debosola:
A God fearing man would mean a man that fears God and puts God first in all he does. A man whose decisions are not influenced by moral standards or what seems right but by what the Bible says about the issue. A man who would treat his woman, not as he feels he is expected to, but by what God says about marriage and the man's role in a relationship. It would mean a man who loves God and is committed to the things of God which will include being involved in church activities. It would mean a man who can inspire me to have a better relationship with God because of the quality of life he lives.

If you are also a God fearing woman who is led by the Spirit of God, you will be able to discern (through the Spirit) and know if this man really fears God or not. God will give you pointers. The issue most times for godly women is the compromise of choosing to ignore certain subtle signs that the Spirit points out to them...and instead say"He's really a good guy".

Sorry for the long response...but I hope it makes some sense.

This is a wonderful response. I love the sign part. A lady that is not God-fearing shouldnt even think about a Godfearing man. Even when the Godfearing man shows,she won't see it in him,same thing goes for the man,it takes a Godfearing woman to recognise a Godfearing man.

meekhat:
It takes an immoral man to defend an adultreous shameless pedophile. For you to openly defend this evil, bro, u need divine intervention before it gets too late. Why are humans different from the animals you mentioned if not for self control and discipline? Nawa ooh

Bloody hypocrite. As old as you are, you haven't matured to understand that sexual tempation is one of the strongest. People like you will probably wankk at the though of sexual lust dan do the main thing. I do not support adultery but dont tempt a man. Anybody can fall to sexual sins. Pastors included

sukkot:
you have buoyant riches in a world were many are suffering. that is not a God fearing person. you can change many lives with the wealth you are sitting on so why sit on it ? see what i am saying ? you are driving in your benz or jeep driving pass people who are banging on your window to sell you nylon water in the hot sun. does that not break your heart ? will you be God fearing when you see these things but you choose to sit on wealth ? my point being you cant be God fearing and be rich in a society with many poor people. in fact you have to be heavily satanic and demonic to be very rich in a place like nigeria and be comfortable with it. thats a demon lol. its true

True in what you said about hoarding wealth, but there has to be a balance. Cornelius was a very rich man but he was a giver, and because of the alms which he gave which came up as a memorial b4 God, he became the first gentile to receive salvation. Lydia was a rich woman who traded in purple cloth, she supported Pauls ministry.

God is wealth personified. Do you know the kind of wealth that God put on this earth, look at a nation like Nigeria that has sold oil in the excess of $1trillion, it is just because of the wickedness of man, God never intended for man to suffer.
Yes there are so many false prophets and chartalants now, but what I find wrong with your one sided doctrine is that God does blesses. Do you know how many smart kids that want to get education but cant because of no fund, or girls that go into prostitvion because of no means or young men that go into dubious things because of no other way. Money being in the hands of right men will help alleviate so much pain, but your type of mindset will allow evil men to abound more and cause more havoc.
I went to orphanages and see the kind of needs that is there, I do visit the prison regularly and see the horror prisöners go through, and I see that God realy care 4 them and other suffering people around the world and God is raising up men and women whom he will pour out great wealth on to alleviate the pains of humanity.
Finally when Elijah said he was the only one, God told him the were 5000 who had never bowed down to baal, there are many Godfearing wealthy men who knows the heart beat of God and are using their wealth for righteous cause.

kingthreat:


Bloody hypocrite. As old as you are, you haven't matured to understand that sexual tempation is one of the gest. People like you will probably wankk at the though of sexual lust dan do the main thing. I do not support adultery but dont tempt a man. Anybody can fall to sexual sins. Pastors included

Stop giving excuses for sexual pervertism bro. Having sex with a 14 year old maid is not only spiritually wrong but also morally and ethically wrong whether there is temptation or no temptation. Let's forget church version, but any man who has no control over himself have no business being a family man in the first place. To him, the promise he made in front of God, his friends and family is another compromise. In fact he is not a real man. Btw, sleeping with a 14 year old maid....ewwwwwh...he should get a life or even better, some class. Besides, you that is defending him, did he confide in you that a 14 year old maid tempted him? Last time I checked you weren't the OP...speaks volumes about who you are...I'm no saint FYI.

drnoel:





i have corrected ur post. Ur definition of god fearing person is based on ur interpretation and how u understand. This ur definition has nothing to do with a God fearing man but a church going man. The two things are different and seperate cos a church going man may not really be God fearing.

