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Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Butterflyleo: 6:49am On Apr 10, 2018 |
EgunMogaji: Attachment disorder. You cannot muster the heat so stop crying over it. |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 6:51am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Butterflyleo: Where's the heat? ![]() |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by SavoG(f): 6:53am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Am a mediator also in law school, how can i help. |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Butterflyleo: 6:54am On Apr 10, 2018 |
EgunMogaji: Its gone dude. Took the 8:45 out of Louisville 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 6:54am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by AlanSugar(m): 7:00am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Lexusgs430: Succum to their own lust abi? Lolz! Pastors are fuckinggg useless! 1 Like |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by mrmachine: 7:08am On Apr 10, 2018 |
doreto: Just pray she had not slept with another man. Because, that would make reconciliation difficult. It is a good thing that you want to reconcile with your wife. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by DWJOBScom(m): 7:13am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Pipedreams:This is a horrible line 1 Like |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Bellarod05: 7:13am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Even 4month small self,I have seen cases of 1 year - 19 years of separation,what will be will be,I read the 19 years separation through my church handbill(winners) and that of one year happens to a close relative of which the two were willing to come back after they had a serious quarrel but the groom mums insist no more marriage and the wife mum too raises curses on the husband and his entire family for ruining their daughter life and bringing shame to them when the guy insisted he was no longer interested in marriage after just few months of staying together. @op,don't listen to advice from some people here to discontinue,else you will always give up on your subsequent marriage and you will realise none of them was even better than the first. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by sharpwriter(m): 7:15am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Ishilove: Na you I go marry.... you no be indomie generation ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by LotannaAnaekwe: 7:21am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Pipedreams: Good morning Sir, I have read many of your posts concerning your failed marriage. Although it may not be your fault, but icant fail to notice how you choose to drag others with same problem as yours to make the decisions you made. Don't ask him to move on, like you did.The fact your marriage is hopelessly dead andgone doesn't mean others cannot be revived. I'm a Catholic, to people like me, marriage is a sacrament and must be respected by all means possible. Be careful with your ill advice here to couples going through similar crises. @doreto Be very careful with the advice you get here. Your marriage of course, like every other marriages have it's ups and downs. The first few years is usually like this;marriage sustainability isn't about love but companionship. I'm happy you are beginning to feel your need for her, your reconciliation is a testimony to the fact that you need her as your companion and not basically what you feel about her and her attitude. Reach out to her, there are ladies with stone cold heart at first.My wife is like that. She rather cry everytime and keep having swollen eyes than to let her guard down to say she is sorry. When bring her close and pets her, she breaks down and the heaps of apologies begins to pour in. There are women like that. Please contact her. Bear your mind and make your rules about your dos and don't. Listen to hers as well. If she is willing, she will come back. And I know she will. Good luck 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Mac2016(m): 7:35am On Apr 10, 2018 |
doreto:simply drop ur ego and be a fool! 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Ishilove: 7:38am On Apr 10, 2018 |
frenzyduchess: ![]() ![]() 5 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by LotannaAnaekwe: 7:41am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Pipedreams: This guy you never heal at all. The irreparable loss of your marriage is clearly driving you nuts!!!! You're still very bitter. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 7:49am On Apr 10, 2018 |
missyadorable: Abeg give me that thing wen u dey smoke. I need some. ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by LotannaAnaekwe: 7:49am On Apr 10, 2018 |
InvertedHammer: So 4 months of non communication is enough to state that marriage is over? Una funny o. 4 Likes |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Prettyyemi(f): 7:58am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Don't assume anything... Get her contact, go to her house.. And tell her what u think.. I pray it works out fine for u 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 8:19am On Apr 10, 2018 |
doreto: Do all you can to get your woman back! Great start you have here. Re-establish communication and bring back love ignition into the union. God hate divorce |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by dandyke(m): 8:21am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Don't get tired of reconciling with her, play ur part by showing how much u need her back. Talk to her parents, possibly involve ur parents as well there is no problem without a solution. Let heaven and nature know that u've tried ur best. It's too early to move on. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by mistyebby(f): 8:21am On Apr 10, 2018 |
