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I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by Blackberrybabes: 6:31am On May 09, 2016 |
The man who allegedly killed his wife and mother of his 2 children, Ronke Shonde in Lagos on Friday, has given his side of the story while in hiding. Lkan Shonde spoke to PUNCH Metro over the phone line provided by his in-law, Bolatito, which was confirmed by the police spokesperson, Dolapo Badmos. Mr. Shonde told Punch correspondent that his wife, Ronke provoked him on Thursday when she described how her lover slept with her in a hotel in Abuja on Thursday night. Lekan, a depot worker in the Apapa area of Lagos State, said his wife of eight years changed after she allegedly started dating the general manager of a publishing company she worked for. He said his late mother had warned him against marrying Ronke but he ignored his mother's warnings and still married Ronke, a decision he regrets. He said the last time he beat his wife was three years ago after they had a disagreement, adding that he never touched her since then. He narrated... “Since I married my wife eight years ago, she has never bought anything into the house. I gave her N5,000 on Saturdays and N3,000 on Tuesdays for soup. I also gave her money to make her hair. “She was working with GTB as a marketer, but she got sacked three years ago. For that period, I was the one feeding her and taking responsibility for everything in the family. I would wash her pants, bathe the children and buy foodstuffs in the house. She later got a job with a publishing company owned by her uncle. “But my wife changed sometime in March, when she started dating the general manger of a publishing company. My wife was going to the office from Monday to Sunday and she wasn’t going to church again, all because of this man. She called him ‘Eyitemi’ (My own). “Last week Friday, she went to Abuja and came back on Monday. She never told me that the lover was there with her. I learnt later that the lover was there and they slept together in the same room for four days. “When she came back, she didn’t know I was inside the house. She started talking with the man on the phone that he really had fun with him and I didn’t know how to make love. She again said her private parts were paining her.” He said he confronted his late wife about the affair and she confirmed that she was indeed dating the other man. He said he got angry and told his late wife to leave the house but she refused to leave. He said that particular Thursday night, they had an argument over money. He said: “It was around 9pm on Thursday. We had paid our nanny N20,000. Then we needed to pay our children’s teachers N30,000. I discovered she had taken N20,000 and when I asked her to return my money, she said she had spent it. “I was angry because for the past three months, she didn’t allow me to have sex with her. I pushed her hand away from me on the staircase and I left her. She never tumbled or fell. In fact that night, I bought the food that we both ate because she said she didn’t want to cook. “I didn’t know anything had happened to her until Friday when I saw her on the staircase. I thought she was still pretending. I just left her and walked away.” When he was asked why he shut the gate against his children, he denied doing so, adding that it was his son who closed that gate after the he left the house. Lekan also denied taking his late wife's phone, he said he left it on the bed. He said he didn't kill his wife and that he had no motive to do so, stating that he had bought her two cars and always provided everything she needed. He said, “Jide, her family’s second child lived with me for three to four years. Their eldest daughter, Bolatito, has lived with me too. “Although I am not a saint, I don’t drink, I don’t smoke. I am a responsible man. The problem with my wife was that she was temperamental. She shouted at me whenever she talked. “I am a Lagos boy and I can be in this Lagos for the next 30 years and nobody would see me.” The aunt of the victim, Bunmi, explained that the suspect, Lekan Shonde, has been threatening suicide, but that they don't want him to do so becaise their mother had forgiven him. She said, “Mummy is very sad with this, but she has forgiven him and does not want him to commit suicide.” A family source said that Lekan had always accused his late wife of extra-marital affairs and that the suspect had frequently abused her. Adding that the police had been involved on occasion. He said, “He always beat her because of his belief that she was into an extra-marital affair. “The beating reduced a bit when the wife of her late brother who was one month pregnant before his death, moved into the house with them. She stayed for about eight months. She was like her saviour.” http://www.punchng.com/alleged-killer-husband-speaks-hiding/ 5 Likes 1 Share
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Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by Blackberrybabes: 6:31am On May 09, 2016 |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by Smellymouth: 6:33am On May 09, 2016 |
All these na long talk.. He doesn't sound remorseful. Imagine bragging about bin a Lagos boy.. See the extent domestic violence has gone? Am sure it didn't just start recently.Any man that can not control his fist does not deserve a wife. Ladies if your man beats you up, please run for your life first before you even think of love. Who is to blame doesn't matter here any longer so long as someone is dead already. No matter how your temper hot reach, e nor fit boil yam ![]() 74 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by Taeewo(m): 6:35am On May 09, 2016 |
Okay |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by Nobody: 7:07am On May 09, 2016 |
So everyone lied against you... Issorait 7 Likes |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by teekay213(m): 7:08am On May 09, 2016 |
