addictiv:
@ dharamanil ,
you have to understand whats going on, ur girl showed you the chats as evidence for something she could have shut down herself.its possible she doesnt know what she is doing but still the question now is WHAT WOULD YOU DO? if you keep quiet you will only give her excuse to screw him. cos at this point ur flatmate is looking like the Alpha and boss who can have anything he wants while you are looking like his subordinate who cannot defend his territory. You have to take charge and its not by fighting him or beating him up. You have to show him you are the bigger man but that you will not tolerate any advances on ur girl and you have to do it in front of your woman so that she too gets the message. Gather them together at home without letting her know what you want to do, openly tell him that your girl has informed you that he is asking her out and you have read all their chats. he will be shocked and most likely try to deny or get defensive, let him embarrass himself a little (she needs to see him do this), cut him short and then calmly tell him that you are disappointed that he can do this to you after you have housed him and regarded him as a friend and family however the fact that you are sharing a flat doesn't mean you will tolerate any advances by him on your woman. Then ask him to apologise to her and then to you. maintain a very relaxed and calm but serious look even if he tries to get antagonistic, dont shout. watch your girls reaction while all this is happening. you will take away any attraction she has for him and restore your position as the alpha and the man in the house. however keep a very close eye on your woman after this.

Simple!


Handle it right there, with everyone present.

It simply shows u are the boss!
Shikena

And his gf will respect and admire her bf more for such courage.

That's all.

While his Americana imported or deported friend, whichever way anyone looks at it, will look and feel like a sleazy rat trying to wriggle out of a trap.

Guy! Your smart.

dharamanil:
Lemme just go straight to the point. I have a flat mate who came back from the states recently or lemme say he has been based there all his life but maybe he was deported or so cos he didn't come back feeling all ok on cheddah.

One morning I and my girlfriend was seated in the living room when I left her to go recieve a call outside real quick on getting back inside I saw him seated in the living room too but with his phone on her hands, a phone ever since I knew him he doesn't allow nobody touch. I thought he prolly was justshoiwng her one of those random whatssap videa until 2days later she told me he was trying to get her num.

Ever since he got the number he has been chatting her up and she shows me all their chats. Till recently when she camee home, he repated same thing not via chat this time, he told her he wants them to hang out over the weekend.

My problem is I really want to make a mess of this guy like 4k m up big time I know ways but I need more suggestions please. I mean in a really really disgraceful manner

@ dharamanil ,
you have to understand whats going on, ur girl showed you the chats as evidence for something she could have shut down herself.its possible she doesnt know what she is doing but still the question now is WHAT WOULD YOU DO? if you keep quiet you will only give her excuse to screw him. cos at this point ur flatmate is looking like the Alpha and boss who can have anything he wants while you are looking like his subordinate who cannot defend his territory. You have to take charge and its not by fighting him or beating him up. You have to show him you are the bigger man but that you will not tolerate any advances on ur girl and you have to do it in front of your woman so that she too gets the message. Gather them together at home without letting her know what you want to do, openly tell him that your girl has informed you that he is asking her out and you have read all their chats. he will be shocked and most likely try to deny or get defensive, let him embarrass himself a little (she needs to see him do this), cut him short and then calmly tell him that you are disappointed that he can do this to you after you have housed him and regarded him as a friend and family however the fact that you are sharing a flat doesn't mean you will tolerate any advances by him on your woman. Then ask him to apologise to her and then to you. maintain a very relaxed and calm but serious look even if he tries to get antagonistic, dont shout. watch your girls reaction while all this is happening. you will take away any attraction she has for him and restore your position as the alpha and the man in the house. however keep a very close eye on your woman after this.

alexialin:



Yels? How are u today?

Fine, how's work going?

dharamanil:
Lemme just go straight to the point. I have a flat mate who came back from the states recently or lemme say he has been based there all his life but maybe he was deported or so cos he didn't come back feeling all ok on cheddah.

One morning I and my girlfriend was seated in the living room when I left her to go recieve a call outside real quick on getting back inside I saw him seated in the living room too but with his phone on her hands, a phone ever since I knew him he doesn't allow nobody touch. I thought he prolly was justshoiwng her one of those random whatssap videa until 2days later she told me he was trying to get her num.

