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Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by cococandy(f): 1:02am On Dec 30, 2017 |
thesuave10: Randy he-goat. You will be caught in the act and executed jungle justice style. Keep supporting your fellow rapists. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by TheUbermensch: 1:03am On Dec 30, 2017 |
cococandy: Maybe. just maybe you don't understand what the word "mortify" means. What I did was just present facts most people are to sleepy to notice or talk about. We're all quick to blame the man for forcing sex, but no one is saying anything to the ladies. No one is telling them to be more dressed down. No one is telling them to leave sluttish behaviours for the bedroom only. No one is telling them to be more vigilant. No one is telling them to be careful of the expensive gifts they receive from male friends, because every gift deserves something in return, and most times against your will. We do none of that. We just blame the man for lack of self restraint without taking into fact that something must have preempted such. Let females start being more decently and quitting most of the harmful habits they exhibit these days and you'd see a reduction (yes because you can't expect totality. We're dealing with humans here) in rape cases. And then when a woman is crying foul, we can truly say the man is a beast. I see your posts. You just go shaming men without agreeing the ladies to have a role to play to prevent rape. You're not in your right frame of mind. 2 Likes |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by godofuck231: 1:05am On Dec 30, 2017 |
omoikea: If he had a private jet she would have been his baby mama in other words as it's appropriate, his wh*re |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by godofuck231: 1:05am On Dec 30, 2017 |
omoikea: If he had a private jet she would have been his baby mama in other words as it's appropriate, his wh*re |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by thesuave10(m): 1:06am On Dec 30, 2017 |
cococandy: Block head. Next time you'll read and understand before opening that shît hole you call a mouth 1 Like |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by Nobody: 1:08am On Dec 30, 2017 |
thesuave10: You don't need to respond to that little conceited uppity woman 1 Like |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by lezz(m): 1:11am On Dec 30, 2017 |
TheUbermensch: At the emboldened, what then is all the long epistle you have been chirping if you’re going to contradict yourself eventually? 4 Likes |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by TheUbermensch: 1:19am On Dec 30, 2017 |
lezz: The long epistle wasn't to justify rape, rather it was to explain the fact that most times there's more than meets the eye, and while the man is being blamed, the female should also take her share of the blame where necessary. Like blame her for being stupid enough to spend the night in a guy's house she doesn't trust, or for visiting a guy scantily dressed. Honestly these things are misdemeanours and should be treated as one. |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by bitchcrafts: 1:22am On Dec 30, 2017 |
TheUbermensch:Oga, stop trying too hard to make sense out of nonsense. You've already talk the talk. "The man is a beast" and should be locked away to serve as deterrent for other men with his type of mentality. You forgot to add that he is a f.ool too, a big one at that actually minding how he was so chill about the whole thing in his chat like this is just peanut and business as usual . The real talk about this is that this business as usual attitude towards this sensitive and emotion wrecking disaster against women as if they are preys living long enough to be devoured should be discouraged. What are oloshos/ashewos there for? If konji wan kee u, grab one! Instead of raping someone who is not interested in trading coochie for tipping!! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by TheUbermensch: 1:24am On Dec 30, 2017 |
bitchcrafts: You women are so emotional to a point that you sound unreasonable. You don't know what actually went down between them. Don't take a one-sided convo and truncated WhatsApp chat for the truth. 1 Like |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by bitchcrafts: 1:32am On Dec 30, 2017 |
TheUbermensch:You don't know either. I believe in everything here until it is disproved! 1 Like |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by Icon79(m): 1:37am On Dec 30, 2017 |
Thank you! I am beginning to think that an average Nigerian woman is too dumb to be allowed access to the internet. O pari fatymore: |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by April4th(m): 1:53am On Dec 30, 2017 |
A guy asked you out, you said no but keep collecting gifts from him and even go to the length of requesting financial assistance from him. When he ask for gratification, you claim you're not interested. Shaking my head for all this awon David sisters(slay queens). I don't justify rape, but ladies pls stop following guys to their houses if you don't want the unusual to happen. It's a passionate plea 2 Likes |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by Nobody: 2:00am On Dec 30, 2017 |
TheUbermensch: May you live long! |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by cococandy(f): 2:25am On Dec 30, 2017 |
Oh I get you. Before we blame the rapist, let’s make sure the victim didn’t do anything to make him behave like the beast he is? Let’s blame every other person until there is no one but the attacker to blame. Then we can blame him (if we ever get to that). Yes you make a lot of sense. Not. Wondering why this your approach and many like yours has done nothing to curb the rise of rape? instead we see emboldened criminals who know that nobody will hold them accountable. You’re silly beyond word for this typing this nonsense for me to read. TheUbermensch: 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by TheUbermensch: 2:29am On Dec 30, 2017 |
