you and your supporters are fools. the love of money and gold digging is the root to all broken hearts. I always tell ladies, don't despise a man for being a broke ass, nobody knows tomorrow, now is the pay back time, so, deal with it

if he bought a car without telling you and didn't wish or sent new year message or wishes to you then, you are not important as you think.

just take your leave and go away

Yeah....... If you love him fight to keep him.If you don't, let him go. Now you said you are angry, anger becloud your sense of reasoning.

petkruz:


I love him alot

You really? Is that enough? Like someone said earlier, you made up your mind about the kind of advice you expect. He doesn't have to tell you about his car; you are not married yet.
If he didn't call you, why didn't you call. Some ladies think they are doing men a big favour by going into a relationship with them. I also think you have not Forgiven yourself about the past. Every move of his is treated with doubt or Avenue to get back at you. Hmmm!

My dear, look well whether you can cope with this relationship before going deeper in it. It's well with you.

To teach you a lesson nonsense. You still have mouth to talk and defend yourself. In fact all your replies tells who you are: worthless. Move away from his life or remain that side chick he will always have to use anyhow he wishes. I don't ever use this word hate but if I use it hmm. I hate your likes

petkruz:


Then he should leave me alone. Why did he come back for a better relationship if he was still pained?

And Op is still thinking love when bro has forged on. He already called the love of his life,perhaps his fiancée at dat new year midnyt,showered her with lovely sms, and you're there still awaiting his new year call. The bomb u're waiting g for would soon be dropped by him. It will continually flash in his mind that you left the other time when he was a broke ass nigga, and now u're showing love because he's in money. U better walk away. The earlier the better for u..

petkruz:


Is this the best you can offer?

He gave u a befitting answer. If there was any justice in the world this trash wouldn't make front page

Wait...this piece can leave even the commenter confused...First you claim you dumped him when he had nothing, yet you say you love him - Na wich kain love be dat!? Second, you are wondering why he is painef after 4 years. Put yourself in his shoes would you accept him back if he dumped you when you appeared valueless? The guy's spiting you already for what you did to him and he obviously hasn't forgotten or maybe forgiven you...so expect more! Thirdly, you say you actually dumped him because he's possessive and now he appears non-challant. Well from the looks of things he's still who he is, so i wonder why you are back? If your so called love did not make you endure his character when he was poorer then why are you enduring now that he's richer and at the same time claiming you are confused...you are confusing even the confused situation you are in and confusing the probably confused commenters...

My advice: leave now, he'll visit your sin soon and you'll be more confused than ever...

petkruz:


I didn't leave him because he was broke. I wanted to be free, he caged me, no friends, no hanging out, he was strict! As a crazy gal I couldn't stand all that hence I left but he thought I left cos he didn't have a job then.

Read your post again. You said you left him because he was broke. Just read the post again

flokii:
petkruz ow many boo you wan get na?

you no dey tire?

petkruz:


This is definately someone that knows me in real life lol

this explains who you are......


the guy has done his investigation and seen that he isn't the only guy
he isn't the only person drilling your borehole
he isn't the only person you're sharing your love for......


so, why should he be serious when he knows he is just on a part-time basis

you still have them boku.... just like you did reply the other person

enjoy his dyke as stock last and your ATTITUDE online speak alot about who you're in real life

petkruz:


No no no. He bought that car not to surprise but spite me! Why would he have to go all length to prove a point? Meaning he still harbours the pain of the past.

Did he tell you that?

What if it was meant to be a surprise and genuinely wants you to be happy for him.

I know a guy who has 3 cars but had a dream car in mind. When he got enough money, he took along his friend to go car window shopping. He bargained on the car he wanted and the friend wondered whether he was crazy. They left, the next day he went back and paid in full for the car without his friend or wife knowing. He showed up at his wife's place of work with his usual driving style, she saw his dream car, saw his driving style and her heart started pounding knowing who her hubby is. He didnt step out of the car but she left he seat heading to the car. Their dream car has arrived at last. Was she angry that he didnt plan witt her? No, never.

If you really do love your guy, you would see the car as our car not a spitefull item.

My own story. I dated a girl, it was about her birthday and she wanted to celebrate. Big sums of money doesnt come to me often but now i had just gotten a good chunk of money say 1m. Now i can afford to buy a car that i so much desired. Unfortunately, my 200k rent is expiring next month and my sister's 200k sch fees was due soon. Once i take out this sums, my car project is no longer feasible. I was confused so i sought for advise from my girl, she told me to drop the car since i drive an office vehicle. My problem with her advise was she wanted her birthday so much she doesnt mind i forfeit the car. After paying my rent and sis sch fees, i will be left with too much money in my account that she will just rub my back anytime she needed money. If i buy the car, i will struggle for months repaying debts for my rent and sis fees and in that case, she wont be seeing any cash from me and her birthday will be reduced to home cooked rice and chicken with no cake. She wanted whats best for her. I broke off with her same week, bought my car, paid my rent and paid my sis fees. Thank God there were no birthdays or clubbing with her friends on my bill.