Ever since he got the number he has been chatting her up and she shows me all their chats. Till recently when she camee home, he repated same thing not via chat this time, he told her he wants them to hang out over the weekend.

My problem is I really want to make a mess of this guy like 4k m up big time I know ways but I need more suggestions please. I mean in a really really disgraceful manner

LET GO OF HIM AND WARN UR GF TO STAY OFF OR HE WILL JUST Bleep HER FREE AND PAINFULLY TO UR SURPRISE. NO NEED TO PLAN ANYTHING. JUST LET HIM PUT ASIDE. U MAY NOT EVEN KNOW HIS HEALTH STATUS. DEPORTEES ARE MOSTLY CRIMINALS WHO LIVE HARD LIVES. BE CAREFUL...

ottohan:
disgracing the guy is not an option here...it is your mumu galfriend DAT has decided to giv d guy her number that you should do away with...
-showing you her whatsaap chat with d guy dosen't mean she likes you, who knows how many chats she must have censored/deleted before showing you,....
-she is just feeling special because there are two guys and one gal and they are hustling after her, so just work on her phsycology by making her jealous,....
-just make another lady to visit you, so that ur GF will feel jealous and her brain go reset...

There we go. Always blame the woman. Abeg shut up!

The girls is Good! She let him have her number so she can have sold evidence that his so called fried is a killer!
Upon the fact that she opened up and showed him the text without him asking u still want to point a finger at her. Smh

jacyhelen:


whats the difference about the yankee?..is their dicccckkkk plated with gold??..Lmao..make i go find one teste

I come in handy.

YoungDaNaval:
Fine, how's work going?

Going smooth
Thank God

Also my pm is working, you can click on it.

No hard feelings.

If a guy were to open up to his gf that her friend was asking him out, everyone will hail him as a good guy.

Now we have a girl who exposed the friend of her bf and everyone seems to be calling her a whoŕe despite the fact that she made full disclosure to her bf and even showed him the chat .

Nigerian men are impossible.

*spits* *walks out of misogynistic thread*

why give the guy her num/why did she fiddle with his phone?The jezebel of a girl want u to do away/kick ur friend outa the house..Daughter. of JEZEBEL

Plz, when somebody breaks sombody head finish coz of girlfriend or go drink sniper coz of cheating friend n gf, post it hia......i would be willing to click...

YoungDaNaval:
Nna I tire ooh! Imagine me quarrel or fight my friend because he asked my girl out? I dey mad? Who does that? The girl in question should be an adult and is in the position to make decisions for herself and moreover, the earlier we guys start having the mindset that we ain't the only one dating our GF the better for us. If to say na wife that one na different thing but GF? mtchwweee

A true friend would not ask your girlfriend out. Whatever happened to loyalty and respecting other people's boundaries? See how everyone is blaming the girl. The guy, nko? Is he a saint? Why did he make a move on her? Or is there something am missing here?

fellowman:
your girlfriend knows what to do but why is she telling you.

she likes the attention, she likes the drama and would love to see your reactions too. you're just getting played my guy.

the truth is your girlfriend has not rejected the guy approach. she admires the guy secretly because if it's a WhatsApp chat what stops her from blocking him to prove a point maybe the guy that will get the message.

it's simple just tell the guy (not in front of your chick) that you don't like what he's doing that you want him to stop so you guys don't have problems. simple.

You guys are so dumb and blinded by your misogyny that u can't see the truth even when it's stirring u in the face
The girl was open enough to show her bf the chat she had with his friend. Do u think if she was willing to agree to his proposition she would do that??
She just exposed that his friend is an enemy and instead of commending her u guys condemn her and a portion no blame to the traitorous friend...

cruchenutii:


One thing you should note, Make sure you have guys over, Incase fight starts. This will not end well. It may even end of Picking up bottles and stabbing each other.

You have to prepare for the worst in these Scenario.

