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Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by Ali01: 6:32pm On May 20, 2016 |
@Funnynaion Lets be serious here, Be careful with the Girl, forget about does advising you to not pay her. you own ur life and u know what u have passed through, that Girl is really wicked and she is ready to take u down at any means. YES Believe me. women has many ways to defeat men, she can set u up, she can also use african insurance ( JUJU) not only u but your future girlfreind/wife. in fact she can as well be pregnant for some one and insisted its u. dont take this as joke most especially u as an entertainer small thing don damage ur reputation. if u have the money give her. here is solution. report to your lawyer, and then take the case to court if u have the money to pay her. just make sure the court did not take the case too far, all u wanted is for them to be ur witness, pay her in front of the court, sign an agreement that she should walk out of ur way. let ur lawyer and court witness. with that u will be free from some of her threat. and also pray hard women are dangerous, dnt give her face or show like u are afraid ooo. but just be careful and forget does telling u to ignore her. is ur future not their own. so take all necessary steps to tackle this issues. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by MiztaSanchez22(m): 6:33pm On May 20, 2016 |
Relationship is a two way thing,she gives u nd u also give her.if she is calculatin d money she has spent on you,y nt do d same thing includin al d card u av bin rechargin 2 cal ha even doe say na #100..... (**in emmanuella voice "children use ur head"**) |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by Tonymegabush1(m): 6:36pm On May 20, 2016 |
Money spent on relationship sudnt b account 4 can she prove evidence of her spending on u? I guess no just make sure u are alwayz on top of ur guard but if u knw u can afford it pay her off and kwantinu ur life |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by laprince(m): 6:40pm On May 20, 2016 |
osedvgirl:But you funny walai. |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by davien(m): 6:40pm On May 20, 2016 |
I'm sorry to say but don't fall a victim to this scam.... because that's what it is, A scam Relationships like dating are oral agreements of mutual benefit, nobody has any claim to either persons property unless it's willed to him/her by the partner.. She has no substantial evidence of any transaction, anyone can draw up a list... without things like bank statements and cheque book lists she's null and void to claim anything... I would advise you to call and record or document anything she tells you and forward it to the police, because this is conspiracy to commit blackmail(which is even unfounded due to lack of evidence)... P. S Don't issue any threats of your own that can be used against you... you can back up this with legal judiciary actions if you wish. Good luck. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by uvalued(m): 6:41pm On May 20, 2016 |
Opistorincos: i concur pls do this... if you agree like 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by Angelahoney: 6:55pm On May 20, 2016 |
funnynation: Also come up with a figure of what you have spent on her. Relationship is about spending, isn't? If she lent you money, pay her for that. I also think you should talk to a lawyer. Afterall, relationship no be force. You should also notify the police ASAP. Don't be blackmailed. ![]() |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by pedrilo: 6:55pm On May 20, 2016 |
falconey:we r tryin to save his career here bro. u will be among those laffin at him if tins get messy |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by miqos02(m): 7:01pm On May 20, 2016 |
funnynation:u be mugu? |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by Jalinco: 7:05pm On May 20, 2016 |
When devil gives you 1 thing it will collect in 10 folds, now that you have admitted you collected 15000 from her. Go and pay 150000 naira sharp sharp and stop being a woman |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by funnynation(m): 7:10pm On May 20, 2016 |
Am really happy for the support and contribution. Let me make some people understand something here.. 1. If I give her the money, I swear she go take me for Mr Ibu. 2. Based on where I come from, I swear she no fit kill me with juju. 3. I will see my lawyer tomorrow. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by bigerboy200: 7:10pm On May 20, 2016 |
Give her 80k and let her disappear from ur life forever.. |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by 4reala(m): 7:14pm On May 20, 2016 |
funnynation:then involve the police and let them know dat she is threatening ur life, dat u even hav plan to pay her installmentally, even though u don't knw how u came abt those figures |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by DedeNkem: 7:21pm On May 20, 2016 |
Any money you spend in a relationship is gone. Any gift you give in your relationship is gone. Unless you gave your partner a loan. A loan is a loan and must be paid back irrespective of the relationship. If she gave you money as a loan then you must pay her back whether you signed a document agreenent or not. But if she spent any money as a good will or gift, then you don't owe her and she's not your wife. Don't fail to report this to your lawyer for advice. Good luck! |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by Foxy4luv(f): 7:26pm On May 20, 2016 |
