abeg o.,dem still dey share the baby girl's dress? i am interested, though i came late .

Congratulations to you chanbaby, may the birth of your lo bring good tidings, favour and overflowing blessings in ur home.

Briteystacy i didnt read ur story but frm the comments i think i undastand a bit of what you are going through please strong, hold on and dnt give up, tough times dont last but tough people do, God sees all ur pains, and very soon he will make all of them history.,ur case is a little bit similar to mine, if i tell you the battles i even fought bfore i got married, it has not been easy but we were able to overcome through prayers, pls u need to be there for ur husband its not easy but you need to support him, i use to complain alot b4 abt our financial problems, but i have learnt to be quiet cos wining abt a situation will not change that situation. we've all had our shares of ups and down, marriage is not easy but God will give us the wisdom that we need.

We got love here.
I love you all mamas.
congrats to mamas that have delivered.
Britneystacy,it is well with you and your marriage…

@ mama zaynie.....u just said the simple reality that most women does but will never admit in public forum of ever doing it.
I love u loadz

missmalachi:
@ mama zaynie.....u just said the simple reality that most women does but will never admit in public forum of ever doing it.
I love u loadz

I love you too sis!
How's Princess Sophia the First

zimunachimdi:
We got love here.

I love you all mamas.

congrats to mamas that have delivered.

Britneystacy,it is well with you and your marriage…

I believe! Thank you. ...

Madam Zaynie, thank you for responding. Not sure yet I can bring myself to ending the pregnancy yet but am silently praying for a miscarriage of some sort ....
Am so scared of the risks the pregnancy may pose in my health as per risks of uterine rupture and all that and how healthy the baby will be because of the contraceptive I took and the fact that I was not on any multivitamin for over 3months....
I still have serious waist pains from the last pregnancy and labour and I recently found out that my episiotomy site had broken down a little. I was supposed to even go back for restitching but since it was not so painful I just kept postponing it....
So many thoughts going through my mind... I don't even want to talk about the strain on finances as we were even managing. .. ..
It's a night mare for me...

All you Mamas are wonderful,great and super. Some decisions we had to take to have a happy and healthy home.@ BritneyStacy am sorry for d quote was mistake, u are strong and know the right decision to take, u alone know how it hurts @ Zaynie no one has the right to condemn u, we all have our dark secrets. For those that has given birth more grace to stay awake and for the girl cloth mama no forget oooo, just give it to anyone close to u. We all will definitely find a way. May the Almighty provide for us all to welcome our LOs and be the best moms we can be.

Mamas una good morning oo, don't know if anyone has experienced this, I have been having pains under my left breast, my ribs to be precise... That is d ribs under my left breast is paining so much,The pain started this week and got really painful yesterday, don't knw if its cold that entered my body or if its d weight of d baby.. Its really painful... Am just been patient bcs tomorrow is my antenatal, so I can see the doctor....

nicoleswizzi:
Mamas una good morning oo, don't know if anyone has experienced this, I have been having pains under my left breast, my ribs to be precise... That is d ribs under my left breast is paining so much,The pain started this week and got really painful yesterday, don't knw if its cold that entered my body or if its d weight of d baby.. Its really painful... Am just been patient bcs tomorrow is my antenatal, so I can see the doctor....

just started having same this morning, but d pain is underneath my ribs. I feel it's d baby's position, it's poking d ribs with its head.

@zaynie i love you loads
First for the firsthand experience. Whilst it is difficult to recount, you told it anyways. I agree will missmalachi, indeed we all have dark secrets but not everyone is willing to share. U r a strong woman n uve got my respect.

May God grant you peace and restore life into ur Lo with a heart condition.

Morning everyone. Godspeed in a ur dealings

Zaynie, lol @ the caveat beneath the post. I'm sure you have your boxing gloves on, me I sha just want to give you plenty hugs, that must have been one hell of traumatic experience.

Yesitsme:
just started having same this morning, but d pain is underneath my ribs. I feel it's d baby's position, it's poking d ribs with its head.

Its so painful, my ribs itself underneath my left breast down to my armpit is where d pain is...d whole ribs around dre, if I turn pain, if I raise my hands pain, if I cough pain, blow my nose nkor pain! Is dre any balm that reduces or stops this kind of pain

zaynie:


I love you too sis!
How's Princess Sophia the First

We r doing great oooooo just dat this period is not funny at all.

