PlasmaTV:

Big yes. He's not serious about the website.

We don enter iyaba sira of websites be that

Leave jaruz matter, abeg old borrow 10k its emergency

Seun:
Hello all,

I've noticed a lot of wild speculations about the relationship between me and Jarus. And what I did or didn't do.

So I'm making myself available to answer any questions that you might have.

Haaa,oga,you’re trying to prove Jarus right oo.
Dead this matter abeg

helinues:
You are not a good friend.

Simple as Abc

Seun's behaviour and maturity is questionable but Jarus is not a good person beating his wife as if she is his personal possession and slave to then be bragging about it.

Try that in the UK or US and be arrested instantly and jailed quickly regardless of who you are.

I really don't understand how this serious crime of Jarus does not factor into how many Nairalanders are judging his face-off with Seun.

Seun is just a techie and nerd with below average emotional intelligence, and I have told him so on many ocassions, but Jarus is simply a wrong and potentially dangerous human being for any man with a mum, daughter, sister and female relatives/friends they truly love and/or respect.

I cannot be friends with any man who assaults women as a way of settling disagreement with the opposite sex. "Simple as ABC".

Nigeria is a very terrible and aberrant nation in many ways. That is why many Nigerians don't see what they should, that is very important, sometimes. We are talking about someone who commmitted a serious crime here.


Look at the Will Smith's assault slap of Chris Rock that turned him from hero to villain overnight worldwide. Chris Rock refused to press charges but the world judged Smith and most turned their backs on him.

You will then beat a woman and still be strutting around insultingly and arrogantly, as Jarus is doing, if you are anyone other than a Nigerian who committed the heinous act in Nigeria? Na wa.

Guestlander:
Seun, I like to know your own side of the story. I am sure at some point you and Jarus were good friends.

I tried to befriend him but I always knew that he disliked me as a person.
I've since learned that it's because he thinks that I have medical issues.
I'm proud that I have never slapped or punched anybody in the face.

Seun:

To protect her from being punched in the face by the love of her life every time she complains that his side chick is calling him for hours and hours in her presence. Imagine being in bed with your husband between 10pm and 12 midnight and he's on a call with another woman.

Shouldn't you have stayed off? I mean we are all raised to learn the basic truth to stay out of people's marriages.

I don't see how it is your concern who her husband speaks to in bed.
Lastly I hope you know they will settle and accuse you of trying to end their marriage?

Be wise and learn to mind your business bro .just my two cents.

Seun:

I tried to befriend him but I always knew that he disliked me as a person.
I've since learned that it's because he thinks that I have medical issues.
I'm proud that I have never slapped or punched anybody in the face.

Looking at how you confessed to poke nosing into his martial affairs it seems natural he woul dislike you. But what do you mean by medical issues ?

Do you mean psychiatric?

seuncyrus:
You tweeted - Marrying a second wife is legalized adultery. Could this have been a subtle Jab at your friend Jarus.

That particular statement was not a jab at Jarus. I did not know that he punched his wife in the face when I posted that. However, when people started to say "how could you post that, he is your friend" I learned that Jarus had struck his wife in the face. I briefly considered deleting my tweet but the arrogance of his justification for beating his wife made me angry. In particular, the phrase "a dog that is destined for doom will not hear the whistle of the hunter" suggesting he thought that he was right to disrespect and injure his wife made me feel disgusted.

What exactly happened between you two that made him not to follow you back on twitter ?

To me, the reconciliation was a PR stunt on his part, to please his followers who thought we were close friends, & make himself look "mature".

Seun:

That particular statement was not a jab at Jarus. I did not know that he punched his wife in the face when I posted that. However, when people started to say "how could you post that, he is your friend" I learned that Jarus had punched his wife in the face. I briefly considered deleting my tweet but the arrogance of his justification for beating his wife made me angry. In particular, the phrase "a dog that is destined for doom will not hear the whistle of the hunter" suggesting he thought that he was right to disrespect and injure his wife made me feel disgusted.


To me, the reconciliation was a PR stunt on his part, to please his followers who thought we were close friends, & make himself look "mature".

Seun have you tried not judging and minding your business?
Not holding brief for him but you aren't even married so to sit on a pedestal and assume to judge over another marital matter seems farfetched doesn't it ?

Unperturbedpota:
Do you mean psychiatric?

It is no longer considered fashionable to speak ill of people and mock them because you think that they may have mental health challenges.

Seun:

It is no longer considered fashionable to speak ill of people and mock them because you think that they may have mental health challenges.

How one earth was I mocking ? I was trying to understand. Seriously this is clearly a defense mechanism and it is not cool

Unperturbedpota:
Seun have you tried not judging and minding your business?

I'm sorry, but if you punch your wife in the face, I won't mind my business. Polygamy and wife beating are contrary to my values. Don't try it.

Seun:

It is no longer considered fashionable to speak ill of people and mock them because you think that they may have mental health challenges.

A mutual friend confided in me something about agoraphobia hence I was seeking some semblance of truth.
You really need to stop being so confrontational. There is nothing funny or cool about someone experiencing agoraphobia.