No need for other guys, bringing in strange faces will most likely lead to a fallout, cos the guy will be in survival mode immediately he sees external forces and his resistance level will be higher. it has to be just the three of them seated together, it shows that op can handle things himself without involving external bodies, Op needs two things Loyalty from his bae and respect from this guy. Now even if the guy tries to fight him, he will just be revealing his animalistic nature to Op's babe also and she gets to see him for who he really is. I doubt she will want to have anything to do with the guy after such display of unwarranted aggression. Op should never respond to aggression cos doing so will reduce him to the guys level, rather he should praise the guy first, talk about some good things the guy has done in the past before landing him the accusation. this will put the guy at ease and he wont even realise what hit him till its all over. guys like that love to show off and will only respect you when they know you have caught them red handed, but you let them save face a little rather than outright humiliation.

laudate:

A true friend would not ask your girlfriend out. Whatever happened to loyalty and respecting other people's boundaries? See how everyone is blaming the girl. The guy, nko? Is he a saint? Why did he make a move on her? Or is there something am missing here?

You're not missing anything.

Ur mind is free from misogyny that's why u can see clearly.
The girl is the hero in the senerio. But u know the typical backward thinking African. It's always convienent to blame the woman.

ottohan:
disgracing the guy is not an option here...it is your mumu galfriend DAT has decided to giv d guy her number that you should do away with...
-showing you her whatsaap chat with d guy dosen't mean she likes you, who knows how many chats she must have censored/deleted before showing you,....
-she is just feeling special because there are two guys and one gal and they are hustling after her, so just work on her phsycology by making her jealous,....
-just make another lady to visit you, so that ur GF will feel jealous and her brain go reset...

Professor! You said it all. These girlfriends of jezebel have been demistified since 500 years ago but some guys don't know how to handle them. She has already placed the deportee over boyfriend and she is cunningly looking for a way to breakup with him knowing fully well he will get mad if she showed him the chats she was having with his friend.

YelloweWest:

You're not missing anything.

Ur mind is free from misogyny that's why u can see clearly.
The girl is the hero in the senerio. But u know the typical backward thinking African. It's always convienent to blame the woman.

The girl is no hero but a bitch. Why did she give him her number in the first place? Or you think we don't know (from experience) she has already given the guy hope of fůcking him?

addictiv:
@ dharamanil ,
you have to understand whats going on, ur girl showed you the chats as evidence for something she could have shut down herself.its possible she doesnt know what she is doing but still the question now is WHAT WOULD YOU DO? if you keep quiet you will only give her excuse to screw him. cos at this point ur flatmate is looking like the Alpha and boss who can have anything he wants while you are looking like his subordinate who cannot defend his territory. You have to take charge and its not by fighting him or beating him up. You have to show him you are the bigger man but that you will not tolerate any advances on ur girl and you have to do it in front of your woman so that she too gets the message. Gather them together at home without letting her know what you want to do, openly tell him that your girl has informed you that he is asking her out and you have read all their chats. he will be shocked and most likely try to deny or get defensive, let him embarrass himself a little (she needs to see him do this), cut him short and then calmly tell him that you are disappointed that he can do this to you after you have housed him and regarded him as a friend and family however the fact that you are sharing a flat doesn't mean you will tolerate any advances by him on your woman. Then ask him to apologise to her and then to you. maintain a very relaxed and calm but serious look even if he tries to get antagonistic, dont shout. watch your girls reaction while all this is happening. you will take away any attraction she has for him and restore your position as the alpha and the man in the house. however keep a very close eye on your woman after this.

too much story! He doesn't have to proove any shit... throw the dude outta the house.. fullstop.

Daeylar:
All the useless misogynistic men here as usual giving their useless advice,
The girl this, the girl that, the useless girl has fish brain but not one insult for the guy, your so called friend who had the guts to give your girlfriend his number and even chat her up asking her out.
What he did is wrong he started the whole thing,

yet sexist animals will pretend not to see it.
Yet the misogynists on this thread are attacking the girl alone

Misogyny will kill all the useless men on this thread one day and I'm sure this world will be better off without you all,
Imagine insulting the girl without addressing the boy,

Will you useless men die if you approach issues involving men and women without misogyny and sexism?

The girl friend is better, 10 times better, 10,000 times better than the op's useless friend that took his friend's gfs number and is asking her out, did he tell op that he is doing all that? No, If the girl hadn't told op that he had collected her number and shown you their chats would op had known anything? No. Would we have this thread now where you animals are attacking the girl here now? NO, if the op's girl treated him the same way the so called friend is treating op, by pretending as if he has done nothing wring and nothing is happening non of you fools would have even know anything, yet you all only focused on the girl to bash her.