@ mooretes.....its just d bitter truth

July mama's how body??

nicoleswizzi:
Mamas una good morning oo, don't know if anyone has experienced this, I have been having pains under my left breast, my ribs to be precise... That is d ribs under my left breast is paining so much,The pain started this week and got really painful yesterday, don't knw if its cold that entered my body or if its d weight of d baby.. Its really painful... Am just been patient bcs tomorrow is my antenatal, so I can see the doctor....

it's d baby's position.. sorry dear it will pass

nicoleswizzi:
Mamas una good morning oo, don't know if anyone has experienced this, I have been having pains under my left breast, my ribs to be precise... That is d ribs under my left breast is paining so much,The pain started this week and got really painful yesterday, don't knw if its cold that entered my body or if its d weight of d baby.. Its really painful... Am just been patient bcs tomorrow is my antenatal, so I can see the doctor....

I experienced that kind of pain too, but under my right breast. I couldn't take a deep breath without feeling it. It lasted a few days. But guess what? I woke up one morning and it had disappeared. So I guess it was baby's position. But speak to ur doc abt it at ur next appointment. Kpele dear

Let me report myself o. Today is antenatal and I'm not going! I'm tired of going jare. We are 38 weeks now. I really don't hv any complaint and I was there just last week. Hope I'm not being foolish..

realdentist:
Let me report myself o. Today is antenatal and I'm not going! I'm tired of going jare. We are 38 weeks now. I really don't hv any complaint and I was there just last week. Hope I'm not being foolish..

This is not your first baby I guess
What should I get for you so you will jus go

MizMyColi:


This is not your first baby I guess
What should I get for you so you will jus go

Strength o, my sister. That's just what I need. Can u get that for me? U're right. Not my first

@team April Is anyone experiencing Braxton hicks (frequent tightening )at 31 weeks.?? Ayam not understanding it, it comes with a mild pain den vanishes

realdentist:
Strength o, my sister. That's just what I need. Can u get that for me? U're right. Not my first

Pele.
Some days are like that.
Receive strength and zeal to carry on
This phase is almost over.

Went for my antenatal yesterday, we're 34weeks+ , My jajaina hurts no be small o! Pls sisters help o, my pcv level is low. How do I boost it? Pls sabi mamas come to my aid ooo. It has never been this low in my previous pregnancies.

I see you all sis.......didn't knw there were finsters here o

oamronnie:
My thoughts exactly when I saw her posts.

Are you a finsis?

As I have been reading and wakaring, trying to put myself in Britneystacy shoes and know what best I can tell her.
Other maamas here have said it all and they are all words of wisdom. Na person wey wear shoe know wia e dey pinch am dats why I decided to walk in that your shoe a little so probabily I go choke mouth where dey necessary.
Swthrt, I go 1st talk about the evil day like you said it, no one died so it isnt evil. It was just the begining of a new sweet life which you kwa go still testify. Every baby is a blessing regardless of how, when and what led to itz conception. God gat your back and everything he does is perfect so please dont ever dream of aborting nor pray such demonic miscarriage prayer for that Angelic soul inside of you. If you say you are ashamed of what people will say, my dear you are married so peoples words shouldnt get to you, itz only you and your husband against the world o! my opinion and that of others doesnt count in your home. People will always talk! at 16years I carried my 1st child even while in school, my parents nobody supported me even d supposed father of the child but my determination spoke for me till I was finally accepted. That lil boy now is my pride. People will everly talk in everything so keep your head high biko and see only yourself and your home. If you commit suicide, who will look after your son? God knew you werent taking multivitamins, he knew you took contraceptives but it didnt stop him in the miracle of that child. Accept it! Ohakim daughter (a whole ex governors daughter) had 2kids in 1year. 1st was January and the 2nd December (how about that?)
Swthrt you can still get a decent Job even in pregnancy so dont give up yet on that one. To some people, pregnancy is the favor they need to gain employment in a firm, dont give up on job hunt okay, itz well.
As for taking a break in your home, Nne who are you taking the break from? will it change anything? you will still come back to your problems and the best way to tackle a problem is to face it once and for all. What doesnt kill you will make you stronger so brace up. They might say he who runs to fight today lives to fight tomorrow but fight na fight, you will still fight it. They wont be peace without war neither will they be understanding without misunderstanding. Take the whole time you want out for the break you need but remember you must still come back to fight it soonest. Which is better, fighting it now! or postponing it later for your break and creating more lopeholes to fill?
You dont want your kids to grow in such environment, would you want them to grow living with you as a single mom when you have the opportunity now to make things work?
Nne God did not promise us it was going to be all rosy but he did promise us comfort and peace at the end of the day. Seek God in your home and you can only do that on bended knees because on account of flesh shall no man prevail.
Swthrt you can do this, ask yourself what was the actual problem that escalated to this present situation, that is only when you can begin to fix it. Treat it from the root cause and everything will fall in place, remember to be submissive in all cuz dats how to steal d man's heart. Tough times dont last but tough people do and I believe you can handle it Britneystacy. You can cultivate the habit of praying together with dh cuz a family that prays together stays together. I pray God guides you with wisdom on the decision to make, it is well with your home swthrt Jesus gat you .