doreto: Its clear you two lost it at some point, it happens in every relationship. It could be worked on. '' You being in a great place emotionally'' almost says it all, sounds like you fraustrated her out of the marriage and you are cool with the separation. If your wife is aware of this your " comfort zone'' I bet you she will never return. You married her, she agreed to spend the rest of her life with you. And if you wake up one day and see no use for her, the message you are getting across is that she can leave. Women are very sensitive and emotional being, im sure she is crying her heart out wherever she is just waiting for your call. Since there was no violence, no mistrust you can still save your marriage. Leave your emotional great place and call your wife. If she is still adamant, involve her family then if theres no positive result, bounce. But just do your part, for judgement day sake. And please, prepare your mind to accept her before you embark on this mission. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by ehnkay: 8:25am On Apr 10, 2018 |
EgunMogaji:Enough already! give up...... you've been served 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by MrBottle: 8:33am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Pipedreams brother.. It is quite obvious that you love your wife so much but pride won't let you ask her back. I wouldn't be surprised if you go back crawling on your broken knees to beg her to come back. Take time to heal....damn it and stop polluting this thread with your bitterness. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 8:43am On Apr 10, 2018 |
doreto:you can't say you're no more emotional until you're into the relationship again. Try to lower your ego by taking the first step on reconciliation. Don't expect results immediately and don't be temperamental at the rxns from her. work better on yourself cos even if you decide to marry another wife, you may end up the same way 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by AlexVercetti(m): 8:50am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Women are attracted to words...Bro...Start by sending her sweet late night texts about her having a good night or a great day the next day...Do this every night everyday no matter if she replies or not..I repeat everyday..Don't call till she calls you..Then send her airtime n sub card once or twice a week for 2 weeks...If she doesn't contact you...Buy her gifts..Start with small ones like clothes,bags,perfumes,etc..Use someone that she listens to to deliver the gifts..If its not possible..No wahala..Don't go personally..U can attached nice words to the gifts..If she doesn't respond..Buy bigger gifts but not so big or expensive ones...If she responds and u guys are little bit cool...Knack her alert..Like 100k or 200k,etc depending on you what can spare..Dont bring the fights topics till she brings it up or till she's home with u..Even when you talk bout it..Dont blame her too much...Blame yourself..U can insult yourself to the core...She will be yours bro...I have tried...Goodluck bro... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by BellaElla(f): 8:52am On Apr 10, 2018 |
MrBottle: Its pitiable to see someone so scarred by a failed relationship. The bile in him is shocking. Instead of him to learn here or at least contribute meaningfully, he want so drag the OP down into his hopeless abyss with him Pipedreams, you have decided not to reconcile with your partner, Bravo! Good and fine! Your choice! I can see how well that has worked out for you Please leave those that want to make reconciliation efforts to actually do so. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by adanny01(m): 8:55am On Apr 10, 2018 |
EgunMogaji: LOL You have been "Americanized". It is my believe that Nigerians who are not overly xposed to western marriage do take a lot of shiit from their spouses. We get married and stick to it for better for worst. Besides, divorce has a stigma over here, people tend to choose marrying a second wife than divorce. A divorcee carries a red flag on the head that alerts other suitors while families consider them weak. |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by MrBottle: 8:55am On Apr 10, 2018 |
BellaElla:It is truly pitiable. Initially i wanted to ignore his posts but....goddamnit. Dude is drowning and hurting but he hates to admit it. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 8:56am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Ishilove:that's the fact, even going through this thread a discerning person can smell the bitterness and frustration in their comments. They are too emotionally immature to handle a relationship, they crawl on threads where they can discourage others from fixing their relationship after all they too don't have any,so it makes sense that you find their comments on ashawo thread ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 9:04am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Sulukag:@ doreto, this could also be another way. |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by BlueScholar(m): 9:22am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Lexusgs430: Omo ![]() |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by efavour: 9:24am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Praktikals:Please don't take this advice here. There is nothing as romantic as a man shelving his pride to reach out or even seduce his wife after a fight. She will forgive you everything even if you were in the wrong . 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Lexusgs430: 9:27am On Apr 10, 2018 |
BlueScholar: Nah all this jamb questions go determine if road close or open nah, Oga mi........... 1 Like |
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