TEYA:

The Jarus sef told the story of the many mean things his wife did to him. She is not a saint

He frustrated her to do those things. Afterall that's the excuse jarus gave, so what's the problem?

1Sharon:


She's wise because she's covering up for her abuser? 😂 A financially empowered woman is the solution to all of youse madness.

Do you think, it's going to end there? Wife beaters never stop until the woman is dead.

Please use this same logic, the next time if you're a victim of paternity fraud.

We know plenty independent women. Independent women whey be side chicks to married men 🤣😂

Babe, see for this my life, I don see things… we sabi una well. For everything, there are cons and pros… do you know how many independent women dey cry for bed every night. I’m telling you first hand information…
The truth is that nature will always win, men and women are supposed to be together. Na why you get hole and i get the rod. We don’t beat women in our house, there’s supposed to be mutual respect.
My mum is well educated to phd level and she had to sacrifice her career to take care of the kids and manage our home. We appreciated her sacrifice because everyone of her kids are doing very well and well trained. A family is a team work, not competition for who get independence pass. That’s the balance, everyone is very important both male and female, the absence of one in a family is not good, and no one will look down on the other person role as inferior or less

Like I said, she weighed her options, and she made the best choice for herself and kids.
Your problem is western wannnabe.. and na you African girls dey copy oyinbo for everything. No respect for family and values. Just marry anybody anytime and divorce anytime. Fuvk around and be claiming independent woman. Rubbish!!!

baralatie:

You are only looking at the fact that nothing went wrong but it did go wrong.
Do you think it is a good thing that the kids see their mom been turned into a beat box.definktely one day the kids will join to beat their mom up since it is normal.
What would we now say if she got mutilated as a result of the beating?
Or what would you now say if she revenged her beating by breaking an empty bottle on his head or like the common scenario in the north (she cut off his deeek in his sleep🥶🥶🤔🤔)
Lord have mercy🙆

You need to bring your mind back to these very case, seems you are on another scene

These particular one is a case of teeth bruising the tongue ... it hasnt gotten to all those images you are making up

An adage says : as a bird take fly naa so we go throw the stone reach

The Gain in all of these is that the man must have learnt one or two lessons by now and he is more obliged to be a better person .. and the wife gets to be the heroe b4 the kids and society ... a flawless win than to have the man hanged

Omoawoke:


Na dem they cry pass

Cry for what? They use men and dump them cos they are not ready for any commitment.

tunjijones:


Cry for what? They use men and dump them cos they are not ready for any commitment.

Who lose? Girl whey talk say she use and dump man, na her toto suffer am

1Sharon:


He frustrated her to do those things. Afterall that's the excuse jarus gave, so what's the problem?

By deciding to marry another woman?

Omoawoke:


Who lose? Girl whey talk say she use and dump man, na her toto suffer am

Which suffer? Abi na d man whey dey pound dey suffer.

The toto is elastic in nature so it comes back to shape after use.

Omoawoke:


We know plenty independent women. Independent women whey be side chicks to married men 🤣😂

Babe, see for this my life, I don see things… we sabi una well. For everything, there are cons and pros… do you know how many independent women dey cry for bed every night. I’m telling you first hand information…
The truth is that nature will always win, men and women are supposed to be together. Na why you get hole and i get the rod. We don’t beat women in our house, there’s supposed to be mutual respect.
My mum is well educated to phd level and she had to sacrifice her career to take care of the kids and manage our home. We appreciated her sacrifice because everyone of her kids are doing very well and well trained. A family is a team work, not competition for who get independence pass. That’s the balance, everyone is very important both male and female, the absence of one in a family is not good, and no one will look down on the other person role as inferior or less

Like I said, she weighed her options, and she made the best choice for herself and kids.

Japa and see true independence. You guys hate japa because you are held accountable and you can't use your peanuts to control women. I don't expect you to come online and say you beat women in your house.


She has lost either way, if she remains or leaves. As long as he keeps beating her and the 2nd wife is in the picture. Her AND the kids will remain second fiddle, first wife is rarely ever the favourite and that's translated onto the kids.

Keep denying the injustice that happens to women in these situation because you're full of hate. You think being violent to women makes you an alpha.

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TEYA:

By deciding to marry another woman?

Yes.

BigYash:
Conscience no allow her.. May be she pushed the man to the wall,and he had to hit her.. Might be she slapped the man first and she held her manhood while arguing.. Wetin me knw sef,before them go come sue me join

She climbed on his neck in the middle of the night chanting "you must kill me this night".