cococandy: Well blaming just the rapist without reprimanding the woman hasn't done much good either. They go about scantily dressed with lose morals and someone decides to take advantage of them. You look a man in the eyes, you're nearly unclad, you're talking dirty, and making seductive moves, then he rapes you. Now we're supposed to hang the man, because he raped you, because you led him on. So we blame one and leave the other. Lol. You're so smart. Rubbish. |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by TheUbermensch: 2:50am On Dec 30, 2017 |
cococandy: Your sense of reasonable reasoning is quite deficient. But I won't blame you. You're a woman. Stupid emotion has clouded your proper reasoning. 2 Likes |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by cococandy(f): 3:05am On Dec 30, 2017 |
TheUbermensch:I know. My womanhood is the reason why my sense is inferior to yours. It’s also why you can rape me and blame it on me influencing you to do it. Me being a woman is the reason why you think it’s okay to proudly be a dumbass 9 Likes |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by Afrobobito: 3:20am On Dec 30, 2017 |
nawa oo |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by AlanSugar(m): 3:31am On Dec 30, 2017 |
Cletus77: My brother you got a point here. Since that time she no talk, even while on supposed sick bed, no noise, God dey. Let talk being talk come, no wahala. 1 Like |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by FamousHaybee(m): 3:36am On Dec 30, 2017 |
FortifiedCity: Wise word bro |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by raymod170(m): 3:42am On Dec 30, 2017 |
cococandy: am angry at men that does such behavior really but at the same time women have to be careful that's all am saying. |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by AreaFada2: 3:42am On Dec 30, 2017 |
cococandy:Correct. That should be the case in a civilized environment. But in 9ja things are not quite so yet. I had a personal experience very many years ago. Coming from a place where ra.pe is next to murder in severity/punishment, I met a girl in 9ja. After several rendez-vous we got a bit close. But this babe said no when things got a bit closer. Next time she also said no. So I thought she wasn't ready yet. I really liked her and I was ok with that. Then I had to return. We talked on phone regularly over the next few months. I raised the matter one day and this girl accused me of not liking her. Because if I did I would have persisted to sleep with her. The above scenario is not unusual at all. But still never assume that every girl does it that way. People are different. That really surprised me. I discussed it with a friend and he just laughed saying "so you carry that oyinbo style go 9ja?". He said once the babe don follow you enter room, no leave am until get wetin you want. The perception out there is that girls will first say no. But pull her dress or whatever and she will let you. Now this is very delicate. The line between persuasion and forceful act can be easily blurred. For a guy, to be on the safe side, consider no as meaning no. Certainly never even consider sexual intercourse for the first time with a girl who is inebriated. Do not let her closeness, friendliness and smile deceive you. She might not like you to the point of being intimate with you. Maybe she just likes you, looks up to you as big bro/friend or needs something that you have: money, free ride, comfortable apartment, steady light, etc. But no sexual stuff. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by Etuagievin(m): 3:48am On Dec 30, 2017 |
omoikea:. I didn't follow this guy before I got the news. She could HV seen it anyhow. Don't encourage wrongs with your question. 1 Like |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by AkpaMgbor(m): 3:49am On Dec 30, 2017 |
cococandy:Always insulting, always emotional on men matters, who do you this thing? Can we all pretend not to have read different stories of how a lot of men have been falsely accused of rape, locked up for years only for the truth to surface after wasting the Man’s years in a cold cell?? Swear you haven’t read such stories...any girl can claim her boyfriend raped her...it is not like a dating couple sign an MOU before having sex? Guys I think it’s better you all start signing MOUs before having sex with your girlfriends, that way you will have an alibi Or better still, abstain TOTALLY from women and sex..because the day you fall out Favour with a girl you’re dating and she decides to fvck your shyte up with the rape card NOBODY will believe your own part of the story.. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by cococandy(f): 3:53am On Dec 30, 2017 |
Is that what happened in this case? Mumu AkpaMgbor: 4 Likes |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by cococandy(f): 3:55am On Dec 30, 2017 |
AreaFada2: @bold, that’s the mindset of many Nigerian guys especially these ones quoting me on this thread. That’s why they are upset about my post. Many are rapists in one form or another: It’s only a matter of time before justice catches up with them. Imagine in 2017 we are still debating a woman’s right to her body. Disgusting 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "EL DATO @Therealdato Tried To Rape Me In 2012" - Lady Recounts Her Experience by cococandy(f): 3:58am On Dec 30, 2017 |
raymod170:That has no room in this conversation You may mean well but it gives an underlying impression that the rapist isn’t responsible for his/her own actions. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
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