The moral of my story is, you are watching your back too often that you cant see ahead. That means you sound selfish. Secondly, you are insecure from you own past actions.

If you really see his new car as an attempt to spite you, your rship is heading for the rocks.

the fact that he bought a car without ur knowledge is no reason to break up wif him cus yhu guys aren't really married yet and ur resources are not pooled..and as for him not calling on new years day,yhu cud av taken d initiative to do that..a guy doesn't have to do all the work..

petkruz:
Hey guys, i'm so angry right now i'm tempted to break up with the love of my life.

1) he didn't tell me he was saving to buy a car, he just drove to my compound and was looking at my face, I kept my cool.

2) My so-called boyfriend decided to call me today 3rd January and that's his first this year!! I didn't get any new year wishes. I confronted him, he apologised and all but ladies and gentlemen, the era of Men being non-challant is over.

Fine I did wrong years ago,but gone are the days when someone tries to pay back a sin I committed in my youthful restlessness.I have apologised,cried, begged, I became humble by force, I realised my mistake yet he hasn't gotten over the fact that I left him because he didn't have money when actually his possessiveness and lack of trust made me wanna always run out.

He can't be pained after 4years,its better I dump him now before he drops another bomb! But to be honest I do love him a lot, a whole lot. I'm angry and confused

it's obvious you're telling half-truths aka half-lie what did you do to him....i know you won't tell cuz you will be ashamed to do so....i'm not saying his right and i doubt he is still dwelling on what happened for years ago (something may have happened recently) for him to change...it's not enough reason to break up if you really love him

daretodiffer:


Are you kidding me?

Lesbians hate to see a guy and a girl in a relationship. The girl u quoted is Les

petkruz:
Hey guys, i'm so angry right now i'm tempted to break up with the love of my life.

1) he didn't tell me he was saving to buy a car, he just drove to my compound and was looking at my face, I kept my cool.

2) My so-called boyfriend decided to call me today 3rd January and that's his first this year!! I didn't get any new year wishes. I confronted him, he apologised and all but ladies and gentlemen, the era of Men being non-challant is over.

Fine I did wrong years ago,but gone are the days when someone tries to pay back a sin I committed in my youthful restlessness.I have apologised,cried, begged, I became humble by force, I realised my mistake yet he hasn't gotten over the fact that I left him because he didn't have money when actually his possessiveness and lack of trust made me wanna always run out.

He can't be pained after 4years,its better I dump him now before he drops another bomb! But to be honest I do love him a lot, a whole lot. I'm angry and confused

Please dump him fast!

So he can find a more better and mature woman to marry rather than wasting his time with a small insecure whining girl like you!

petkruz:
Hey guys, i'm so angry right now i'm tempted to break up with the love of my life.

1) he didn't tell me he was saving to buy a car, he just drove to my compound and was looking at my face, I kept my cool.

2) My so-called boyfriend decided to call me today 3rd January and that's his first this year!! I didn't get any new year wishes. I confronted him, he apologised and all but ladies and gentlemen, the era of Men being non-challant is over.

Fine I did wrong years ago,but gone are the days when someone tries to pay back a sin I committed in my youthful restlessness.I have apologised,cried, begged, I became humble by force, I realised my mistake yet he hasn't gotten over the fact that I left him because he didn't have money when actually his possessiveness and lack of trust made me wanna always run out.

He can't be pained after 4years,its better I dump him now before he drops another bomb! But to be honest I do love him a lot, a whole lot. I'm angry and confused

the only problem with your story is that... You complained your bf saved money to buy a car but dint tell you.. Emm... That should not be your problem ma'am.. He can choose to tell you that at his own discretion... Period...

petkruz:


No no no. He bought that car not to surprise but spite me! Why would he have to go all length to prove a point? Meaning he still harbours the pain of the past.

Chai! How old are you?

you got him pained and he got u served. check and balance system

Bae u hv issues,why would he buy a car to spite you...If you wanna leave him pls do already...Dis baes be feeling like they are all that when yall are nothing...it takes forever to get total forgiveness,u gotta earn it bae...

petkruz:


No no no. He bought that car not to surprise but spite me! Why would he have to go all length to prove a point? Meaning he still harbours the pain of the past.

pickabeau1:


The reason why she is angry about the car is because he had no money too spend on her

Petkruz
You guys are into to much of mind games
Move on for your sanity

lol I highly doubt that after all OP is boxed according to her post. but coming to think about it, Can a guy break up with a girl based on the fact that she doesn't spend on him, because it seems relationships in Nigeria is mostly about the guy spending, kinda one sided.