So what's your own definition of God fearing people sir? Or maybe you can't comprehend the written English...I can understand... Make comparisons between the both...that's how an intelligent post that claims to correct others should be written.

A God-fearing man detests all forms of wicked acts. For purview of Wicked acts look up in your Holy Book the Bible New Testament especially.

davestead:

So what's your own definition of God fearing people sir? Or maybe you can't comprehend the written English...I can understand... Make comparisons between the both...that's how an intelligent post that claims to correct others should be written.

God fearing man is not about going to church but rather revers the Lord, at the back of his mind is God conscious always and even when he makes mistake, he quickly repents. A God fearing man has a soft heart that has been broken not hard heart, and it is Gods word that break the heart. He easily forgives, does not bear grudges, is not rude and very accomodating.

GlorifiedTunde:


But all what he said is just the basic truth. He's not heart broken anyway. There are young single men who are actually Godfearing, they just might.never be your taste. Not.everyone who goes to Church pretends.

The problem is you ladies fall for what your eyes see. A playa can deceive you by going to Church and even singing in the choir. But that doesn't mean he's Godfearing.

I think I understand U better Mr.
My criteria for one being a Godfearing is not by d number of times he worships in a church anyways..

DestinedSharon:

Hmmm, Mr. U sounded 'heartbroken'

Yes, that you don't believe you can find a God-fearing man despite that God wants to give you one and you are missing it.

tete7000:

Yes, that you don't believe you can find a God-fearing man despite that God wants to give you one and you are missing it.

Hmmmmmmm!!!

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djon78:


True in what you said about hoarding wealth, but there has to be a balance. Cornelius was a very rich man but he was a giver, and because of the alms which he gave which came up as a memorial b4 God, he became the first gentile to receive salvation. Lydia was a rich woman who traded in purple cloth, she supported Pauls ministry.

God is wealth personified. Do you know the kind of wealth that God put on this earth, look at a nation like Nigeria that has sold oil in the excess of $1trillion, it is just because of the wickedness of man, God never intended for man to suffer.
Yes there are so many false prophets and chartalants now, but what I find wrong with your one sided doctrine is that God does blesses. Do you know how many smart kids that want to get education but cant because of no fund, or girls that go into prostitvion because of no means or young men that go into dubious things because of no other way. Money being in the hands of right men will help alleviate so much pain, but your type of mindset will allow evil men to abound more and cause more havoc.
I went to orphanages and see the kind of needs that is there, I do visit the prison regularly and see the horror prisöners go through, and I see that God realy care 4 them and other suffering people around the world and God is raising up men and women whom he will pour out great wealth on to alleviate the pains of humanity.
Finally when Elijah said he was the only one, God told him the were 5000 who had never bowed down to baal, there are many Godfearing wealthy men who knows the heart beat of God and are using their wealth for righteous cause.

Thank you jare. I hope he listens.

debosola:
A God fearing man would mean a man that fears God and puts God first in all he does. A man whose decisions are not influenced by moral standards or what seems right but by what the Bible says about the issue. A man who would treat his woman, not as he feels he is expected to, but by what God says about marriage and the man's role in a relationship. It would mean a man who loves God and is committed to the things of God which will include being involved in church activities. It would mean a man who can inspire me to have a better relationship with God because of the quality of life he lives.

If you are also a God fearing woman who is led by the Spirit of God, you will be able to discern (through the Spirit) and know if this man really fears God or not. God will give you pointers. The issue most times for godly women is the compromise of choosing to ignore certain subtle signs that the Spirit points out to them...and instead say"He's really a good guy".

Sorry for the long response...but I hope it makes some sense.

Your response seems God-Fearing to me. Bless you sis

davestead:

So what's your own definition of God fearing people sir? Or maybe you can't comprehend the written English...I can understand... Make comparisons between the both...that's how an intelligent post that claims to correct others should be written.

I had to refrain responding to his words, in fact I felt lost myself

debosola:
A God fearing man would mean a man that fears God and puts God first in all he does. A man whose decisions are not influenced by moral standards or what seems right but by what the Bible says about the issue. A man who would treat his woman, not as he feels he is expected to, but by what God says about marriage and the man's role in a relationship. It would mean a man who loves God and is committed to the things of God which will include being involved in church activities. It would mean a man who can inspire me to have a better relationship with God because of the quality of life he lives.

