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Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by scachy(m): 2:50pm On May 29, 2015 |
Miscellaneous:Thanks. No wonder ur Dad is physically assaulting u n ur Mum. Maybe D man can't condone ur Bad mouth anymore 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by Nobody: 2:52pm On May 29, 2015 |
fejikudz:Ur signature says it all U really a good and bad guy |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by Babaken(m): 2:53pm On May 29, 2015 |
[quote author=redgem post=34172596]Fellow Nairalander's please I need urgent help...who know of any human right activist in port harcourt? My dad is being abusive and threatens to kill my mum and I. He is being really violent and I fear he will fulfil his threat soon.... He has severally try to Your dad wan kill your mum you are busy with keypard seeking for opinion Ewu |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by Miscellaneous(m): 2:53pm On May 29, 2015 |
baby124: ur username says u are baby…… females are somehow built to be attached to someone don't call her unstable. You don't understand…… drastic disease requires drastic cure yet a disease that has been traced to a long range, I suggest a cure that goes slowly would be best. which one suits this? be wise…… |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by bamidele029: 2:54pm On May 29, 2015 |
abbey621: A child who saves her father from hanging as a murderer and her mother from being killed and her siblings from being orphans will always be successful. The normal routes have already been explored with her calling older people and family members to talk to him but the man is threatening even those ones. Prayer is good , God gave us a brain to act while praying. Lack of action was what lead to the death of the Titilayo lawyer woman who was killed by her husband. She chose to pray and hope and instead she was killed and now the man will also be hanged living their child an orphan with a terrible legacy ![]() Is she watches till he murders her murder will she succeed in life ![]() 15 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by Nobody: 2:54pm On May 29, 2015 |
Your mum is more mentally deranged than your dad. Imagine staying with someone that wants to kill you by all means. Save your mum ke!!!. It is better you save your dad from your mum instead. Deeper life killing wives via their doctrines since 00BC. |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by ralph28(m): 2:55pm On May 29, 2015 |
redgem: Contact me through my email. If you have a matter indeed though I'm in Lagos,I'll see how I'll be of help. |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by bamidele029: 2:55pm On May 29, 2015 |
scachy: That is not the OP |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by anumide(f): 2:55pm On May 29, 2015 |
raumdeuter: sweets, please learn to read properly (and listen too) before jumping to conclusion. 6 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by Nobody: 2:55pm On May 29, 2015 |
Miscellaneous: then she can stay and get her ass beat to death!! i mean, if you are tired of getting beat-up, pack ur bags and leave!!... |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by Nobody: 2:55pm On May 29, 2015 |
babyosisi:...bitter truth ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by Miscellaneous(m): 2:57pm On May 29, 2015 |
scachy: this is the most senseless post I've seen on nairaland. Lacks everythinq there is……… guy u are a waste of resources. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by Miscellaneous(m): 2:58pm On May 29, 2015 |
bamidele029:lol……… scachy is high on weeds. Trust me..... 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by aderonila18: 2:59pm On May 29, 2015 |
abbey621: The role of a child is to step in and save their parents when it's required since the adults are not and God will bless her for doing that. Enough with all these useless superstitions of curses, the man is in the wrong and no curse will have effect on her. In fact God will bless her more for saving her family. Many have watched till their mother was killed, someone has tried to strangle her mother and you are talking "over reacting" ![]() ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by AreaFada2: 3:00pm On May 29, 2015 |
redgem:. Tough situation. If you can afford it conveniently, check into an hotel for now. Otherwise, stay with a friend. Sleep in the friend's parlour or sofa if you must. And wait for relatives to come. Don't leave the poor lady out of your sight. |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by bankyblue(m): 3:00pm On May 29, 2015 |
raumdeuter: Goat. Can't u read? She said mum and dad Ode oshi 5 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by scachy(m): 3:00pm On May 29, 2015 |
Miscellaneous:LolLol ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by Miscellaneous(m): 3:02pm On May 29, 2015 |
babyosisi: if this is a better advice, I pray ur children abandon u as their mum at the times of trouble…… how abt that? 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by abbey621(m): 3:03pm On May 29, 2015 |
bamidele029: You are mixing apples with oranges. For every Titilayo we have out there, we have 1,000 more that were going through the same thing and survived. You are still missing the main point here, it is not the child's place to involve the authorities! I believe the more logical method would be for the child to seek out more family members, more religious/community leaders to intervene on this issue. The person that should be involving the authorities is the wife, if she believes she's not in danger, if she believes that the issue can be resolved without involving the police then it is her right! Don't get the kid in a mess that she cannot handle, even the community would blame her afterwards. What if after contacting the police, the woman refuses to leave? How would the child be looked upon by her father? You are talking about ever lasting hatred here..... 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by scachy(m): 3:03pm On May 29, 2015 |
