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Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by guass(m): 11:33pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
My friend quickly remove ur picture from there. U smell 2.2. Ur class rep. is doubtful Who even said u have conquered. 'THIS IS NIGERIA' NYSC is not a guarantee to employment. Wake up 4 Likes |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by Formidable1: 11:33pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
Daddy, wish u were still here with me. I'm sorry for all the wrongs I've ever done to you. Even if you were a crippled, blind, ugly, grumpy, grouchy father, I wouldn't mind. Even if you didn't train me in school, Even if you beat me all the time, Even if you neglected me, Even if you hated me... I wouldn't mind. Because I am grateful to God that through you, I came into this world. Thank you father for just being my father. I'll always miss you. ![]() ![]() |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by Ekakamba: 11:37pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
Thanks nicca. Seconded, Thirded & fourthed! There're somethings that adults need not to make public especially on such a faceless site. Young03: |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by Ekakamba: 11:40pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
Your dad is a wicked man! Don't forgive him. I thought I'll see a phrase 'bout the punishment you rendered him but I didn't. So disappointed. Mtcheew. ![]() |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by Abudu2000(m): 11:42pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
bro forgiveness is a sin oo_that's how I grew up if you know what I mean,exactly what my dad did to me,trained others and left me to myself but today even the masters holders aren't as rich as half of the crums I throw away,I bone all of them like say I no know wetin dey sup for the family!! 1 Like |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by OlowoB(m): 11:44pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
Abudu2000: I guess you are still a young boy...you will learn with time. and your siggy says....In God we Trust. smh |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by 9jatatafo(m): 11:45pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
Oh boy your dad tried for training you ip to secondary school. Throughout my education my father never bought a pencil nor even one exercise book. In fact he told people I was dead because he never knew where I was after he abandoned me. But I forgave him though it's not easy but hey bro! You got to forgive and move on with your life 2 Likes |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by DONFASZY(m): 11:50pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
My own dad stop payin my sch bills in ss1 bt today he lives in a 3 bedroom flat wit 2toilet n bathroom n a master room on my sweat I build. Since 2010 4give him n spoil him wit money if u ve ok No duplicate |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by OlowoB(m): 11:50pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
9jatatafo: God bless you bro. Moving on is the key word and not coming on a public forum and pasting pics of your family....insulting one's family online...thats so immature not with the kind of different bloggers we have on nairaland who are ready to do anything to make money Don't be surprised that tomorrow morning you will see a headline with "Boy insults his father for not paying his school fees" on Vivian Gist. 2 Likes |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by OlowoB(m): 11:53pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
DONFASZY: You are a wise man...may your days be long. To be honest, the ultimate decision lies with the op. The major issue i have with him is putting up his pics and his real name. Someone Here will definitely know him and end up telling his family members. [color=#000099][/color] |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by callJesu: 11:55pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
He didn't train you, I think you should Thank God because God did, moreso many are even fatherless from babyhood talkless of only at the University level... Bros go thank God.. There are natural solutions to all infertility problems, check my signature to see how |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by johnsonjosbles(m): 12:00am On Apr 07, 2016 |
makasimatics:Op Note that ur father atiitude is the reason why you suceed. Make sure he still alive when u'l go and apologise to him for this thread u created. God works in many ways beyound humand understanding! Don't challende God for many sucess package is still ahead of you! For he deposited that spam dat nit is enof reason for ur sucess story! Let God be the judge of his action. |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by Abudu2000(m): 12:06am On Apr 07, 2016 |
OlowoB:think what ever you want,that was me being real,you dont like it perhaps your therapist have a better solution!! |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by johnsonjosbles(m): 12:06am On Apr 07, 2016 |
alexistaiwo:yaba left sriaaaaght 1 Like |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by ogaprime(m): 12:10am On Apr 07, 2016 |
makasimatics: Nothing to say than just to thank God for my father...maybe your granddad did de same to him. Maybe God wants to use you to break the jinx so please don't do the same to your children |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by Vickose(m): 12:10am On Apr 07, 2016 |
