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Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Odunharry(m): 6:19pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
dharmie092:you can't say that, we didn't hear the other side of the story |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 6:23pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
babyosisi:and you know all these through psychic powers?girls will never understand men no matter how hard they try to analyze us.just becoz he didnt wife her dont mean she wasn't 'wife material' whatever that smelly shiat means. ive seen night club dancers being wifed while the 'library' girls are ignored.sometimes, the heart wants what the heart wants even if it wants a burnt corpse for a wife. the fellow is one ruthless nigg.a though. |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 6:36pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
codeafrica: Do you speak for speaking sake She just wasn't wife material for him I say Did you hear me describe what a wife material must be? That wAs all your imagination not mine You set the question and you are answering it too If she were a wife material for him he would marry her,is that a complicated thing to comprehend? |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 7:02pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
babyosisi:i dont speak for speaking sake,you on the other hand did. you speak with the authority of a person who has shared a roof with the couple hence i ask once more-from your living room, you can tell the woman wasn't wife material (for him like u say)?thats what i call thinking like a woman.a man will tell you that most men make spontenous decisions concerning marriage and unfortunately the utopian fallacy of 'wife material' isnt a determinant. many guys marry without thinking of the repercussions,only to deal with them later. and lets assume your right- she wasnt 'wife material'.. ....does any sane person(man or woman) need 11 years to realize that their partner isnt 'marriage material'?it doesnt matter what people say about me, im a good guy.anytime someone will tell me otherwise ill simply show them this topic.evil fellow that one. 1 Like |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nely77(m): 7:12pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
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Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 7:17pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
prettyboi1989:how do you explain the existence of the dunces who are married?someone married them,right? how do you explain the blonde wives?i love this forum i swear becoz i get to learn 'theories' ive never heard of in my life. trying to defend the fellow when we all can see that this is heartlessness of the highest order.ISIS look like Jesus compared to this dude. |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 7:35pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
lrguru:the nigg.a has now become the victim? |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 7:38pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
codeafrica:b4 u counter y dnt u try empathize? y dnt u hook up wit a dunce n den hook up wit an intelligent babe dnt 4get to come bak with d report. only like minds can roll 2geda. |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by nattty(m): 7:46pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
That kind of courtship is too long 4 dem to get married... She should av seen a breakup coming, 11yrs!!!!!! |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 8:22pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
dharmie092:nigeria the home of clowns. where i come from women get hitched even at 37,but apparently in nigeria a 31 year old woman is the equivalent of 81 in other countries.a 31 year-old nigerian woman is probably using a stick to support her delicate back, is overweight, has sagging skin,grey hair,wrinkled skin and should probably be in an old peoples nursing home.well,,,,at least that;s the impression i get here.at 31 the life of a nigerian girl is over while thats the very time other women are just starting theirs. 1 Like |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 8:34pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
prettyboi1989:your point has gone south.my question remains- who married the stup!d wives we have in our societies?and why arent all intelligent girls married.....?im trying to analyze the situation using yo logic. 1 Like |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 8:44pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
codeafrica: Whatever that quality is is his definition of wife material and she didn't possess it Why are you this thick? Sheesh 1 Like |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Owliver(m): 9:24pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
So she is even a working class boxed up enough to cater for herself(independent woman). Hmmm I thought nairaland was full of feminists? Thought marriage was not important na. Lmaooooo* where una dey now na? Make una come oooh..... Nonsense although Judging from one side of the story "THE MAN F^CKEd UP" |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 9:30pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
