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Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by prettyprettywow: 11:24pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
useless advice EgunMogaji: 15 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by vchykp(m): 11:24pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
doreto: I hardly comment on posts, but if this story is real and i have to advice you, truth is bitter but i wont guarantee you she is a good woman. Tho you may see it as just "lets see and forget d past".. but dier is a prob 1 Like |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Mariangeles(f): 11:25pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
luminouz:No...you shut up and mind your business! |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 11:26pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
As an unlicensed but nonetheless practicing amateur psychologist (and gynecologist, but that’s for another thread), some of the respondents flat out scare me. Traits of possessiveness, jealous mood swings, etc abound. Some of these folks will cause headlines like husband killed wife, wife poured hot water on husband, etc in the future. Let it go guys. Your beautiful wifey/hubby that you can’t breathe without was doing fine before he/she met you, will do fine afterwards and certainly didn’t die in the 4 months in the example of the OP. 6 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 11:27pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 11:28pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
luminouz: Come on man, stop being mean, they love each other, what’s wrong with you, have a heart ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by luminouz(m): 11:29pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Mariangeles:Keep Quiet!! Slowpòke!! ![]() |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 11:30pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
SO many self righteous, religious, two-timing, manipulative pigs on this thread. Very quick to quote scriptures. Baba if u had a kid ur trapped and u must go beg cos of that baby. Its not working out niyen...Just focus on ur hustle. The beautiful ones that would be good to you and respect you arent born!! Divorce will be harder on ur wife cos many african families frown at ladies not able to keep there home. Regrets will finally be hers. She will ask her self why she didnt grab u with her two hands when she had the chance. Pls dont be weak. Sometimes I get lonely too but I step out and rev up the streets!! Nothing do man. You can pick a wife at anytime so far you get the raba! 5 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by GrammarCheck: 11:32pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Deprofessional: Forgiveness is the elixir. The night before my wedding, my mother in law told me, the day you decided to marry this man, you have decided to forgive every sin he will commit between now and forever. She has been married 50 years. So her advise stuck. The reason most marriages are still working out is because of forgiveness. 9 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 11:34pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
luminouz:Na wa for you guys. When has "reconcilation move" turn to a woman thing only? Do you even know what transpired btw them? Lets stop jumping into hasty conclusions abeg. 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Thegeneralqueen(f): 11:36pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Pipedreams:All I see in you is pride and ego who knows what your wife might have gone through in your hands ![]() 10 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by luminouz(m): 11:41pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
EgunMogaji:I'm real n raw n alien! A woman n a man who stayed off for 4 months from each other ain't got LOVE in dia dictionary!!! N d OP NOW feels after 4 months,he should reach out?? For real? SMH!!! Dat marriage is over...even if she accepts,he will always be d one begging!!! Lemme share u this: I got this girl who was heartbroken by her ex a while back,I met her n we cool but I noticed she always kept saying no man will ever control her like her ex,always talking bitterly. I warned d cootie to stop but she won't...she went outta her way to piss me off(after telling her I don't like such ish). N she would sulk for days. I was d one to reach out n settle ish..TILL I noticed she never changed n always wanted me to reach out..cuz I'm d MAN(so she says)...n since I ain't no pussy ass nigga.... What I did was simple.....I invited her,fvcked her to my satisfaction n when she went off-key as usual...I raked her to death with my mouth,then asked her to leave ASAP. Her surprise n confusion warmed my bed for days. She thought I would apologize for her bitterness like before.Nothing would make me call her AGAIN!!! Some women n men are just bad MARKET!!! It's best u avoid them 10 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by luminouz(m): 11:44pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
missbronze:I ain't supporting d OP babe!!!!! It's a 2-way thing...since none of them is ready to fix that ish till it got to d 4th MONTH!!! For me it's over!! I can't imagine never yakking with my wife for dat long n she also never made moves to work things out...it simply means we are done!! 1 Like |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by missyadorable(f): 11:46pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
doreto: Rantings of a very fooooolish man. Your mates would have married a new wife now Or got a sexx doll. But you are here,disgracing men 4 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 11:49pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
missyadorable: As in I feel like beating him up. I detest weak men. I was like you before until I maned up! Baba I fit give you two controls that will take care of you and cook for you at no price at all lol 5 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Binelelyon: 11:49pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
As you take propose and marry her use the same method na. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 11:49pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
luminouz: The OP's wife might be somewhere saying "for a man to stay off for 4mths, he is done..." But look at OP, is he done? The problem most people have is pride. No one wants to be the first person to break the silence. Very bad.... 8 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Mariangeles(f): 11:55pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
luminouz:You are so immature! |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 11:55pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Humility....but is there humility on her part |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by luminouz(m): 11:55pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
AntiBrutus:U right on d first to break d silence ish....n daz IT right there!! Love is supposed to be humble n forgiving yeah?? But these 2 went at it for 4 months. From my experience,if dat man wins her back,he must be ready to make concessions in dat marriage,cuz she might(note this word) take his humility for granted n misbehaves! |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by luminouz(m): 11:57pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Mariangeles(f): 11:57pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Deprofessional:You're a good man! 5 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 11:57pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
luminouz:Dear, i tot they said. , "absence makes the hrt grow fonder" ![]() Ignore the time wasted.., Focus on the new renewed love that will follow suit. I pray all works well btw op and his wife. I am tired of reading about divorced marriages and broken homes pls. Make dem give us (the singles) hope na. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Mariangeles(f): 11:58pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
luminouz:Kids don't get married! 1 Like |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by TEYA: 12:00am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Ishilove:If you tell them they will come up with all sort of silly excuses on how sometimes marriages don't work. The world is getting more and more selfish by the day. Couples seldom think about their kids, just themselves, themselves, themselves! 1 Like |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by luminouz(m): 12:01am On Apr 10, 2018 |
missbronze:Lol..there are some absences that make d heart grow longer! Cuz they are cut off from rubbish influences! I hope it works out!!! Marriage as an institution has lost its appeal to me! U should see what I see here daily.....only few couples still get it right!! |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Adebowale89(m): 12:01am On Apr 10, 2018 |
don't rush for reconciliation if you don't gain her audience. gaining audience first would make your reconciliation a ease text her in the morning, hot text. call her in the afternoon to check on her, ask about her day and drop. don't talk much, much talk could make her feel bored and hinder the reconciliation after 2 to 3days conversation, take her out to a garden where u guys can relax and talk(about life, what she likes gisting about), don't reconcile there, take her back home the next day, na she go dey expect your call or text, in as much as u have gained her audience then reconciliation would be entering her brain 6 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by luminouz(m): 12:02am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 12:05am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by luminouz(m): 12:07am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Pipedreams: ![]() |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Omowiseonelove(m): 12:07am On Apr 10, 2018 |
I know a good counsellor , who will give a good advise to follow .you can check on is Facebook or twitter page @bisiadewale |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by luminouz(m): 12:09am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Adebowale89:Nice moves!!!! Only a few matured women will acknowledge this n won't turn it into some sort of ego- tripping shiiit! 3 Likes |
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