thesuave10:


Dumbass bîtch. I wish the same for you and your daughters. Chicken head bastaŕd

cococandy:
Still nothing justifies rape but you typed an entire post justifying it?

Mor0n

omoikea:
He didn't rape you then according to you but i want to ask a question why are you still following him up and down on social media


Just tell us you were raped and lets recommend you that centre that they use to treat people like you


someone should remind me the name they call that place

omoikea:
He didn't rape you then according to you but i want to ask a question why are you still following him up and down on social media


Just tell us you were raped and lets recommend you that centre that they use to treat people like you


someone should remind me the name they call that place

cococandy:



Randy he-goat. You will be caught in the act and executed jungle justice style.

Keep supporting your fellow rapists.

thesuave10:


Block head. Next time you'll read and understand before opening that shît hole you call a mouth

TheUbermensch:



Woman calm your balls.
That guy was right. There are signals. You don't expect to enter a guy's house acting all cozy and sluttish and expect all to be well for you.
Rape is just an act. There are certain factors that preempt it. So why should the dude always get the full blame?! Because he committed the act? So every other thing before it should be overlooked?! So y'all should be allowed to dress as indecent as y'all choose and the moment a guy touches you, it's shout. Smh

You are addressed the way you're dressed and the facade you put up.

Still nothing justifies rape.

lezz:


At the emboldened, what then is all the long epistle you have been chirping if you’re going to contradict yourself eventually?

TheUbermensch:


Maybe. just maybe you don't understand what the word "mortify" means.

What I did was just present facts most people are to sleepy to notice or talk about. We're all quick to blame the man for forcing sex, but no one is saying anything to the ladies. No one is telling them to be more dressed down. No one is telling them to leave sluttish behaviours for the bedroom only. No one is telling them to be more vigilant. No one is telling them to be careful of the expensive gifts they receive from male friends, because every gift deserves something in return, and most times against your will.

We do none of that. We just blame the man for lack of self restraint without taking into fact that something must have preempted such.

Let females start being more decently and quitting most of the harmful habits they exhibit these days and you'd see a reduction (yes because you can't expect totality. We're dealing with humans here) in rape cases.

And then when a woman is crying foul, we can truly say the man is a beast.

bitchcrafts:
Oga, stop trying too hard to make sense out of nonsense. You've already talk the talk. "The man is a beast" and should be locked away to serve as deterrent for other men with his type if mentality. You forgot to add that he is a f.ool too, a big one at that actually minding how he was so chill about the whole thing in his chat like this is just peanut and business as usual . The real talk about this is that this business as usual attitude towards this sensitive and emotion wrecking disaster against women as if they are preys living long enough to be devoured should be discouraged. What are oloshos/ashewos there for? If konji wan kee u, grab one! Instead of raping someone who is not interested in trading coochie for tipping!!

TheUbermensch:




You women are so emotional to a point that you sound unreasonable. You don't know what actually went down between them. Don't take a one-sided convo and truncated WhatsApp chat for the truth.

fatymore:
Rubbish....

TheUbermensch:


Maybe. just maybe you don't understand what the word "mortify" means.

What I did was just present facts most people are to sleepy to notice or talk about. We're all quick to blame the man for forcing sex, but no one is saying anything to the ladies. No one is telling them to be more dressed down. No one is telling them to leave sluttish behaviours for the bedroom only. No one is telling them to be more vigilant. No one is telling them to be careful of the expensive gifts they receive from male friends, because every gift deserves something in return, and most times against your will.

We do none of that. We just blame the man for lack of self restraint without taking into fact that something must have preempted such.

Let females start being more decently and quitting most of the harmful habits they exhibit these days and you'd see a reduction (yes because you can't expect totality. We're dealing with humans here) in rape cases.

And then when a woman is crying foul, we can truly say the man is a beast.

I see your posts. You just go shaming men without agreeing the ladies to have a role to play to prevent rape.

You're not in your right frame of mind.

TheUbermensch:


Maybe. just maybe you don't understand what the word "mortify" means.

What I did was just present facts most people are to sleepy to notice or talk about. We're all quick to blame the man for forcing sex, but no one is saying anything to the ladies. No one is telling them to be more dressed down. No one is telling them to leave sluttish behaviours for the bedroom only. No one is telling them to be more vigilant. No one is telling them to be careful of the expensive gifts they receive from male friends, because every gift deserves something in return, and most times against your will.

We do none of that. We just blame the man for lack of self restraint without taking into fact that something must have preempted such.

Let females start being more decently and quitting most of the harmful habits they exhibit these days and you'd see a reduction (yes because you can't expect totality. We're dealing with humans here) in rape cases.

