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Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Fourwinds: 7:29pm On May 28, 2017 |
bencarson007: look at dis one talking insecured...u think is every man or woman u give free hand dat will not misuse it..? I have a very live case of a simple man who is a family friend......he works in Lagos and d family in another close by state....if u who what d wife has done...u I mean u will never be this gentleman u portray urself to be....he bought an okada for d woman to manage. do u know d woman was d one dat chose d person. to ride it and bring return.? could u believe this. woman was busy fvckking this man when d husband leaves home...look I don't want to go into details....free hand it was |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by HenryThegreat1(m): 7:29pm On May 28, 2017 |
some people here always quick to condem other party whenever issue like this presented. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by OLUJOSHINS(m): 7:40pm On May 28, 2017 |
ominirajj: My dear, U are welcome to school of marriage. U are just at the primary stage & U are here lamenting. U still have a long way to go ooooo. Now to the issue at hand. 1) Calm down: with the little U posted here, I can already tell that U are getting pissed off. Believe me, anger & hatred will only worsen the situation. 2 wrongs will never make a right. 2) Ur husband has been polluted: Attitude is a product of our nature, nurture & environment. Nature here is His natural character. Nurture is His experience from life thus far. Environment is the environment He has been exposed to from time to time. One of this channels have polluted Ur husband. So U need to identify the source of this unwanted mosquito & apply Baygon. 3) Involve Reasonable Tutors: Remember when U were preparing for Jamb? How U kept running from 1 tutorial to the other? Well U have to apply the same strategy here. U need to run to the elders for advice. BE WARNED: Don't go & run to poor advisers ooooo. Not the woman that will be telling U to endure in pains. Not the woman that will be adding fuel to the burning fire. & especially not the one that will use the story of Ur life to do sermon on Sunday service (a talkative). May God guide U to pick the right mentors. Now my opinion: Ur husband is trying to run His home in fear & trembling. Its a silly childish move to display His authority. Don't jump into the ring & start acting silly with Him. Just sit down & observe. Examine Him very well. If U play Ur cards well, U will end Up having Him at Ur beck & call. Identify His weak point: This is Ur ace card. Don't flash it wrecklessly. Probably when He is lying on U after a good time, whisper in a sweet baby voice that He has not been good to U. List all the pains U are facing WITHOUT CHANGING UR VOICE Now keep stroking His hair, & watch Him jump to conclusions that will favour U. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Bofoy4(m): 7:51pm On May 28, 2017 |
ominirajj:ahahahah stop this ok go and carry out cross if ur husband sees this u don finish |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Nobody: 7:59pm On May 28, 2017 |
my father used to be like that to my mother. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by ariklawani(f): 8:05pm On May 28, 2017 |
my dear..its a bug deal.big trouble if u don't act fast.my hubby was like that.that is how he tricked me for 9yr.too jealous. paranoia.. violence, nagging. runnnnnn.u will b depressed. psychologically. physically. emotional. he will try and render u useless. act fast.get a job...act fast no time.am out of the domestic marag.I found peace .life gos on. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by OLUJOSHINS(m): 8:05pm On May 28, 2017 |
& pls, PRAY ooooooo Its the most effective soothing balm I know. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by ariklawani(f): 8:07pm On May 28, 2017 |
my dear..its a big deal.big trouble if u don't act fast.my hubby was like that.that is how he tricked me for 9yr.too jealous. paranoia.. violence, nagging. .u will b depressed. psychologically. physically. emotional. he will try and render u useless. act fast.get a job...act fast no time.am out of the domestic marag.and now found peace .life gos on. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by OLUJOSHINS(m): 8:08pm On May 28, 2017 |
ariklawani: When all the gentle & shy brothers were approaching U earlier shebi U were turning them down joyfully. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Nobody: 8:13pm On May 28, 2017 |
ojun50: Please epp us ask her. All these Spirit koko dating that they will not visit each other until after marriage. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Nobody: 8:16pm On May 28, 2017 |
Shut up if you have nothing to say. I am sure you are an igbo man without even looking at your moniker. Only igbo men think the way u do. IhateAfonjas: |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Nobody: 8:24pm On May 28, 2017 |
Lucasinho:another Igbo, ehn buyer and seller of wives. Paying bride price doesnt mean he owns her, is she property? All these small boys that are still sucking mama's breast displaying verbal diarrhea here. Mtcheew |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by bencarson007(m): 8:27pm On May 28, 2017 |
Fourwinds: That is not ruled out bros, so I won't argue... I just gave an opinion of what I tot... Sorry I took it personal. Good d evening and how are you .
