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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Orikinla(m): 6:51am On Oct 26, 2015
greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?
. Let me give a very good advice for your own good. She is not yours and she will never be yours, otherwise she would have gone out with you without mentioning her boyfriend. Ask God to give you yours. She has a man she loves and respect her choice and decision. The fact is; if you compel or force the girlfriend of another guy to date or marry you, both of you will later cheat on each other, because your relationship started from her cheating on another man. I have seen this happen many times. We reap what we sow. Time and harvest will never fail even if delayed. A girl cheated on her boyfriend with a guy who claimed to love her as you are claiming now, but he later cheated on her and she was heart broken and almost murdered him for making her lose the man who loved her and wanted the best for her life. What goes around comes around. We always reap what you sow. Once a woman tells me she is already in relationship, I respect her relationship and I don't try to break her relationship. If you really love her as you claim, you will not want her to cheat on her boyfriend with you. The guy may even be a better and greater guy than than you and her future will be more secure with him than you who is thinking more with your loins than your brains. There are always terrible consequences for those who cheat on others and their partners in crime. I have seen horrible and terrible things happen to them in the end. Even losing their lives for betrayal. So, leave her alone. It is evil and wicked to want to lure her away from her man and make her betray him. How would you if the woman you love to marry goes out with another man to betray you? After all the resouces you have invested in your relationship? For me, I will get rid of any devil who leads my woman away to betray me. Stealing is a crime and dangerous. Don't make her betray her man. Betrayal kills.

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 6:57am On Oct 26, 2015
greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?

Date someone else there are so many beautiful girls out there.

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by olaniyanibukun0: 6:58am On Oct 26, 2015
Bruv.... Just follow the rule of life....

CHASE MONEY

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by HirstMOG(m): 6:58am On Oct 26, 2015
Putting yourself in her position, what would you do if you were in love with another girl and she wants you to leave the person you love for her?
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by permanentgrace(m): 7:00am On Oct 26, 2015
greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?


Kill her boyfriend so you can take possession her. Dont let any 'barrier' stand on your 'carrier'.

Na joke o.
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by bilulu(m): 7:04am On Oct 26, 2015
PunkyVeer:


You're not getting the point I'm trying to make here. The boyfriend is still her 1st choice, the one she's choosing over the OP. Even if he were to be promoted & moved to another country, it still won't change that he holds the number one spot in her heart. Anything that happens between her & the OP when the boyfriend is gone, would be simply because the boyfriend is gone, really. Settling for the next best thing. Why would any self respecting person put themselves in a position of being an alternative, when they were rejected when both choices were available?

That's like being in a flight & in the menu it's chicken or beef. Everyone chooses beef & the chicken is left hoping the beef would finish so it could be chosen at last. How pathetic is that?
my dear u re right on dis. no matter wat d op will always b an option he can't b on top. it happened to me not quite long. moreover if she live her bf for dis op she will sure live him for another dude n it won't b long...... from experience tho

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by EmmyDe25(m): 7:09am On Oct 26, 2015
stupidity:

OP follow this guy advice abeg. He nailed it.
Clown grin grin
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by nuraabdudjk2580(m): 7:10am On Oct 26, 2015
tongue[quote author=greenprayer post=39341551]There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do try ur best
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by bayocanny: 7:11am On Oct 26, 2015
DedeNkem:
Are you a fu*cking dumb fu*ck? Leave the girl alone, damnit! She already made it clear to you she has a boyfriend she loves and not willing to f*uck you!

You claimed you were close to her, how come you didn't know she has a boyfriend? Were you so cu*nt-starved that you didn't notice? What the f*uck is wrong with you?

She only took you as a friend and you f*ucking mistook it be "she's flirting with me" sh*it!

She not single, so move on with your miserable life and go f*uck yourself or something! Stop disturbing her like a f*ucking pervert!
My nigga dey vex
@Op u def wan chop someone else kpekus na wa for u o, in the first place why would u be friend zoning a female?
U fall my hand
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Okies27(m): 7:13am On Oct 26, 2015
greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?
. Youngman, move on and love another. Our hearts ain't created to love one person,that's the beauty.

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by instinct57vm(m): 7:15am On Oct 26, 2015
gamaliel121:
Love my assss...keep on trying. If she leaves him for you, then she'll leave you for another real nigga too...
Open ya eyes nigga...
Look for your own and leave another niggas girl for him....


nice1, most sensible response i'v read on this thread...mixture of reality and sincere opinion....alot other ppl jus pass comments with there brain inside dere pockets perhaps...
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by BrainnewsNg(f): 7:18am On Oct 26, 2015
greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?

Continue with the friendship

As the story goes, dating may not work out between you and her
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Ogojohn(m): 7:18am On Oct 26, 2015
You can only hurt yourself. Get a job and get your mind concentrated on something else. Many other good girls are elsewhere. She only enjoys your company and not a romantic involvement. Do not hurt yourself. Good luck.

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Bamz(m): 7:19am On Oct 26, 2015
Ser Greenprayer Friendzone

“Every man should lose a battle in his youth, so he does not lose a war when he is old.”
(A feast for Crows)

Who else misses G.O.T? sad
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by tonychristopher: 7:19am On Oct 26, 2015
greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?