We all have our challenges so stop seeing everything as an attack and learn to chill .

Seun:

I'm sorry, but if you punch your wife in the face, I won't mind my business. Polygamy and wife beating are contrary to my values. Don't try it.

I agree these are crimes but I am simply stating minding your business when it comes to other marriages.

I didn't say ignore reporting a crime they are not the same thing.

Seun, how do you feel now, knowing fully well the issue has been addressed by the court.

What should be your relationship with him going forward?

aljharem:
He mentioned you are jealous of him. Is it true and what gave him the impression.

StopTheBan:
What do you think made him say You are jealous of him??

It's more accurate to say that I admired him and wanted to learn his tricks. I even called him one of my role models.

reccy:
Seun, how do you feel now, knowing fully the issue has been addressed by the court. What should be your relationship with him going forward?

We are now enemies, but I still admire his ability to get people to defend him despite striking his wife in the face. I still want to learn his tricks.

Sapiosexuality:
I think Nairaland has more pressing issues that need addressing

This is offtopic, isn't it?
1. Please post all threads in the right section, and don't derail threads by posting off topic.

seuncyrus:
You tweeted - Marrying a second wife is legalized adultery. Could this have been a subtle Jab at your friend Jarus. What exactly happened between you two that made him not to follow you back on twitter ?

Imagine his opinion and statement as a Christian about the issue involving Muslims!! Seun should have known that his opinion on this is invalid because the players don't have the same belief and practice as his

BlueRayDick:
Hi Seun, what caused ur initial fallout with Jarus?

I read ur April 2023 thread where u mentioned he blocked u initially . What do u think could’ve been responsible for that ? Did both of u have a very heated argument prior to that which u believe he must have taken the wrong way leading to him blocking u?

I believe there’s no smoke without fire ; something must have led to the initial issue .

Also seeing the way u jumped on the polygamy issue when the Jarus news broke the internet only for u to claim u didn’t know it was Jarus that was involved sounded a bit petty . Why didn’t u just avoid joining that discussion since u know anything u say would be used against u considering ur standing in the social media space and ur past history with Jarus himself ?

Seun
Kindly address this as I have same view

Seun:

We are now enemies, but I still admire his ability to get people to defend him despite striking his wife in the face. I still want to learn his tricks .

You're taking it personal. What he did was bad and condemnable but he didn't do what many men haven't done. To me, it is still an issue that can be resolved between them with the involvement of third parties if it hasn't become public. Apologise and make promise that he would never do it again. But in Nigeria, we can blow things out of proportion and act like it is something we haven't seen before

Seun:

We are now enemies, but I still admire his ability to get people to defend him despite striking his wife in the face. I still want to learn his tricks.

More self aggrandizement, Oluwaseun, this needs to stop. Yes what SJ did was wrong on every level, but you carried on as if on some personal mission of vengeance. You have and still go about this as if there is truly more to this than the wrong doing of a husband to his wife? This is what lent credence to the rumor that you are indeed jealous of SJ.
He has never referred to you as his enemy , at least not to my knowledge but here you are branding it without due recourse to a proper offline intervention.
You remain in the wrong on this issue

maasoap:


Imagine his opinion and statement as a Christian about the issue involving Muslims!! Seun should have known that his opinion on this is invalid because the players don't have the same belief and practice as his

There is more to this issue than you all know. I for one questioned the need for this thread where there was no sincere ill intention on Seun's part but the way he is carrying on does seem like SJ's fears and concerns about seun having hatred and envy towards him are very valid. Why open this thread? who outside the circle needed to know all he has split here? why go this far? I am truly amazed at his behaviour.

WhizdomXX:
Ha Seun long time. Good morning.
Please the way you made Jarus, can you also make me. I promise to be of value too.

Seun did not make SJ!!!!!!! Stop with this lie!!!

Seun is such a baby and it's very funny. You are behaving like ereluroz seun

BlueRayDick:
Hi Seun, what caused your initial fallout with Jarus?

There is no fallout. The dude never liked me as a person. He liked my brand and my platform. We were never actually friends, though I tried.

Also seeing the way u jumped on the polygamy issue when the Jarus news broke the internet only for u to claim u didn’t know it was Jarus that was involved sounded a bit petty

When I posted my first viral tweet where I said polygamy is legalized adultery, I didn't know that Jarus was in trouble. But after that, I knew.

Why didn’t u just avoid joining that discussion since u know anything u say would be used against u considering ur standing in the social media space and ur past history with Jarus himself ?

I considered deleting the "legalized" tweet for a moment, but the arrogant tone of his defence of wife beating and polygamy made me not feel bad for him. I saw him as the aggressor and not the victim. I considered speaking to him, but from his antecedents I knew I wasn't going to change his mind. I was likely to get cursed out and blocked if I asked him to apologise. Also, I feel very strongly about polygamy and domestic violence. I had to choose between offending Jarus and acting against my conscience and my principles. It was a very easy choice.

Seun do you foresee any comeback with Jarus as friends again?