LordReed:


Yes that was bile talking but it doesn't excuse the chic from acting rudely. If she wanted to be so forward then she should have gotten her guy to go ask their hosts if it is OK. You can't enter into someone's home and just assume you can do anything.

You don't know that she assumed, so many things could have happened before she stepped into that kitchen, plus, she woke up before her hosts, I'd think it's more rude to wake someone up from sleep to ask for permission to enter their kitchen, especially since you slept in their house.

Yea, we all know and agree, it's courteous to ask before taking but exceptions can be made, this might as well be an exceptional case for all we know, I still maintain madam started off on a wrong foot with the strange lady, she didn't like the girl from the word 'go' and for this reason, she must find fault, she could have been patient enough to find out why the lady entered her kitchen in a friendly manner,let's be real here, for someone with so much bile for the girl, it will be too much work, being polite to her, it's obvious madam was rude, which fetched her an even ruder response, let's try to be logical please.

aisha2:


That's debatable and we have been debating it for hours each side with their points. I only quoted you to correct the impression that the man was married

It doesn't matter what she was, her action was inappropriate. It is not her home, it is not her guy's home so what gave her the impression that she could just walk into the kitchen and take anything? If she was so hungry she could have gone out and bought breakfast, that's how to show your "contempt" for a place you didn't want to stay in.

madam sees girlfriend in the kitchen trying to fry eggs

madam: How dare you!! (with baby on her back crying for breastmilk). What are you doing in my kitchen. You dis old oloshi, sneaking around peoples homes.
*girlfriend tries to explain*
sharap, ashawo!!na to open peoples pot you know. (baby still crying), as old as you are, no manners. your not even his wife, etc etc.

Girlfriend: Ah, sorry oh! Na wah! only because of eggs you just insulting me. I dont blame you, its cassidy i blame.
madam: collects the eggs and plate from her. Trash the eggs in the bin!



This is the scenario, dont ask me how i know. I know these Nigerian madams. Esp those ones with master and slave marriages. They are all looking for any small chance to show their own authority.

The husband sef fit dey bang babes for their home, so every one is a suspect

LordReed:


It doesn't matter what she was, her action was inappropriate. It is not her home, it is not her guy's home so what gave her the impression that she could just walk into the kitchen and take anything? If she was so hungry she could have gone out and bought breakfast, that's how to show your "contempt" for a place you didn't want to stay in.

Go and ask Cassidy who must have pushed her out to make him something and convinced her that " it's cool, you are thinking too far"

Cassidy should have jejerly taken her to stay in the hotel and visit his friend and his rude wife alone

Chillisauce:
madam sees girlfriend in the kitchen trying to fry eggs

madam: How dare you!! (with baby on her back crying for breastmilk). What are you doing in my kitchen. You dis old oloshi, sneaking around peoples homes.
*girlfriend tries to explain*
sharap, ashawo!!na to open peoples pot you know. (baby still crying), as old as you are, no manners. your not even his wife, etc etc.

Girlfriend: Ah, sorry oh! Na wah! only because of eggs you just insulting me. I dont blame you, its cassidy i blame.



This is the scenario, dont ask me how i know. I know these Nigerian madams. Esp those ones with master and slave marriages. They are all looking for any small chance to show their own authority.

The husband sef fit dey bang babes for their home, so every one is a suspect

Lmao super story. They live for authority in their tiny little homes, life begins and ends there my pots, my meat, my plates, you must worship me in my house.

soulglo:


You are assuming though. A few people on this thread have even pointed out that Nigerian women do this and that. So how do you know the girl did not walk in with a chip on her shoulder. She even admitted that she never wanted to be there in the first place so if anything we know for sure that she had issues with being there

People can only say what they feel, which is not always correct, so people pointing out what Nigerian women do, shouldn't be a yardstick for judging this girl,unless you are agreeing all Nigerian women are the same, no?

I, on other hand, am judging madam based on her words which we all agree is covered in bile, In this case, I'd like to say that words should hold more relevance than looks, do you disagree?

Admitting not wanting to be there, doesn't have to have something to do with madam. Like ma'am Chaircover said in one of her posts, the girl probably wanted alone time with her man and was disappointed, it doesn't mean she blames madam for it, one is allowed to feel disappointed, where's the crime in that?

