Raalsalghul:
This Jarus' controversy has made me realize how Nigerians are ignorant the way their country works: especially for those who wanted/believed anything to come out of this case.

It shows people that are out of touch with reality.

Little wonder we keep making bad decisions with regards to our leaders.

My guiding motto: see things for how it is rather than how you want it to be.

sisisioge:
Of course! I knew she would beg for him and refuse to press charged . After all, the abuser is the father of her children and the husband she was fighting to keep in the first place plus the community of inlaws and religion won't have it

Anyways, the important thing is DV is now being taken seriously by the state and Jarus will always be remembered for his contributions

Padipadi:

See as I dey laugh here o.
Seun, see as this matter go. It shock me too.
So the wife's saying it was false alarm or what?

easyfem:
I support that wife , this thing call marriage is deep than what we c , so many thing involved in marriage , children involve , family involve , future involve .. her adviser really done well . U don’t leave your husband who is been 80% good and leave for 20% bad …. I’m not supporting the man beating his wife but if you see what many wife do at home most time , you will see they deserve some slap but as a man , u just av to control yourself , have you read tiwa-savage the singer late comment regarding leaving her husband . Despite the fact that the man Bleep up …. Blessing CEO said , she divorce only because she is not mature enough that time , if it’s now and the same thing happen , she won’t …: marriage is deep my bro and sis so please don’t judge the woman

Harddiskng:


Ahn ahn Did he kill someone. Which one be if he comes out

baralatie:

Cant you see that she has been threatened/cajoled/coerced to drop the case

kayperry:


What would she have gained from all of these if the man were to be hanged,

maybe you and your likes mistook her intention from onset

baralatie:

The wife is saying "egba mi o"😏
Awôn eyan ti joko sori Oro mi o

TableLeg:
Of course, wetin she go do before? Accept and send the loud mouthed Jarus to jail? No now.
Jarus, big blabber mouth always drooling and bragging, i hope you have learnt a lesson or two.
Grow up and stop cho cho cho all over the place!

baralatie:

What was his gain for beating her up and commiting a jail bound crime
Abi you want to say you support wife battery and assault

Padipadi:

You get video?
That's a shame!

Padipadi:

So he dey do this?
Is it not same Jarushub of Nairaland?

UjuJoan2:


Exactly!!!! And people will now know that there will be consequences!

As for the wife I feel for her. Stockholm syndrome is a real thing. When she started trying to use jazz to keep him I knew she was in serious trouble. You husband cheated on you, and your answer is to jazz him. May God help us!

kayperry:



I will advise you go check the picture the woman posted and lookup the meaning of beat up again .. and from the man confession it seem like that is not who he is

as peaceful as your tongue and teeth co exist sometimes your teeth bruise the tongue ... did you prosecute your teeth or pull it out

You can decide what i support or not, buh if it is not life threaten or irreconciliable differences .. exist is not a solution

pocohantas:


I wonder. I asked that he goes offline to make peace with the wife of his youth. How that amounts to wanting him in jail remains unknown.



I don't appreciate my mentions being spammed on falsehood. You will soon get what you are looking for.

baralatie:

What if the wife stuck to her guns and pressed the case
Where would he end up?

Obierika:


Oga this place no be America, if you willfully send your spouse to jail over a matter that can still be settled amicably just know that you have declared war against your in-laws!

dapotemi:


It is not really Stockholm syndrome per se..I did made a submission here that PARENT should start focusing on their female child, infact 60% attention should be given to them..The truth is well known, that woman, you and I know that she dey chop beating but she can't fight it, else she goes hungry..Who will pay her rent? Who will give her food? Who will train her children? If the husband is jailed, after a while she's alone, doing all this thing for herself..
When we EMPOWER her girl-child, when we have ladies who can fend for themselves and take care of their kids because they have good jobs and they're responsible member of the society, then they can FACE ANYTHING!
Can a man beat Okonjo Iweala?
Can a man beat Aisha yesufu?
Which man go fit beat Asisat oshoala?

baralatie:

How does it make it less a case of wife battery and assault
Abi is it when the person dies that it will be accepted as wife battery
He should thank God that his wife dropped the charge because na who never enter station with police will not understand how crazy it can get in that place

Juoflife1:
She has been silenced. Nigeria is cruel to women

Tightpussy2024:
As expected, lol.

The said woman that nairaland men claim wanted to harm him with juju is now protecting him.
Off course, naija men will not see this and praise her.

Black women obsession with marriage eh, as if they tied their placenta to marriage.

Person you will have milked and use the money to Japa to countries where they don't discriminate divorcees or single moms. And. Start life afresh... well, every malam to his kettle

baralatie:
■ Cant you see that she has been threatened/cajoled/coerced to drop the case

Judolisco:
@Kobojunkie.... U see wetin I talk?

Kobojunkie:
Stop telling this tale for Pete's sake! No amount of that should cause a woman wey get brain to allow her children to go through the trauma of watching their mother get beaten. Many of these women who remain in abusive relationships do so for selfish reasons.

baralatie:
■ I agree with you that it is an unforgettable experience for children to see their mother beaten up in their presence or at odd hours but you should realize that is not the only place the story will end.
It is like this which is easier to handle the kids watching their mother beaten up or seeing their father locked up in.each with own problems that needs immediate action

kayperry:



As much as we all advocate against abuse and assault, there are some offences worth pardon or just a spank and i believe these is one .. the man confessing shows he is better than what you think of him

Listen for someone like you, maybe you have so much to gain, But for a wife that sends the father of her children to prison i wonder what she stands to gain .. short or long run