AreaFada2:Police is ur friend. |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by scachy(m): 3:07pm On May 29, 2015 |
Miscellaneous:Crude oil, I hope ur community has started drilling u? 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by Miscellaneous(m): 3:07pm On May 29, 2015 |
abbey621: scachy, redgem and others read the colored and understand wat I've been tryinq to say…… but I don't advice involving religious and community bodies……… they wont better the situation one bit. Trust me |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by Nobody: 3:08pm On May 29, 2015 |
Onegai: I totally agree with every word. Redgem please takke your mom away. If you travel without her, they will call you to come burry her. I don't see reasons for you to beg him. Just take her away. |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by abbey621(m): 3:08pm On May 29, 2015 |
aderonila18: And involving the police is what you call stepping in? Please don't let western ideologies to crowd your judgment. The child can step in by involving family members, she can step in by getting her mother's family involved. She can step in by getting neighbors involved and finally she can step in by convincing her mother to leave. What will she achieve by involving the police? The man gets locked up? The man gets beaten? I'll tell you the result, he'll get out of jail, throw the woman and her child out of the house and life goes on, case closed! I believe the better alternative is for the child to convince her mother to leave if things cannot be resolved by family members. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by Dollyak(f): 3:08pm On May 29, 2015 |
Onegai:Thanks. You've said my mind. |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by Beremx(f): 3:09pm On May 29, 2015 |
kmcutez:100likes. Imagine her mother says she doesn't wanna leave her husband because the bible forbids divorce. Like seriously? |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by Nobody: 3:11pm On May 29, 2015 |
lolly2pops:No, financial responsibility agreement will not be respected by such a deranged man, and they will be back to square zero. He needs to be responsible fully for the kids, they should stay with him. While the wife should divorce in order to stay alive. One has to be alive to stay married, we should learn to avoid areas of madness and mayhem. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by Nobody: 3:14pm On May 29, 2015 |
[quote author=Babaken post=34213842][/quote]chai! Easy on her...she's only but 21 ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by scachy(m): 3:23pm On May 29, 2015 |
Miscellaneous:The poster wrote and I qoute "Fellow Nairalander's please I need urgent help...who know of any human right activist in port harcourt? My dad is being abusive and threatens to kill my mum and I. He is being really violent and I fear he will fulfil his threat soon.... He has severally try to strangle my mum... Please, help its a matter of life and death." Conclusion, is it against d law to report to police station when someone posses a threat to ur life (whether it's ur parents or siblings)? Damn it, or is Nigeria police another devil waiting to chastise anyone that came to make a formal report that everyone is against the idea? Or is it better to waits until d Dad does something stupid cos she's trying to allow other family members or kindred to engage into d matter instead of involving d police. It's up to them shaa, what's my own there. I v made my suggestion I don't know how things operate over there presently but over here, once ur life n safety is threatened, d best thing to do is to alert d authority. After all police is our friend.damn d consequences n blames that might come from other family members if involving d police ll guarantee ur safety at the moment. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by akwunmi(m): 3:26pm On May 29, 2015 |
redgem:gud idea but u n mum nid 2 exercise lots of exercise cos it's seems ur Dada is hot tempered....patients n prayer is ur ultimate weapon . |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by MzCorleone(f): 3:30pm On May 29, 2015 |
Redgem: you have to be prepared for the inevitable,now that there's a little peace,i like your suggestion of going on ur knees to beg your dad,your siblings at home including your mum should do same. From monday start making preparations to get an alternative home for your mum.(there's a probability that ur dad will go gaga again) Its not going to be easy but now is the time to be strong mentally and spiritually, so as to avoid stories that touch. Make sure the job offered in Lag is genuine,once you are sure about all these,tell ur dad about it in a not confrontational way. Becareful not to annoy him and take sides with ur mum,relax and all will be well. I cant guarantee he's going to change but its better to be safe than sorry. If you can, send me a pm. The Lord is your strength |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by Ligxy(f): 3:32pm On May 29, 2015 |
Op, your mom needs to leave that house at least for the time being. Not necessarily divorce him, but just get separated for a while, maybe when he gets the freedom he desires, he'll let you be. |
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