I personally dislike pious / churchy Christians be it male or female. They disgust me.
Study them closely, you will realise how complex they can be.
I would rather associate with an atheist or a moderate Christian, who tend to be more realistic or practical in their thinking.
Most of this people have lost their common sense of reasoning to religion and that makes them mentally unhealthy to reckon with.

So are you tring to said that God those not gives signs to someone

Every man should be both the spiritual and the financial head of their family.

The problem is where we relegate the spiritual aspects to the women, it’s bound to be a disaster because they’re mostly thinking with their hearts rather than the head.

She’ll only start telling you about going to her church or seeing her pastor when she perceives that you’re not spiritually grounded yourself and cannot look up to you in that aspect.

There are many fake pastors and they are the most manipulative..

I dnt blame pastor but ur friend, provided ur story is true, becos if u guys dnt post story that would bring down church on sundays, you wont rest.
You always find it hard to post story that would uplift people and God and christianity on sundays.

Nobody ask you not to post any story about church or pastors, but endevour to post it anyday aside sunday. I hardly seeing posts that degraded islam or imams on friday.

Yet you would be preaching about unity. What a hypocrasy!

GOING TO THE BUSINESS, ANY GIRL YOU ARE DATING/MARRIED, THAT STILL OBESSED WITH ANYONE APART FROM YOU, ( BESTIES, PASTOR, EVEN PARENT) YOU ARE STILL NOT READY FOR RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIGE WITH HER.

THRE IS NO WAY GIRL WOULD REALLY FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU, IN WHICH OTHERS WILL STILL BE CONTROLLING HER OUTSIDE UR PERMISSION.

Thats why marriages are having issues in the society.
You are the one that dating/married girl, while the controler is somewhre else.
What an absurdity!

Gulibility at its peak, some women sha

Anguldi:
Confused Gender


Power enter power enter power enter power enter power enter power enter power enter power enter power enter power

If you don't gerrit, forgerrit it

Smh bruh bruh, that video is unforgettable

Some women can be so naive and gulible, I knew a woman that sow her first car to a church, and kept on taking Keke and along to go to church and work. All in the name of seed sowing.

Women like that are a capital NO for marriage to any sensible and responsible young bachelor seeking to settle down, because they can make you raise BASTARDS fathered by the pastor.
Also,if you notice your woman is too attached to any pastor, don't overlook it at all.
Act decisively now and end that nonsense.
If you are a married man, decisively end the nonsense, with full exercise of your authority as the head of the family.
Should she disobey, divorce her so that she can be more free with the pastor.
No time to waste with foolish idiotic women.
Even the Bible seriously condemns Foolishness in a wife.
Are you about marrying?.
Slowly begin to withdraw yourself both physically, emotionally and otherwise from her.
But while doing so, keep the admonition on for a short time more.
Then never make love with her at all,oo!
As you withdraw yourself from her.
Because she can pin a pregnancy from the pastor on you and induce you to hastily marry her.
Any sensible woman in a marriage or serious relationship should be moderate in her activities in the church as a committed Christian.

If you go to church pass 2 times every week.we don't have any business together.
Nah who never meet girls like this nah nor go understand this post.
I have dated like 2 church girls..they don't usually have sense.i cast dem lost. One carry my matter to her pastor.they always seek approval from their pastor before anything. Their pastor always comes before your ass. Lol

Nice

I personally stay from anyone both male or female who is too religious. I find them unreasonable. I understand the need for spiritual guidance ship but like they say "too much of everything is bad".

I lost my faith after i graduated from seminary school. My father wanted me to be a priest like his father and brother. I used to be religious and zealous when i was younger but when i got close to these so called men of god. I saw that they were as flawed as i was and there is nothing special about them.

TechCapon:
I've been meaning to write this for some time but keep procrastinating. But something happened recently that made me decide to write this today, I'll keep it short and straight to the point.

A friend of mine met this slim, tall, pretty girl and they've been getting along real good. But the girl is always very active in church, and I mean very active. She goes to church almost every day. After work, it's straight to the church whether there's service or not she must find an excuse to go.

Omo, it was a big red flag for me but I didn't say anything to my guy even though he's complaining about it to me. She practically neglect her own life. This church has like 4 services and she attends all 4 and still hang around afterwards, and also follow the pastor and his family back to their house to help with chores.

