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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by seunajia: 9:29pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
I can't but laugh. Idiota, you had sex without protection!!! 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by ascendo(m): 9:32pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
You said it all... thats the best thing to do! Talk to your mum first...she will help you with a sloution Decker: |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Healthymee: 9:33pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Oyind17:Debs, don't be scared! I know you have made a mistake, but now we need to find a way forward. You must understand that you have sinned against God, repent and get right with your creator. You need to tell your parents and be ready to face the consequences, because they will be hurt by your actions. Put yourself in their shoes as a parent you wouldn't want that done to you. Ask for their forgiveness! Be ready to face the society, which simply means ignore them, we are to learn from our mistakes and let them guide us. Stay away from pre-marital sex no matter how much you love the guy. Women love with their hearts and soul, men just want to get into your honeycomb. A man that truely loves you won't put you in a family way and then tell you yo abort it. I know of a woman in her forties who aborted when she was young and got married and had no fruit for years. So don't do it! After having your baby, go back to school and become what you want to be. If you have the contact of your boyfriend's parents, contact them and tell them what has happened! But you must stay clear from your boyfriend so he won't poison you with abortion pills. Surround your friends and people who will encourage you and not mock you! Genevieve Nnaji is an example! She beat the odds! Make up your mind that I will come through, but don't go back to premarital sex. You must also be prepared to raise your child in God fearing way! 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by myners007: 9:33pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Strahovski1:dont insult cos u are no better. I know for sure that u ve been involved in abortion in one way or the other. Dont throw stone while living in a house made of Glass 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Generalkorex(m): 9:34pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
tpiar:straffing plenty 4 last yr na 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by nameo: 9:38pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
debbysmyles: Woo!! When did you know this boyfriend of yours? And how long have you guys been in a relationship? Did you know him very well before you guys started dating? |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 9:38pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
I pray that the guy should lose his *thing and then later beg to help parent the kid. He's already cursed himself for suggesting an abortion. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by seaga: 9:38pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Its unfortunate,whatever the outcome.I do not believe in abortion, even religion forbids it.But to be a single mother has its consequence too, stigmatization from suitors and could prevent a lady from ever getting married.I guess it's a price to pay for the carelessness.Good luck 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by raziboi(m): 9:42pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
debbysmyles: chai it has happen..... .know one thing people are not the same .....tell ur mother....cus for now she's ur helper ..... tell de guy ur giving birth to dat child say NO TO ABORTION |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 9:46pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Cc Debbysmyles, I can relate with wat u r going through nw, I can assure you its not d end of d world, u hv to be strong and brace up for wat is ahead, d present phase u are is nothing to compare with wat lies ahead. God keep you and your baby safe, pick wateva is left of you, your womanhood, integrity and balance and embrace motherhood with all joy, am sure you'll b anticipating ur baby's first smile, and d day he/she wl call u mum. stay blessed. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 9:47pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by bongolistik(m): 9:50pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
This is a kind of situation I will never want to find myself in this world. For me, I know that my mum will stigmatise me throughout her lifetime and that's the kind of mum that I have. Abortion has its consequences no doubt, but this is about your life and your happiness. Keeping the baby can turn you a baby mama for life cos most Nigerian men don't like getting down with baby mama's unless you become superstar along the line. I use myself for example, I will not ordinary want to get married to a lady with another man's child, and I know many Nigerian men fall within this category, and this is fact. If your mum is like mine, you won't even want her to hear about it not to talk of telling her. Some that are suggesting you tell your mum on their part have very understanding and supporting mum and they can easily share these type of condition with their mum without any issue, but even at that as I said, it's still about your happiness. Many single mum in Nigeria passes through much difficulties, ranging from becoming single for life to all sort of stigmatisation and stress of raising the kid alone financially and mentally etc. It is obvious that you and your guy are not ready both mentally and financially to have babies and he has made his position already known, and you should do yours too as fast as possible so that anything that could be done will still be done without complications Good luck and I hope you have truly learnt your lesson if you finally get out of this 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by seaga: 9:56pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Speechless3: She doesn't sound sober, but then my dear someone reading this somewhere has this same issue. It happens all the time. So let those with genuine situation read and learn 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 9:57pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Funminicrown:Hahaha. And you've got lots of that and still seek for advice in your life? What a drama! 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Analysiscorner: 9:57pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Dudeweedlmao:If her family doesn't want the baby she can bear the child for some childless couple, and be treated as a princess in the process. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by stonecoldcafe: 9:58pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
debbysmyles: Pele, others have done it and so can you. Ireti Doyle (who got married sef and remains hapilly married till date) Genevieve Nnaji Waje Sophie Momodu Wizzy's baby mama Ice prince baby mama Olamide's baby mama Da Prince's baby mama D'banj's younger's brother baby mama May'd baby mama And the unknown millions out there. Good luck |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 9:59pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
seaga:Yea you have a point sha. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 10:02pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Dudeweedlmao:Don't mind crazy people. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by winner01(m): 10:06pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Ishilove:Oshey ![]() |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Analysiscorner: 10:08pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Dirkcoyt:When many childless marriages are begging to adopt the baby and treat the mum as a princess and the baby as a prince. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by seaga: 10:14pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Speechless3: To the genuine ones, what would you suggest? |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by evy1(m): 10:16pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
bigerboy200:Oh please let us call a spade a spade,when she was indulging herself in the act she never knew the consequences. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Biggestboy1(m): 10:17pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
debbysmyles:U just have to start thinking on how to deliver the baby. Mama Bomboy. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 10:19pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Healthymee:Nice one |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 10:24pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 10:26pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
seaga:I am pro life so i'll suggest keeping the child no matter what, and if you can, change your area of location to avoid embarrasment. After giving birth, give the child out to a more mature relative or take him/her to an orphanage home. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 10:30pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Biggestboy1:Hahaha. When she was doing it, she didn't know the mom won't accept it? ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by evy1(m): 10:32pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 10:32pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Speechless3:That tactics doesn't work anymore. An intelligent man who wants to marry you would surely know and then withdraw. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by seaga: 10:37pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Speechless3: Yes seems morally right,I personally don't subscribe to abortion. But then do you know how many ladies that ve done this and still kept their faces and still went on to live a normal life without baby mama stigma.I ve a lady at my office she's getting really old now, everyone she dates dump her immediately they know she has a child,really feel sorry for her, she really prays to be married but.... 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Yemi352(m): 10:40pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
you girls atimes shitting me you got pregnant for the wrong guy and now you're confuse you girls are really sick why because when the real guy toast you'll ignore them but when the fake come you think they are the right and now you crying for help of advice well my don't abort that baby if you do you commited suicide and you know the quencequencies maybe by aborting that baby it maybe the only child you ll get wise up babe never a dull day use your head and think |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 10:43pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
evy1:Lol. Lots of pretender on here. The best she can do now is abortion. After all, some women here on who comment, had done abortion and still get married to their dream men. 2 Likes |
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