egbedore:


If ℓ̊ want to cheat,ℓ̊ wouldn't say in the post that ℓ̊ am married,ℓ̊ wouldn't say in the post that ℓ̊ have kids,ℓ̊ wouldn't say the ages of my lovely kids. For the fact that ℓ̊ mentioned that,means ℓ̊ am not hiding anything and ℓ̊ just needed someone to talk to. And when it comes to matter as this,the women folk can be more attentive and knows what to do.

coogar:


show no emotions....
let the kids go spend some time with their grannies - then put yourself to task & bring exotic ladies into the house.

different ones per week.

Tallesty1:
Start bringing women home.

Tell her to sleep at the boy's quarter or guest room when your gf visits

Or better still sacrifice her to the gods of your village.


BTW this is nairaland not Egypt


So stop writing in codes.



But on serious note@OP. I don't advice you to do anything to safe your marriage.

To cheat on a man is a big crime and to speak it to his face and dare him is another serious offense.

Bundle her back to her parents before she kills you.

Kanwulia:
Do you sleep with someone outside your marriage for revenge, or you sleep with someone because you have the utmost sexual chemistry?
I see you met your match in the game of 'phocking without a sense of purpose'!
Awon 'dumb and dumber'!

OP. . . .she is only following the example you have set.
You only got 'served'. . . in your own coin!
Please, deal with it!

Hope55:
D story don't sound real to me

MRbrownJAY:


who are you trying to fool bro?! just because you are putting your cards on the table dont mean you do not want to cheat, lets get real here.
here below is what you posted TWO DAYS ago, yet you come here telling us all that you are a changed man?! bwaaaah!



abeg, stop making a fool out of yourself with your BS.

MissSlimbody:
Two wrongs can never make a right.

What you did,is in the past, since you've repented of ur deeds, I see no reason why she should engaged herself in such a shameful act.

Your wife is not morally sound, I must say.

That a man cheated on me is not reason enough 2 turn me to a cheat.

What to do






Mizmycoli you're needed here.
Abeg, wetin make him do?

anthoniaz:
It's painful to be cheated on, it hurts but for her to pay back in this manner....wow, she has guts.

Do to others, what you wish they do to you.When men cheat, they don't think of how a woman feels or the emotional trauma she is being subjected to.

I don't think she's doing for fun, she's doing it just to hurt you.She isn't thinking straight now.When she's done, she will definitely feel dirty and stupid.She will regret her actions once she comes to her senses if at all she has a conscience.

I'm not in support of what she did or what she's doing but you caused this.Fix it, I know how painful it is to be cheated on cos I've been there and sometimes the only idea you get that you think will make you feel better, is retaliating which by the way is very immature and stupid.

coogar:


show no emotions....
let the kids go spend some time with their grannies - then put yourself to task & bring exotic ladies into the house.

different ones per week.

redcloud:
you don't need them. You need to talk to yourself. What do you want? A woman who could kill you any day for a slight mistake or a woman who is ready to be a wife? No woman with the heart of a mother will cheat and say it to the man's face. But let me guess; you married at 27. That means your wife could be older than you or probably the bread winner. If any or both of them are true then your marriage will need God's intervention to work.

SailorXY:
your wife is one hell of a woman oo, cheat and rub it on your face??



if na me eh, that thing wey happen for 1963 go happen again oo

GoodFaith:

need a little history
What happened in 1963?

SailorXY:


Civil War

krispycash:


I support the fact that he caused it but for a woman to go this far? She's been at it for a while... before he even found out... she shows no remorse... even with the fact that she's got kids And she's proud to say it to her husband that she enjoys cheating? That's a woman who doesn't love her husband or respect him...

egbedore:


Its a pity that this is true and its happening to me. Though its unbelievable but that's the situation ℓ̊ am as ℓ̊ type this

Mariopgomery:


you say it like its so easy to 'Just cool down n let her go through this passing phase' like its a ordinary thing..

egbedore:
My wife just told me now that she has a boyfriend that sleeps with her and that there is nothing ℓ̊ am going to do.

ℓ̊ had earlier suspected she is sleeping with her doctor and one of the parent in her sch. She confirmed to me tonight that she os cheating cos cheating is fun!

What do ℓ̊ do

Now before Ɣøû comment,let me give Ɣøû a little background to our issues. ℓ̊ was involved with other ladies at some point in our marriage,of which she knew and ℓ̊ confessed to her. ℓ̊ don't do that anymore but she said she want to cheat so that ℓ̊ can feel what it feels to be cheated upon. Now she is sleeping around and tell it to my face that she is cheating and will continue without hiding it and there is nothing ℓ̊ can do!

Nlanders what do ℓ̊ do?

egbedore:


Yes. A five year old girl and a 3 year old boy.

Pamcrest:


Ehen. So u want me to tell him to leave his wife or what? His wife endured his infidelity, it's now his turn to endure hers too.....marriage is for better for worse, in good times and in bad.

My humble submission

Tallesty1:
Start bringing women home.

Tell her to sleep at the boy's quarter or guest room when your gf visits

Or better still sacrifice her to the gods of your village.


BTW this is nairaland not Egypt


So stop writing in codes.

see me see advice.So when he was cheating on her he could not kill her,its now that she confessed to him that she is cheating so it is she who would kill him.You men are over rated


But on serious note@OP. I don't advice you to do anything to safe your marriage.

To cheat on a man is a big crime and to speak it to his face and dare him is another serious offense.

Bundle her back to her parents before she kills you.

Pamcrest:


Ehen. So u want me to tell him to leave his wife or what? His wife endured his infidelity, it's now his turn to endure hers too.....marriage is for better for worse, in good times and in bad.

My humble submission

Mynd44:
Funny. I dont blame the wife neither do I pity the husband. Like MBJ said, he only wants it

coogar:


this is why i don't take threads such as this seriously.

SirAweezy:
egbedore: now to my advice; I want to believe you matured enough to take some bold steps.

Make sure you record your wife, where she is saying she is cheating and there is. Nothing u can do, and also some other unhealthy utterances. (Pls capture the voice well o)

Save some money or if you already have, please get out of the country with the kids please. (Never late to start a new life)

Don't discuss this with anyone.

It's that easy, incase when the law clapped down on you can tell the the reason why you need to go with the kids. Thanks and best!

marriedvirgin:


correct girl