Peace out #thistime4real

petkruz:
Hey guys, i'm so angry right now i'm tempted to break up with the love of my life.

1) he didn't tell me he was saving to buy a car, he just drove to my compound and was looking at my face, I kept my cool.

2) My so-called boyfriend decided to call me today 3rd January and that's his first this year!! I didn't get any new year wishes. I confronted him, he apologised and all but ladies and gentlemen, the era of Men being non-challant is over.

Fine I did wrong years ago,but gone are the days when someone tries to pay back a sin I committed in my youthful restlessness.I have apologised,cried, begged, I became humble by force, I realised my mistake yet he hasn't gotten over the fact that I left him because he didn't have money when actually his possessiveness and lack of trust made me wanna always run out.

He can't be pained after 4years,its better I dump him now before he drops another bomb! But to be honest I do love him a lot, a whole lot. I'm angry and confused

You left him 4 years ago because of no money....sorry. He is silently killing you. Better leave now.
You will never enjoy the relationship.

NB: If i was him, in his shoes, thats the advice ill give to you.


Also he is not your husband, so what he buys with his money doesnt need an approval from you or a prior information.

petkruz:
Hey guys, i'm so angry right now i'm tempted to break up with the love of my life.

1) he didn't tell me he was saving to buy a car, he just drove to my compound and was looking at my face, I kept my cool.

2) My so-called boyfriend decided to call me today 3rd January and that's his first this year!! I didn't get any new year wishes. I confronted him, he apologised and all but ladies and gentlemen, the era of Men being non-challant is over.

Fine I did wrong years ago,but gone are the days when someone tries to pay back a sin I committed in my youthful restlessness.I have apologised,cried, begged, I became humble by force, I realised my mistake yet he hasn't gotten over the fact that I left him because he didn't have money when actually his possessiveness and lack of trust made me wanna always run out.

He can't be pained after 4years,its better I dump him now before he drops another bomb! But to be honest I do love him a lot, a whole lot. I'm angry and confused

What really are you talking about? And who put this drivel on front page? Drunken mods on rampage this new year. Make I just dey observe....

Obviously u two are not in anythn serious. Obviously

Creamish:
Are u guys married?

D'u have a joint account?

If "NO"..then I see no reason why u should be pissed that he Dint tell u about his savings...esp since u once broke up wit him due to his financial status (or at least datz what he believes).

Secondly, he Dint call u on New year's day...did u call him? No. Wat if he had some issues? Ur being selfish IMO...

Nwayz... U need to calm d Fk down and think things thru only when calm. If u have nagging doubts, then address it with him. Communication is key in every relationship. Assumptions are relationship killers.

Babe, ur sense of reasoning no be from here lai-lai!!
Am sending u a pm straight up.
Let's be friends creamish.

femib26:


You really? Is that enough? Like someone said earlier, you made up your mind about the kind of advice you expect. He doesn't have to tell you about his car; you are not married yet.
If he didn't call you, why didn't you call. Some ladies think they are doing men a big favour by going into a relationship with them. I also think you have not Forgiven yourself about the past. Every move of his is treated with doubt or Avenue to get back at you. Hmmm!

My dear, look well whether you can cope with this relationship before going deeper in it. It's well with you.

that's my mentor, bravo sir!

petkruz:


No no no. He bought that car not to surprise but spite me! Why would he have to go all length to prove a point? Meaning he still harbours the pain of the past.

Now that would be an *expensive joke* seriously i think you're being melodramatic maybe @pickabeau is right

@Op. You are just being selfish, you need communication in your relationship.

This is super story (singing)

0ldirtybastard:


What really are you talking about? And who put this drivel on front page? Drunken mods on rampage this new year. Make I just dey observe....

dem drunken mods be smoking weed, this topic is childish and weird

When he was Caring, Romantic, called all the time but broke, you left him.

Now he's not caring, doesn't call, unromantic but rich, you are still sticking around and taking all the bullshit.

Babe, I can see digger and shovel in your hand o


OP, oya tell us the truth, are you angry because he saved up to buy a car instead of spending lavishly on you.

With d tone of ur replies, u've made up ur mind on wat 2 do! U blame hm 4 coming back to woo u. U are ....., waiting for him to call u! For 3 whole days?! And u av d guts 2 claim luv??! Abeg, carry ur crocodile tears go somewhere else!

@op, U dont ever in ur life deserve him! I wish i were him, i would have f*cked u, record it and make it go viral. Gols digger!