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My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Bbsharon(f): 1:00am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Hello everyone. I was gisting with my boyfriend last week and we talked about what if someone approach me for marriage because we are age mate and he told me he has "PLAN B" if I leave him. I was heartbroken and when he realised that he tried explaining that he is just trying to be on the safer side but when I told an older friend of mine about it she told me he (my bf) might be dating the other lady already but he loves me more. I became more confused and do not want to approach my boyfriend on the matter again because I do not want anything that will cause misunderstanding between us. So I want to know other people's thoughts on this and if you happen to have been in such situation before please share how you handled it. Mature contributions please.. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by odimbannamdi(m): 1:02am On Mar 11, 2016 |
According to experience, Plan A is the Action plan or most preferred choice, while Plan B is the Backup plan or less preferred choice. Babe, even after using your tongue to count your teeth, your boo still confirmed it by claiming to want "to be on a safer side". Truth is, there is a huge chance that he has a side chick occasioned by the insecurity he feels that someday you will get married to someone else. Maybe he is being realistic as regards less marriage prospects in the relationship coz the both of you are of the same age. Anyway, you just gotta reassure him of your love for him. 86 Likes
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Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by SUPERPACK: 1:03am On Mar 11, 2016 |
drink two cups of cold water every morning. 39 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Bbsharon(f): 1:09am On Mar 11, 2016 |
SUPERPACK: For ? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by SUPERPACK: 1:11am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Bbsharon:Two months and u will see "Chanji" 72 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Bbsharon(f): 1:12am On Mar 11, 2016 |
odimbannamdi: Thanks, but the plan b girl self is a year younger than him too so I do not think is age issue. |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Nobody: 1:14am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Don't worry if he got a plan b...next time he told u that again, tell him as well u have a plan B & C...u must have ur own tactics when playing with his game..girls called it a reverse psychology ![]() But remember this, not all men we dated are meant for us forever...so I betta step up ur game. 15 Likes |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Bbsharon(f): 1:14am On Mar 11, 2016 |
SUPERPACK: Am trying to understand your point. Do you mean after two months my boyfriend will change towards me? or? |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Bbsharon(f): 1:15am On Mar 11, 2016 |
KashyBaby: Hmmmn...thanks. |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by esqtony: 1:16am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Bbsharon: Then he is planless! 4 Likes |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by odimbannamdi(m): 1:16am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Bbsharon: Oh! So you even know the side chick...Interesting! You just gotta show him more reasons to love you more 17 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Bbsharon(f): 1:24am On Mar 11, 2016 |
odimbannamdi: Not like I really know her, he told me about her and she has a boyfriend presently who is far from her. But she is in same school with my boyfriend and am in a differnt school too. So that's why am confused if she is just his side chick or my competitor? |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by coolh3ad(m): 1:26am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Bbsharon: Please be sincere and truthful oo...at this stage, if some other guy asks for your hands in marriage and you like that guy too, will you dump your current BF ![]() 27 Likes |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Bbsharon(f): 1:36am On Mar 11, 2016 |
coolh3ad: Honestly I won't. I love him so much,I guess he is confused too or maybe we are just dealing with trust issue. 2 Likes |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by kilokeys(m): 1:49am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Maybe he has "option B".. U r lucky.. Pple like us have exhausted the English alphabets... We are now in Greek.. I have option Sigma sef. We r 7 billion in the world Na.. An slowpoke sef go get at least 500 pple wey go love am like that. We all have options.. U do too.. So it's best u never bring it up in relationships.. Enjoy the moment, enjoy what u have.. When u see a better deal, move.. He will too. My 5,999th post on NL I don't wanna waste the next number abeg 61 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by odimbannamdi(m): 2:03am On Mar 11, 2016 |
kilokeys: As very funny as you have sounded, you spoken the stark truth. We all have infinite options. soldier go soldier come, barracks no dey empty 12 Likes |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by sirusX(m): 2:07am On Mar 11, 2016 |