The guy is wrong, he initiated that nonsense.
With that being said, I think you are better off without them. I don't know about fùcking him up though.
Seems like your girl just wanted to have evidence to show you that your friend was asking her out, and you need to thank her, she has shown you the nonsense type of friend you have. She's tried for you.
But I'm not comfortable with you being friends with either of them, I feel you should move on from both. But if you want to stay with the girl it's OK, but your friend should be disposed off

Can't you make your point without insulting men? The same men that spent so much energy fuccking you and making sure you have a great orgasm.

DIKEnaWAR:



She will just go and fvck the flatmate immediately. For her to give him her number shows she is interested in the guy. Showing her boyfriend their chats is just trying to feed a chicken well before slaughtering it. Women a just one kind of people and will keep giving you signs that the house is cracking (albeit subtly) before bringing it down on your head in one fell swoop. What am I saying, she is just trying to satisfy her conscience that she tried to resist the bagger while he asked her out. Her excuse when it happens: "but I told you then and you don't seem to care. I was showing you chats and all. You became distant and he was there for me" Lies!

My advise to the bro is to start looking for a fresh babe and begin to fvck the one he has wild. Do all the crazy things you imagined with a babe and never done with her. We all have that blackboard that we practiced on and wiped clean afterwards.

You are in a relationship with a coded hoe(worst type of women) but like a yorrrrubbaa boy that you are, you won't have sense once it concerns woman.

Op, u Betta take this advice.

YelloweWest:

You guys are so dumb and blinded by your misogyny that u can't see the truth even when it's stirring u in the face
The girl was open enough to show her bf the chat she had with his friend. Do u think if she was willing to agree to his proposition she would do that??
She just exposed that his friend is an enemy and instead of commending her u guys condemn her and a portion no blame to the traitorous friend...

You are too naive no understand the scheming of bitches. Showing her boyfriend the chat is absolutely rubbish because they shouldn't be having that chat in the first place. It takes two to tangle which mean she could have ignored his chats but rather the bitch was enjoying it. And how did the deportee get her number again? From God right? Lol

Xda59:
The girl is no hero but a bitch. Why did she give him her number in the first place? Or you think we don't know (from experience) she has already given the guy hope of fůcking him?

And the lousy guy who asked for her number is ..... what? What should we call the disrespectful, disloyal, inconsiderate, greedy creep who asked for the number of his friend's girlfriend, and decided to ask her out?

alexialin:




Going smooth Thank God
Also my pm is working, you can click on it.
No hard feelings.

Awww really? That's nice. expect my pm soon

Xda59:


The girl is no hero but a bitch. Why did she give him her number in the first place? Or you think we don't know (from experience) she has already given the guy hope of fůcking him?

If she's a bìtch and intended to sleep with the guy, why did she tell to her bf and even show him the chat?
What do u think was her to be in those chats that gave her the confidence to show it to her bf?
The op did not make any attempt to tarnish or blame his gf. Why so? Because she is guilt free.

laudate:

A true friend would not ask your girlfriend out. Whatever happened to loyalty and respecting other people's boundaries? See how everyone is blaming the girl. The guy, nko? Is he a saint? Why did he make a move on her? Or is there something am missing here?

Shoro niyen?

Life is just a game the winner takes it all, I can c ur gal frnd ain't loyal

laudate:

And the lousy guy who asked for her number is ..... what? What should we call the disrespectful, disloyal, inconsiderate, greedy creep who asked for the number of his friend's girlfriend?

Very important question here ^^^

YoungDaNaval:
Shoro niyen?

Meaning just what.....exactly,?

Feranchek:
if I were you. I'll be thinking of ways to Bleep them both up.

Holy ghost fire!!

YoungDaNaval:
Awww really? That's nice. expect my pm soon

No probs.

majekdom2:
too much story! He doesn't have to proove any shit... throw the dude outta the house.. fullstop.

Throw the dude out and give the GF the perfect location to go fūck the hell out of him. He has lost his GF already, it just a matter of time.

Daeylar:


Very important question here ^^^

The lousy guy observed she is bitch and that could be the only reason he asked for her number and the bitch hurriedly gave it to him.

ChewingStick:
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I know which tribe your g.f is oh.

talk it