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Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by mamachizzy(f): 8:48pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
its funny how guys are calling her names. but if the case were reversed, they will change their stance., One thing people fail to understand is if u are owing somebody and u decide to avoid that person just because u can't pay back the money yet, it looks like u are trying to dupe the person. what happened to "baby I am sorry I haven't been able to raise the money yet. I will pay u back as soon as I can. just be patient my love" 2 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:49pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
mamachizzy: Help us ask oh...the guy no try at all.... No, the guy fall hand. |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:49pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
supersystemsnig: Is there a placard stamped on the forehead of the good guys? The bad guys have outnumbered the good guys in great numbers. And That's fact. 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by sekem: 8:49pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
supersystemsnig: I'm telling you Any wise man who really likes his life should learn how to be very very very careful when dealing with women They way the reason and even act at times is enough to make you think twice |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Blackhawk01: 8:49pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
supersystemsnig: Hian! Your own case is strong ooo, there's nothing bad in asking anyone for assistance instead of watching your business crash. Egotistic much. So, you finding your feet back? |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Linux007(m): 8:49pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
nkwuocha:He has a factory, and a functioning business, she has even liased with her junior colleague at work to help out. how do you suppose he will orchestrate the scam? Relocate the factory to another state because of 500k? The truth is because of the setback he had, he couldnt meet up to tge agreement the had earlier, and he is obviously avoiding a confrontation with her. His ego is depleted already ,imagine a girlfriend lending you money and u f**k uo the agreement due to unforseen circumstances. But u wont see that cos u are overwhelmed with hate for guys..i pity u 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by missyadorable(f): 8:50pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
supersystemsnig: You will need a very good IT expert and hacker to hack my mobile devices.Good luck! |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by YelloweWest: 8:50pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
pedrilo:PROUDLY!! But please add legal practitioner and business woman to that! 2 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:50pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
alexialin: Okay let's hand out...I heard you're close to Palm Grove...Let's gist in person..I wanna hear it all... |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:51pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
sekem: I've realized i don't even know women thesedays. One has to deal with them carefully... |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by pedrilo: 8:52pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
YelloweWest:i wee not add it, come and beat me ma 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by elantraceey(f): 8:52pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
supersystemsnig: Exactly, people react to problems differeny albeit unwisely sometimes, it could have just been tension that made him unable to communicate with her well and her reaction worsened everything (I could be wrong though ) . All these makes me wonder what kind of communication they had before the money issue came in. |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by humilitypays(m): 8:52pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Sterope:Me and my friends discuss women cunning nature....we laugh about it...we are well aware of it. I even reminded him that when he messaged me to help him do the transfer, he laughed that if she decides to do that, she will be the one loosing because she will miss a lot na lol A man only cry for what he spent on a lady if: 1. He never swimmed across the lady's blue sea lol, of which no soji guy will spend on a girl that much when he has not crossed the Atlantic Ocean lol 2. The guy later became broke and the girl ran lol....but as e be now sha, na only God and death fit make person go broke sha Now to your calling me a sexist, lol...I am not o, cos I love women so much lol, but I think the lady must have unknowingly insulted the guy or made him feel regret borrowing from her....women and their money be like monkey and banana, u don't touch women's money o....i don't ever see myself accepting a dime from any woman; God won't let me lack to that extent, God abeg o. I don't even consider women rich enough to help a man no matter who she is....women's money (be it your girlfriend's money o, fiance's money o, wife's money o) should be avoided by any sane man who want his integrity in tact! |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by pole: 8:52pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Girl u Bleep up,4 ds reccession way we dy, u come carry dat kind money give am ,without u useing ur money to get ur self a gud husband and married at dsame time, corrcet illude |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:52pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
missyadorable: IT expert over 10 years experience. Ethical hacker...I'll have you hacked if i needed within hours...The last time a guy bragged like you in a cafe i was mad, it took me just two hours to change his password to make him feel sorry.... I'm now repented sha, so you're safe... |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by 9jaihail3: 8:52pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
mamachizzy: Do you know the manner she been tasking him the money? From my observation, this babe have observed that the dude is falling in business hence she's desperate to lay her hand on her money before it enter stories. The guy was struggling to buy some materials hence he asked her to invest, now where do you expect the guy to get the money from if not from the business? I hate some ladies that seen relationship as a thing that a man should be the only spending. |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by YelloweWest: 8:53pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
pedrilo:Lol. I am a woman who has worked hard and by the grace of God I can say I have it all. |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by biblegirl: 8:53pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
guess he just recycled ur manufacturing company.If na man give woman d money,e no go dey news.Madam go n fast n pray for ur money or ur hubby to be. 4 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by thesuave10(m): 8:53pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
