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Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by Preetybuoy(m): 4:54pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
@op please note that i really didnt mean my above advise oo! dnt take it seriously i was just still pissed abt that previous topic, also note that i have no good advise for u on this matter as i dnt have a years long old relationship as i am currently focusing on actualizing my own dreams |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by lovely17(m): 4:57pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
Only if Adam had not slept this wouldn't have happened |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by biotechshola(m): 5:00pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
fayose4real: i ddnt av problem wt ur post until u used 'very very very decent' for a gal u had sex wt on daily basis. U might want to say she is a good gal based on attitude and character. She stopped being decent d day she agreed to open her legs for a man she's not married to. I refused to coment earlier because i realised u both av wasted important tym of ur lyf dwelling in a relationship bond by infatuation. Jst imagine dating a gal for 4 yrs plus sex, based on research, its neva gonna lead to marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by lafakale(m): 5:04pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
Bros, I know you have recieved enough advices from this forum. When you look at the pattern of each comment, you know when an experienced family man/woman is talking. My 5cent: If that girl go away from you, you'll keep on lamenting over your losing her not only in this life but also in eternity. |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by fayose4real(m): 5:05pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
Originalsly:i made mention of it in d write up that i got employed to Nigeria Immigration and during that peroid i made it knwn to her then that we would be getting married as soon as posible since av gotten a good & reliable job to cater for my family, but story changed when we were dispersed after 3 months of training, & after 3 months in which we were dispersed making 6 months altogether, i think is better i try to figure out what next to do |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by meemeetruth(f): 5:13pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
RexTramadol1: 1 Like |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by emmcrown(m): 5:13pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
Don't drop her yet, just Pray that God reveal to you her hidden agenda. Because she might have gotten another person. Just keep calm and be focused on your future. She go run come back by the time God answers ur prayer. |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by Welcomme: 5:15pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
Love Machine:Why are u confusing urself? U can at d same time will never....which one u dey? |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by Edusouls(m): 5:16pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
misspicy:look at way you reason, with ur small fish brain, he should just dump her like that after years of relationship and painstaking hardwork together., and by the way u are u married? And why should you inpatient and very bad behaved girls of nowadays be so obssessed and crazy about getting married, when the wife material is zero in you girls...you disaster girls just want to get married and ruin a man's life? |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by eniwaye2: 5:18pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
go outside to hv sex wit oda person nd dnt disturb her again. she is d one to beg u lata. and abt ur study my man beta go to school nd 4get abt marriage. is nt a crime if she marry at 30yrs, jst for u to hv a. vission. best of luck |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by autaspakladi: 5:19pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
Chai!...370k on a lady...nonono I can't do that it is silly.. |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by meemeetruth(f): 5:19pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
sonofananimal:ladies dis is wot we get wen we rely totally on a man,a man turn ode because him spend for him babe dude swear say u no dey happy if ur sis bf dey take care of her (thou u c it as spendin moni lyk santa) |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by Originalsly: 5:20pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
fayose4real:My bad!...but still... circumstances changed...why not change plans and just offer to do a registry only marriage for now?....she should happily agree..after all..she would be officially married. If she tries to shoot down that idea then ehmmm.....I would want to believe the same thing you are thinking but did not say! In that case you really have to figure out what next to do. |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by Nobody: 5:24pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
IamLEGEND1: ENDTIME lie who told you she is Edo? Arrange b4 I send ur name to DEATH my brother |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
fayose4real:ENDTIME bewitching, she just bewitched you take care |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by Nobody: 5:27pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
meemeetruth:I spend for my sister ALOT and do encourage her to stand on her own fit and never depend on any guy for her up keeping. the kind of man I am! I will not be happy seeing some guys spending ALOT of money on her when I know he is not ready to married her you self! won't you use your sense to know that he is spending to gain something (probably sex) jezzz! you WOMEN really don't think at all! |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by dokunbam(m): 5:28pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
When I read stories like this, I just laugh. Am quiet but dont do or take shiiiit. Emi Omo Ekun. WHAT! I will always tell you the truth, not shying always because of LOVE, (I dont want her to get angry) if you like stay or you leave Guy wise up oo |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by Ladybluecash(f): 5:28pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
fayose4real:guys lik you are rare dear boy,,,, if u love her i bliv u can talk her into ds,,, ur future matters alot too dear boy |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by Nobody: 5:31pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
Welcomme:Both. |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by IamLEGEND1: 5:39pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
ENDTIMEgist:na the only valid explanation for the kyn behavior the OP dey display. na end time relationship. |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by Ucheosefoh(m): 5:40pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
roymary:What make her an ingrate is that op is helping her to further her education while she is against his. I wonder why she will get angry that op want to further his education because of silly marriage issue, damn anybody who don't want my advancement I kick him or her out |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by Nobody: 5:41pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
Madness will never end on NL.... Walks out of thread and heads into my PJ...
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Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by swaggprofessor(m): 5:42pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
fayose4real:Guy i will leave the honor to u to use ur own mouth take call urself mumu. I rest my case.... |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by swaggprofessor(m): 5:44pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
Ladybluecash:Y u no go praise am wey na e type una dey press button untop e head.... |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by IGBOPRINCE: 5:45pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
Op you f up big time, how can you spend such amount of money(270k) meant for ego ala(money for land) to invests on a viewing business centre for a woman not yet to be your wifey Anyway, I trust my igbo brothers, they know where to invests their money, but definitely not for a lady not yet to be our wives. You f up big time by calling her decent, no decent lady will cohabit with a guy in the same roof. No.(Tufiakwa) So after, you ve finished fvcking her,another man from nowhere will picked her as house wife abi? Ok she s decent. just because she refused your sex advanced, you opened thread to seek our advised abi. But the day you dey bounce like press up, you know remember to tell us as e dey go bro? FYI,Anytime, a girl refused your sex advanced, give her time, study her well, she will later accept it good mood. Some girls always felt we do take them for sex objects Atimes, hence her mood, And sometime, girls do feels they should starved us of sex for a while, so that when we start riding on them again,our, our bodies,our minds,our souls, our brains and heavenly feelings will focus on our satisfaction. Hence the release of our time bomb. Yeye dey hang 1 Like |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by busyfishing(m): 5:46pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
fayose4real:u know it all.then why come here...u have been played.and u will continue to be since u won't heed to advice. Don't come playing cry Baby when she finally dumps you.cos she will |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by Ladybluecash(f): 5:48pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
swaggprofessor:one tin u neva knew is dat gud pple wil alwz b gud cum wat may,,, even if he leaves d babe for anada he wil stil b gud nt lik u,, big head |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by charlemon: 5:49pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
People are too stupid nowadays. If you are living with her why can't you marry her. Marriage does not have to consist of all those unnecessary spending people do in recent times. Just see her parents, go to the court and marry quietly and continue living together. Since you don't have money yet, you should not have kids yet. The situation still remains the same as before (living together till financial breakthrough). The only difference is that the sex is now right in the ways of GOD and she won't resist or refuse you. When you people make money, you can have a celebration of renewing your commitment in form of a marriage. This is too F**king simple except you don't wanna marry her |
Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by kandiikane(m): 5:49pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
If she wants to get married and you are ready too, go have a court wedding. You guys already live together, doing everything else, aren't you? You can still continue on your studies, work and she too can. You can hold on with the kids until you are both financially stable and if you want to celebrate your marriage, you can do so when the money starts flowing. It is not as hard as you want to make it out. I don't see the big deal. She wants marriage take her to court and have her on birth control for the next 4 or 5 years. If she doesn't want that, you go your way, she goes her way. |
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