byvan03:



Exactly, that's why I really doubt the intelligence of men that fall for " women always forgive blah blah ". They clap back and face front, marriage continues.

bukatyne:


Which one be clapping again?

bukatyne:


Which one be clapping again?

ronald4lif:
I don't think I can forgive a cheating wife. Mbanu.

But I'm hoping to be forgiven if erred. Too many ravishing and alluring women out there to be moored by one.

Onwe kwa ka odi na nwoke ka ne eri nani ofe egusi till onwuo. Ari ka ta egusi erienu ofe ogbono, o nwe di nu ka ana eme. Didn't say anything sha, just passing.

daretodiffer:

Eeeeeeeeeehhbhhh

But you want to be forgiven

ronald4lif:


I said I was just passing by. Please allow me pass peacefully.

ronald4lif:


I said I was just passing by. Please allow me pass peacefully.

Truckpusher:

daretodiffer:

ronald4lif:


You see, I don't usually like to involve in threads that has to do with cheating, whether male or female coz it's one issue that I personally don't know how to address.

I've think, think hard and battle with my conscience about this cheating of a thing especially in regards to men but to know avail.

I'm vincible to cheating and I don't know what it will take to correct this queer behaviour. I can't say I'm inclined to cheat coz of my gender, no, that would amount to making silly excuses, but rather coz of my distinct character as a person. And I admit is an aberrant attitude and take responsibility.

I mean we all have weakness, everyone does, and an inability to control my urges is one of mine. But that doesn't mean I'm a dog who ravage every meat at his disposal. Biko, don't ask why I can't forgive wifey if she does same. Ende.

Truckpusher:

fellis:
I really hope my spouse doesn't cheat on me because hmmm, the way I take revenge so serious I doubt we will ever be able to coexist peacefully after I am done with my extremely vindictive payback. He would hate me too much.
I really hope he doesn't cheat sha.
Or if he cheats that he hides it from me very well so that I never find out.

McSquishi:
I was saying the singular act the op's topic discussed is cheating. Thus suggesting that I am judging based on one character trait is sorta silly as only one "character flaw" is the topic of discussion.

The truth of the matter is that cheating is just a sign of ones bad character.

Earlier I commented that I was taught lying & cheating are morally wrong and u replied "who wasn't"... So, now I'm confused at your attempt to justify cheating and hesitation to label it "bad".

Entering into a monogamous relationship is a voluntary act. It's a promise to your partner that you'll be faithful. Breaking that promise is a character flaw, it shows bad character.

If you don't agree with that, that's fine. Going back and forth is pointless though.

EfemenaXY:




How vindictive can your payback be?

ronald4lif:


You see, I don't usually like to involve in threads that has to do with cheating, whether male or female coz it's one issue that I personally don't know how to address.

I've think, think hard and battle with my conscience about this cheating of a thing especially in regards to men but to know avail.

I'm vincible to cheating and I don't know what it will take to correct this queer behaviour. I can't say I'm inclined to cheat coz of my gender, no, that would amount to making silly excuses, but rather coz of my distinct character as a person. And I admit is an aberrant attitude and take responsibility.

I mean we all have weakness, everyone does, and an inability to control my urges is one of mine. But that doesn't mean I'm a dog who ravage every meat at his disposal. Biko, don't ask why I can't forgive wifey if she does same. Ende.

cococandy:
Story story.
Most women forgive ke
And most men don't forgive.

More stories.

ronald4lif:
I don't think I can forgive a cheating wife. Mbanu.

But I'm hoping to be forgiven if erred. Too many ravishing and alluring women out there to be moored by one.

Onwe kwa ka odi na nwoke ka ne eri nani ofe egusi till onwuo. Ari ka ta egusi erienu ofe ogbono, o nwe di nu ka ana eme. Didn't say anything sha, just passing.

Mindfulness:


I wouldn't call it queer behavior.

Maybe you should stay true to yourself and re-consider whether a monogamous relationship is your preference instead of beating up on yourself to fit into societal conventions, which do not do yourself and they way you are any justice.

We have been brainwashed into believing that we can only love and desire one person and we should be doing so for the rest of our lives when in fact our natural inclination is a different one.

Mindfulness:


Good morning

Mindfulness:


I wouldn't call it queer behavior.

Maybe you should stay true to yourself and re-consider whether a monogamous relationship is your preference instead of beating up on yourself to fit into societal conventions, which do not do yourself and they way you are any justice.

We have been brainwashed into believing that we can only love and desire one person and we should be doing so for the rest of our lives when in fact our natural inclination is a different one.

mostyg:


If I were to summarize your assertion to the best of my understanding, you are implying polygamy.

Please do correct me if I am wrong.

EfemenaXY:


Morning dear. Happy Sunday!

EfemenaXY:




Mindfulness!!

mostyg:
Why would someone.cheat in the first instance? Neither a man nor a woman should cheat in a relationship and if such happened, the choice of forgiveness lies on the party cheated.

Is there any woman that would be proud to come out and say " I cheated on my husband but he has forgiven me"

If a man could not make issue out of a cheating wife, he simply doesn't love the wife.

EnlightenedSoul:
The bitter truth. I cosign "Mindfulness" on this thread.

DeMekus:
It's nature. As singles, women cheat more but are less likely to cheat than men in marriage.
A cheating married man would not be praised but the society would not totally condemn him either.
But a cheating married woman would not only be condemned but rejected by fellow women. It's God's doing and we can't question Him.

StefanSalvatore:
Bcuz we've paid their dowries, they belong 2 us n 2 us alone