Nigeria Girls In Jand Are Lonely

I noticed something, Nigeria girls in USA are awfully loney. What could be the reason. Is it that the Nigerian guys are busy chasing Spain and other oyibo girls? Hit me.

Some are responsible for that loneliness, some will not even want to date thier fellow naijas, some are not really lonely, they have bunch of other friend from other part of the world; some try to adopt the negative culture of the whites and use it which forfiet thier relationship with Nigerians; some will not even even give Nigerian guy attn, with that Nigerian guys go out thier and chase espanol, whites, black American etc.
In conclusion, 80% of those lonely are responsible for it. Period

aren't there white guys in the UK?
if nigerian guys chase hispanics and whites, why can't the ladies do the same?

i heard that in the UK, most Nigerian guys are after white girls. is that true? it's funny though.

tell the girls to come to the United States.

And what do you expect those guys to do when most of the Nigerian they go to turn them down

2nde:

And what do you expect those guys to do when most of the Nigerian they go to turn them down

i don't know. settle for less i guess

The reason why you do know is the reason why those guys go for akata, whites, latino etc

Well Sethgoogle,
It depends on what you mean by lonely cos l know bunch of Nigerian girls that are not lonely so try not to generalize ok. Well, I can't even blame anyone that doesn't fall for most of you Nigerian guys when you guys behave like crap and don't even know how to talk care of yourself not to talk of a lady. When in yankee, there are a lot of nice looking sexy guys out there to choose from who know how to treat a woman. so if they don't fall for you Naija guys, its all ur faults and you need to work on urself before you can attract a real naija babe. Get that straight into your thick skull.

@disney oh you kill them.

lol this is soo funny! *no comment* ohh yeahh check out them grillzzzz

@Disney...

You generalised "stupidly" there. How many NaijaGuys have u dated or come across? You may have been unlucky or simply joking.

There are great guys here...phew!

And there are great babes too. I wouldnt want a Yankee based babe expect if I need to lay one cos I guess thats their area of specialisation  

Phew!

@SethGoogle,

Jand=London
Yankee=US

@Seth
The reason is clear. The African man is in Demand in Yankee. The African American sisters want him, Spanish Girls,Asians, Whites, Other African Sister. I have been in Yankee for years and never ever found the need to Date a Nigerian girl.No Offense but i have a choice and i go for what i am attracted to, doesn't have anything to do with Nationality,creed,religion,or race. I have dated only French speaking African girls,no knock on Nigerian girls, but they seem to be more fun and down to earth. In Nigeria i dated only Naija babes, In Yankee i have not even seen one that i would like to toast. More Options to choose from and every man likes variety.

But My friends tell me Naija babes front too much. I have not even had any need to experience that because where i live, the ratio is one man to Four Girls at least. So there u have it..

Kokscity is Just putting his 2cents,Please no Hate mail!!!!!!!!

Kokscity:

Kokscity is Just putting his 2cents,Please no Hate mail!!!!!!!!

hate?? naww we don't hate we gurlz are too advanced for that!! we just gonn gang n' beat u up! shhhhh! don't say nothin!! 

how about u gurlz tell him how it goes!!

The basic truth is that Naija babes think they can definately do better than Naija guys, so they opt not have anything to do with them. I've lots of Nigeria babes at skool, but the best communication we give ourselves is hi-okay-bye. But when other chicks elswere see Nigeria guys, they are always intrigued, and we definately enjoy the attention they give us . but i don't mind dating a Nigeria girl, if only they could take their head off their a**

at first when i saw this post it said "nigerian girls in jand(london) are lonely, which was why i never commented. now it says nigerian girls in the U.S are lonely. and then i decided to comment.

could the source of their loneliness be blamed to the fact that they come to the U.S and decides to portray one crazy image.
see also: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-5264.0.html

or could it be, that they are lonely because some nigerian men are romatically challenged

well i really don't know, because i aint lonely and i personally don't date nigerian guyz(i have nothing against them), but the ones i have dated has been such a loser.

well i wish i knew the answer to this question.

@Chilin

I ain't scared of being beat up by Naija females, I actually think it is kind of Kinky.I can recommend some ways for you to spank me.......Chilin ur city and state please? I have already started getting Hate mail, damn! "my opinion is my opinion people".

Kokscity is not responding to Haters or Hate mail..

@Vichel

I think Variety is a great thing. In Naija u only have Nigerian chics, in Yankee u do not need Naija chics because there is an abundant supply of sexy honies everywhere. And the Naija girls "I HAVE BEEN WITH" while i was in Naija were str8 up Lousy in Bed. Yankee girls are like Tigers in bed, and i love agreesion. So i am not sure that it is hard question to answer why they are lonely. Nigerian men look outward for relationship and the women are looking for Naija men.Nigerian women need to liberate themselves and experience other cultures, just like their men are doing. I some celibate Naija female friends and the Nag like there is no tomorrow.

