Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,174,297 members, 7,891,365 topics. Date: Tuesday, 16 July 2024 at 12:06 PM

What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man - Romance (2) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man (52121 Views)

Hilarious Memes About The Girl That Proposed To Her Boyfriend And Got Rejected / Will My Sister Get Another Man With Very High Sperm Count If She Leaves Her BF? / When A Man You Love Is Too Shy To Woo You, What Do You Do? (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (Reply) (Go Down)

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 5:11pm On Oct 25, 2015
stupidity:

OP follow this guy advice abeg. He nailed it.
Seconded angry

1 Like

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by SkinnyDude(m): 5:48pm On Oct 25, 2015
greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same
level. We’re very good friends who flirt
a lot and equally share the same dreams.
in fact, most of the activities we’ve
carried out in school were all her ideas.
She’s just all over me and attached
herself so much in my future. She
sometimes jokingly says she wants to
marry me. People recommended that
we’ll going to make a good couple. So, I
then thought of all of these and how
compactable we are, I then took the bold
step to ask her out. She only responded
that she has a boyfriend and we should
drop the dating discussion for now since
we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped
it. After sometimes, she started
complaining that she doesn’t like my
being strange. I told her I loved her so
much, she replied via chat “I understand
but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best
part of me”. Please help me with what to
do. I love her and I want to marry her.
She knows but the only challenge now is
her boyfriend. What should I do?
kill her boyfriend., anu mpama!!!
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by osazeeblue01: 5:54pm On Oct 25, 2015
it happens sometimes. Just move on bro. That's life.
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by phillipay: 6:02pm On Oct 25, 2015
Well the problem started when you bacame friends with her it doesn't work that way again if you like her if possible let her know from the first day of seeing her that would register in her mind then you can continue your activity in the friendzone in a short time she's come around bt for this babe op its best you can either continue being friends with her bt make your conversations more intense and start talking about sex and all that trash before you know it she's on your bed bt if you cant do that just let her go.

2 Likes

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by DiegoNakel(m): 6:06pm On Oct 25, 2015
emperorchedda:
Dude get a hold of yourself and leave that girl with your dignity intact.

Stop being friends, stop the unnecessary calls and make it as platonic as ever. Get yourself another girl better than she is and watch her green in envy

Bro am feeling you!!! You just said it all
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by jearile(m): 6:21pm On Oct 25, 2015
greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same
level. We’re very good friends who flirt
a lot and equally share the same dreams.
in fact, most of the activities we’ve
carried out in school were all her ideas.
She’s just all over me and attached
herself so much in my future. She
sometimes jokingly says she wants to
marry me. People recommended that
we’ll going to make a good couple. So, I
then thought of all of these and how
compactable we are, I then took the bold
step to ask her out. She only responded
that she has a boyfriend and we should
drop the dating discussion for now since
we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped
it. After sometimes, she started
complaining that she doesn’t like my
being strange. I told her I loved her so
much, she replied via chat “I understand
but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best
part of me”. Please help me with what to
do. I love her and I want to marry her.
She knows but the only challenge now is
her boyfriend. What should I do?
Concentrate on your studies... Authenticity and timing must tally... I'd advice you ponder on the advice raised by FTC @pet4ril

1 Like

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nature8(m): 6:27pm On Oct 25, 2015
My advice to you is that you should leave somebody's girlfriend and look for your own..

3 Likes

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Czar01(m): 7:09pm On Oct 25, 2015
funlord:
angry


ﺍﻟﻠﻬﻢ ﺍﻏﻔﺮ ﻟﻔﻠﺎﻥ ﻭﺍﺭﻓﻊ ﺩﺭﺟﺘﻪ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﻤﻬﺪﻳﻴﻦ ﻭﺍﺧﻠﻔﻪ ﻓﻲ ﻋﻘﺒﻪ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﻐﺎﺑﺮﻳﻦ ﻭﺍﻏﻔﺮ ﻟﻨﺎ ﻭﻟﻪ ﻳﺎ ﺭﺏ ﺍﻟﻌﺎﻟﻤﻴﻦ ﻭﺃﻓﺴﺢ ﻟﻪ ﻓﻲ ﻗﺒﺮﻩ ﻭﻧﻮﺭ ﻟﻪ ﻓﻴﻪ

"Oh God, forgive so and to lift up his degree in guided and take good care in the obstacle behind. Forgive us and him, O Lord of the Worlds and make his grave and the light in which his"

Guy WTH?