babyosisi:im not thick, you on the other hand are. point1-im telling you those "wifey qualities", whatever they are may matter to a few men and not to others(many more). some men close their eyes,sleep, dream and marry whoever is available when theyre still in their 'dream' state.most(not all) men marry the woman who is available at the time he thinks of marrying,rather than who has the "qualities" he likes in a wife.once they awake from the dream they have 2 options;to regret leaving the ex or live with the current choice and face life as it comes,comprehendo? its not always about being left for the one who has qualities you lack.thats what youre trying to imply here and its not necessarily the case(theres a slim chance it may as well be the case).this is the same drivel i keep drumming into my sisters when they whine about men becoz women can be clueless sometimes,you being a clear example regarding this particular case. marriage to most men is like gambling,pick,cross your fingers,and hope for the best. point 2-lets assume youre right and he was in the category of men who look for certain "qualities" before marrying...did he require 11 years to "discover" that his ex lacked those "wifey qualities" in his definition? nobody knows for sure what transpired thats why whetever peeps come up with will remain theories. some clowns are talking of bedroom skills, other imbec!les about her partying,others are talking about how she may have mistreated the fellow when he was a broke nukka,nobody really knows. point 3-not to deviate ,the major issue isnt why he picked the other lady for marriage.the issue is why drag a dead-end rship for 11 years when he could have ended it 8 years earlier because i imagine her failure to meet his definition of "wifey qualities" were present early into the rship.....if that fishy theory stands that is. |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Owliver(m): 9:48pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
dexcira:lmao* hahaha the man should be equally heart broken na. Why you dey talk like say you no know. As the guy don go marry someone else make she sef go marry someone else na |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Boomboost(m): 9:57pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Codeafrica, this one na over breaking down. I'm following you after this. |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by HARDDON: 10:35pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
rubey: When u are done with dem rash airs, make sure u marry urself |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 10:50pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
codeafrica: A tad too a.nal Sorry don't have the patience for all this epistle over what needs no explanation.you shouldn't have bothered Ta Ta |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 10:52pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Boomboost: More like a meltdown |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by daintyprincess(f): 4:20am On Mar 15, 2015 |
Gosh! felt bad when I saw this yesterday but to be sincere the guy is wicked,pple re saying not all dating leads to marriage which is very correct but omo dating of eleven years(11 years no be beans ooo). I can remember vividly that I was in primary school then but the guy no try a day to his wedding n he expects everything to go fine with him. It's none of my business sha. |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 7:13am On Mar 15, 2015 |
codeafrica:yes na |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 7:24am On Mar 15, 2015 |
zeb04:did I call a spade a shovel here? I said what he did was wrong but I'm sure he has got his reason and I assumed most I listed up there could be the cause. So why are u complaining? Or are u the girl's friend? |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by zeb04(f): 7:30am On Mar 15, 2015 |
lrguru:I am not complaining.I only repllied your quote |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 7:54am On Mar 15, 2015 |
zeb04:ok MISS(quote) Zeb |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by precisionindepth: 7:57am On Mar 15, 2015 |
icebebe:my exact....y date a guy for 11 long years?still wondering sha |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Mhizizzy(f): 8:00am On Mar 15, 2015 |
He Sud.be shot |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by precisionindepth: 8:41am On Mar 15, 2015 |
searider:its better D's way dan wasting both of ur precious time and years. DT everybody will quickly move and instead of wasting time for yrs |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Olufemiolaolu(m): 9:48am On Mar 15, 2015 |
farano:Yep majority of men re carried away by momentary pleasure of women who re gud in bed. in d longrun its a path filled with sorrow & destruction. May God help we men folk. |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Olufemiolaolu(m): 9:55am On Mar 15, 2015 |
rubey:Women arent saint too ok. |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 11:17am On Mar 15, 2015 |
babyosisi:you may not have the patience for the epistle but you never know when it could come in handy for other women who think they know everything about men by listening to oprah winfrey or reading articles in cosmopolitan and vogue magazines. guys are the only people who can tell you shiat about ourselves,not your aunties,groupie girlfriends,feminists and certainly not oprah(and other bonafide i-know-everything-about-men aunties). once more there's something you seem to be avoiding- ill assume youre right, that the lady in question may have lacked the "qualities" the nigg.a wanted in a wife.did it take him 11 years to notice that she didn't have the "qualities" he wants in a wife? a simple question. men=logic women=emotions try to switch to logic before giving me elusive, insult-laden emotional responses. 1 Like |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 11:47am On Mar 15, 2015 |
men and women(including husbands and wives) all over the world break up every minute.women(and some emotional men) should stop coming up with theories from their anu.s concerning the "why". had they broken up after a 2 yr relat'nship it wouldn't have made the headlines or had they mutually agreed to end their 1 decade relationship, there would be no story to talk about. but keeping his other woman a secret only to reveal it on the eve of your wedding?did he deliberately want to give the girl massive heart attack?im a stubborn guy(pass off as arrogant to some people) but i think im a nice dude no mata what people say.having 3 sisters may have made me sensitive to women i'd have otherwise been insensitive to. some dudes can be heartless but this one takes the crown though- the very type you pray your sisters will never have to meet 1 Like |
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by precisionindepth: 12:01pm On Mar 15, 2015 |
shejane:if it so den he shd v ended d relationship by the 3 or 4th year 1 Like |
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