Having a problem with being there in the first place is not about the madam,unless they've had a previous encounter and are beefing each other, which isn't the case here.

aisha2:


Lmao super story. They live for authority in their tiny little homes, life begins and ends there my pots, my meat, my plates, you must worship me in my house.

of cos, where else will they practice authority. This is the kind of wife that would flog and pour hot water on a 12yr old 'housemaid' because she opened the pot to take food.
I knew if she could beat up the girlfriend, she would do exactly that.

Chillisauce:


of cos, where else will they practice authority. This is the kind of wife that would flog and pour hot water on a 12yr old 'housemaid' because she opened the pot to take food.
I knew if she could beat up the girlfriend, she would do exactly that.

I am sure the babe was better built and toned else she would have poured the eggs on her face.

freecocoa:
People can only say what they feel, which is not always correct, so people pointing out what Nigerian women do, shouldn't be a yardstick for judging this girl,unless you are agreeing all Nigerian women are the same, no?

I, on other hand, am judging madam based on her words which we all agree is covered in bile, In this case, I'd like to say that words should hold more relevance than looks, do you disagree?

Admitting not wanting to be there, doesn't have to have something to do with madam. Like ma'am Chaircover said in one of her posts, the girl probably wanted alone time with her man and was disappointed, it doesn't mean she blames madam for it, one is allowed to feel disappointed, where's the crime in that?

Having a problem with being there in the first place is not about the madam,unless they've had a previous encounter and are beefing each other, which isn't the case here.

Why won't she regret being there in the first place when she has ended up on Nairaland being called an " ordinary bedmate " if madam wrote that here imagine the things she would have said to her face. Why wont she regret being there when she was judged and eyed from the moment she walked into the house till that moment. For say she dey hotel now shey she too for dey bed order room service

aisha2:


I am sure the babe was better built and toned else she would have poured the eggs on her face.

The madam was probably waiting for the girl to attack her, with her baby on her back. then that would have justified her, and she would then take the position to strip the 'oloshi' naked. since the hot babe was already wearing se.xy pants.

na dia way be that.

Chillisauce:


of cos, where else will they practice authority. This is the kind of wife that would flog and pour hot water on a 12yr old 'housemaid' because she opened the pot to take food.
I knew if she could beat up the girlfriend, she would do exactly that.

Your sense of humor is off the charts.

Seriously though, it's just too easy to predict what must have transpired from how the story was told(which I believe madam must have even twisted in her favor)No one, with so much bile like her, treats someone they consider inferior nicely.

Somehow eh, I just dey put myself for the girl shoe and her reaction no surprise me because, i'll make the madam feel worse if it were me , you don't insult me and expect me to swallow because you think you are superior, na lie, e no go happen.

Granted, she may have crossed a line(to people wey their kitchen's na their sanctuary) but were you patient and kind enough as a host to make sure she just decide to cross the line to spite you? Think for a second before rushing to talk, simple.

Da fauc

$7.50/30 eggs.

Ewuro4:
Da fauc

$7.50/30 eggs.

Yes oh on top 200 Naira egg you go hear ya life story lmao, and you should smile and bear it because you are single in a married madams house.

Chillisauce:



The madam was probably waiting for the girl to attack her, with her baby on her back. then that would have justified her, and she would then take the position to strip the 'oloshi' naked. since the hot babe was already wearing se.xy pants.

na dia way be that.

Lmao, or she could have raised alarm then and title of the story would have been " attempted murder on my and my baby by my husband's friends side chick "

Please ladies, honest yes or no answers to these two questions below:

1. If you and hubby went to one of hubby's friend house whom you have never met, will you enter their kitchen the next morning making breakfast without hubby's friend's wife giving you permission?

2. If hubby invited a friend (known to you) who brings along a lady, would you like if this lady (not known to you) wakes up the next morning and jumps into your kitchen without you permitting/inviting her to do so?


I go first

1. No
2. No

O ya start...

aisha2:


Why won't she regret being there in the first place when she has ended up on Nairaland being called an " ordinary bedmate " if madam wrote that here imagine the things she would have said to her face. Why wont she regret being there when she was judged and eyed from the moment she walked into the house till that moment. For say she dey hotel now shey she too for dey bed order room service

Thats what the people supporting madam need to know.

Person just enter your house, first thing you noticed "she look me one kind eye", like seriously? You know how her eyes dey work? Once you are already thinking like that, whatever the girl did will most likely set you off, wait to be sure before talking crap.

Anyone who can write about someone the way madam did, is not a nice person and is extremely condescending, I wonder how people can't see that.

freecocoa:
Your sense of humor is off the charts.

