Young03:
if i tell u not to forgive him...u will say am wicked


if i tell u to forgive him...u will say o dont know wat u passed tru



guy if u like forgive..if u like dont


cos it wont stop.fuel scarcity

Abudu2000:
bro [b]forgiveness is a sin [/b]oo_that's how I grew up if you know what I mean,exactly what my dad did to me,trained others and left me to myself but today even the masters holders aren't as rich as half of the crums I throw away,I bone all of them like say I no know wetin dey sup for the family!!

9jatatafo:
Oh boy your dad tried for training you ip to secondary school. Throughout my education my father never bought a pencil nor even one exercise book. In fact he told people I was dead because he never knew where I was after he abandoned me. But I forgave him though it's not easy but hey bro! You got to forgive and move on with your life

DONFASZY:
My own dad stop payin my sch bills in ss1 bt today he lives in a 3 bedroom flat wit 2toilet n bathroom n a master room on my sweat I build. Since 2010

4give him n spoil him wit money if u ve ok
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makasimatics:
I am Chukwuma Edozie,from Ogbunike, In Oyi Local government Area,Anambra State.
since I was born, I have never experienced any positive behavior from my father.
He has proved to be a difficult person.
in fact! to the best of my knowledge, he is a very cuny,greedy,and selfish human being.

He would make money but would rather invest it on harlots instead of we the children who are interested in education. In fact, one of his stupid friend had advised him one certain time to not waste his money in the name of training us in the university. " secondary school level is enough for us ", the man said. I don't know if that was what contributed in making my father to neglect me when I was in the university reading mathematics.
Even,amid my days in the versity, I used to take some bags of rice and tin of life vegetable oil to our house without receiving any ' thanks ' from any body though, my mum would sometimes appreciate. I did all those because of the money I generated in my class as a course rep.

Now I have graduated and gone for service in peace after training my self in the university.

With these experiences, I want to know if somebody would blame me if I fail to appreciate him as my father in case I get a work in the future.
Now he tries to come close to me because, he believes that I have conquered

After abandoning me in the campus to die, he still wants to reap the benefits of what he never merited.

well, I think I know what is is my mind.

OlowoB:


I guess you are still a young boy...you will learn with time. and your siggy says....In God we Trust. smh

@ the bolded above, i have heard it before from cultists. so you grew up with cultists?

alexistaiwo:
don't ever forgive that man. if tomorrow I hear that u have forgiven him, u are in soup. u hear

makasimatics:
I am Chukwuma Edozie,from Ogbunike, In Oyi Local government Area,Anambra State.
since I was born, I have never experienced any positive behavior from my father.
He has proved to be a difficult person.
in fact! to the best of my knowledge, he is a very cuny,greedy,and selfish human being.

He would make money but would rather invest it on harlots instead of we the children who are interested in education. In fact, one of his stupid friend had advised him one certain time to not waste his money in the name of training us in the university. " secondary school level is enough for us ", the man said. I don't know if that was what contributed in making my father to neglect me when I was in the university reading mathematics.
Even,amid my days in the versity, I used to take some bags of rice and tin of life vegetable oil to our house without receiving any ' thanks ' from any body though, my mum would sometimes appreciate. I did all those because of the money I generated in my class as a course rep.

Now I have graduated and gone for service in peace after training my self in the university.

With these experiences, I want to know if somebody would blame me if I fail to appreciate him as my father in case I get a work in the future.
Now he tries to come close to me because, he believes that I have conquered

After abandoning me in the campus to die, he still wants to reap the benefits of what he never merited.

well, I think I know what is is my mind.

Uchan4u:
You can never have another father, forget that he didn't sponsor you through the university. Thank God that you have conquered, because it is not by your might. forgive your dad and move on with your life. Remember that you have benefited and will still benefit from your father, if you doubt ask orphans what they are passing through

Abudu2000:
think what ever you want,that was me being real,you dont like it perhaps your therapist have a better solution!!

efemenaslectura:
what's the difference between him and orphans

Started with unnecessary sentiments

habsydiamond:
No matter what he has done u have to forgive me. What if he had used a withdrawal method with ur mom and throw away the sperm into the waste bin. you wouldn't have been alive nao. Give God the glory that ur dad is still alive. There are some people out there who had Good father but their dads are no more. In everything u do keep on praying for ur dad.

Young03:
if i tell u not to forgive him...u will say am wicked


if i tell u to forgive him...u will say o dont know wat u passed tru



guy if u like forgive..if u like dont


cos it wont stop.fuel scarcity

OlowoB:
First of all, i have to be honest with you, posting your real names on a public forum ...what do you intend to achieve with this? putting your pics also is like bringing your dad to shame .... every tom, dick and harry here will start insulting your dad (even people who have never met him in real life before). How would your dad feel if someone showed him your pics and the story you shared online? No matter what your dad has done, you making it this public with your real pics even shows you are a very senseless not to bright son. Even the bible says Wisdom is the principal thing, let he that get it, get understanding.

Do you know how many bloggers visit nairaland? and then they will share this story all over the internet and then your dad gets to see this, what have you then achieved? If you don't want to help your dad, then move on quietly instead of putting your real names and pics on a forum with close to 500,000 members.

What do you even stand to gain if you don't forgive him? anger, bitterness etc is that what you want to live with for the rest of your life? Instead bless him with money when you secure your job, take good care of him and see if his conscience will not make him to sincerely apologise to you and also shower blessings on you.

It was very painful, so? If everyone should tell you the stories of their life, you will be shocked how life has treated people. Every challenge you pass through in life is for a reason...It should mould you into becoming a better person. Always look for lessons in your challenges rather than been bitter or angry with whoever.

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If after your 4/5 years of education, all you think of is paying evil with evil, then i question if you have really been educated. Education makes us think and see things differently. Focus your energy into positive things.

OlowoB:


You are a wise man...may your days be long. To be honest, the ultimate decision lies with the op.

The major issue i have with him is putting up his pics and his real name. Someone Here will definitely know him and end up telling his family members. [color=#000099][/color]