nkwuocha: You're making a problem which is a big issue. You already came into the argument with a stereotype in mind. I didn't say that's why he is doing it. I'm bringing out other relevant options. It's just being objective. You've already programmed your mind and I do not blame you to the fact that once you borrow money to someone and the person stops picking your calls then what next is to question transparency and this is A very big problem. Take note that the guy replied to her text and not her calls ,maybe he doesn't like the way her voice sounds when she's sad which might make him feel bad about himself. He's making a mistake and I agree by not communicating his reasons because running away from an issue will make matters worse. now the bigger and more relevant problem is her threatening to end her relationship that's near marriage. That is very foolish |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:54pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
elantraceey: Sure, i'm grateful i've found a lady that has depth. You're smart bae, nice one. I feel the guy just revealed how he responds to crises, and somewhere he has crushed into a cave, trying to figure things out...obviously he's lost the money and wants to repay it to get his pride back... 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by nkwuocha: 8:55pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Wow!There was supposed to be an interest? Wow,I love this lady. She is focused. Not until she allowed the desperation to get married about to mess things up for her. Try to establish communication again, try as much as you can.If he is still not endulging, lock him up! 4 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by pedrilo: 8:55pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Blackhawk01:leave that man alone for u r still a boy. never take a loan from a woman, not even a bank with a female MD |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by tosyne2much(m): 8:56pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
WORLDPEACE:Even though I haven't heard the guy's part of the story, I don't think the guy has duped her, or has any dubious intention. What I think here is that the guy is actually disappointed that his fiancee is demanding for her money so soon just because production kick-started. Therefore, he has been running round to get the money for her As per ignoring her calls, I think maybe he feels he doesn't owe her any explain as regards the uncertainties that prevented him from paying as promises. He only wants to get the money at all cost and hand it over to her I may be wrong tho |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:56pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
NoToPile: The guy did wrong for not picking calls bro but that doesn't mean he had duped her. They've been in a relationship for long bro and how about looking things in a different way like; the guy might not have found his feet back |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:56pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Ninethmare: yimu. |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by elantraceey(f): 8:56pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Blackhawk01: It's takes a level of trust to be planning introduction in the first place , that's in two months miss, I won't even think of getting engaged to someone that haven't earned my trust. Well that's why I said I might be wrong . 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by CHAIRMANMAO(m): 8:56pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Immee: Lady? seriously you are impatient!, the first person that comment has sad it all! Aint say no more! Modified Let me tell you one fact now, for the fact that you are requesting for your money asap will send a wrong signal to him that you gon be an impatient wife, that can turn him to bolt.......... 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Xzydar(m): 8:56pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Don't rush into conclusions yet, add one million more 1st and see if it changes anything |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:57pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
nkwuocha: thats all I see here. the guy smelt it and did a quick one on her. 2 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Blackadmiral(m): 8:58pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
This is really a tough one and i can imagine the pain and apparent sense of betrayal you are feeling right now. My answer to you would be based on the principles of tough love and how far you are willing to go to get back your money. Your boyfriend may be displaying an attitude and a feeling of entitlement to your money. He may have studied you over time and knows your networth and therefore feels 500k is a small change to you and considering that you would soon be his wife he assumes you should let go and not bother asking him for it. In any case i suggest you adopt this 3 course of action depending on how much you need back your money and the extent you are willing to go including kissing your relationship and marriage plans goodbye. 1. Involve your Pastor, his parents or sibllings or any mutual friend of yours i.e both of you. Someone matured that can talk to him maturedly. 2. If option one fails, get someone that is an EFCC operative or Police Man to call him on phone and invite him to the station to answer questions pertaining the money. The mere thought of going to a Police station or EFCC office to answer questions or write down a statement should scare him into paying you. 3. Get a Solicitor to write him a strongly worded demand notice to pay within a certain period failing which you would sue for recovery of your money. Please note that my advise above would be based on conclusive proof that he has the money but is deliberately refusing to pay you or is intentionally playing pranks on you. If truly he doesnt have the money to pay back, consider it a bad debt and recover same in instalments after your marriage to him. Best of luck. |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Sterope(f): 8:58pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Women discuss too. They discuss how stupid men really are, how gay the most heterosexual man is and how men suffer from inferiority complex. They talk like you do. Everyone talks, not my business 1) He would still cry. Blue sea or not. If he cared for that relationship, he will care about it if she jilted him 2) Financial status does not matter. If there was a relationship, he will care Loving women does not stop you from being a sexist. You can spare me the usual trash about not borrowing a dime from a woman. Men can be vengeful too but then it would be easier to remember a vengeful womab than vengeful man. If you borrow and you are rude about repayment, you deserve what comes to you. You don't act entitled when you are a debtor. You can be an egoist when you arein debt. humilitypays: 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by missyadorable(f): 8:58pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
supersystemsnig: Go and sleep! Empty barrel...Noise maker |
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