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Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by IhateAfonjas(m): 8:34pm On May 28, 2017 |
funmisticqueen: Sorry, i don't think to dirty Yoruba goats Looking like a baby elephant Why can't you just go swallow your Amala and Ewedu in peace ?? 1 underwear wearing stinky rat 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by ashewoboy(m): 8:47pm On May 28, 2017 |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by NovusHomo(m): 8:50pm On May 28, 2017 |
femolacqua: Pastor bah?!. He will take her from her husband. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by NovusHomo(m): 8:51pm On May 28, 2017 |
carzola: So, God is now an employment agent? |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by leostenus: 8:59pm On May 28, 2017 |
MY DEAR, YOUR HUSBAND IS STILL AFRAID OF SOMETHING. I THINK YOU HAVE A LOT TO PROVE. YOUR HUSBAND DID NOT TRUST & SO YOU MUST PROVE TO HIM THAT HIS FEARS ARE UNFOUNDED. IF HE SAYS YOU SHOULD NOT GO FOR VIGIL, FORGET IT, HE OPPOSES SOME OF YOUR PLANS, FORGET IT. EVEN GOD MUST PROVE YOUR FAITHFULNESS BEFORE HE ENTRUSTS SOMETHING INTO YOUR HAND. PLEASE FIND AWAY TO MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE WORK. MAYBE HE IS AFRAID OF YOU BECAUSE OF WHAT HE SAW BEFORE BOTH OF YOU MET. GIVE HIM TIME. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Lucasinho(m): 9:01pm On May 28, 2017 |
If I catch u with that Ur stale Waist eeh I will turn u to my third wife...riffraff All these YeYe Gals wey full NL wey never wash their smelling pants funmisticqueen: |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Nobody: 9:11pm On May 28, 2017 |
Lucasinho:fvck u nigga |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Nobody: 9:13pm On May 28, 2017 |
IhateAfonjas:if i start with you even biafra wont be far enough for you to run from,as short and stout as the stinking akpu he eats, go and sh1t cocaine in Cambodia. Biafran nonentity |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Lucasinho(m): 9:19pm On May 28, 2017 |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Nobody: 9:24pm On May 28, 2017 |
ominirajj: So sorry. I think your husband knows you best and he is protecting you. Also, he knows you don't really know what you want. You dabble from one thing to another most times. You are not good with money. You are not quite compatible and he doesn't want you to either disgrace him, embarrass him or land in trouble that he would come and settle later. He learnt this by experience. He probably married you out of pity and because of church courting, he did not really know you before your wedding. The summary is that you have low IQ. He is a good man, he is trying to make the marriage work the best way he can. What he noticed you do are unspeakable and he feels he would keep the marriage the best way he can. Others can't understand, even you because of your low IQ. That's why you call him a bully. You can call me a prophet. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Nobody: 9:28pm On May 28, 2017 |
Lucasinho:trust me i would be doing myself a favor if i Bleep a cucumber than your finger battery prick
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Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by toprealman: 9:33pm On May 28, 2017 |
What was courtship like? |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Nobody: 9:34pm On May 28, 2017 |
Praktikals: |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by lebrotin: 9:37pm On May 28, 2017 |
ominirajj: Hey Woman, I will not judge you but tell you the truth...YOU HAVE COME TO THE WRONG PLACE FOR ADVISE. You want to crash your marriage already by allowing dem 1999 children to give you wrong counsel on nairaland. An unmarried man or woman will never give you a good advise here. Do not blackmail your husband with your emotions. Something tells me you are not a saint either. Your last statement says it all. Both of you need a grounded matured male or female counsellor and not all these end time youth pastors for proper counselling... |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Lucasinho(m): 9:39pm On May 28, 2017 |
funmisticqueen: lol....For real? U mean u fûck Yaself with Cucumber |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by afbstrategies: 9:47pm On May 28, 2017 |
ominirajj:You should have thought about all the things you listed about him before you got married to him. He is an insecure man, add that to his troubling resume. Try getting him to go do the exercises with you and see if that will work. The worst thing for a woman is dealing with an insecure and abusive man. Hope other unmarried women will take time to figure out their guys before they get married to them. Good luck |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by dubylee: 9:47pm On May 28, 2017 |
pls you should both see ur pastor for counselling. but I want to add that u should hv noticed these his characters during ur courtship. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by IhateAfonjas(m): 10:10pm On May 28, 2017 |
funmisticqueen: I see that you're high on your father's sperm You can't even write a comprehensive sentence, you good for nothing inbreed I won't run to Biafra because of a chest beating Amala and Ewedu swallowing olosho, we already own Lagos Anything else you want to cry about ?? Tribal mark having antelope, i hope your father gets you pregnant next time he fuccks you 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Nobody: 10:20pm On May 28, 2017 |
[quote author=IhateAfonjas post=5 I see that you're high on your father's sperm You can't even write a comprehensive sentence, you good for nothing inbreed I won't run to Biafra because of a chest beating Amala and Ewedu swallowing olosho, we already own Lagos Anything else you want to cry about ?? Tribal mark having antelope, i hope your father gets you pregnant next time he fuccks you[/quote] Own lagos indeed. If for any reason biafra becomes a reality we will kick you out with nothing. The problem woth your tribe is that you lot are visionless, you cant even unite under a king. It is not your fault you guys generally lack home training, the only thing they taught u is to greet your elders with kick and to kill your brother for property, even a hausa man can perform better than you, go to school he won't. You are nothing but a boy with the mentality of a servant deal with it. 1 Like |
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