1Sharon:


Yes.

Next time she should think twice before marrying a Muslim. He can marry 3 more in one day and there is nothing she can do about it.

TEYA:

Next time she should think twice before marrying a Muslim. He can marry 3 more in one day and there is nothing she can do about it.

Did you know that in Islam, he's supposed to love all of them equally? But that is rarely ever the case and she knows it.

By the way, I don't care that he's a Muslim. Injustice masquerading as religion is still injustice.

Gerrard59:


She climbed on his neck in the middle of the night chanting "you must kill me this night".

He frustrated her to do it. Men can get on your nerves sometimes. Next time, he should control his tongue.

TableLeg:

He is a motormouth.
Go and see for yourself on his twitter account.
Cho cho cho all over the place like a teenager!

Ehn ehn?
Isn't he over 40 years?
Age no tell for him body?

Tightpussy2024:
As expected, lol.

The said woman that nairaland men claim wanted to harm him with juju is now protecting him.
Off course, naija men will not see this and praise her.

Black women obsession with marriage eh, as if they tied their placenta to marriage.

Person you will have milked and use the money to Japa to countries where they don't discriminate divorcees or single moms. And. Start life afresh... well, every malam to his kettle

How many Nigerian Muslim women make up a substantial proportion of recent migrants? Muslim women don't migrate as much as their Christian counterparts. Also, why do you think she has the resources to cater for three children? Which court would have granted the custody of three children to a woman whose husband worked in the oil and gas industry?

TableLeg:

He is a motormouth.
Go and see for yourself on his twitter account.
Cho cho cho all over the place like a teenager!

He even went on live radio with his cho cho cho!

1Sharon:


Japa and see true independence. You guys hate japa because you are held accountable and you can't use your peanuts to control women. I don't expect you to come online and say you beat women in your house.


She has lost either way, if she remains or leaves. As long as he keeps beating her and the 2nd wife is in the picture. Her AND the kids will remain second fiddle, first wife is rarely ever the favourite and that's translated onto the kids.

Keep denying the injustice that happens to women in these situation because you're full of hate

I’ve lived in Uk, currently in US and I’ve seen, dated, become friends with your so called independent women. I’ve seen ladies make mad money far more than men, but I’ve never seen people more lonely than they are . Like I said, life is sacrifice. You sacrifice something for another, you can get to the top and make mad money as a woman but you may have to sacrifice family and baby girl treatment.
It’s your choice, the higher a man goes, the more women he has, the higher a women goes, the less chances she has with men
Nature was designed for males to hustle, work, protect and provide ,for a woman and kids. While women are to support a man and raise the home. That’s nature, now the west gave you feminism and said roles can be switched and anybody can provide and anybody can be at home to do home duties, well you can choose that but know it that it won’t come without a price!
Same west are the people giving you LGBTQ and you complain

.

Raalsalghul:
This Jarus' controversy has made me realize how Nigerians are ignorant the way their country works: especially for those who wanted/believed anything to come out of this case. It shows people that are out of touch with reality.

Little wonder we keep making bad decisions with regards to our leaders.

My guiding motto: see things for how it is rather than how you want it to be.

Most importantly, don't marry a Muslim man if you are not open to polygamy. That has been my stance ever since.

Omoawoke:
■ I’ve lived in Uk, currently in US and I’ve seen, dated, become friends with your so called independent women. I’ve seen ladies make mad money far more than men, but I’ve never seen people more lonely than they are . Like I said, life is sacrifice. You sacrifice something for another, you can get to the top and make mad money as a woman but you may have to sacrifice family and baby girl treatment.

So, you judge their sacrifices and choices by your subjective standard and this means what exactly?

These men and women who sacrifice this need you have for a family and a baby girl treatment for success in career and other forms of relationships... they only appear lonely because you judge them by the standard that you are. Why do you do that?

Omoawoke:


I’ve lived in Uk, currently in US and I’ve seen, dated, become friends with your so called independent women. I’ve seen ladies make mad money far more than men, but I’ve never seen people more lonely than they are . Like I said, life is sacrifice. You sacrifice something for another, you can get to the top and make mad money as a woman but you may have to sacrifice family and baby girl treatment.
It’s your choice, the higher a man goes, the more women he has, the higher a women goes, the less chances she has with men
Nature was designed for males to hustle, work, protect and provide ,for a woman and kids. While women are to support a man and raise the home. That’s nature, now the west gave you feminism and said roles can be switched and anybody can provide and anybody can be at home to do home duties, well you can choose that but know it that it won’t come without a price!
Same west are the people giving you LGBTQ and you complain

Why didn't you settle down with any of them since you claim they're better than Nigerian women ? Or you couldn't compete?