If you are also a God fearing woman who is led by the Spirit of God, you will be able to discern (through the Spirit) and know if this man really fears God or not. God will give you pointers. The issue most times for godly women is the compromise of choosing to ignore certain subtle signs that the Spirit points out to them.. .and instead say"He's really a good guy".

Sorry for the long response...but I hope it makes some sense.

Was looking for a hat to duff. Nice one. Hitting the.nail on the head.

The reason why most relationship experts concentrate on the female gender is because they are at the receiving end of bad relationships, and they're mostly to blame for it. Why?

In my councelling sessions, I've noticed most men know why they want in a woman and just go for it, they don't need a perfect wife. But with ladies, their choices are so beclouded by indecision, and they end up choosing the wrong person while looking for the perfect man. They even bend their standards in order to fit into a man's life.

A lot of ladies too have seen hints and signs as u said, indicating the danger in getting involved with some guy but go ahead anyway.

djon78:


God fearing man is not about going to church but rather revers the Lord, at the back of his mind is God conscious always and even when he makes mistake, he quickly repents. A God fearing man has a soft heart that has been broken not hard heart, and it is Gods word that break the heart. He easily forgives, does not bear grudges, is not rude and very accomodating.

I can't even see any difference in what he jus mentioned and what you listed above oga! Thanks anyway.

kingthreat:


So because He made a mistake by sleeping with a 14-year old maid, that makes him not God-fearing?
While he was wiping the maid, what was she doing? Perhaps only giving him sex once a week and complaining she's tired when going for longer hours.
Also, why must there be a maid in the house? Is the house too big for her to do all the house chores? Now because, a man slept with someone he was sexually attracted to, he's now a worldly man. Have you ever seen a lion looking at an antelope smilling?

**Nonsense**

Sleeping with a maid you say more like raping a child.He is an animal as far as im concerned.I can't believe that there are people who still make the kind of excuses u are giving.May God help u

The hearts of men cant be viewed by our bare eyes.just as you cant judge a book by its cover.

we dnt joke with sin..lobat anwe dnt joke with sin..lobat anwe dnt joke with sin..lobat an

Wen not sure find out from his friends u trust or jus know

contactmorak:

A woman in Gbagada some years back married her fiance and when they asked her what she saw in him, she said he was tall, dark and handsome and God fearing. But few years down the line, she broke up with him when she found out he had been sleeping with their 14 year old maid.

Ask many ladies today what they look out for in a husband and they will tell you that he must be tall, dark, handsome and Godfearing. Though, you can automatically tell a man's height, complexion and good looks, how do you know if he is Godfearing?

,,,he doesnt look at ur eyes like agboro

1. He must have a Pastor his life: who is his Pastor? His Pastor is his check and balance. 2. He must love God than you: if he can buy an iPhone 6 then he should have given God above that before, if he hasn't and can't, then he truly doesn't love God, how can he love you when he cannot truly love God. 3 lastly, you can't give what you don't have: be a careful listener when he speaks. Who you are will always reflect in what you say. Finally make sure you too fear the lord. Because women can fraustrate men too.

debosola:


Lady evangelist ke! That's a big title which I'm far from

u look sweet in ur pix,

sukkot:
nah its the LORDS version. what you are following is the worlds version as espoused by demons on the pulpit. i wont bother to mention names. but you will start to see all your idols drop like flies one by one. judgement time is here and the future of your oyedepo and oyakhilome and tb joshuas will be horrific. their churches will burn or they will drop and crash from their private jets etc etc. judgement time is here. time for you to see what happens to those who seek wealth on this earth instead of the kingdom of God and who drive the flock away from God with their heresies and prosperity demonic doctrine

2 peter 2 But there were false prophets also among the people, even as there shall be false teachers among you, who privily shall bring in damnable heresies, even denying the Lord that bought them, and bring upon themselves swift destruction. And many shall follow their pernicious ways; by reason of whom the way of truth shall be evil spoken of. And through covetousness shall they with feigned words make merchandise of you: whose judgment now of a long time lingereth not, and their damnation slumbereth not.

you are about to start seeing your pastor-preneurs drop dead or die horrific deaths. judgement is here. we are in the ninth hour of the year of shemitah. the year of release

The Bible nailed it at the underlined Chief Buzugee! All these Pastor-preneur MOGs are the reason why the word of GOD (TRUTH) is being ridiculed and seen as fraud! Smh....Their judgement will not tarry!

contactmorak:

A woman in Gbagada some years back married her fiance and when they asked her what she saw in him, she said he was tall, dark and handsome and God fearing. But few years down the line, she broke up with him when she found out he had been sleeping with their 14 year old maid.

