Bibors:


1. Never keep pleasing her to displease yourselves- if you keep playing by her rules she will still complain.
2. Never neglect your network of friends especially guys you discuss business with just because she doesn't like them.
3. Never raise your hands on her except she has beaten you atleast twice- ie. Her first beating could be a mistake, second beating, she has anger issues, if she tries to repeat it, Brother deliver her but carefully so you Dont give marks or injury for she still remains your wife.
4. Provide all you can but never get into debt to please her.
5. You can never talk sense into a contentious woman if you try you hurt both yourselves more so resort to short syllabus words- Love you, thank you, excuse me, fine, etc.
She will never stop checking your phone and will still fine faults even when there is nothing there so always lock yours and never look at hers.
6. She will manipulate to into jealousy- Never give into any kind of manipulation no matter how it hurts.
7. Ignore her rantings and concentrate on raising your kids.

8. Live with your problems, get used to it, and you will walk through victorious where others have failed.
9. Always remember that the man who contends with more problems/ issues and challenges is always a better man.

daretodiffer:


vislabraye

When I a call som emen stupid, they think I am being troublkesome

How these two things supposed to lead when they have refused to observe and understand their environment



Here is what going happen, another woman would be beating because an idi.iot believed that it is only way to gain control. Your daughter would undergo process, she might also get off from being pummelled like a none..ntity.

And the cycle will keep going on and on because some foo..ls have decided not to understand their environment

OlowoB:


And the f[b]oolish whor*e like my mother[/b] who has no job other than to be sucking white dic*ks here in Scotland claims to understand her environment... Wonders shall never cease to happen.

Where in the Original post did the op support woman beating? You claim to be a student get you lack reading and comprehension skills.... Which school in Scotland do you actually attend cos I doubt you actually have a real life in Scotland.

Instead of defeating the ops post with superior argument you ended up jumping on the thread as usual with bitterness and insults. Sighs

You need a life outside Nairaland.

Bibors:


Brother pls Dont act too fast. Oyibo movies have scenes where they guy grabs the chick during the first beating and kiss her. It may work.

chachanga:
I said it! You can always trust some threads on Nairaland to help you puke out your lunch already .

Must all life thrive on mono-causalist themes? If the OP was guilty of "mis-yarning", I would've expected superior logic, keener articulation and broader perspectives from his self appointed persecutors but what do I get?

Too many insecure wimps hiding behind keyboards to hurl abuses, curses and innuendos at the slightest provocation and a lot of brainless twats ready to kick heads in without provocation too? Haba, where is the L.O.V.E? Is this not supposed to be an educative forum amongst other things?

OP posted his opinion. If you have better light to shed on it, then do so in a civil way that we can all benefit from. If not, get off his post instead of dragging the thing gradually into a war of words and name calling.

Abeg, the sheer numbers of mannerless off-tangent cotton-headed scoffers on this forum is not only reflective of how far Nigeria has to go but also of the quality of the so-called "thinkers" we have here claiming Nigerian descent. It's not enough to blame Buhari, Jonathan or whoever but it pays to look inwards before you start pointing fingers all over the place.

Simple intellectual discourse, people nor fit manage. Oyah, come trade points for points make we make headway, dem no fit. Na only abuses and curses dem sabi, like toothless village witches. Carry go, Wailers Congress, just remember #diarriss God!

lacicrips:


And you expect me to live like this for the rest of my life?

daretodiffer:




I don't know how to answer your questions

hesilo:
in nigerian context, she wld bite off ur lips, dey knw no chills once aggravated. She might even head butt u.

Fear black women o.

ourchoice:
Hmmmm.....this kind thread is very scary I must say.

This thread can discourage single guys from getting married, and will remind the married ones that they made a big mistake getting married.

Ladies abeg o, make una try help....be a virtuous woman, it's very sweet to be a good, supportive partner.

Stop using Telemundo and your friends life and marriages to compare yours.

Be happy with your man and let him have peace so he can work hard and make more money. Anger brings poverty!

OlowoB:


Cos you actually don't have a life. Tomorrow,the next day after tomorrow and every other day you will still be here on Nairaland jumping on every thread with bitterness.

Try and get busy kid.... Get more clients outside your locality.... Suck more dic*ks like my mother so as to get going. You need a life.... How long are you going to continue like this?

daretodiffer:


Who know who the person is?

May you be delivered of your moronic spirit!

LMAO

dilini:


I was wondering between us who's been bedeviled with a mor.onic spirit... hmmm, I think someone need some special prayers to discern correctly and conscisely the message of the post...

#CantHelpButLaughOutLoud...

daretodiffer:
Why are you generalising? Are you telling us that virtuous women are scarce? do you know that women can also say the same of men?

daretodiffer:


That is not nice

OlowoB:


is that the best you can do? At least I am happy I was able to reset your brain at least for few minutes. I can see you responding normally to other comments without bitterness.

I resurrected a life today...though just for some minutes.

Happy Easter.

ourchoice:
All I am saying is this: be a good and virtuous woman, it's more honorable than being a contentious, nagging woman.

Same with men, be good guys, being good as a man or woman pays.

This world is already on fire, let's save it from burning further by making our relationships, marriages and homes a peaceful, loving place by being good.

Every man must not be rich, so if u marry a not-so-rich man, love him and be happy, things can change tomorrow for good, don't kill him with nagging and complaints!

Every woman must not be as pretty as Kim K, so guys if u marry a woman who isn't as pretty, love her....u can even help her discover her lost beauty and she will become beautiful with time.

So my sister, if u are a virtuous woman, keep it up, if u are not, start now to work towards becoming one and reduce your expectation from men....expect less from your man and pray for him

daretodiffer:


Look at this Akindanidani

FVCK OFF

I am not here for you today

OlowoB:


Awon baba mi ni akindanidani who had to waste resources sending a dummy like you abroad.

I know that's all my mother does.... Fuc*k and suck. The Lord is her strength.

daretodiffer:


#Can'thelpbutshakemyhead

Could you please help me find a list of psychiatrist in Scotland that will help me?

ourchoice:
All I am saying is this: be a good and virtuous woman, it's more honorable than being a contentious, nagging woman.

Same with men, be good guys, being good as a man or woman pays.

This world is already on fire, let's save it from burning further by making our relationships, marriages and homes a peaceful, loving place by being good.

Every man must not be rich, so if u marry a not-so-rich man, love him and be happy, things can change tomorrow for good, don't kill him with nagging and complaints!

Every woman must not be as pretty as Kim K, so guys if u marry a woman who isn't as pretty, love her....u can even help her discover her lost beauty and she will become beautiful with time.

So my sister, if u are a virtuous woman, keep it up, if u are not, start now to work towards becoming one and reduce your expectation from men....expect less from your man and pray for him

hesilo:
if I respond 2 ur post it'd rily mean sharing in ur miseral state of poor livin. Go and die.

hesilo:
kip showin urself. Plz can we all report dis buffon so she's banned 4ever? ;l