% of couple are living terribly together, but just keep pushing on because of the kids. That why couple resort to infidelity which often times worsen the situation. Hence, couple should not divulge too many secrete to each other because they're not one. Men mostly don't have problem but women are mostly the architect of bad and failed marriage. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by TUANKU(m): 12:59am On Apr 09 |
Rokiat:What a dumb take. Would have been disappointed if you had anything meaningful to say. Banza! |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 7:00am On Apr 09 |
UselessBuharist: Very great introspection. If more people did this before marriage, we would have less problems in it. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 7:01am On Apr 09 |
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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 7:08am On Apr 09 |
sweetkev: ![]() Men know that marriage (at least from a religious POV) is a system created for them. That's why they whine & wail about it, complain that it doesn't favour them, whine how women are now useless.... yet would quickly remarry after a divorce or death. |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 7:10am On Apr 09 |
Taiwo20: Freedom to do what exactly? |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 7:13am On Apr 09 |
komzy589: Does this also apply to women? ![]() The poster said he knows his pride is a weakness; the Bible says 'pride goes before a fall'. Yet you want to help him justify pride. Keep at it. |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 7:14am On Apr 09 |
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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 7:16am On Apr 09 |
Caleycash: Eyah! Sorry that 1. There is no woman of value in your lineage 2. You are so mentally poor that the only thing of value to you is money. It is well with you. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 7:19am On Apr 09 |
BornToSucced: Great Post! I wish you more years of bliss! |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 7:22am On Apr 09 |
Dshocker: She is directly telling you that if you get a devil, then you molded her. Well, only a devil can mold one innit? ![]() |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 7:24am On Apr 09 |
livinbygrace: I believe 60/40 is in terms in financials. Do you also share the chores 60/40? Childcare 60/40? Running of the home 60/40? 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 7:24am On Apr 09 |
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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 7:25am On Apr 09 |
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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 7:27am On Apr 09 |
76RebelMoney: ![]() I thought women were the only devil's. But again, the thread sounds like a whinning outlet for men. If it is therapeutic and makes them feel heard, we are happy to oblige. |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 7:33am On Apr 09 |
Idaytesj29: @bold: That is for a man whose only value is money. No character, no fidelity, no emotional support, no contribution to raising the kids, no sexual fulfillment, no social connection, no affection etc. Some women a single married women that if they can make up the money their husbands provide, they would very fine on their own. Women who can fund themselves get married. The question is why? |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 7:35am On Apr 09 |
Idaytesj29: ![]() But if he said he had a terrible experience, he wouldn't have to wait 5 years before sharing right? ![]() He has said so far, so good. We will urge him on with more blessings. |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Idaytesj29(m): 7:51am On Apr 09 |
bukatyne: It's good he has a good experience and he shared. But he should keep it at that, enjoy the butterfly 🦋 moments. After 5 years, then he has reached level to start dropping advice. |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Idaytesj29(m): 7:54am On Apr 09 |
bukatyne: Even with men who provides all that and is a sweet partner, there is still no guarantee that he won't collect. If a man has all you listed and has zero money, he go collect, if he has money and does not measure up in those areas you listed, e go still collect, if he has the two, there is no guarantee that he won't collect, he could be termed boring and collect as result. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by komzy589(m): 8:38am On Apr 09 |
bukatyne:The Bible is not a dictionary. |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Caleycash(m): 9:14am On Apr 09 |
bukatyne:There's no woman of value anywhere in terms of money, all women wants to receive and receive all the time, you can deny it BTW, it's lots of women nature to be delusional so I'm not surprised, lastly you said I'm mentally poor by thinking money is the only thing of value to me but you tied your number 1 reply to same money??, Hahaha, if money is not valued than any other thing on earth Nairaland won't be existing, Dangote and the rest of the elites won't be competing for the richest men in the business world, now who's mentally poor again?, most definitely YOU! |
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Caleycash(m): 9:15am On Apr 09 |
kalufelix:Seriously very funny and weird gender! |
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