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Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by Nobody: 7:12pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Hey guys, i'm so angry right now i'm tempted to break up with the love of my life. 1) he didn't tell me he was saving to buy a car, he just drove to my compound and was looking at my face, I kept my cool. 2) My so-called boyfriend decided to call me today 3rd January and that's his first this year!! I didn't get any new year wishes. I confronted him, he apologised and all but ladies and gentlemen, the era of Men being non-challant is over. Fine I did wrong years ago,but gone are the days when someone tries to pay back a sin I committed in my youthful restlessness.I have apologised,cried, begged, I became humble by force, I realised my mistake yet he hasn't gotten over the fact that I left him because he didn't have money when actually his possessiveness and lack of trust made me wanna always run out. He can't be pained after 4years,its better I dump him now before he drops another bomb! But to be honest I do love him a lot, a whole lot. I'm angry and confused 12 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by hungryboy(m): 7:17pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Aunty Abeg translate this your story to calabar language, So dat gateman like me ,go fit understand am 524 Likes 31 Shares |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by MeloGist(m): 7:18pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
I cant really comprehend what you wrote above.... let my oga's at the top come *out* 109 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by Nobody: 7:21pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
hungryboy: It's simple. We dated,broke up, started again but he hasn't gotten over the past. Now that he's boxed up,he's paying back or atleast that's what I think he's doing. 28 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by Spikkylee: 7:22pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by evolg(m): 7:22pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
First issue: He bought a car without ur knowledge, it must have skipped his mind. Sorry! Second issue: U dint get a new year msg frm him, probably network issues. Moral of story: Ur nt jst dt important like you think. 623 Likes 33 Shares |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by Creamish(f): 7:22pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Are u guys married? D'u have a joint account? If "NO"..then I see no reason why u should be pissed that he Dint tell u about his savings...esp since u once broke up wit him due to his financial status (or at least datz what he believes). Secondly, he Dint call u on New year's day...did u call him? No. Wat if he had some issues? Ur being selfish IMO... Nwayz... U need to calm d Fk down and think things thru only when calm. If u have nagging doubts, then address it with him. Communication is key in every relationship. Assumptions are relationship killers. 381 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by yomi007k(m): 7:24pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
so wat r waiting for? ......serious question, no pun intended. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by Nobody: 7:26pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
evolg: Is this the best you can offer? 3 Likes |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by shegxi(m): 7:26pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
u guys will continue to deal with dis for d rest of d relationship.........whenever he acts up, u will always think it is because he now has money and punishing u for d past. to also be fair to him, he would always hide d tru state of his finance from u cos somwere in his sub-conscious, he thinks u are onli after his money. the real question will now be to determine whether d relationship is worth d stress and headache? and onli u can ansa dat. but to be honest, i wn't get bck wit a lady who left wen i was broke....... 211 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by Nobody: 7:28pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by Nobody: 7:28pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Creamish: No no no. He bought that car not to surprise but spite me! Why would he have to go all length to prove a point? Meaning he still harbours the pain of the past. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by hungryboy(m): 7:28pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
petkruz:Aunty you are confusing me more oh, Which one be boxed up?, Him be boxer abi wetin? 92 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by evolg(m): 7:28pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
petkruz:Girl, i'm jst bin real with u...not to make u feel bad. So don't feel bad...Ok? 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by Dujardin(m): 7:29pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
My dear you never asked for advice when you dumped the poor dude in the first place...Now you need one when his pocket is relevant abi? My on take on this, you are a gold digger to him now...he rightly sees u as someone who sways where money is. You need to convince him if you are not, and I doubt if there is any way to do that. 209 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by Nobody: 7:30pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Estharfabian: My dear I love u for this. Habaaaaaa 4years beef? Is it worth it? Why behave like a baby? Worst of all he refused to leave me alone. |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by Creamish(f): 7:30pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
petkruz: R u very sure its a spite? If this is the route ur relationship is taking, then u need to have a tĂȘte-a-tĂȘte wit him. 8 Likes |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by falconey(m): 7:30pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
if he told you about his plan to buy a car he won't get to buy it because that's when most girls forward their financial burden on their BFs. 154 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by Nobody: 7:32pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
yomi007k: It's not that easy |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by ronald4lif(m): 7:33pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
What did I just read? He was supposed to inform you before buying himself a car? On what basis if I may ask? He didn't call you to wish you a happy new year until today and what did you do? Decided not to call him as well until he calls unto say ladies style abi 128 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by coolh3ad(m): 7:34pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
petkruz: Lol...PayBack is really a biaatch..You bleeped up in the past when he didn't have anything...He's now boxed up, you know he is and you just want him to forget about what you did to him in the past...If you were in his shoes, would you forget sooo easily?...Like I always tell ladies "you can't eat your cake and have it".. 69 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by Nobody: 7:34pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
OP, No disrespect BUT it is Girls like You that Will "Unintentionally" Lead a man into "Cheating". "The era of men being non-chalant is Over". Yea, But the era of women acting all silly, Nagging over Menial Issues & Expecting men to "Easily" Forgive & Forget Some certain "Sins" is Over too! Women are emotional beings, So are some Men! So you expecting that somehow His heart is made of steel and He won't feel hurt by something you claim you did "Four Years" ago is outrageous! Did you ask yourself how grave your "sin" Was? How It might have affected him? Honestly! Girls like you need to calm the f**k down, Telemundo OR whatever shiit you watch is Entirely different from Reality! You're angry with him For not telling you He was saving to Buy a Car? Common Girl, Don't be Silly! 125 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by Nobody: 7:34pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
falconey: Naaah we keep separate financial lives. |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by Nobody: 7:36pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
coolh3ad: Then he should leave me alone. Why did he come back for a better relationship if he was still pained? |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by Rogerz007(m): 7:37pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
petkruz:It seems you have made up your mind already..You dont need our advice..I guess you never really loved this ya boo!!!! 48 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by Nobody: 7:38pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
RexKex: Dude 4years is enough to forgive someone! Afterall he came back to start allover. If he wasn't ready he should have stayed back! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by Nobody: 7:38pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Rogerz007: I love him alot |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by coolh3ad(m): 7:39pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
ronald4lif: Ladies and their very annoying mind set...Na only man suppose call woman in a relationship.... 43 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by Nobody: 7:39pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
ronald4lif: Since he decided to be proud I had to play along I didn't call simple |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by falconey(m): 7:41pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by Nobody: 7:41pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Dujardin: Sorry this comment is irrelevant because i'm very much boxed up too, i'm not a cheap lady looking for money. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is This Enough Reason To Breakup With My Boo? by firstking01(m): 7:42pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Hmmm...the both of you need jesus 36 Likes |
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