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Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by kushme: 10:45pm On Jul 11 |
Curious345: IF na useless child, at least give am small thing to squander, he go see am as his share , and he won't ask again. Dey play |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Chibuzoripob: 10:45pm On Jul 11 |
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Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by PepeXKermit: 10:45pm On Jul 11 |
Sapasenator: And you don build the wealth? 2 Likes |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by lanre4411(m): 10:47pm On Jul 11 |
Creamypie:brother God bless you 2 Likes |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by emmanuelpopson(m): 10:49pm On Jul 11 |
MAYBE u are not legitimately a son in that family.. u better make sure she is your mum or that late man was your daddy.. |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Dennisochampa: 10:51pm On Jul 11 |
Na wa o... If you build your own house... Na crime? Maybe e get the way you take dey, na im make them sell the house without your knowledge.... Check yourself wella... Hustle hard and may God bless the work of your hands... Amen 2 Likes |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by tonididdy(m): 10:54pm On Jul 11 |
Sonnobax15: Lol your children go suffer! 1 Like |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Sammiel: 10:55pm On Jul 11 |
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Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Akalia(m): 11:01pm On Jul 11 |
Beremx:Women don't sell properties that isn't theirs in igboland, it has irreversible repercussions. |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Mentorme: 11:06pm On Jul 11 |
Whether you can recover it depends on: 1. Your tribe (do women get share of their father's Landed properties without will) 2. Are you the first son (advantage: if from tribe where no.1 is not applicable) 3. If no.2 is applied, do you have financial muscle for litigation? 4. Was the house sold with the original documents? 5.if you will reclaim the house, your mother and sister have a price to pay. Finally, You might be a prodigal son. |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by TrainPark: 11:10pm On Jul 11 |
prestige257: Why not focus your energy and thought on making your own money to build your own house instead of fruitless bickering over inheritance that will only create bad blood between you and your own mother? The person that suffered and built the house has died and left it. Don't waste your time and money fighting your own family over worldly possessions that you can acquire with the right effort. Just leave it for your mum and sister. Use it as a motivation to make your own money that nobody can drag with you. 1 Like |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Nonexisting: 11:13pm On Jul 11 |
Finding out in July that they sold your papa property back in February already shows you're likely an efulefu. No hard feelings though. Go beg them your own portion, I'm sure they have kept it safe for you waiting for the day you will ask responsibly or the day you will have sense whichever one comes first. 2 Likes
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Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by femi4: 11:16pm On Jul 11 |
prestige257:You ve lost out if the buyer is with the original document and have receipt or any other proof of payment |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by MaxBee2050(m): 11:20pm On Jul 11 |
U no get shame I swear 2 Likes |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Angelfrost(m): 11:20pm On Jul 11 |
Vulcan24: Define legacy please. You can leave physical properties and money, but without proper upbringing, those things will amount to nothing... We have both witnessed such over and over again. I have not said Fathers shouldn't leave anything for their kids... I simply maintain that it shouldn't be the most important bequest of a father to his kids. An inheritance should never be more important than nurturing and upbringing. Those examples you gave... You conveniently chose to ignore the aspect of good education, training and upbringing which enabled the legacies grow beyond the years of their original owners. My children will not wait for my demise to inherit what I leave behind before they succeed and make their own legacies else I would have failed as a father. An inheritance is not a right! It is a privilege bequeathed by a parent, who can also choose to bequeath it to anyone else. A child's right is firstly life, followed by proper nurturing and training. Many young people amount to nothing largely because they believe their parents have achieved enough for them to live off on. Well, to each his own... I gladly rest my case. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Angelfrost(m): 11:22pm On Jul 11 |
mikywonder: Don't mind these people! |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by rickleye: 11:23pm On Jul 11 |
prestige257: If there is a will - maybe . If not - your mum is next of kin and can do as she pleases 1 Like |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Sapasenator: 11:27pm On Jul 11 |
chyzoo4u: How is it his inheritance? Property from the father go to the wife who is the mother by default. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Sapasenator: 11:28pm On Jul 11 |
Lawalemi: I agree with you and let us not use our children as retirement income thereby placing extra burdens on the innocent children, It's not fair when the children have to bear the financial burdens of the parents. 1 Like |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Akalia(m): 11:32pm On Jul 11 |
Mentorme:Stop insinuating that the OP is a prodigal son. Women are always scheming and very manipulative. Something similar happened to me as the only son to my late father. My father died intestate so after his death I made a move to retrieve the credentials to his assets but unfortunately for me my mother (now late) conspired with my sisters to get hold of the credentials and keep it in their possession even before I thought about getting hold of the credentials. They were that wickedly sharp. My sisters fueling the crisis tarnished my image to anyone who cared to listen but as God may have it as a perfect planner and grand schemer he made my late mum hand over all the credentials to my late father's property to me before she died. My sisters are still mad at me till date for having those credentials in my possession. Life is a battlefield. Not even your own blood can be trusted to always have your back. My advice to the OP is to thread with wisdom from God. If it is the will of God for him, he will recover all what he lost as his inheritance from his scheming mother and sister. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by blacknp(m): 11:39pm On Jul 11 |
shoodboi2:Oblivious Nonsense, end up in jail on a civil issue? |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by BABANGBALI: 11:43pm On Jul 11 |
Go and build your own house. Common be a man! |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Dancebreaker: 11:44pm On Jul 11 |
prestige257 I guess most tribes have their rule on inheritance. Find out. Are you the senior son? Did you bury your dad according to custom required of children for the father in your clan/tribe? Is there a will left by your father? Whatever the case, some family members going behind to sell inherited property is very bad. It shows lack of respect and transparency. Many comments here against OP show the low moral ebb 9ja is at. Many of them would easily do same. Find out what your rights are. Every family member has rights and obligations. If you have met your obligations, you deserve your rights too. HOWEVER, if those who have sold it flatly refuse to behave like proper family members, move on. Don't look back. Just know that despite blood, they are not actually family. Only VERY FEW blood relatives are truly family these days. Some so called family can be deadly. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Leemzyy(f): 11:44pm On Jul 11 |
BABANGBALI:You dey mind him |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by blacknp(m): 11:52pm On Jul 11 |
Leemzyy:babangbali your scripture says a good man leaves an inheritance for his children’s children, make you blame your papa if em no leave any property for una. |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Henryfocoyo(m): 11:54pm On Jul 11 |
TrainPark:I just like your last words bruh But person like me "we are gonna be forever enemies Those people can't be family 1 Like |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by blacknp(m): 11:54pm On Jul 11 |
rickleye:What if na she, kill the man? 1 Like |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Leemzyy(f): 11:55pm On Jul 11 |
blacknp:Bangbanbali can you see what he is saying 2 me right?let me call my dadda first |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Leemzyy(f): 11:57pm On Jul 11 |
blacknp:Am leemzy not babangbali |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by BABANGBALI: 12:02am On Jul 12 |
blacknp:the scripture you fokn quoted did not say you should start running up and down on nairaland because of what your father left for you. You go just die for nothing over family's property. Go and hustle and build a better house for yourself. Lazy man waiting to collect house rent. Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew 1 Like |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Leemzyy(f): 12:04am On Jul 12 |
BABANGBALI:Awwwn thats my geee |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by BABANGBALI: 12:05am On Jul 12 |
Leemzyy:I give am uppercut. Make I give am more? |
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