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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 11:19pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
greenprayer:dude! You are on weed mode You are still in school and you want to marry her Is it your yansh you will use to plan the wedding and also feed her You are not in love but mistaking lust or what did they called that name self! Infatuation or whatever I hate it when guys with beautiful potentials don't use their brains. Let me tell you a secret! In this world there are many svpids girls who are willing to have you as their man or husband and you are wasting your time thinking of just one STVPID girl who is choping your brain power, using a simple psychological method to control you when the other guy is not given her what she want Don't learn it the hard way. 15 Likes |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Bambless1(m): 11:20pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Friendzone Things 2 Likes |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 11:21pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
She don' tell you say she get bf.Wetin you still want from her again?Some guys won't learn. 3 Likes |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 11:21pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
FRIEND-ZONED [center]gals lie a lot[/center] buh u've gat to move on...it may just be infatuation over d gal nd nt really love... THERE ARE THOUSANDS OF FISHES IN THE OCEAN |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by tiwasiaife(m): 11:21pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Electing An illiterate Dictator- A Major Drawback
for Nigeria’s Democracy
The problem with dictatorship is that it usually
lacks the capacity and patience to understand the
meaning of the rule of law and due process. Both
doctrines are often slow and therefore require
patience. Dictators don’t have patience, they want
it here, now and by any means necessary. In
1984, Mohammadu Buhari overthrew the
democratically elected government of President
Shehu Shagari. It is true that every coup plotter
is guilty of breaching the Nigerian constitution
and shooting his way into power. But arguably,
unlike Ibrahim Babangida that overthrew a
military junta, Buhari’s offense was more
egregious because he overthrew a democratically
elected government – an expression of the
collective will of Nigerians. In his false feeling of
importance, Buhari has always believed in his
messianic mission. He thinks that he knows it all,
and that, unlike any other Nigerian, he knows
what is best for Nigeria. His twisted sense of
superiority and inordinate craving for power found
expression in his 1984 coup and his subsequent,
repeated run for the presidency. Before he finally
won in 2015, he had been defeated in three earlier
presidential elections. On his third defeat, he
broke down and wept in public, an action that
would have ended his political career if he were
an American politician. Politicians hardly weep in
America. To me, that unrestrained public effusion
of tears signified his utter desperation for power.
His frequent threats to Nigerians were also
indicative of his excessive hunger for power. After
he lost the 2011 presidential election, he made
his threats; vowing to make Nigeria
ungovernable. And true to his word, he attempted
to make Nigeria ungovernable. Through his Boko
Haram connection, he unleashed terror on
Nigeria. Some say that if Buhari had no
relationship with Boko Haram, why did the
terrorist group nominate him as one of its
negotiators? And before the 2015 election, he
threatened to spill blood and cause mayhem if he
loses the election. Unfortunately, in 2015,
Nigerians buckled under Buhari’s threats and
shenanigans, and elected a dictator-president. It
is obvious that successive military regimes
contributed immensely to our societal woes: the
erosion of our moral standards and the perversion
of our values. By overthrowing the Shagari
government, Buhari truncated a nascent
democracy, retarded our democratic evolution and
contributed to the problems military rule visited
on Nigeria. Ironically, the same problems the
military dictators created for Nigerians are the
very ones Buhari is promising to fix. Leadership is
not, and can never be by force. Buhari, Nigerians
say, remains uninformed. Before the elections
Nigerians raised a lot of doubts that he even has
a West African School Certificate (WASC). But
even without this basic academic qualification, he
didn’t seem to have the urge to improve himself
over the years. So, that when elected president,
he would be better prepared to serve the country.
Sadly, dictatorship means force and that’s all you
need to get things done. His fixation was on
grabbing the presidency at all cost. He sounds as
though he does not have the finesse to relate
smoothly with the other branches of government.
He has never displayed any intellectual capacity in
governance in the past thoughtless of delivering a
lecture, as presidents sometimes do, to the
academia, professional associations, etc. In his
ignorance and obscurantism, he is blind to the
heterogeneity of this country. No wonder, he once
advocated making Sharia the supreme law of
Nigeria. During his first coming to power in 1984,
he pretty much ruled by proxy via Idiagbon. This
time around there is ample evidence that he is
going to govern through El Rufai and co. Is it
then not a bit surprising that Nigerians voted for
a dictator in 2015? In my viewpoint this
implicates a major drawback for Nigeria.
Politically and otherwise. Were Nigerians
browbeaten by his threat to unleash violence and
wreck havoc if he is not elected? Having, with our
votes, dignified a man that shoved aside a
democratically elected government and seized
power, what message are we sending to young,
coup-thirsty military officers? Are we not telling
them that it is alright to plot and execute coups?
Evidently, we are a country of cowards. Have we,
out of fear that Nigeria might break up if Buhari
does not win, rewarded him for his coup and
extra judicial killings? Oh, the Americans
supported him? Yes, Obama did. Secretly, he sent
his former Chief of Staff, and renowned political
strategist, David Axelrod, to Nigeria to work for
the All Progressive Congress (APC). Obama’s
support for Buhari was motivated simply by
American economic interests. Africa is the new
frontier and Nigeria is a major player in this
emerging frontier. The former president, Goodluck
Jonathan, was in bed with the Chinese. The
Chinese economy is expanding and will soon
overtake the American economy as the world’s
largest economy. The government of Goodluck
Jonathan was awarding billion dollar contracts to
Chinese companies. This piqued the Americans.
So, they embarked on what they do best: regime
change. They approached their cousins, our
former colonial masters, the British, to find out
how to deal with Nigeria. Piece of cake! The Brits
told them: the road to Nigeria must pass through
the North; we did so when we colonized them.