That is why my wife can't work under any person. 6 Likes |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by ovieigho(m): 7:26am On May 09, 2016 |
its a pity we can't ask the dead her own syd of the story. for the sake of the children ,I think the man should be..... 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by Nobody: 7:45am On May 09, 2016 |
Hmm....wait for the autopsy 3 Likes |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by oshe11: 7:45am On May 09, 2016 |
dose dat were disapointf earlia cn kum here to chek names oooo checking Is FREE 1 Like |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by ladyF(f): 7:45am On May 09, 2016 |
All the scary marriage stories everyday sef ![]() It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again ![]() ![]() ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by nnowu(f): 7:46am On May 09, 2016 |
Guy na lie,everybody dey ur case now,u must face the law! 11 Likes |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by christopher123(m): 7:47am On May 09, 2016 |
Blackberrybabes: These guys are crazy ...come out of your hiding place Lekan You are a man and you take care of the house ...even she doesn't buy anything in the house but she gave you kids Monkey But wait a minute why do some people cheat.. He did a number on her There are some things men wony take ...that's cheating 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by ZoggingMaster: 7:47am On May 09, 2016 |
No peace for the wicked 1 Like |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by emmabest2000(m): 7:47am On May 09, 2016 |
Stop hiding , Manup , show face and face the consequences dude 1 Like |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by hazyfm: 7:47am On May 09, 2016 |
[size=18pt]Lekan!!![/size] 2 Likes |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by ghostmist: 7:49am On May 09, 2016 |
marriage Don dey fear me... 5 Likes |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by Mintayo(m): 7:49am On May 09, 2016 |
It's a pity we will never know the true story. May her soul rest in peace. 3 Likes |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by epospiky(m): 7:50am On May 09, 2016 |
hiding for what you didn't do? Who would believe u didn't do it. 1 Like |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by greatness22(m): 7:50am On May 09, 2016 |
This is why I totally supported that South African Woman, who celebrated her divorce from the Beast she formerly called "husband" in a grand style. Assuming ronke had a spare life, she would have file for a divorce. RIP ronke. But some fools in that thread want women to endure a "wrestlemania marriage" ![]() Now, to all those married ladies and those ones who are not yet married, please and please, relationship is not meant for "Endurance" Don't remain forever with an abusive beast, Remember, you only have one life to live. Thanks. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by codemaster2much: 7:50am On May 09, 2016 |
Open immediate coming a though girl gin people swift morning are go? Attachment pity phone car explained reduce mummy o wait |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by porrigeyam(m): 7:50am On May 09, 2016 |
See the ugly wife self....... Yuk..... I keep saying it women are evil. 6 Likes |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by myfantasies(f): 7:51am On May 09, 2016 |
Too bad d wife is not alive to tell her own side of the story He might be lying about her infidelity 8 Likes |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by Opistorincos(m): 7:51am On May 09, 2016 |
B like say this man get point |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by swizzdre(m): 7:51am On May 09, 2016 |
eyah, Lagos boy indeed. bt that man where been tear d man wife puna too needs to be investigated for causing body harm. no joy 6 Likes |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by ORACLE1975(m): 7:51am On May 09, 2016 |
K |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by cocoberry(f): 7:52am On May 09, 2016 |
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Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by Deen77: 7:52am On May 09, 2016 |
I like white, divorce is not there problem. 6 Likes |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by jennyswt(f): 7:52am On May 09, 2016 |
This man can lie for Africa. if you didn't murder her in cold blood as u said, y then did u run? y didn't u seek for help?. U can say whatever u like cos u know she can't come back from the dead to vindicate herself from ur glaring lies. Infidelity my foot! U deserve to rot in jail Mr. man #SayNoToDomesticViolence 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by wilcox(m): 7:53am On May 09, 2016 |
No need to hide |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by alt3r3g0: 7:53am On May 09, 2016 |
You push someone 9pm thursday, see the person lying in the same spot and think the person is still pretending? Something sounds fishy. 48 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by cococandy(f): 7:53am On May 09, 2016 |
Of course she pushed you to the wall. And you reacted by killing. Yea that makes it right. You don't know where your mates who have had their fill of bad wives go to file for divorce? See his sketchy story sef undecided You pushed her down the stairs and came back to see her lying there and you thought she was still pretending. The time you pushed her and she fell down the stairs, why you didn't panic and call for help if it was not your intention to kill her? You calmly walked away after and came back on Friday (a different day?) to meet her still lying there and still walked away. Cold bastard. i am a Lagos boy and I can be in this Lagos for the next 30 years and nobody would see me.” Is this the tone of someone who regrets taking another's life? 38 Likes 7 Shares |
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