She entered one chance vehicle one night after her pastor kept her busy in the church until almost midnight and she got robbed of everything and flung out of the speeding car. She treated the injuries for over two months and she stayed without a phone until my guy eventually bought her a phone. Not a dime from the pastor

They'll be together and immediately she receives a call from pastor she gets up like a robot and leaves no matter what. Her excuse is that she's a worker in the church so she can't abandon her role (are you the only worker in that church??)

On her WhatsApp status, it's always pastor pastor pastor , never has she posted her guy's face on her status

She's always broke, not even a dime in her name and I'm pretty sure where all her salary is going... Church. She'll collect money from my guy to fulfill her pledge in church and goes back to being broke. It was so bad, I can keep going on and on.

Recently my guy jokingly told her about marriage and guess what she said, that he would follow her to her pastor, he's the one who will tell her if she should go ahead with the marriage or not. Omo e off me

She said because she doesn't want to make a mistake and marry wrong person and most people are in wrong marriage because they didn't consult their spiritual fathers blah blah blah

I laughed at my guy and told him point blank to dump her as$$ because even if pastor managed to approve, they'll give him conditions and still force him to join the church and the pastor will have a say in every aspect of the marriage. Her father is alive and she doesn't mention him at all, it's only pastor that makes all the decisions. It's a big turn off.

I've made up my mind that I'll scrutinize any girl I want to marry very well and see if she has this bad trait in her before I proceed.

I read this twice to get a proper hang of it. This is VERY extreme and a total RED FLAG situation.

Any man who wants to lead a balanced life after marriage must avoid these sorts of young women (who are extremely devoted to their Pastors, Alfas, or any other religious leader like zombies) unless the man himself belongs to the same boring league like this Church girl who is the subject matter on this thread. A word is enough for the wise. Period.

Kingsempires:
I thank God you post dis because there are people who know to judge people bought they will not talk about themselves.God help us because the are people who are remuted by the church leaders

Oga re read your English and interprete it to us again

Kingsempires:
I thank God you post dis because there are people who know to judge people bought they will not talk about themselves.God help us because the are people who are remuted by the church leaders

I don't seem to understand your English

Berankis:
What if she is his daughter? She is even resting her arms on his legs.

Abegiiiii

TechCapon:
I've been meaning to write this for some time but keep procrastinating. But something happened recently that made me decide to write this today, I'll keep it short and straight to the point.

A friend of mine met this slim, tall, pretty girl and they've been getting along real good. But the girl is always very active in church, and I mean very active. She goes to church almost every day. After work, it's straight to the church whether there's service or not she must find an excuse to go.

Omo, it was a big red flag for me but I didn't say anything to my guy even though he's complaining about it to me. She practically neglect her own life. This church has like 4 services and she attends all 4 and still hang around afterwards, and also follow the pastor and his family back to their house to help with chores.

She entered one chance vehicle one night after her pastor kept her busy in the church until almost midnight and she got robbed of everything and flung out of the speeding car. She treated the injuries for over two months and she stayed without a phone until my guy eventually bought her a phone. Not a dime from the pastor

They'll be together and immediately she receives a call from pastor she gets up like a robot and leaves no matter what. Her excuse is that she's a worker in the church so she can't abandon her role (are you the only worker in that church??)

On her WhatsApp status, it's always pastor pastor pastor , never has she posted her guy's face on her status

She's always broke, not even a dime in her name and I'm pretty sure where all her salary is going... Church. She'll collect money from my guy to fulfill her pledge in church and goes back to being broke. It was so bad, I can keep going on and on.

Recently my guy jokingly told her about marriage and guess what she said, that he would follow her to her pastor, he's the one who will tell her if she should go ahead with the marriage or not. Omo e off me

She said because she doesn't want to make a mistake and marry wrong person and most people are in wrong marriage because they didn't consult their spiritual fathers blah blah blah

I laughed at my guy and told him point blank to dump her as$$ because even if pastor managed to approve, they'll give him conditions and still force him to join the church and the pastor will have a say in every aspect of the marriage. Her father is alive and she doesn't mention him at all, it's only pastor that makes all the decisions. It's a big turn off.

I've made up my mind that I'll scrutinize any girl I want to marry very well and see if she has this bad trait in her before I proceed.

once i notice such trait, i will not even talk to you again, not even a word, nobody will tell you to go and marry your pastor

TechCapon:
he's blinded by stupid love, nothing to show for all the effort he invested in the relationship

is true

I can never ever marry anyone who even steps foot in a Nigerian pentecostal church

femi4:
They are wired that way.

