The societal views about the life of a lady focuses on her appearance, attitude, mode of dressing, marital and financial status.

Guys often believe that ladies with good financial stability who ride exotic cars, wear expensive clothes and live in comfortable houses find the ways to the top through prostitution and gold digging without considering the fact that some of these ladies work diligently and tiredlessly to find their way to the top

When broke guys spot a rich young lady, a lot of negative things come to their mind which are mentioned and further buttressed.

1. She's a gold digger

I have often heard guys calling ladies using exotic cars all sort of names such as prostitutes, LovePeddler, etc. There is nothing you can say to convince these broke dudes that her source of income is legitimate meanwhile when a lady asks for any financial help from them, they will condemn her to be a gold digger and also spread the false news of how she gets her money.

2. Her father is a scammer or politician

Broke guys believe that the reason behind the financial prowess of a rich young lady is because her father has scammed so many people. By the time they spot such ladies, several thoughts and assessment of how her dad political party shared the looted Dasuki $2.1 billion to her will their discussion of the day.

3. She won't make a good wife

I don't know why some guys quickly jump into conclusion without knowing the inward beauty of a lady. If a broke dude dare attempt to woo her, his friends will make jest of him saying that the lady in question will not subject herself to his authority.

4. She can't marry or date a broke guy

The esteem of some broke guys is so low that once they spot a rich young lady, they will think she can never date let alone marry them. This notion is very wrong because I have seen cases where some rich ladies marry a broke guy and they are doing fantastic well in marriage. I know some guys will say it can't happen in Nigeria, but it does.Tosyne2much is not so rich yet Oliviaarims likes him

5. She's a promiscuous lady

A rich young lady especially if she is very pretty is believed to be promiscuous because a lot of suitors are attracted to her, hence, using that opportunity to get money from them. Not all beautiful and rich ladies are like that. I can bet my life on some of our beautiful nairaland babes are chaste ladies.

6. She can't be a good cook

I shake my head when guys ridicule rich young ladies that they cannot prepare common eba let alone soup. Often times they say their parents employ cooks or chefs to do the cooking which automatically see them as a bad Cook. Lalasticlala, ronald4lif and naijaboiy can bear me witness that the day Kachisbarbie prepared a mesmerising meal for us when we visited her, that was the day we realised that two kings can actually rule in a palace.

7. She will be an Arrogant lady

There is nothing a rich young lady can do to please some broke guys. This is because most rich ladies are stereotyped "arrogant" and "rude".

8. She will be in control of my life

Not all rich ladies who are richer than their spouses control their lives. Regardless of the good financial stability of some ladies, they still subject themselves to the control of their boyfriends.

I concur, except for no.6

Is that so

Reminds me of the movie

Act like a lady, think like a man

All true Wristbangle.

Nice points.

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I don't understand your own definition of being broke.

9. how to get her ;many guys will like to get her for themself so the can share in her already established affluence. thats why some of them turn errand boys for those kinda of ladies! Its a shame because the are too lazy to work expecting a lady to provide for them!

N/B:the last time a lady provided for a man in eden, the end result was not good so don't give them another chance

And why will a broke guy want to date a lady with class?

What prevented him from making money?fact is,even if he managed to summon courage and talk to her,the lady will only use him as a pawn except he is really endowed in some other areas.

Let the deaf walk with the deaf.

they automatically tag her single, despite the fact that her marriage ring is on her finger

Idydarling:
they automatically tag her single, despite the fact that her marriage ring is on her finger

A valid point dear. Some guys will always see that ring on her finger as "figurehead"

Twaci:
All true Wristbangle.
Nice points.

you will date a broke guy because brokeness is temprorary?

Twaci:
All true Wristbangle.

Nice points.

Thanks dear

Specialbaby:
And why will a broke guy want to date a lady with class?

What prevented him from making money?fact is,even if he managed to summon courage and talk to her,the lady will only use him as a pawn except he is really endowed in some other areas.

Let the deaf walk with the deaf.

Even when he makes money, he won't dare approach let alone date a broke lady.

So, how do u expect them to feel oh?

4 and 7 have been proven to be true over time, even here on NL.

Specialbaby:
you will date a broke guy because brokeness is temprorary?

Dating a broke guy is not a problem because i am not in the relationship to be a liability but to build himself and i towards the betterment of our future.

What i look out for rather is how matured he is and what positive impacts he can make in my life

Rexhenrex:
9. how to get her ;many guys will like to get her for themself so the can share in her already established affluence. thats why some of them turn errand boys for those kinda of ladies! Its a shame because the are too lazy to work expecting a lady to provide for them!

N/B:the last time a lady provided for a man in eden, the end result was not good so don't give them another chance

Hahahaha. It's a pity that when men allow women to make important decision, a lot of things goes wrong. That's the case of Adam and Eve na

And some broke bitchess wont stare off rich dudes

Specialbaby:
And why will a broke guy want to date a lady with class?

What prevented him from making money?fact is,even if he managed to summon courage and talk to her,the lady will only use him as a pawn except he is really endowed in some other areas.

Let the deaf walk with the deaf.

in wch areas? Abeg elaborate *sips vodka*

Oh, i remember when i was so Broke.., Thank God i'm getting better

Idydarling:
they automatically tag her single, despite the fact that her marriage ring is on her finger

@ ur pic, looks as if u rubbed CUM on ur face

Caringguy:
Oh, i remember when i was so Broke.., Thank God i'm getting better

so now u don hammer abi? Thank God

Hehehe, OP, broke niggas don't have a choice. I know a guy who loves girls and cannot even buy drinks or something for these chicks.

Shame on him!

[quote author=Twaci post=42008674] Dating a broke guy is not a problem because i am not in the relationship to be a liability but to build himself and i towards the betterment of our future.

What i look out for rather is how matured he is and what positive impacts he can make in my life [nice point.

It's just bad orientation, nothing more.

quiinnBee:
nice point

Thanks dear

kirchofff:
@ ur pic, looks as if u rubbed CUM on ur face

how did you know?
u be winch