8 Likes

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by obi4eze(m): 8:16pm On Oct 25, 2015
grin grin grin grin
Just here to have a good laugh...

1 Like

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by ilevic(m): 9:14pm On Oct 25, 2015
I av two options for you. a) leave her and let her be or b) read option (a) above

1 Like

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Somethingodd(f): 10:16pm On Oct 25, 2015
There are 2 things..
1. Give her space and time to get her game straight, to know what she wants and just go for it straight up.

2. Just be normal, exactly the way you are with awon boys.. NEVER talk about love and stuff, don't be all mushy and clingy.. just treat her like your normal "nigga".

8 Likes

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 10:27pm On Oct 25, 2015
greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same
level. We’re very good friends who flirt
a lot and equally share the same dreams.
in fact, most of the activities we’ve
carried out in school were all her ideas.
She’s just all over me and attached
herself so much in my future. She
sometimes jokingly says she wants to
marry me. People recommended that
we’ll going to make a good couple. So, I
then thought of all of these and how
compactable we are, I then took the bold
step to ask her out. She only responded
that she has a boyfriend and we should
drop the dating discussion for now since
we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped
it. After sometimes, she started
complaining that she doesn’t like my
being strange. I told her I loved her so
much, she replied via chat “I understand
but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best
part of me”. Please help me with what to
do. I love her and I want to marry her.
She knows but the only challenge now is
her boyfriend. What should I do?

just let her be and dnt get too attached to her or emotional.
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by DICKtator: 11:03pm On Oct 25, 2015
stupidity:

OP follow this guy advice abeg. He nailed it.


grin grin grin grin
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by DICKtator: 11:03pm On Oct 25, 2015
funlord:
angry


ﺍﻟﻠﻬﻢ ﺍﻏﻔﺮ ﻟﻔﻠﺎﻥ ﻭﺍﺭﻓﻊ ﺩﺭﺟﺘﻪ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﻤﻬﺪﻳﻴﻦ ﻭﺍﺧﻠﻔﻪ ﻓﻲ ﻋﻘﺒﻪ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﻐﺎﺑﺮﻳﻦ ﻭﺍﻏﻔﺮ ﻟﻨﺎ ﻭﻟﻪ ﻳﺎ ﺭﺏ ﺍﻟﻌﺎﻟﻤﻴﻦ ﻭﺃﻓﺴﺢ ﻟﻪ ﻓﻲ ﻗﺒﺮﻩ ﻭﻧﻮﺭ ﻟﻪ ﻓﻴﻪ

The best advice so far!!!!


grin grin grin grin

2 Likes

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 11:05pm On Oct 25, 2015
D girl I love must cintia stoped loving me,bt that those not mean we can't b friends.infact we ar very good friends now.infact 2muru she is coming to my end.she won eat wanke,and am goin to buy her wanke.
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 11:05pm On Oct 25, 2015
kil her bf

1 Like

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by wildchild1: 11:05pm On Oct 25, 2015
Accept Fate and move on


In other news 200pairs of unisex TOMS shoes available for sale #BackByPopularDemand
https://www.nairaland.com/2392439/100-pairs-toms-unisex-shoes/1
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Remyboyhefty(m): 11:07pm On Oct 25, 2015
I dont believe in love

2 Likes

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 11:07pm On Oct 25, 2015
Look for another girl that is prettier than her to fall in love with. Revenge is a b i t c h! grin It is not the end of the world.

