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What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by greenprayer(m): 11:46am On Oct 25, 2015 |
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams. In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”. Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend. What should I do? 14 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by pet4ril(f): 11:48am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Leave her alone for now since she's so much in love with her boyfriend ....., and it's possible she just liked you to be part of her life as a friend and nothing more. ...your love for her might not be real but infatuation, so just continue the friendship. God bless you 172 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Cutehector(m): 11:51am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Love sef.. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by falconey(m): 11:58am On Oct 25, 2015 |
it hurts nigga, I've been there. 55 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by buzquet(m): 12:02pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
I think this OP doesn't know anything bout girls and thr lies 145 Likes |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 12:05pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Lol, I hope you didn't tell her you were "compactable". Anyway, she's been honest with you. If I were you, that would be enough reason for me not to care about her anymore, the fact she loves someone else. Have some self respect & get over it 107 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by emperorchedda(m): 12:07pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Dude get a hold of yourself and leave that girl with your dignity intact. Stop being friends, stop the unnecessary calls and make it as platonic as ever. Get yourself another girl better than she is and watch her green in envy 242 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 12:07pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
falconey: Wrong advice. He'll still be 2nd option even if the BF died or moved to mars. Who wants to be 2nd option? 23 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by IamLEGEND1: 12:12pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
U no get balls ni? don't you have any pride of ur own? SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND!! WHOM SHE LOVES!!!! what do you want us to do for you,give you tips on how to ruin her relationship or what? just stand in front of ur mirror and say this to urself..... " I AM A MAN". Now better face ur front and stop hounding that girl with ur incessant proposals like a crazed animal 195 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by asdfjklhaha(f): 12:12pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
She sees u as a friend but her man as a lover don u get it? D best u can do is to respect her opinion and remain friends wit her. 7 Likes |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by funlord(m): 12:26pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 12:38pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
greenprayer: 83 Likes
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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 12:43pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Op.....it hurts,u just av to let her go,if u are meant to be together trust me u will be. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 12:43pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Sometimes a girl says something and means something else. Girls pretend a whole lot. She just keep you as assistant boyfriend, anyday oga at the top f*uck up,na you get her, but I would say u let her be. Carry your life do something better, fine girls day everywhere, by the time you made it in life, she go start to call you her boyfriend, and won't be ashamed again of you. Thank me Later Salem!!! 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by falconey(m): 12:45pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
PunkyVeer: even if he is dead or move to another planet? Is that how you ladies psyche is? 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by ilo04(m): 12:45pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
friendzone 37 Likes |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by gamaliel121(m): 12:49pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Love my assss...keep on trying. If she leaves him for you, then she'll leave you for another real nigga too... Open ya eyes nigga... Look for your own and leave another niggas girl for him.... 23 Likes |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by kossyablaze(m): 12:49pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Slap urself twice.Itz time to be a man 3 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by kossyablaze(m): 1:00pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
emperorchedda:Seconded 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by farano(f): 1:03pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Youngpo413: 1:20pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
If she leaves her bf because of you,she will surely leave you because of someone else,I won't tell you to back out,so carry on...nature has a way of balancing such equation. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 1:36pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
falconey: You're not getting the point I'm trying to make here. The boyfriend is still her 1st choice, the one she's choosing over the OP. Even if he were to be promoted & moved to another country, it still won't change that he holds the number one spot in her heart. Anything that happens between her & the OP when the boyfriend is gone, would be simply because the boyfriend is gone, really. Settling for the next best thing. Why would any self respecting person put themselves in a position of being an alternative, when they were rejected when both choices were available? That's like being in a flight & in the menu it's chicken or beef. Everyone chooses beef & the chicken is left hoping the beef would finish so it could be chosen at last. How pathetic is that? 19 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 1:48pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
funlord:OP follow this guy advice abeg. He nailed it. 181 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by falconey(m): 1:50pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
PunkyVeer: now I get it. |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Lovetinz(m): 1:55pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Its your fault, If you have been destroying her azz regularly, you wont give a feck about her main guy! 4 Likes |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 1:56pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
falconey: You would too if you didn't think with your little head most the time Well, girls are emotional being by nature, that's why. 1 Like |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by falconey(m): 2:00pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
PunkyVeer: by little head you meant , the little me downstairs? |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by kokoA(m): 3:49pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
OP is the zonal Chairman of Friendzone. 55 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by HCpaul(m): 3:54pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Every loves that claims despiration is not love. 1 Like |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 3:56pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
First word in the book life is TO HONOUR GOD AND MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY yes u love her but give her the space to be Sure she would ponder on what u av told her She is goin to weigh both sides please b calm nd b happy dnt sell ur happiness to others indirectly 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Jite001(m): 3:59pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Baba freee her o. maintain your pride while you still can 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Sheflex4real(m): 4:41pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
If truely u love her, then i guess you want her to be happy, so if her so called lover makes her happy well then u gona have to learn to live with that. the only thing you can do now is to move on. cause sticking around is not going to help, it's just gona makes u look despirate and weak, & that will of cause ruine ur chance of ever getting her.My taught though. 5 Likes |
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