Now address my points and tell me how Jarus wife isn't at a disadvantage. If she chooses to stay or leave, Jarus has already indicated she's 2nd fiddle. Thr dynamic of her home has changed. The home that she knew is no more. But go on, carry on pretending like you don't see the injustice.

Treadway:
As my friend Gerrar.d59 has sensibly, truthfully, and aptly said, if you dont want to face the possibility of a second, third or fourth wife being rubbed in your face, DONT MARRY A MUSLIM.

It really is as simple as that. You see as everybody blast and still dey blast Yul? It's cos it is generally agreed and believed that Christian doctrine frowns upon polygamy (even tho no concrete and conclusive scriptural backing).....na that same way conversely the Muslim doctrine allows for polygamy (in this case their own even get their own scriptural backing).

To add, in Yul's case, his wife separated from him. The option for Jarus' wife would have been to divorce him if she vehemently disagrees with the concept of another wife. I am all for the right to choose, not to dictate. He made his choice according to the religion both of them profess. You too, make yours. Choices.

yen yen yen...he would lose his properties. Na that statement vex me. Lose what? Because a Muslim man wants to marry another woman?

Gerrard59:


She climbed on his neck in the middle of the night chanting "you must kill me this night".

Lol

1Sharon:


Why didn't you settle down with any of them since you claim they're better than Nigerian women ? Or you couldn't compete?

Now address my points and tell me how Jarus wife isn't at a disadvantage. If she chooses to stay or leave, Jarus has already indicated she's 2nd fiddle. Thr dynamic of her home has changed. The home that she knew is no more. But go on, carry on pretending like you don't see the injustice.

Where did I say they are better than Nigerian women.

I’m a traditional man and I believe in my African traditions, I’d marry a girl, confirm omoluabi girl as soon as I am ready, as for now, na to chop my life and the kpekus of fine independent women. I meet girl whey dey claim western feminism, I don’t have a problem as long as she’s giving me regular kpekus, once we finish whyning ourself, I’d go find correct Omoluabi.
I am a man, and I have the advantage of time and making a choice whenever I’m ready. So who loses? Continue copying oyinbo standard, and be claiming independence, when loneliness wan kill you, you go buy cat and dog to be your companion

Kobojunkie:
So, you judge their sacrifices and choices by your subjective standard and this means what exactly?

These men and women who sacrifice this need you have for a family and a baby girl treatment for success in career and other forms of relationships... they only appear lonely because you judge them by the standard that you are. Why do you do that?

Yeap, I judge and what you gonna do about it!

dawnomike:
This family has a serious problem....

No, they understand one another. They realised that the issue shouldn't be blown out of proportion by them and the public as to tear the family apart. The husband will apologise and promise to never repeat it again. This is good for all the parties involved including the kids

1Sharon:


Did you know that in Islam, he's supposed to love all of them equally? But that is rarely ever the case and she knows it.

By the way, I don't care that he's a Muslim. Injustice masquerading as religion is still injustice.

How did you confirm he did not satisfy the bolded condition? Do you live in his heart?

Omoawoke:
■ Yeap, I judge and what you gonna do about it!

Well, I am glad you admit then that, contrary to your earlier claim, those people are not lonely at all. Rather, they operate and live their lives on a spectrum that is beyond your ability to reason. 🤔

BarrElChapo:
Typical of victims. I hope she doesn’t drop dead later on.

On top this small issue? Worse are happening elsewhere, this is nothing

TEYA:

How did you confirm he did not satisfy the bolded condition? Do you live in his heart?

Stop justifying nonsense. Where have you even seen it happen? Even parents have their favourite children.

easyfem:
I support that wife , this thing call marriage is deep than what we c , so many thing involved in marriage , children involve , family involve , future involve .. her adviser really done well . U don’t leave your husband who is been 80% good and leave for 20% bad …. I’m not supporting the man beating his wife but if you see what many wife do at home most time , you will see they deserve some slap but as a man , u just av to control yourself , have you read tiwa-savage the singer late comment regarding leaving her husband . Despite the fact that the man Bleep up …. Blessing CEO said , she divorce only because she is not mature enough that time , if it’s now and the same thing happen , she won’t …: marriage is deep my bro and sis so please don’t judge the woman

Many here actually expected the wife to walk out of her marriage like that over this small quarrel and the husband send to prison