In another note, team June howfar? una don dey waddle? me I no dey waddle but my lo seems to be on the big side so my bump just big but I still walk straight and sexily (I still dey wear my bumshot sef but i no dey hook am o). I am seriously licking colostrum, abeg does it mean I have excess of it? make una no waka pass my question o. I drip fluid alot from my boobi like say I don they breastfeed, any June maama on the same boat with me?

queensnow:
it's d baby's position.. sorry dear it will pass

Tank u my sister... I fink say na cold so I started bathing with warm water and dabbing my ribs with hot water...chai

dunasy:


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realdentist:
I experienced that kind of pain too, but under my right breast. I couldn't take a deep breath without feeling it. It lasted a few days. But guess what? I woke up one morning and it had disappeared. So I guess it was baby's position. But speak to ur doc abt it at ur next appointment. Kpele dear

Exactly I can't take a deep breathe without feeling d sharp pain...I just taya....baby is head down....as at last ichcked, last antenatal....tho she has been moving seriously this week....thank u for d reply ooo....

bimsusy:
Went for my antenatal yesterday, we're 34weeks+ , My jajaina hurts no be small o! Pls sisters help o, my pcv level is low. How do I boost it? Pls sabi mamas come to my aid ooo. It has never been this low in my previous pregnancies.

if you can get garden egg leafs wash and chew it boost fast.

When I was preggy and have low pcv it was garden egg leaf that gave me utmost result after taken astyfer tabs twice daily and it wasn't rising fast enough plus time was against me cos I was almost due.

You can also use it to make plantain porridge with lots of dried fish.

#Teamjuly, how are we all? My areola looks puffy and will I say strong? I dont understand all these changes. And i feel very weak today.

ijeoma2728:
@team April Is anyone experiencing Braxton hicks (frequent tightening )at 31 weeks.?? Ayam not understanding it, it comes with a mild pain den vanishes

am experiencing mine at 26 weeks already especially when i take bumpy rides.

Liftedhands:
if you can get garden egg leafs wash and chew it boost fast.

When I was preggy and have low pcv it was garden egg leaf that gave me utmost result after taken astyfer tabs twice daily and it wasn't rising fast enough plus time was against me cos I was almost due.

You can also use it to make plantain porridge with lots of dried fish.

Thanks alot sis. God bless you

nicoleswizzi:
Mamas una good morning oo, don't know if anyone has experienced this, I have been having pains under my left breast, my ribs to be precise... That is d ribs under my left breast is paining so much,The pain started this week and got really painful yesterday, don't knw if its cold that entered my body or if its d weight of d baby.. Its really painful... Am just been patient bcs tomorrow is my antenatal, so I can see the doctor....

I had that too at 32 weeks, under my right breast/ribs then down to the right side of my belly button. It could be the cold lyk you think because mine started after i hit the floor one hot night lyk dat, wen i wake up, see pain!. My gynae just prescribed para 4 me and d pain stoped gradually, so u can take para 4 it. Sorry dear.

ijeoma2728:
@team April Is anyone experiencing Braxton hicks (frequent tightening )at 31 weeks.?? Ayam not understanding it, it comes with a mild pain den vanishes

Yes ooo, I am so experiencing it mine too comes with a very mild pain at times. The waddling for me no be here at all, my stomach be like say I go born in 2weeks time. Am getting tired already at 32weeks. God pls see us through