Sophyrocks:
Have you asked her for reasons why she doesnt like it? Is she pregnant or did she recently give birth? you know a woman's libido goes down after child birth and needs to be boosted.

tolu4you:

She has a six month old baby... but i knw her before marriage.. she is a frigid type...

tolu4you:

She has a six month old baby... but i knw her before marriage.. she is a frigid type...

Sophyrocks:


Have you asked her why she is frigid? Did you disvirgn her? it could be as a result of a horrible experience, perhaps rape. Sit her down and discuss this with her. Allow her to be comfortable enough to open up to you. If it isnt the case, You could teach her how to be flexible with you. You will need to be patient and understanding towards her.

Godmystrength:
But you still went ahead to marry her. Were you expecting her to change ni? have you done anything to make her start liking it different from before marriage or it is still una old recycling styles?

tolu4you:
lol
even she doesn't like the old recycling styles as u said let alone the "modern styles"

Godmystrength:
You like sex so much, she doesn't like sex and is frigid... She was like this before marriage and you were aware. I guess you have been teaching her well before marriage and she still didn't change.....Please why did you still go ahead to marry her??

tolu4you:

I love her... i truly love her.
for the past two years now, i dnt think i can remember if we had any problem. our problem is sex. apart from sex, we are the best couple. we do things together, we operate only one bank account. The big BUT is sex

idu1:
Na evrytin person go dey advise for nairaland? All the advise wey dey my head don dey finish.

tolu4you:
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
wetin i go do ooo
advice me

Godmystrength:
Keep loving her then even in her frigidity jare... one day one day,she will make you happy o

tolu4you:
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
wetin i go do ooo
advice me

tolu4you:

I love her... i truly love her.
for the past two years now, i dnt think i can remember if we had any problem. our problem is sex. apart from sex, we are the best couple. we do things together, we operate only one bank account. The big BUT is sex

edwife:
So what changed,did u just realise that you like sex?
The only solution for you is to continue being patient,and try talk her into doing things you like.You cant go back on this one.
If she doesn't change,then you too become frigid.1-1

Godmystrength:
But you still went ahead to marry her. Were you expecting her to change ni? have you done anything to make her start liking it different from before marriage or it is still una old recycling styles?

edwife:
So what changed,did u just realise that you like sex?
The only solution for you is to continue being patient,and try talk her into doing things you like.You cant go back on this one.
If she doesn't change,then you too become frigid.1-1

firstEVA:
u just have to manage her like that. if you are not satisfied, u can use soap or Vaseline as alternative, u can thank me later.

iammo6:
pls i dont understand..expantiate further

firstEVA:
are u the op, or are u having similar issues?

firstEVA:
u just have to manage her like that. if you are not satisfied, u can use soap or Vaseline as alternative, u can thank me later @tolu4you.

firstEVA:
u just have to manage her like that. if you are not satisfied, u can use soap or Vaseline as alternative, u can thank me later @tolu4you.

jayedu108:
Hmmm is dat wat ur boyfriend use on wen ever u guys are having sex.

tolu4you:

please, more on this

firstEVA:
sex is for married people, i'm not married