And then when a woman is crying foul, we can truly say the man is a beast.

I see your posts. You just go shaming men without agreeing the ladies to have a role to play to prevent rape.

You're not in your right frame of mind.

cococandy:
Oh I get you.

Before we blame the rapist, let’s make sure the victim didn’t do anything to make him behave like the beast he is?
Let’s blame every other person until there is no one but the attacker to blame. Then we can blame him (if we ever get to that).
Yes you make a lot of sense. Not.

Wondering why this your approach and many like yours has done nothing to curb the rise of rape? instead we see emboldened criminals who know that nobody will hold them accountable.

You’re silly beyond word for this typing this nonsense for me to read.

cococandy:


Are you this dumb or just trying so hard to be?

I’m convinced you’re a rapist. The way you’re reaching so hard, making up scenarios that didn’t happen and are in no way related to this case shows that you will go out of your to defend a rapist. I’m scared for any unsuspecting female around you.

Let me spell it out for you again. Even if everything you conjectured in that your perverted fantasy of a post did happen and you rape a woman who didn’t agree to have sex with you, you deserve to be hanged by your p3nis. Nonsense

TheUbermensch:



Your sense of reasonable reasoning is quite deficient. But I won't blame you. You're a woman. Stupid emotion has clouded your proper reasoning.

Cletus77:
Since that tym sister no talk
Wel na talk dey bring talk
I hate rapists to the core and if any of em take the wrong gal... God wil forgive me...

FortifiedCity:


I really don't know what to say here. But a lot of times, women send out wrong signals.

If you are a guy and a woman visits you. I am not saying you shouldn't make moves to touch her, but if you make that move and she says 'STOP, ' Please put back your prick in your trouser and let her be.

I know some will say you are not man enough for not putting pressure on her. But it's better than you being labeled a rapist.

cococandy:


Or you could direct your prevention techniques towards the men by calling out such behavior. You’re part of the problem

cococandy:

No actually you should shut up and listen to me since I’m the woman here.

No means No.

It doesn’t mean any stupid signal.

omoikea:
He didn't rape you then according to you but i want to ask a question why are you still following him up and down on social media


Just tell us you were raped and lets recommend you that centre that they use to treat people like you


someone should remind me the name they call that place

cococandy:


Are you this dumb or just trying so hard to be?

I’m convinced you’re a rapist. The way you’re reaching so hard, making up scenarios that didn’t happen and are in no way related to this case shows that you will go out of your to defend a rapist. I’m scared for any unsuspecting female around you.

Let me spell it out for you again. Even if everything you conjectured in that your perverted fantasy of a post did happen and you rape a woman who didn’t agree to have sex with you, you deserve to be hanged by your p3nis. Nonsense

AkpaMgbor:

Always insulting, always emotional on men matters, who do you this thing? Can we all pretend not to have read different stories of how a lot of men have been falsely accused of rape, locked up for years only for the truth to surface after wasting the Man’s years in a cold cell?? Swear you haven’t read such stories...any girl can claim her boyfriend raped her...it is not like a dating couple sign an MOU before having sex? Guys I think it’s better you all start signing MOUs before having sex with your girlfriends, that way you will have an alibi

AreaFada2:

Correct. That should be the case in a civilized environment. But in 9ja things are not quite so yet.

I had a personal experience very many years ago. Coming from a place where ra.pe is next to murder in severity/punishment, I met a girl in 9ja. After several rendez-vous we got a bit close. But this babe said no when thing got a bit loser. Next time she also said no. So I thought she wasn't ready yet. I really liked her and nI was ok with that. Then I had to return. We talked on phone regularly over the next few months. I raised the matter one day and this girl accused me of not liking her. Because if I did I would have persisted to sleep with her. :

The above scenario is not unusual at all. But still never assume that every girl does it that way. People are different.

That really surprised me. I discussed it with a friend and he just laughed saying "so you carry that oyinbo style go 9ja?". He said once the babe don follow you enter room, no leave am until get wetin you want .

The perception out there is that girls will first say no. But pull her dress or whatever and she will let you.

Now this is very delicate. The line between persuasion and forceful act can be easily blurred.

For a guy, to be on the safe side, consider no as meaning no. Certainly never even consider sexual intercourse for the first time with a girl who is inebriated.

Do not let her closeness, friendliness and smile deceive you. She might not like you to the point of being intimate with you. Maybe she just likes you, looks up to you as big bro/friend or needs something that you have: money, free ride, comfortable apartment, steady light, etc. But no sexual stuff.

raymod170:


am angry at men that does such behavior really but at the same time women have to be careful that's all am saying.