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What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by stopthecycle: 5:06pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
hello nairalanders. what words of comfort can you give a rape victim. how can they be rehabilitated so they dont suffer emotional breakdown? i know of several cases around me. please what do you think i can say or do to ease their pain. thank you. |
Re: What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by donstan18: 5:07pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Yeah know many cases around you? The weight and gravity of a rape that befell a lady determines how quick she can ease her pain and forget.... Console her and take her to hospital if you care much for her emotional trauma!!.... Thou, it's rare to see a lady that can easily forget or ease the pains that follows such trauma! But, if a guy gets raped by a lady.... Just ask him.. "How was it?"... or possibly take him to hospital if he isn't drilled and carried!... (If you know what I mean) 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by sinaj(f): 5:10pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
You cant ease their pain. Let her join group counselling nd meet other victims that have gone through the same thing nd learn how to overcome hers from them. 2 Likes |
Re: What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by Cholls(m): 5:11pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
my brother say simply say 'Eiyah' |
Re: What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by stopthecycle: 5:20pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
sinaj:will that really help? |
Re: What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by stopthecycle: 5:21pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Re: What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by sinaj(f): 5:22pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
stopthecycle:sure. |
Re: What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by stopthecycle: 5:22pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
sinaj:thanks a lot 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by Cholls(m): 5:23pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
stopthecycle:my brother bloda na joki o |
Re: What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by ArchangeLucifer: 5:24pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
You must be a serial rapist to have so many victims around you. By the way, you haven't told us if its female or male victims. Gays rape buttholes too. |
Re: What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by Nobody: 5:32pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
It's difficult.. the trauma that follows ehn.. just be there for them and make sure he/she goes for counselling 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by chynie: 5:33pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Several rape victims around you please what's the name of your area And you know them all, baba for the rape victims Anyways don't say anything about it to them But let them know your stand against rape Sooner or later when they trust you They will open up to you To be emotional is up to them only |
Re: What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by stopthecycle: 5:43pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Cholls:ok oh. i fear before |
Re: What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by ipobarecriminals: 5:45pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Suicide doesn't solve anything. Just tell her to forget. and move on.May God comfort her 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by NightHound(m): 5:48pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Being raped is a very traumatic experience, and it shouldn't be taken lightly. Survivors of rape should have immediate access to professional counseling. Considering how sensitive the issue is, you may not be equipped to offer the right words. 3 Likes |
Re: What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by Lalas247(f): 5:49pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Absolutely nothing you can say than Be there and comforting ... advice to seek professional help, counselling etc 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by stopthecycle: 5:50pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
chynie:i said several not many and no. i dont know them all. im asking so i could learn how to better help the ones i know. it would durprise you how rampant rape is in our society today |
Re: What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by stopthecycle: 5:50pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Lalas247:thank you |
Re: What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by stopthecycle: 5:52pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
NightHound:thank you. please do you know of any professional agencies they can be directed to? |
Re: What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by stopthecycle: 5:53pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
ArchangeLucifer:....wow...just...wow |
Re: What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by Windflower(f): 5:56pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
If its just happened fresh, then she will need to get it off her mind by talking to someone she trust,you can make urself available depending on how close ure,she will definitely open up to you. The truth is no matter the number of counselling session she goes to,there are night she will cry alone,there are incident that will trigger the memory and make her feel depressed. Just try not to leave her alone too often but also give her the space if she needs to be alone. With time its will get better 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by stopthecycle: 6:02pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Windflower:thank you |
Re: What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by Rukkydelta(f): 6:02pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Best way is to catch the rapist cut his/her genitals cook and forcefully let him/her feed on it Next step is for the victim to go for professional counselling |
Re: What Do You Say To A Rape Victim? by Nobody: 6:17pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
stopthecycle: Better to show remorse through action. Using words can make things worse, infact, the best action you can show is inaction, passive movement here and there that reflects deep empathy. Be careful not to try to console them with words that are not carefully thought out, you may cause more harm than damage in the process. Be careful with words, show them love, love will cause them to open up, when they are opened, then you can also speak about some bad life expereinces you went through, and then take it on from there. They need to feel like you're acomrade that has gone through some bad stuff too. 1 Like |
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