Seriously though, it's just too easy to predict what must have transpired from how the story was told(which I believe madam must have even twisted in her favor)No one, with so much bile like her, treats someone they consider inferior nicely.

Somehow eh, I just dey put myself for the girl shoe and her reaction no surprise me because, i'll make the madam feel worse if it were me , you don't insult me and expect me to swallow because you think you are superior, na lie, e no go happen.

Granted, she may have crossed a line(to people wey their kitchen's na their sanctuary) but were you patient and kind enough as a host to make sure she just decide to cross the line to spite you? Think for a second before rushing to talk, simple.

people cross lines sometimes, not necessary because of lack of manners, might be as an emergency. thats why you dont go attacking without finding out why. Its just like the mob mentality.

For the husband and cassidy to have told her to apologize, she must have done something wrong.
Also, if she she knew she didnt do anything wrong, why then did she apologize to cassidy.

The case here is the bush madam is one arrogant, rude Fvck!
Find out

freecocoa:
You don't know that she assumed, so many things could have happened before she stepped into that kitchen, plus, she woke up before her hosts, I'd think it's more rude to wake someone up from sleep to ask for permission to enter their kitchen, especially since you slept in their house.

Yea, we all know and agree, it's courteous to ask before taking but exceptions can be made, this might as well be an exceptional case for all we know, I still maintain madam started off on a wrong foot with the strange lady, she didn't like the girl from the word 'go' and for this reason, she must find fault, she could have been patient enough to find out why the lady entered her kitchen in a friendly manner,let's be real here, for someone with so much bile for the girl, it will be too much work, being polite to her, it's obvious madam was rude, which fetched her an even ruder response, let's try to be logical please.

Exceptional in what way? Someone was dying of hunger? They had children crying of because of hunger? Waking your hosts up to ask if you can use the kitchen is far better even if it has disturbed the host's rest. The host is both reminded of their duty as host and given the opportunity to give a freehand to the guest to use the kitchen. You sleeping in their house gives you very limited privileges such as the right to use the bathroom. It doesn't give you the right to move furniture around because you feel you have a better method of organising.

Yes madam was being driven by riled up emotions but it doesn't justify the actions of the guest. If you want to show "contempt" for your host you go out and buy your own food.

aisha2:

Yes oh on top 200 Naira egg you go hear ya life story lmao, and you should smile and bear it because you are single in a married madams house.

Very Appalling to say the least.

freecocoa:
Thats what the people supporting madam need to know.
Person just enter your house, first thing you noticed "she look me one kind eye", like seriously? You know how her eyes dey work? Once you are already thinking like that, whatever the girl did will most likely set you off, wait to be sure before talking crap.
Anyone who can write about someone the way madam did, is not a nice person and is extremely condescending, I wonder how people can't see that.

Am sure she is fine and madam is recovering from post baby weight hence the obvious jealousy.

LordReed:

Exceptional in what way? Someone was dying of hunger? They had children crying of because of hunger? Waking your hosts up to ask if you can use the kitchen is far better even if it has disturbed the host's rest. The host is both reminded of their duty as host and given the opportunity to give a freehand to the guest to use the kitchen. You sleeping in their house gives you very limited privileges such as the right to use the bathroom. It doesn't give you the right to move furniture around because you feel you have a better method of organising.
Yes madam was being driven by riled up emotions but it doesn't justify the actions of the guest. If you want to show "contempt" for your host you go out and buy your own food.

She was pretending to sleep and setting a trap for the lady jare, so she could get up and go and attack and yet not get up to make breakfast for her guests

U know why this topic is still trending?

Cos it depict d behavior of an average nigerian wife who believes that her authority and world begins and ends in d kitchen.

Also we tend to have that feeling of superiority once the ring is there.
All other unmarried ladies(even if they r better of) will forever remain under her. So in every opportunity that avail itself,we tend to show off that we r better off.

D truth is,unmarried ladies suffer a lot from their married counterparts(no wonder everybody want to marry anybody by all means and when d kitchen is too hot, will not wanna come out Bc of bashing from d same people).

aisha2:


Am sure she is fine and madam is recovering from post baby weight hence the obvious jealousy.



She was pretending to sleep and setting a trap for the lady jare, so she could get up and go and attack and yet not get up to make breakfast for her guests

take 5 jare, you know how these madams work.
she had a 7month baby, and she couldnt wake up early to give her guest breakfast, but quickly jumped up as soon as she heard the first sound of pot.

Every action has consequences....

All the party involved in this scenario are bush people.....