Uchan4u: he can be a father from distance pls 2 Likes |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by dikeigbo2(m): 12:16am On Apr 07, 2016 |
Bros I feel ur pains,but never mind.To err is human, but forgiveness is divine. |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by seangy4konji: 12:17am On Apr 07, 2016 |
That's the joy of it. I did it my self. If you get do for am. |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by habsydiamond(m): 12:18am On Apr 07, 2016 |
No matter what he has done u have to forgive me. What if he had used a withdrawal method with ur mom and throw away the sperm into the waste bin. you wouldn't have been alive nao. Give God the glory that ur dad is still alive. There are some people out there who had Good father but their dads are no more. In everything u do keep on praying for ur dad. |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by Mannygoulding(m): 12:23am On Apr 07, 2016 |
no o...don't forget him at all..... use your allowee, gan queue and buy fuel, then go back home, roast him, and his generation!!! licks mango!! |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by tobbie247(m): 12:34am On Apr 07, 2016 |
I have never even spent an hour with my dad. He didn't pay a single dime for my entire education but I tell you bro, gradually let go of it and forgive him. He just gave you the chance to become the best dad to your beautiful future kids. |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by OlowoB(m): 12:37am On Apr 07, 2016 |
Abudu2000: ok boss. |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by dare2differ: 12:45am On Apr 07, 2016 |
efemenaslectura:I tire for them o If he had turned otherwise....but he didn't na, let's thank God ![]() Of course, he is grateful to God. However the father need to learn his lesson too. 1 Like |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by dare2differ: 12:47am On Apr 07, 2016 |
habsydiamond:What is wrong with not being alive? |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by omobaekiti: 12:52am On Apr 07, 2016 |
I feel your pain,its really heart rending when one goes through experience of such but glory excellesia you have achieved your aim. My mother used to say this when I was young "if you say your papa no good,na him I born you for,you say your mama wicked remember say na she born you,your elder brother/sister no be beta person na him dem born before you,your younger brother na the worst person wey you ever see na him dem born after you" so you can choose your friends,but you can't choose your family. He is your father nothing in heaven or earth nor beneath the earth can change that..so just let go and let God. |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by Fanirandele: 12:59am On Apr 07, 2016 |
This is why such men keep abandoning there responsibilities towards their children since they know how sentimental Africans are ![]() Forgive him sure but if you ever give him all the same things you give a real parent who took care of their children all through then what has he learnt? All I'm learning from this thread is fathers feel free to abandon your kids. You will still reap at the end abi ![]() This is why men will keep abandoning their kids 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by Wowzer(m): 1:04am On Apr 07, 2016 |
Op. Be Thankful. Drink Plenty Water. The best you can do is to forgive him and take very good care of him. You don't know how you are going to treat your kids, wait till you have kids only then will you know if he tried his best for you or not. |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by gohzieh(m): 1:22am On Apr 07, 2016 |
Young03: Nigga you are mean |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by streetzdreamz(m): 1:39am On Apr 07, 2016 |
OlowoB:you left nothing unsaid,so much wisdom,so much facts,this is the best piece on this topic,thumbs up. 2 Likes |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by streetzdreamz(m): 1:47am On Apr 07, 2016 |
OlowoB:someone already recognized him,i think on the front page or the second. |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by baby124: 2:04am On Apr 07, 2016 |
It's one thing for your father not to have money, and be unable to pay your school fees. It's another thing entirely for him to neglect your future and spend that money on prostitutes. I would not forgive such a person, as you do not sow wind and not expect to reap the whirlwind. He did not think of his future or mine, so why should I now think of his. Leave that man alone and face your life. Otherwise he will finally destroy what you are building. Someone who spends his money on Harlots rather than educating his kids will spend your hard earned money recklessly and give you useless advice that will destroy your home. Stay far from that man, you can help with very little if he asks. 2 Likes |
Re: Advice: My Father Didn't Train Me In The University,should I Forgive Him? by ATERI(m): 2:07am On Apr 07, 2016 |
You don`t need to worry about those things. Believe it or not, whatever qualities that have made you to get to where you are today, have been given to you by your parents. Truth is, no-one on earth loves you more than your parents. There are people like him who see education as a bonus because they have seen someone that succeeded without education. If you still feel strongly about it, ask him why he didn`t show much interest in your university education. Personally, I wouldn`t do that; would just move on. Good luck |
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