kilokeys: Got me laughing real hard ![]() Truly, even wen one is in a relationship we still find that we might get interested in other people we come across. The same goes for others we have as close friends that we sort of have genuine feelings for...or maybe a crush. In a weird way, they become plan B. Ladies that are mindful of their biological clock...including those that are lukin for a made man tend to scout for a plan B when plan A seems to be no show. The fact that partners choose to stick together in love is what counts. Remember that before him/her you had friends...& even if there's a breakup u'll still have friends. So I wouldn't classify this as cheating as long as no one made a move for plan B yet...& even if one did, as long as it's an open relationship it still ain't cheating. But...wen you start nursing an idea of being with another & your partner doesn't know abt it, then you can start talking about cheating. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by drdrei09: 2:33am On Mar 11, 2016 |
It's actually good to always have a plan B 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by tyson99(m): 3:06am On Mar 11, 2016 |
If your boyfriend is cheating on you,come and lets cheat on him too 14 Likes |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Nobody: 5:02am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Plan B simply means a PLAN, not already in motion but a plan godammit. Why incur more heat to your already "no NEPA" heated body? ![]() 8 Likes |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by bigt2(m): 7:18am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Op, sharrrrraaaaaaappppp! ![]() You're cheating. Why would you portray such a scenario. If you're not dating another man, how would he propose to you? E ma gba mi ke ooooooooo. Or are you that kind of girl who believe in fantasies and thus tests guys with silly questions ![]() Do you expect him to say hell grovel at your feet at the slightest threat of leaving and tell you he doesn't have a plan called B ![]() Park well ![]() 21 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Jerryolumide(m): 7:28am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Bbsharon:Wait how old are you first, you just keep talking about age |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Nobody: 7:45am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Bbsharon:lols u even know d girl My candid advice leave dat boy hez uncrios How wuld he feel..if u were also datin sum1 else nd called d person plan b He just dey use una 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by AfroKnight: 7:47am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Two bottles of beer for your boyfriend. He knows you would jump ship at the slightest opportunity and he is only saving for the rainy day. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by vooyour(f): 7:56am On Mar 11, 2016 |
sweetie listen to me. HE IS NOT WORTH YOUR LOVE! If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you. He's trying to make you think it's okay for him to have another chick. infact if you think about it, he might be waiting for the other girl's relationship to crash so that he can leave you for her. You can talk to him about first. But I doubt he loves you the way you love him. You need to find someone who will love you completely! you deserve it. good luck ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Ask4bigneyo(m): 9:24am On Mar 11, 2016 |
ask him |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by kennyman2000(m): 9:24am On Mar 11, 2016 |
i see no problem with his response. Its what u asked for u saw. Why asked such question from him in the first place? My kind of guy. Wouldnt let one unfaithful woman make me go crazy. Thats such a good display of a very matured man act from ur bf who wouldnt let any woman destroy his self confidence or believes his whole life is wrapped to that woman, making him wanna start begging like a willy. Your bf is trying to let u know that, there're lots of fishes in the river, just like u also told him there're lots of fishes in the river as well by asking such silly question. Big ups to that guy! Tell your guy, i owe him 10 bottles of orijin. If u guys eventually get married. Pls, send me an IV. I'll bring his orjin for him. Check my signature for ur customised wristband 42 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Dahveydson(m): 9:24am On Mar 11, 2016 |
No, he's building. 1 Like |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Michellla(f): 9:24am On Mar 11, 2016 |
LOL 1 Like |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by defendedvictim(m): 9:25am On Mar 11, 2016 |
U r telling us u don't have a plan B? It's obvious u won't kill urself if he leaves u..what you'd do to save ur relationship career if/wen he leaves, is ur plan B. U shud be happy u are his plan A..simple 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by ladyF(f): 9:25am On Mar 11, 2016 |
If he has plan B, you better have your own plan B. ![]() I love [size=15pt]Davide470[/size] ![]() ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by vision2050: 9:25am On Mar 11, 2016 |
I sense you also have Plan C, why did you raise the issue in the first place? you are cheating on him I guess. 7 out of 11 guys have Plan B. they do this to avoid story that touch. 3 Likes |
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