It's simple ...go and make money ...she will come back begging

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by BrainnewsNg(f): 7:20am On Oct 26, 2015
pet4ril:
Leave her alone for now since she's so much in love with her boyfriend ....., and it's possible she just liked you to be part of her life as a friend and nothing more. ...your love for her might not be real but infatuation, so just continue the friendship. God bless you

Op copy this

Thanks for this madam Pet4ril
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by emmylight4u: 7:21am On Oct 26, 2015
Guy there is nothing like love.... It's only a thing of interest. She has found better interest in another guy.... Start looking for another interest

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by instinct57vm(m): 7:22am On Oct 26, 2015
DiegoNakel:

Bro am feeling you!!! You just said it all


Y in d first place wud u continue to disturb a babe that had repeatedly told u she has a bf, wen nobe say dem don fight...put urslf in d bf shoes na, u knw wetin d guy don pass tru jus 2 make it workout wit d babe, and u wan con do smartguy...baba, yrs ago, I almost got lynched disturbin babe who has a bf....DONT TRY IT WITH SUM BOYS N u need to outgrow ds fast n lern hw to free babes who repeatedly says dey got guy...
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by fastestfinger: 7:23am On Oct 26, 2015
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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by exfoc100: 7:26am On Oct 26, 2015
greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by jeff1607(m): 7:26am On Oct 26, 2015
FRIEND ZONE ALERT!!!alert











OP,sleep with the girl like twice,then tell us how you feel about her.


Even if she later chooses you and she faults, you would always remind her on how she treated you as 2nd option.But stil if she leaves her man for you what will make make not to leave you for another brother(most ladies don't think,they just do)*food4tot*#nuff said

meanwhile goget some cajones

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by instinct57vm(m): 7:28am On Oct 26, 2015
y shud u love a gal Dts in love with another man in the first place
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by lifenajeje(m): 7:30am On Oct 26, 2015
Been friends a times is the best...my best friend is a female at a time we decided go date believe me we started seeing some faults and quarreled a lot...it only lasted two weeks today we still are best of friends
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by castel428: 7:34am On Oct 26, 2015
man I knw hw frustrating dat could be cz av bn there once.but my perseverance later paid off sha,I kept being friends with her even came in wen she had issues with her bf.she is dz kind one in a kind faithful lover who bluntly told me DAT she can't double date,she meant it and I respected her for that but unfortunately/fortunately I don't give up easily wen I see a treasure cz dats wat she is.to cut d story shot;I cashed in wen her distant relationship had a crack cz of lack of attention from d guy,I took d opportunity being closer to her but deliberately avoided raising d issue abt her dating me.nevertheless am a social guy,I hang out with scores of babes casually but none of has ever won my heart as dis babe.wen i was almost given up she showed up to my room a week after our degree exams,hugged me for the 1st time with tears in her eyes and said those words that has entirely changed my world:"it's u I want".
cldnt believe it.so guy with women;never say never.
gudluck

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by 1boyl1kevhis(m): 7:35am On Oct 26, 2015
While I might advise the OP to make a personal confrontation disclaiming his love and stating he wants things back to normal.
I'm also sure of the fact that things can never be back to normal after a futile attempt to convert a bestfriend into a girlfriend (been there,done that).
See. here's the deal. get your mind off her however fast you can,find some distraction, not in some way to sever whatever relationship you have left with the babe, if it's convenient, get to know the BoyF. interact with him develop a bond so strong you'd have to get a guilty conscience whenever you feel anything for the girl again.
After this? face your dreams! you could find another cool girl for yourself (but,don't make the grave mistake of totally replacing the former girl's slot;Plans and etc as stated.)
See. Ladies tend to relish the idea of making boys their failsafe plans, unfortunately you've been made one.
She'll get jealous and begin to question her conscience on how she vehemently denied you,she'll be back bro. but shall you be ready to be a man?

and oh! if you're theistic, consult The God you serve for* directives.

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Atlantian: 7:36am On Oct 26, 2015
Students, that cant feed each other, are already talking about love and marriage as if they know the meaning of the words. Steer clear of love, it can make you cry like a little baby. Steer clear of the thoughts of marriage, it can make you think its sexy.

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Segunjosegs(m): 7:39am On Oct 26, 2015
IamLEGEND1:
U no get balls ni?

don't you have any pride of ur own?

SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND!!

WHOM SHE LOVES!!!!

what do you want us to do for you,give you tips on how to ruin her relationship or what?

just stand in front of ur mirror and say this to urself..... " I AM A MAN".

Now better face ur front and stop hounding that girl with ur incessant proposals like a crazed animal
lol theirs a thing line b
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Rollyluv: 7:40am On Oct 26, 2015
So u want mk she leave her bf com date u?, guy u ar heartless. There ar a thosand gal out dere on campus, find anorda n continue ur frndshp wt her. If ur gal leave u go date her frnd shay u go dey hpy?.
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by 4C2215131: 7:43am On Oct 26, 2015
The worst thing that can happen to someone in a relationship setting is what is happening to you. Let her go, she can never love you. Even if she breaks up with her man, she won't come to you as a prospect. Every time she sees you, she sees a friend. And even if you get her, know this; it was just convenient for her-marrying someone she knows loves her to the death that way she's insured for life! But love you? Nah- fond of you she may be. That's all.

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 7:45am On Oct 26, 2015
That moment When she sees you like her brother o a lamp<Friendzoning grin>

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by chidiandre(m): 7:46am On Oct 26, 2015
see this slowpoke o....she has a boyfriend!!!!!!...remember karma is real

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