Idollier

Where u at?

when you are talking about Nigerian girls in U.S. are lonely it seem like you talking to all of them, i ain't lonely i go on a date, i have lots of fun I'm the LEADER   when it comes to having fun so you question should have been why are some of the Nigerian girls in U.S. LONELY? that because they don't know people and they don't like to have fun like me.

Kokscity:

Idollier

Where u at?

in north america

Here we go again, Idollier said those Nigerians that she had dated are such a looser. Now, are you telling me yankee citizen are better than Nigerian guys? Absolutely NO cos we have seen so many instances and prove that we are still a good option for any lady to choose.
Dating is a matter of choice though, if i like i'll date Jamaican, latino or even Idian, it's no big deal. But my point is that is not in every cases that Nigerian guys are to be blamed. The problem with our ladies is that they let thier feelings and anxiety control thier acts which is not a proper way of living a good life, if you say Nigerian guys are bad, well you can date whosoever ever you want but i hope it wont be divorce here and there cos American dont really count that serious.
Again, we've seen some Nigerian ladies that were picked up from the gutter _{sorry to say} but getting to the State or UK, they start to do things far beyond someone imagination, they make life misterable for thier man which end up in divorce.
I know you ladies will never concur but i am saying the konk truth here.

Kokscity:

@Chilin

I ain't scared of being beat up by Naija females,
Kokscity is not responding to Haters or Hate mail..

u must be jokin! u not scared?? hold up! what do u think we Naija gurlz are?? lazzyyyyy or sumn? sooo wrong!! don't  let me come get u there! coz thenn u'll know what d wholeee thang is about! when i beat u ehennnn!!

haters or hate mail? i think i know whoz sendin u all thoze... guyz hatin on themselves!

2nde:

Here we go again, Idollier said those Nigerians that she had dated are such a looser. Now, are you telling me yankee citizen are better than Nigerian guys? Absolutely NO because we have seen so many instances and prove that we are still a good option for any lady to choose.

well, from what i have seen, experienced yankee citizens are infact better than the nigerian guyz that i dated. not just yankee citizens, other nationalities(caucasian, asian, e.t.c) are infact better.

p.s: notice i did not generalize.. but thats what floats my boats

[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][b]hey I must start by saying I'm a huge fan of Kokcity...the kid is cute, he intellectualizes and pointificates in all subject matter and I always look for his candid opinions. I never knew we share one thing in common, french speaking african women. I never dated a nigerian girl, met a few, full of drama, I just don't get it.A friend told me he works with one in NYC, she always would turn him down until he started dating the white chick next cubicle.The naija girl then freaked out. Fact still remains that, when I want to get married, its french african or a naija striaght from Nigeria.

@ kokcity.

You need to grow up and who tell you say l am unlucky and you are so so imature to say that naija girls are lousy in bed. Maybe you were'nt man enough to satisfy the ladies. . Abeg ooo, them no go talk say you be unlucky bros because of naira land o jare o.

@Disney
Huh?

@Pete

What u know about Dem sexy French speaking African girls? Boyyyy!!!!!! Let me find out that u have discovered that gold mine. Senegal,Cameron,Ivory coast, Zaire,Togo. Rep ur spec my Guy!
Hey Pete thanks for the Nice Words, I try to be true to my beliefs bro!!!!!!!

Try FRENCH SPEAKING AFRICANS FEMALES Y'ALL AND YOU WOULD BE BELIEVERS.THEY ARE FREAKS WITHOUT A BORDER!

@Disney

I Clearly said "NIGERIAN GIRLS I HAVE BEEN WITH" I am a "certified freak" by Birth. I did not generalize. Please madam are u a tiger or a dove?

Kokscity's words were taken out of context by Disney.Here comes more hate mail.

This topic is very interesting,Nigerian girls front too much when they are abroad and guess what they are always jonesing cos of their attitude.You guys are right about French speaking African Ladies,they always want to identify with a brother when they see one but the proud Nigerian Lady always want you to walk up 2 her and guess what they still carry that mad attitude that they have back home that the men must pay their bills whenever they go out on a date.Pls sisters do change and work hard.For you to have a nigerian lady you have to beg and beg,but the other ladies,eay does it come 2 u.So why waste time brothers go on and get the real women out there .

I don't get what you mean by "lonely". Because the last time i checked.. i and my 'nigerian friends' weren't lonely.

And I don't know why we are talking about boys here. The question was "nigerian girls in US are lonely". Why did it turn to "nigerian girls in US don't date nigerian boys?"

Are the boys mad that our girls don't date them?

We have answered the question from the beginning and now we are throwing it back to you, read my previous post and respond to it

hmm okay.

Well i know for a fact that our guys are too much of a freak. All they want is for a girl to satisfy them. They are not.. just wat african american guys are. Although me still love them.

If you count 3 posts up, I think hot=angel really made sense there. The topic is about loneliness of Nigerian girls and not about nigerian girls not dating nigerian boys.
If you ask me both questions though, I will say...
Nigerian girls in the US are lonely - TRUE
Nigerian girls are not dating Nigerian boys - FALSE

@2NDE

Are u fresh of the boat? U just dey come abi? Or u have not been here long sha!!