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Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Mom007(f): 2:23pm On Jul 12 |
The first /primary administrator of a man's estate after his demise is is next of kin, usually his wife, your mother. She can do whatever she wants with the proceeds and it says alot about you and the state of the family if she could do this and not give any of the proceeds to you. You can't undo what's done. Go and build your own and show her that she is not your God. 1 Like |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Oyerinde16(m): 2:40pm On Jul 12 |
After your Dad, it's your Mom in order of seniority... There is really nothing like my father's house... It's your parents (both father and mother's) house... If your father is late, then they become your mom's properties (ALL) Everything belongs to your mom... She can decide to do anything with them... Oga go and rest... Your father's properties aren't yours... 1 Like |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by 1Sharon(f): 2:45pm On Jul 12 |
chidiokay: You're not even yoruba, so what concerns you with this? Is OP even yoruba? You ppl love to remember culture when it suits you..abeg! |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by chidiokay: 3:01pm On Jul 12 |
1Sharon: really ! i couldnt even spell chidi oke right anything human concerns me ! which culture doesnt suits us(men) in really sense beta know your place |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by 1Sharon(f): 3:03pm On Jul 12 |
chidiokay: Did OP tell you that he's yoruba? Why didn't you post the law in your own culture?; |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by chidiokay: 3:17pm On Jul 12 |
Mom007: Madam next of kin can be anyone, designated by the deceased. its just a matter of preference stop being over confident your husband can choose side chick Not only did you justify the act, you even found a way to daint OP, .. Greed and selfishness now have a justification Says a lot about you, naa your kind dey carry their children go court, |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by chidiokay: 3:21pm On Jul 12 |
Oyerinde16: On a curious note, when the king dies how come naa prince dey take over everything .. base on your submission why Mama no go sit on the throne 1 Like |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by chidiokay: 3:24pm On Jul 12 |
1Sharon: thats what i did , maybe i need remind you, yu don't know me |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Mom007(f): 3:26pm On Jul 12 |
chidiokay: Na u sabi. Before a mom will sell her husband house and not carry the son along... By the way, who is supposed to be NOK for a man b4? Is it not his wife b4? Where was the young man when the parents were building the house? Probably strapped on his mother's back! Same mother he is now trying to drag house with. Why do you people hate truth like this? The story is incomplete. Advice the young man to go settle/sort his issues with his mom. 2 Likes |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by 1Sharon(f): 3:30pm On Jul 12 |
chidiokay: You're not answering my question, how do you know OP is yoruba? How comes you ppl remember the parts of culture that benefit you? You said NOk can be anyone. Maybe your dad's next of kin is his gate man. Yeye. |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by prestige257: 3:35pm On Jul 12 |
My story is not incomplete.May you not suffer loss. By the grace of God i have a job i can take of my family without getting proceeds from the house that was sold. It's just painful that what is jointly owned was sold in secret after a disagreement that it should not be sold. Mom007: |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Ferdinandu(m): 3:39pm On Jul 12 |
If your father has no will I think your mother is next in line to inherit his property. But there is a fundamental problem in your family that need to solved first. There is no well functioning family the mum will not give a hint to all the family members before selling off the major property in the family. Better tell us your family story first |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Ferdinandu(m): 3:45pm On Jul 12 |
chidiokay:That is a lie, no law recognises the first son to have a lion share of the property, the law can only share the the property equally among the rightful heirs except if there is a Will. |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by prestige257: 3:50pm On Jul 12 |
I don't know if you are male or female. If you are female then you must be the most wicked mother on earth if you can't protect your children when your husband is dead. That the next thing on your mind is to go and sell property that belongs to him in secret without consulting other members of the family. Everything that my mom and sister did was based on greed. Oyerinde16: |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by chidiokay: 3:50pm On Jul 12 |
1Sharon: what as yoruba gat to do with these, every culture in nigeria has a provision for the decease children nd in most cases the male child is favored ok ! try me with the part of the culture that doesnt favour me NOK is preference no big deal, we've seen white people make dog or cat their next of kin ... if your dad is still alive expect anything (Nok) could be side chick |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by chidiokay: 3:57pm On Jul 12 |
prestige257: Funnily they are not just justifying the "greed" they are throwing shades at the guy that he is lazy n should go hustle ... But assuming the father left huge debt, will they be ranting the mother owns all the debt will anyone support OP to leave it all to next of kin selfish wicked being 1 Like |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by chidiokay: 4:07pm On Jul 12 |
Ferdinandu: I understand we live in a civilized world, most of you are just quoting what is made up in your head not on the paper i.e customary law lets be pragmatic, we all know davido father is rich n educated but Wale is 1st son owns the lion shares in his company, even when he bought davido a record label who did he make the chairman My late papa no get property, for those that want to judge But my children i will ensure things are shared in proportion to seniority ... i strongly believe equality does not exist in God dictionary and i don't see oyinbo ways as superior |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by chidiokay: 4:10pm On Jul 12 |
