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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by ABSOL10: 4:44am On Oct 26, 2015
u have actually been friendzone but still have faith coz ladies can b crazy at times she might come tomorrow and be like she wanted d gravity of ur love for her or maybe u are jealous....just stay cool dont even go to d love side side again gboju n be and continue being her friend.....and let see what happens.
Ladies abeg stop putting guys on false hopes u know u dont like him as boyfriend tell him on time because it hurts when later he is finally in love with u......

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by koladata(m): 5:20am On Oct 26, 2015
Try to have s*ex with her, she will love you
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Ifyjemila(f): 5:47am On Oct 26, 2015
greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?
what to do when a man u love is in love with another woman?
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Kazrem(m): 5:48am On Oct 26, 2015
PunkyVeer:
Lol, I hope you didn't tell her you were "compactable".

Anyway, she's been honest with you. If I were you, that would be enough reason for me not to care about her anymore, the fact she loves someone else. Have some self respect & get over it
@ "compactable" you "wickend" oo.
Self respect, I like that.
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by buchisom1(m): 5:49am On Oct 26, 2015
Brother u ve mistaken ya friendship of her for love.....my best advise is to jus b wat u guys use to b and stay with dat....what most guys fail to undstd is not evry gal must b ua lover...sm are ment to b frends sm for sex why sm for wife.....same goes with d ladies...so u chose where u fallin and act wisely
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by smudge2079(m): 5:50am On Oct 26, 2015
Kill the boyfriend.

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Ignyte(m): 5:52am On Oct 26, 2015
OP I believe there is no boyfriend at all. If there is, imagine you are the better man between both of you. I don't mean be dumb enough to leave her o, Just be the guy who is going to win. Once you have themindset of being the better guy, you'll know what to do, invite me when una finally marry..

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 5:53am On Oct 26, 2015
Kazrem:

@ "compactable" you "wickend" oo.
Self respect, I like that.

Lol but that's the word he used. He said they're compactable, hence I hope she didn't hear him saying it like that.
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by greatestman(m): 5:53am On Oct 26, 2015
emperorchedda:
Dude get a hold of yourself and leave that girl with your dignity intact.

Stop being friends, stop the unnecessary calls and make it as platonic as ever. Get yourself another girl better than she is and watch her green in envy

Advice endorsed.

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by pomsky: 5:56am On Oct 26, 2015
greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?


[size=20pt]........she's using you as handbag! grin[/size]
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by odukoko(m): 6:08am On Oct 26, 2015
Ok
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by odukoko(m): 6:08am On Oct 26, 2015
So simply,get a HITMAN for the lover! Woa laa,no more problem,capish?!
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by petson08(m): 6:09am On Oct 26, 2015
bros just let it go. God will bless u with some one dat will love u back OK!
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by don4real18(m): 6:09am On Oct 26, 2015
Guy, don't let people advice you wrongly..... You better face your book tongue

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nuhusky: 6:10am On Oct 26, 2015
Why do you boarder ur self someone can neve marry someone's wife
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by galadima77(m): 6:11am On Oct 26, 2015
stupidity:

OP follow this guy advice abeg. He nailed it.

Hahahahahahahaha na ur own come bad pass d guy own
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by galadima77(m): 6:14am On Oct 26, 2015
petson08:
bros just let it go. God will bless u with some one dat will love u back OK!

No oo, dont let it go u hear! Continue disgracing the male folks as if u aint got any ego left.

You know how many fine girls God made available and u chose to limit ur choice to just that one who really doesnt want u?

Abeg man up joh!!!

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Fourwinds: 6:15am On Oct 26, 2015
dis OP never know anything.. girl dey use u dey play football., u dey there still dey watch d match urself...


it is like u want ro be use and dump... OP I dey vex with u because u no dey see at all

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by galadima77(m): 6:16am On Oct 26, 2015
smudge2079:
Kill the boyfriend.

Exactly!!!
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by pimpinlala(m): 6:20am On Oct 26, 2015
Kill her boyfriend grin

Mothafuckah
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 6:29am On Oct 26, 2015
emperorchedda:
Dude get a hold of yourself and leave that girl with your dignity intact.

Stop being friends, stop the unnecessary calls and make it as platonic as ever. Get yourself another girl better than she is and watch her green in envy
This guy you go sabi scatter girl's heart oooo
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by melesky8820(m): 6:30am On Oct 26, 2015
greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?
... keep pressing my bro... one day u will hit oil.

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by iampatra(f): 6:32am On Oct 26, 2015
PunkyVeer:


Wrong advice. He'll still be 2nd option even if the BF died or moved to mars. Who wants to be 2nd option?
. ...... . Nobody
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 6:33am On Oct 26, 2015
iampatra:
. ...... . Nobody

Girl, exactly!
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by kosiebe(m): 6:36am On Oct 26, 2015
IamLEGEND1:
U no get balls ni?

don't you have any pride of ur own?

SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND!!

WHOM SHE LOVES!!!!

what do you want us to do for you,give you tips on how to ruin her relationship or what?

just stand in front of ur mirror and say this to urself..... " I AM A MAN".

Now better face ur front and stop hounding that girl with ur incessant proposals like a crazed animal
I tire ooo. some people nor dey use their AKANUCHE
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by ceezah: 6:39am On Oct 26, 2015
Omo, you're sitting on a long thing, any girl that will tease you and flirt with you only to turn around and tell you she has a boyfriend, when you finally ask her out is capable of murder. She can unplug a life support machine from you and sit back and watch you die.
Omo, my one and only advice for is to let the bitch go. Don't even pretend that you wanna be friends, if she asks you, tell her if it's just casual friends you looking for, that you have several of them, what you need now is someone to love and cherish, and if she ain't giving it to you, let her enter the back seat with her change.
Bro! There is no time! These bitches ain't loyal.

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by king1989(m): 6:44am On Oct 26, 2015
Graduate and get a life and your phone won't stop ringing from her calls.

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Oladimejjy(m): 6:45am On Oct 26, 2015
Assassinate her boyfriend...

Tank me later...
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by dammytosh: 6:47am On Oct 26, 2015
Leave her for the other man

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by dammytosh: 6:50am On Oct 26, 2015
funlord:
angry


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Very touching.

Thanks fo this advice.

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by DedeNkem: 6:51am On Oct 26, 2015
Are you a fu*cking dumb fu*ck? Leave the girl alone, damnit! She already made it clear to you she has a boyfriend she loves and not willing to f*uck you!

You claimed you were close to her, how come you didn't know she had a boyfriend? Were you so cu*nt-starved that you didn't notice? What the f*uck is wrong with you?

She only took you as a friend and you f*ucking mistook it be "she's flirting with me" sh*it!

She's not single, so move on with your miserable life and go f*uck yourself or something! Stop disturbing her like a f*ucking pervert!

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