Ask many ladies today what they look out for in a husband and they will tell you that he must be tall, dark, handsome and Godfearing. Though, you can automatically tell a man's height, complexion and good looks, how do you know if he is Godfearing?

heheheheheeeeee.... my broda u get sense well well. I have seen dat phrase uncountless places" he must be Godfearing". I always laugh. A man attending church on Sundays and church activities on wk days is not a measure dat he is Godfearing. Ladies know dis very well. what about Choirmasters and Pastors dat bleep dem don't dey observe what I mention above.? Girls always present demselves for deception since time immemorial. A guy who will be good will be whether he attends church or mosque regularly or not. His temple is his heart. His conscience will never allow him to deviate from d teachings of God. funny enough., dis are d kind of guys dat are less social and suffer persecution of not having girlfriends at d acceptable age. Check dem out dey are around u

davestead:

So what's your own definition of God fearing people sir? Or maybe you can't comprehend the written English...I can understand... Make comparisons between the both...that's how an intelligent post that claims to correct others should be written.

Ur sarcasm was expected and that concludes the lecture. A God fearing man can never be vengeful, he must see God in everything even in the silliest comment.

davestead:

Stop giving excuses for sexual pervertism bro. Having sex with a 14 year old maid is not only spiritually wrong but also morally and ethically wrong whether there is temptation or no temptation. Let's forget church version, but any man who has no control over himself have no business being a family man in the first place. To him, the promise he made in front of God, his friends and family is another compromise. In fact he is not a real man. Btw, sleeping with a 14 year old maid....ewwwwwh...he should get a life or even better, some class. Besides, you that is defending him, did he confide in you that a 14 year old maid tempted him? Last time I checked you weren't the OP...speaks volumes about who you are...I'm no saint FYI.

Most 14-year old maids are sexually mature. Most girls on the street that do runz are not more than 16. Some people's weakness is lustfulness. The best solution was to avoid such in the first place. Why did she have to get a maid? Didn't she find an old woman somewhere to do the job or cant she do it herself? I like being realistic. 30-50% of men will fall into the same temptation the man fell into. Not everybody has that strong discipline when it comes to sex.

that you are God fearing does not make you immune from satanic inspiration geared towards making you make mistakes...David feared God yet he messed up with Bathsheba and murdered Uriah, Moses was God fearing but hot tempered, Elijah was God fearing but yet self-centered...Paul feared God yet he was proud by the multitude of revelations...but on the whole a God fearing person must have a nature that bears the fruits of Galatians 5:22-23 naturally and effortlessly!

efficiencie:
that you are God fearing does not make you immune from satanic inspiration geared towards making you make mistakes...David feared God yet he messed up with Bathsheba and murdered Uriah, Moses was God fearing but hot tempered, Elijah was God fearing but yet self-centered...Paul feared God yet he was proud by the multitude of revelations...but on the whole a God fearing person must have a nature that bears the fruits of Galatians 5:22-23 naturally and effortlessly!

Tell them bros. These people are ready to crucify you because of one mistake.

tracyfemmmm:

Sleeping with a maid you say more like raping a child.He is an animal as far as im concerned.I can't believe that there are people who still make the kind of excuses u are giving.May God help u

Madam, many ladies that do runz on the streets of Lagos are not up to 16. Some 14 year old ladies look more sexually matured than 19 year olds. What happened was a mistake brought about by the wife by letting the young girl be a maid in the first place. That is the problem with career women, she no fit do the house work? The man will probably find a wife somewhere, but it will be hard for her to get married again. She should have just forgiven. Nobody is above mistakes. Sexual lust gets the worst out of people especially men.

dkronicle:
Strip infront of him, if his D is still shrinked then is a man of God.

You re just too practical!

dkronicle:
Strip infront of him, if his D is still shrinked then is a man of God.

You re just too practical!