You will give them monthly upkeep and the next thing you will hear is that it's not enough cos she paid tithe out of it. Arrant nonsense

Next month is 'Daddy's' birthday....what are we buying for him? I don't know what that is added to our responsibility

Pay tithe, na you be her work?

Roger3D:
I can never ever marry anyone who even steps foot in a Nigerian pentecostal church

you make sense in your talk

Im yet to meet anyone that will do pastor things with me. Na slap she go collect.

Im talking to you, you are saying my pastor say??

TechCapon:

Omo, it was a big red flag for me but I didn't say anything to my guy even though he's complaining about it to me. She practically neglect her own life. This church has like 4 services and she attends all 4 and still hang around afterwards, and also follow the pastor and his family back to their house to help with chores.

She entered one chance vehicle one night after her pastor kept her busy in the church until almost midnight and she got robbed of everything and flung out of the speeding car. She treated the injuries for over two months and she stayed without a phone until my guy eventually bought her a phone. Not a dime from the pastor

This is good advice, Pastors that allow other human beings to treat them in a God like manner have the hottest part of hell awaiting them.

When someone your mate or older is calling you Daddy or Mummy and you are not cautioning them against it, you will not make heaven, confirm.

Anguldi:
Confused Gender


Power enter power enter power enter power enter power enter power enter power enter power enter power enter power . If you don't gerrit, forgerrit it

Close your eyes. Close your eyes well well, make power enter.

Power o!
Enter o!

aswani:


This is good advice, Pastors that allow other human beings to treat them in a God like manner have the hottest part of hell awaiting them.

When someone your mate or older is calling you Daddy or Mummy and you are not cautioning them against it, you will not make heaven, confirm.

confusion every where God help us

I will never get married or date an overly religious girl. They are a very big red flag.

any lady who attend church service every sunday is a red flag for me not to talk of committed to church...... sope otilo

IbnB:


Your friend is a fool

it's not the friend, I actually the op narrating his story using his friend as a guise

Rev24vj:
:

wow I will try it

Berankis:
What if she is his daughter? She is even resting her arms on his legs.

daughter ke?

TechCapon:
I've been meaning to write this for some time but keep procrastinating. But something happened recently that made me decide to write this today, I'll keep it short and straight to the point.

A friend of mine met this slim, tall, pretty girl and they've been getting along real good. But the girl is always very active in church, and I mean very active. She goes to church almost every day. After work, it's straight to the church whether there's service or not she must find an excuse to go.

Omo, it was a big red flag for me but I didn't say anything to my guy even though he's complaining about it to me. She practically neglect her own life. This church has like 4 services and she attends all 4 and still hang around afterwards, and also follow the pastor and his family back to their house to help with chores.

She entered one chance vehicle one night after her pastor kept her busy in the church until almost midnight and she got robbed of everything and flung out of the speeding car. She treated the injuries for over two months and she stayed without a phone until my guy eventually bought her a phone. Not a dime from the pastor

They'll be together and immediately she receives a call from pastor she gets up like a robot and leaves no matter what. Her excuse is that she's a worker in the church so she can't abandon her role (are you the only worker in that church??)

On her WhatsApp status, it's always pastor pastor pastor , never has she posted her guy's face on her status

She's always broke, not even a dime in her name and I'm pretty sure where all her salary is going... Church. She'll collect money from my guy to fulfill her pledge in church and goes back to being broke. It was so bad, I can keep going on and on.

Recently my guy jokingly told her about marriage and guess what she said, that he would follow her to her pastor, he's the one who will tell her if she should go ahead with the marriage or not. Omo e off me

She said because she doesn't want to make a mistake and marry wrong person and most people are in wrong marriage because they didn't consult their spiritual fathers blah blah blah

I laughed at my guy and told him point blank to dump her as$$ because even if pastor managed to approve, they'll give him conditions and still force him to join the church and the pastor will have a say in every aspect of the marriage. Her father is alive and she doesn't mention him at all, it's only pastor that makes all the decisions. It's a big turn off.

I've made up my mind that I'll scrutinize any girl I want to marry very well and see if she has this bad trait in her before I proceed.

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A rational man's Rule 1 must be to avoid such ladies by all means possible. There are people that deserve to be left alone. Most of the time, such ladies enjoy the fornication with the pastor not any worship.

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