So, Obama went through the North. Buhari, thrice
trounced in his quest to be president, was
available, ready and willing. So, Obama’s secret
agent in Nigeria, David Axelrod, from his vast
repertoire of political intrigues, came up with the
CHANGE slogan for APC and projected Buhari the
dictator as a reformer. For their strategic
interests, the Obama administration tried
something similar in Israel but failed. It supported
an opposition candidate against the incumbent
Prime Minister, Benjamin Netanyahu. But with
Israel being a more sophisticated democracy, and
the Israelis, gutsy, they were not swayed by the
Obama administration’s political stratagem. The
Americans are always prone to installing dictators
that will later turn against them, and instead of
serving American self-seeking interests, subvert
them. There is evidence of these American
installed Frankenstein monsters in Libya, Iraq,
Syria, Egypt, etc. With time, Buhari may prove
another Frankenstein monster.
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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by francoray(m): 11:22pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Bribe her boy friend! I wanted to say kill her boy friend |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by yorke1: 11:22pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Are you trying to snatch her from her bf. She has told you point blank that she loves her bf. Pls get a gripe of yourself. 1 Like |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by shynrichies(m): 11:23pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Ramos16: you and OP goan marry eachother.....you better work hard to improve yourlife 3 Likes |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by 49cents(m): 11:23pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
kill the bf.....shikena |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by fredopareto(m): 11:25pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
greenprayer:firstly try to get her fone nd search thru if u can find a vital information abt her so called boyfriend.afterall they must b communicatin by social network,evendo check her contact,possibility der might b name save wit pet name nd also check her message inbox,draft,sent nd outbox..with dat u no ur faith...secondly to me she is formin akimbo by'style perhap jst wana test ur sincerity...cus me self has gone thru dis mission b4..later sha..bros i yanch her well |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 11:27pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Love Machine:I'm telling you! Some guys just want to learn it the hard way Don't try to false love on other people 5 Likes |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Meeky(m): 11:27pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
greenprayer:Guy babes plenty na.leave her alone.your own wud surely come 2 Likes |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 11:29pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Ramos16: |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Ramos16(m): 11:29pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
shynrichies: why do you have to be weird about this? :/ |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Emtol01: 11:38pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
U shld let go of her since she told you the blatant truth because she doesn't see you as a potential boyfriend but a friend. Face the reality and get over it, there are thousand and one beautiful ladies out there. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by ToyinDipo(m): 11:42pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
You might think she is the one, but we only see today, no one knows tomorrow, she might not be the right one for you in the long run. If you are meant to be, I always believe whatever will be will be, and vice versa. Get over it bro. 2 Likes |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 11:48pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
greenprayer:You can snatch her from her boyfriend if you know how to play the game. What are you waiting for? |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by tym92(m): 11:49pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
stupidity:stewpidity |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by HARDDON: 11:49pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
halfrica: He grossed her out. Op, how do guys like u do it? I mean, asking a gurl out ? What do u say she hasnt heard b4? N why didnt u seek advise first about how to get her? 2 Likes |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by juddybrown(m): 11:51pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
kokoA:chai,wickedness of the highest grade |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 11:51pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
emperorchedda:For your mind na you be love whisperer |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by GENIAL37: 11:52pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by AfroBlue(m): 11:55pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
just watched a nollywood romp last night. some of these wayward jezebels be doing the most with dere crazy brains and using and being used. |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by femiero: 11:56pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
People might call you childish and all but you have to get out of that friendship. Stop relating with her. The friend zone is for homosexuals and it's a very bad zone. If she wants to be enjoying girlfriend privileges she has to be yours or you cut her off. Did you notice that all females that have commented want you to continue being her friend? It's a trap. Don't fall for it. 6 Likes |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by iamkingzlee(m): 11:56pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
falconey:Gbammm! one agege bread for you! |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by naijathings(m): 11:57pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
IamLEGEND1: I think he should stand in front of the mirror and saying “I AM A MAN"..... and he should grab his balls while saying this to be sure he has enough balls to be a man a move on to the next one. student love sha... stop watching Telemundo boy, grab ur balls boy, move on to the next one boy. 4 Likes |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by enasgreat: 11:58pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
nil 1 Like |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by akbod02: 12:01am On Oct 26, 2015 |
I think that is still better... The girl I love just told me 40 minute ago that she is 4 month pregnant for someone else... 3 Likes |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by vislabraye(m): 12:03am On Oct 26, 2015 |
greenprayer: You shouldn't have brought that "I love you" into that equation. It spoils everything. You could have gone ahead and treated her as if both of you are dating. I've noticed that when you tell her you love her or want to go out with her, she'll begin acting funny. She wants to enjoy the emotion she gets. When you propose to her, it spoils the suspence. As for now, don't bring up any such issue. 5 Likes |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Aroh48(m): 12:03am On Oct 26, 2015 |
greenprayer:Too much of philippines movie hv distorted your brain.Kid face your books and leave women alone. 2 Likes |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by macho44(m): 12:06am On Oct 26, 2015 |
greenprayer:Simple, Accept to be her Assistant Boyfriend. |
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by deltateam: 12:08am On Oct 26, 2015 |
Op there are different type of otatapia in the market. Do you need recommendations with that? Last Bullet: My observation is that every girl has a boyfriend or atleast that's what they say. Its possible a guy can have 5 girlfriends with all 5 girlfriends telling you they have a boyfriend. To who? The same dude! Its a crazy world, I tell you. Op sticking to her means you will have to enjoy your friendzone status and love it otherwise move on. Stringing you along while claiming her boyfriend is the best thing that ever happened to her is not so cool. Abi is she reffering to you? Don't allow her to use female psychology on you. Move on to another girl while you still have your dignity and sanity intact. 7 Likes 1 Share |
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