1) Mr visitor from abroad,whenever you are invited to someone's house please notify the host that you will be bringing an extra luggage.They only prepared for you.Obvioulsly his stay abroad was a waste! Next time cassidy go to a hotel!

2)Miss girfriend,next time read body language....there is no way you did not see something odd about MADAM,when someone is unfriendly you just know it,for the fact that you guys were not acquainted you should have stayed the hell out of her kitchen....

3) Madam,you are one low-self esteem lady with this nasty attitude of judging people before knowing them.You need to work on yourself,you being married does not make you any better than anyone out there.Being nice and courteous does not cost much....
why you mad?

4)Sir,next time stand by your madam....as your friend did-do teach your woman some notion of being a good host and self-esteem...

From first class experience here, any host sleeping past breakfast time is 99.999% pretending and a trouble maker. Simple. Better pack your loads and kids and gerrouuuuuut!

aisha2:


Go and ask Cassidy who must have pushed her out to make him something and convinced her that " it's cool, you are thinking too far"

Cassidy should have jejerly taken her to stay in the hotel and visit his friend and his rude wife alone

If Cassidy wanted something he should have got it himself since he is the one that is familiar with the host or he should have been with the babe in the kitchen. It is not his home so he has no right to give another person any privileges within the home.

LordReed:


Exceptional in what way? Someone was dying of hunger? They had children crying of because of hunger? Waking your hosts up to ask if you can use the kitchen is far better even if it has disturbed the host's rest. The host is both reminded of their duty as host and given the opportunity to give a freehand to the guest to use the kitchen. You sleeping in their house gives you very limited privileges such as the right to use the bathroom. It doesn't give you the right to move furniture around because you feel you have a better method of organising.

Yes madam was being driven by riled up emotions but it doesn't justify the actions of the guest. If you want to show "contempt" for your host you go out and buy your own food.

Someone could be dying of hunger, someone coulda needed to take their meds, someone could have ulcer, someone coulda told someone "go, I'm sure they won't mind" etc, there are just so many exceptions.

Let's be reminded that, it's different strokes for different folks, to some people, it's no big deal going into their kitchen, for others, it's a huge deal, we don't know the girl's orientation and there were no clear rules here, you don't automatically conclude people are always supposed to know, in an event they don't, the best one can do is try to correct them as nicely as possible.

It might be better to you but to someone else it's not, if you can sleep with both eyes closed in your house with the strange girl around, why can't you overlook her going into your kitchen? Okay I get, she may poison your family? heck! She coulda done that when y'all were sleeping. I'm not saying she's right to have gone into madam's kitchen, I'm saying, are you sure why she's there? Or are you saying, even if it was a matter of life and death, she shouldn't have?

How do you know her actions were as a result of 'contempt' abi you don join madam believe say the girl look am one kind?

Chillisauce:


people cross lines sometimes, not necessary because of lack of manners, might be as an emergency. thats why you dont go attacking without finding out why. Its just like the mob mentality.

For the husband and cassidy to have told her to apologize, she must have done something wrong.
Also, if she she knew she didnt do anything wrong, why then did she apologize to cassidy.

The case here is the bush madam is one arrogant, rude Fvck!
Find out

And d funny thing we don't remember is;
While they were parking to go,what did she do?
Her action then also adds to d apology list.

She fvcked up abeg.
D chikala no do well tru her response but I would hv shown her d diff btw d two of us.
By d time I finish with her,she should be d one apologizing.
Hasty reaction,i must say.

this is our nigerian madam. waiting for her guest to enter the kitchen

[quote author=Chillisauce post=30023671]this is our nigerian madam. waiting for her host to enter the kitchen
[/quote
Lmao .
Abeg guest,run for ur life!

Ewuro4:
From first class experience here, any host sleeping past breakfast time is 99.999% pretending and a trouble maker. Simple. Better pack your loads and kids and gerrouuuuuut!

Exactly!

That's why I like men.
Very free.
It's only few that hv time for this kind of smesme. And those types they call them sissy

moca:
That's why I like men.
Very free.
It's only few that hv time for this kind of smesme. And those types they call them sissy

You never see men and their wahala.

At a place of work, they saw one fine babe in the site, you need to see how the supervisor started shouting on everybody there to show he was the boss.

The men weak na

moca:
That's why I like men.
Very free.
It's only few that hv time for this kind of smesme. And those types they call them sissy

Hmmm

Imagine your friend's hubby/side dude/main dude stays overnight and the next morning, decides to drive hubby's car out...

Do you think he'll smile?