1 Like

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Holuwakemmy16(f): 11:10pm On Oct 25, 2015
Leave her and pray to God to give u a lady that will know your value

1 Like

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 11:11pm On Oct 25, 2015
Do not worry yourself... The future is bright. You ve a long way to go. If she is yours, eventually, she will come to you. Don't rush and don't do anything bizarre!!! Stay focused on your goals and dreams, study hard, be the best you can. Summon the courage to tell her that you both can't be close like before, because that would only make you harbour emotions for her and that would jeopardise your friendhsip.
Keep it cordial with her. It's hard, but try to control yourself. If God wills it, she and that "best part of her" of a boyfriend would break up. Be really sure she is what you want.
greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?

3 Likes

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by niggi4life(m): 11:11pm On Oct 25, 2015
funlord:
angry


ﺍﻟﻠﻬﻢ ﺍﻏﻔﺮ ﻟﻔﻠﺎﻥ ﻭﺍﺭﻓﻊ ﺩﺭﺟﺘﻪ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﻤﻬﺪﻳﻴﻦ ﻭﺍﺧﻠﻔﻪ ﻓﻲ ﻋﻘﺒﻪ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﻐﺎﺑﺮﻳﻦ ﻭﺍﻏﻔﺮ ﻟﻨﺎ ﻭﻟﻪ ﻳﺎ ﺭﺏ ﺍﻟﻌﺎﻟﻤﻴﻦ ﻭﺃﻓﺴﺢ ﻟﻪ ﻓﻲ ﻗﺒﺮﻩ ﻭﻧﻮﺭ ﻟﻪ ﻓﻴﻪ
Best Advice Ever!!!!!!!
OP, this cool dude here has said it all.... What more do u want?

2 Likes

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Btruth: 11:12pm On Oct 25, 2015
Give her time, and respect your friendship with her for now. Who knows, she might be the one chasing you up after sometime.
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Airell: 11:13pm On Oct 25, 2015
I don't understand why a girl will make a guy have an impression that she loves him which forces the guy to ask her out, then she start saying stories.

11 Likes

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by electrosuru: 11:14pm On Oct 25, 2015
Nah OYO u dey guy
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 11:14pm On Oct 25, 2015
Czar01:


"Oh God, forgive so and to lift up his degree in guided and take good care in the obstacle behind. Forgive us and him, O Lord of the Worlds and make his grave and the light in which his"

Guy WTH?

I began to wonder ... Smh smh smh
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by eunisam: 11:14pm On Oct 25, 2015
friendz zone alert



greenprayer:
?
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by shynrichies(m): 11:16pm On Oct 25, 2015
my question...........do we have single ladies? they always hooked up.

1 Like

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Ramos16(m): 11:16pm On Oct 25, 2015
greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?

Bro I am having same issues here, I asked her out two weeks ago, now we are like strangers to each other, we used to talk a lot on phone and laugh, she used to call me like 4 -5 times per day and we talk at length.. But after asking her out we no longer talk, everything just changed, she claims that my timing was wrong.... I am in a mess.... thinking about her every moment, every time my phone rings now, my heart skips a beat, hoping that she is the one calling..... I wish I can help you bro, but we share similar issue here

5 Likes

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by agabaI23(m): 11:18pm On Oct 25, 2015
greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?
Get a girl friend. If she asks you why you have changed, tell her you cannot be an assistant and that your girlfriend needs your attention

1 Like

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 11:18pm On Oct 25, 2015
oga, let her relationship run its course, maintain the friendship but lessen the communication

2 Likes

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by ijustdey: 11:18pm On Oct 25, 2015
greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?


OP


get over it..
you have been friend-zone





just find a way to get out of that zone before she destroy the tiny respect she would have for you

3 Likes

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (Reply)

Reno Omokri's Reply To A Man Who Admired His Daughter & Asked For Her IG Address / What Is The Risk Of Marrying A Lady With Irregular Menstruation? / Girl Gets No Reaction From Boyfriend As She Spends Money On A Surprise Apology

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 41
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.