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Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Ishilove: 1:11pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
BellaElla:I tell you somtin, you come tink sey na anoda tin I mean, and you sef no kukuma cool down to query me wetin i min by di tin wey I tok, you com read opposite meaning. E com dey cause wahala, and the only solution na to separate. Really fickle and immature people. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 1:14pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Lexusgs430:The problem is who will make the first move. I think the op should send an sms to her just to test the waters before proceeding. 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 1:16pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
doreto:Better go get your wife if you still love her. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Ishilove: 1:19pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Theflint1:And it is going to get worse. |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Wetlink: 2:11pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Miscommunication, insults and the likes? And who is the victim? You? Your wife? I feel you are holding back vital information that will help analyze your situation properly. Anyhow anyhow, good luck to you. 12 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by eniolorunfe: 2:24pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
doreto: You're so scared and yet you are here talking about reconciliation ![]() ![]() Have you addressed what is causing your fears ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by ezugegere(m): 2:44pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
@Op, which form of marriage did you contract? How old are you? How old is your wife? Have you been trying to have babies together? Is your wife working? What kind of job is she doing? Are her parents still married or separated too? Do you know her closest friends? Where has she been since you were separated? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 3:41pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
ezugegere: If you ask me...na who i go ask? 1 Like |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by lonelydora: 10:25pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Pipedreams: I see ego on your part. Be humble...you learn and go far in life. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Iammercy2018: 10:26pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Pipedreams:chai see human being, I don laff tire ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by LyfeJennings(m): 10:28pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Pipedreams: If she truly care She would reach out to U even if na hi or call with a private no 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Obierika(m): 10:29pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Mr man move on with your life and forget the dead marriage! 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Boyooosa(m): 10:29pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
If you KNOW the person you married very well and you convincingly wish to have her back, you can do it with or without 3rd person(s). Firstly, trace the cause of the problem and frantically resolve that. If the issue is monetary, then I ll advise you sort that out while you keep in touch with her. 6 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Charly68: 10:29pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Under 4 months separation you don't know your wife's whereabout again;if this is a joke better stop it..don't you know her family's house ? Go and beg her parents to help you beg her ... |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by goldenval(m): 10:31pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
doreto: Something is not right here. If I were you I would moved on because your wife supposed to atleast try to call you since then but since she didn’t called why trying to make peace with her since she already moved on or maybe she is in love with another man. 4 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by austertee01(m): 10:33pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
So what advise precisely have you given? Sometimes, "I too know" kills faster then AIDS. Ishilove: 19 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by udi4eva(m): 10:36pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Call her since u want to reconcile. Beg her if possible, there is no shame in it. It doesn't make you a lesser man, neither does it make her a super woman. We humans just have a way to complicate a simple life. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Deprofessional(m): 10:41pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Immediately after my wedding 7 years ago, my mother called me one night and gave me a piece of advice that has kept me a happily married man. My mother told me never to allow any problem or disagreement with my wife to linger for a long time. She told me that I should always make a move to reconcile with my wife even if she is the one at fault. According to my mother, people will see me as not capable of holding my family together if my marriage fails. There are times I will shout, scold and use bad words on my wife, but before the next day, I will make reconciliation moves. I will apologize, kiss and even make love to her. With this strategy, my family lives in happiness. What works for my family may not work for yours. But from your post I can see ego and pride in you. Nothing kill marriage like ego and pride. And please don't ever think that the next woman is better than your wife. 83 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Mariangeles(f): 10:42pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
doreto:You seem like a difficult person! 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by pressplay411(m): 10:43pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
The problem with the two of you is Agidi! You're too stubborn. If you love each other one of you or both have to learn to give in, be the bigger "man". If it's not a case of infidelity and you don't know how to talk to you woman, then I just have to ask, what exactly did yall do during courtship cos yall don't seem to understand each other. 10 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Praktikals(m): 10:44pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
doreto:Dont make it obvious that you want a reconciliation or she will always rub it in your face, that sebi you were the one begging me to come back. Involve an elder in your family or your pastor. The elder will be the one to call the two of you. Pls dont call her directly. 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 10:47pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Deprofessional: African mentality...U care about your image to society I doubt you really love ur wife..Fake smiles to the public eyes then die inside the house...shior. I'm sure your from Anambra. Nmayi si 10 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Iolo(m): 10:47pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Praktikals: Wrong advise. Elder no dey there when dem marry. The two of them can resolve this if they both want to. If one person no gree the oda waka. No b by force. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by majola(m): 10:48pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Op, i will advice you to be humble enough to put a call across to her first, requesting to see her. Her response will determine your next step. Be open and honest about your desire for reconciliation. I am pretty sure you will then know if she is ready for it. You can as well reach me if you need more information as regarding this type of problem. I wish you a successful reconciliation! 5 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 10:49pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
EgunMogaji:For christ's sake, this is marriage we are talking about. You dont expect him to throw his marriage away just like that. You fix things not throw it away. If everybody keeps moving on like you adviced.., what do you think will be fate of marriages? I give op kudos for thinking of reconcilation. Divorce should never be an option in marriage. You work things out with all you have untill your partner says No. 20 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 10:49pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Iolo: Gbam! I never believe in bringing 3party, If e no work e no work...If she doesnt listen to you. and reason with you .then no be ur wife be dat |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Mariangeles(f): 10:50pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
doreto:Nothing kills a relationship faster than lack of communication. Lack of communication kills connection between spouses...I wouldn't want to be reconciled with you if I were your wife! Modified: You couldn't even take charge of your relationship as a man! 7 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 10:50pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
With the way all these s.hit marriages are going, I may never get married, or I will be a serial monogamist. E no go bad make I marry six times. Each marriage like 5 years or less. Nobody got time for all the heartaches. Fuc.k marriage! |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 10:51pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
missbronze: Who said things cannot be thrown away? Marriage is a social construct and can be done away with, any time anyday. 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 10:55pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
KOPT33: Bro marriage hard especially with nigerian ladies..There mentality is really bleeped up. its only a white or non nigerian wey fit love you genuinely...Most of the ladies just want the glam glam of wedding and not marriage. OP ur wife never call u for 4months and u tink dats a wife thats meek?? Bro better women boku..forget that woman. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 10:55pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Pipedreams:What exactly is your problem? You are willing to let go of your marriage.., the person you quoted isnt willing to let go of his own. He puts his pride aside, listens to his mum for his marriage to work. Leave him alone pls, Everyone cannot be like you. 32 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by abike12(f): 10:55pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
doreto: the person that gave you this advice is married and living with his wife, you are saying wisdom. anyone can give advice that sounds sweet but at the end of the day you will be the one to live with the consequences, you know where the shoe is pinching you, you know how easy or not it is for you to live alone, you know what truly happened in that relationship. there is no pride in love, if you want her back contact her and pour your heart out without pride so that you will know in your heart that you tried, also please listen to her and try to see things from her perspective (it's very hard to do this and i'm still learning). if things still don't work out then move on with your lessons and I pray God puts a smile on your face soonest. 22 Likes 4 Shares |
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