If she insists give it to her, u never can tell woman are very heartless |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by Obidonreal: 7:27pm On May 20, 2016 |
Pay no attention to her, she's just bluffling. You spent on her and she also spent on you... I see no reason why you should succumb to her threats |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by mamaafrik(m): 7:34pm On May 20, 2016 |
OP ,just Type dis to her,sorry baby for the time taken ,it was arduous calculating as i have to consult my legal adviser ,the approximate cost of of the food stuff,eatery services,recharge card etc that was expended during our outing days is 206k ,u' be expected to deduct the 73k u spent and refund the sum of 103k to my acctn,skye blahbla......... On or b4 5th of next month.terms and conditions apply. |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by lloydmuna2(m): 7:39pm On May 20, 2016 |
Give her the money, to make her know U are bigger and better now. Then tell your lawher make sure he's involve in this case so that Wen she comes the second time Hand will meet her!! ![]() |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by stpat1(m): 7:45pm On May 20, 2016 |
Just report to the police and let them invite her. It she get mind to show up and explain how you owed her #70. |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by CaraJewel(f): 7:49pm On May 20, 2016 |
Tell her to return d cloths d baby food and others.... Infact take her to police or get a lawyer...get her to sign a restraining order for harassment cuz dat watz shez doin |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by CaraJewel(f): 7:50pm On May 20, 2016 |
Tell her to return d cloths d baby food and others.... Infact take her to police or get a lawyer...get her to sign a restraining order for harassment cuz dat watz shez doin...show dem d call u received..m sure datz nt a real police man |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by Longman313(m): 7:59pm On May 20, 2016 |
falconey:dat is exactly what I wanted to say,whalai,don't give her any kobo |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by ProfJournalism(m): 7:59pm On May 20, 2016 |
Don't give her ANYTHING, even shishi, this particular issue surfaced last week in my lodge, where 2people that have be dating for almost a Year, and they finally broke up, now, the guy is asking for a refund of everything that he spent, and when the issue was raise, it was really controversial, but, conclusively. The Lodge judged that ANYTHING THAT HAPPEN IN A RELATIONSHIP GOES WITH THE RELATIONSHIP, So incase, u receive another threat from the So-calld ingrate, 1.) make sure you record the call. then, use it as evidence. 2.) go straight to police and make a statement, its life threat, its not a small crime. Teach her the lesson of her life. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by alizma: 8:00pm On May 20, 2016 |
this is Africa and Nigeria to be precise. my brother if you have the money, pay her off and make her sign undertaking that she won't disturb you again. in case u decide to employ the service of a lawyer to stop her from taking a dime from you, make sure u also employ a herbalist when she choose to follow that part too. women don't easily let go of their ex especially when he is making progress. now that she mentioned 73k, if u have it settle the case once and for all because some of us won't be there when the chips are down. a lady who was looking for a shop of her own in 2012 was likely above 24 then and 4yrs later(at 28+) she is still single. the frustration of being single couple with the fact that you are not willing to take her back when you can just possibly forget about the past(her thought) and take her back has made her venom as deadly as death itself. Beware |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by pweetyphola(f): 8:02pm On May 20, 2016 |
Lovelynature: Good Advise.. If he starts paying her, he will continue to do so. |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by TaiKuun(m): 8:04pm On May 20, 2016 |
funnynation:so you have a lawyer nd you re foolishly asking for advice on nairaland. I don't take comedians seriously, cause they'll lie to you and later tell you it was just a 'comedy skit' |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by mamawin(f): 8:14pm On May 20, 2016 |
funnynation:you self, you just dey fall person hand sha. boutique ko, boutique ni, na you carry am go there, o.y.o. is their case |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by funnynation(m): 8:17pm On May 20, 2016 |
TaiKuun:hahahahahahaha u sef na comedian. Thanks |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by Ali01: 8:26pm On May 20, 2016 |
funnynation:Good. then dont give a kobo, BTW were are you from, wey u trust ur self like this? ![]() |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by Nobody: 8:29pm On May 20, 2016 |
I cant f**king believe some guys are actually supporting settling the girl! Which kind of arrant nonsense is this ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by Topestbilly(m): 8:33pm On May 20, 2016 |
funnynation: Don't give her 1kobo, see ur lawyer for advise and report her to d authority. If u pay dis money, u ar in for a long thing broda cos it will not end there. |
Re: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by kamelonaire(m): 8:45pm On May 20, 2016 |
Who shld I blame self ![]() ![]() |
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