prestige257: I feel your pain bro ! its normal to feel hurt esp. when you won't treat them like that, however try move on. what if the man left nothing 1 Like |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Ferdinandu(m): 4:29pm On Jul 12 |
chidiokay:Davido father is alive, a father decides how he shares his property any way he likes, he can even decide not to give any of his children nothing even the first son, I don't think there is any law in any country that will force him on how to share his wealth except the child is still underage . We are talking where the father is dead and no Will and it is left for the law Court to decide who inherit what 1 Like |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by chidiokay: 4:59pm On Jul 12 |
Ferdinandu: i have made it clear Nok can be just anybody but in the advent of no will is my stand point is the 1st male child stands to be the major beneficiary, even the court will have no choice than to validate him based on customary law .. judges don't rule by opinion or feelings it what the book says The highest court can do is, compel a sharing formula but the eldest male son still get the most of the properties & would manage it, Becos it is property sharing everybody want equality right ... lets assume it is a problem or debt, papa is gone who is expected to front, will the mother & sister exempt the male son just like they did |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by dalass(f): 5:29pm On Jul 12 |
Sapasenator: Very sensible @OP Kindly borrow sense from this because selling off small small properties do not really enrich the sellers I dont give a damn what goes on with my dads house . |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Oyerinde16(m): 5:41pm On Jul 12 |
chidiokay: Because the throne/Title does not belong to the man, it's a privileged position he occupied. In some villages, they rotate the kingship from clan to clan, in some villages it's meant for only the first son, heir to the throne.... In some villages, if the king's dies, the queen takes over etc... But personal properties and belonging ... The father and mother own everything including the children... The children belongs to the parents... If the father dies at a very early age, who takes care of the kids, the mother... See I can't argue this with you abeg... 1 Like |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Oyerinde16(m): 5:46pm On Jul 12 |
prestige257: You don't know the context in which the mother sold the property as the person did not explain or state it .. If the woman has a reckless 22year old boy selling everything in sight she also has a 20yr old daughter standing by the mother and they have 3 or 4 siblings under 14yrs to sponsor... What do you advice the innocent woman to do... Allow the useless son sell the property and squander it on 14yr old girls abi... Thank God he said the woman sold it and did not spend the money, she kept it... Meaning that woman has sense... By the way the mother owns the boy she is the owner of her children and all her husband's properties... Not one prodigal son selling of things to squander... 1 Like |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by BRATISLAVA: 6:03pm On Jul 12 |
DonBenny77: In what law, and in which country is this emotion of yours enshrined? The more one read posts on this forum, the more one should stick to the tech posts only. People can conceal this better there. |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Mom007(f): 6:05pm On Jul 12 |
prestige257: Amen. Go settle with your mom bro. Life is too short to bear such burdens, especially if like u said, you don't need the money. |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by BRATISLAVA: 6:07pm On Jul 12 |
chidiokay: Why? Was he the partner to his father who co-owned the home with his father? |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by BRATISLAVA: 6:10pm On Jul 12 |
chidiokay: Why haven't you used this your beloved customary law to run your country's government? Why can't you use it to hold anyone to book? Could it be that if it exists it is inferior to higher courts? Why do you only believe in it when it is time to rip off a woman who is the rightful owner of the deceased man's home by law? Why haven't you used this wonderful court to determine the winner of gubernatorial elections? 1 Like |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by chidiokay: 6:18pm On Jul 12 |
Oyerinde16: The throne does not belong to the man, but is bloodline from generation to generation sits upon the throne ... if e kum own the throne nko Do you know since when the family of king George have being ruling same england that open our eyes, maybe its in your village queen sits on the throne, even the late queen of england was the daughter to king George VI not wife Most of you are just good in speaking english but empty ... when the children are minor ofcus no contest its the mother and when she is aged the children her meant to take care of her .. whats left to argue |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by billyG(m): 6:27pm On Jul 12 |
I laughed when I see some people comment d same people that will not let it go if they are in his shoe. |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by chidiokay: 6:34pm On Jul 12 |
BRATISLAVA: why naw ?? is it the weather why are people sounding dull you suppose know customary law is a sub under the constitution we have different laws drafted to address different cases, we have, common law, civil law, criminal law, customary law, even entertainment law and they all have there jurisdiction .. which kind friendship you and folake4u dey do wey you no sabi anything |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by shekauvsbuhari: 7:07pm On Jul 12 |
prestige257:Go and meet a good lawyer. Your answer to his questions will determine your chances according to his valuation. Stop seeking advice from these bitter and frustrated fools on nairaland. 1 Like |
Re: My Father's House Was Sold Without My Consent by Akalia(m): 7:10pm On Jul 12 |
chidiokay:Lol, that lady you replied has a wicked mindset. You are right about her kind of person. |
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