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Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by highqueen(f): 4:11pm On Apr 12, 2018
prechbills1:
not legally undecided
Lol
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Beey(f): 4:13pm On Apr 12, 2018
prechbills1:


oya come and pamper me grin
LOL Peace ✌️!
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by prechbills1(m): 4:14pm On Apr 12, 2018
Beey:
LOL Peace ✌️!

she ice'
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by prechbills1(m): 4:15pm On Apr 12, 2018
highqueen:

Lol

why are you laughing? when will you too get married? grin if your guy is wasting time, kindly propose to him by yourself smiley
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by prechbills1(m): 4:16pm On Apr 12, 2018
care for your partner like no other✌
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by highqueen(f): 4:22pm On Apr 12, 2018
prechbills1:


why are you laughing? when will you too get married? grin if your guy is wasting time, kindly propose to him by yourself smiley
lmao.
funny you.

I will get married in due time,hope you are coming to spray me dollars.cheesy
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by highqueen(f): 4:23pm On Apr 12, 2018
prechbills I hope to see prewedding picture.smileycheesy
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by prechbills1(m): 4:37pm On Apr 12, 2018
highqueen:

lmao.
funny you.

I will get married in due time,hope you are coming to spray me dollars.cheesy

I live in roses✌


It'd be nice spraying you with some dolls!

you're older than me right? angry
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by prechbills1(m): 4:37pm On Apr 12, 2018
highqueen:
prechbills I hope to see prewedding picture.smileycheesy

kinda childish to me...
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by highqueen(f): 5:08pm On Apr 12, 2018
prechbills1:

I live in roses✌

It'd be nice spraying you with some dolls!
you're older than me right? angry
lol,not atall. I never reach 24 oo.
I need those dolls.tongue
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by highqueen(f): 5:11pm On Apr 12, 2018
prechbills1:

kinda childish to me...
lol,okay.
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 6:15pm On Apr 12, 2018
VictorRomanov:


Comprehension is a serious problem.

I believe you as a lady should be in a better position to advice him. It's no a mentality issue. It's the reality. We live in a society where the idea is for a man to provide for his family and somehow, this idea has spread across everyone one living in this society. If a woman is the bread winner of a family because of change in the husband's circumstances, eg: loss of job, accident etc, that's understandable. But if a capable man who is able lets his wife become the bread winner of the family he should be ready to let her make the decision he is suppose to make. It is just natural. Someone cannot be feeding you and you'll be telling the person what to do. It's not done. I am only telling him so he knows what he's getting into. I never said it was wrong for him to marry an older and richer woman. Every decision has consequences. He should be aware of the consequences when he's deciding.
You were obviously the one who has comprehension problems no need for this epistle.
You have a point though.Your problem is ego it's written all over your post because you have a joystick as a man you believe you automatically have sense.
There are families in which the man is the breadwinner and all what you believe the lady would exhibit the wives who contribute no quarter to the family do so.

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Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 7:36pm On Apr 12, 2018
Correct
SafetyFirst:
Boy, listen to your mother o!
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by BrutusOj(m): 7:51pm On Apr 12, 2018
khiaa:


Read it again, he clearly stated that he loves her. undecided
conditional love
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by chccho(m): 8:57pm On Apr 12, 2018
prechbills1:

my marriage is going to last!

stop wishing me bad please!
I'm from isoko in Delta not Yoruba

ISOKO KE!!! Thats even worse.
The last babe i dated was isoko, mehn that girl almost killed me ( for real) it was God that saved me from marrying her cos i was just a few months to marrying her.
She was also desperate like u about marriage and very very stubborn too.

She was also the kind of person that could ask a dumb question like (can i go ahead and marry without my mothers blessings) cos thats exactly what she did.

OP Its not by force u take to the wise counsel coming from this platform, but if u are wise u will... Just know for sure that when reality hits u u dug your own early grave kid.
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Godsknight(m): 9:30pm On Apr 12, 2018
[quote author=prechbills1 post=66609268] she'd only provide 80% of the things needed for the marriage, I'd provide 20.
I don't know why you guys reason this way [/quote gold digger, go and work.
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 10:51pm On Apr 12, 2018
icedsammy:

it is 7years not 10years sir. be well guided.


alright sir .....am not a man .... thanks a ton
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by nelsonebby(m): 12:09am On Apr 13, 2018
Arondizuogu:
Give your mom an ultimatum: I'm getting married that's final, either you come or you don't come. Age doesn't play any role in marriage.. if you are matured enough and so is she then I see why not? My GF is 10 years older than me and I currently don't care. Both our families know.
10 years? Lol
I don’t believe that at allllllll
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by prechbills1(m): 12:23am On Apr 13, 2018
highqueen:

lol,not atall.
I never reach 24 oo.

I need those dolls.tongue


hmm... u Neva reach 24?

Goodnight tho
feeling sleepy

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Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 1:27am On Apr 13, 2018
nelsonebby:
10 years? Lol
I don’t believe that at allllllll

Lol. Better believe
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by VictorRomanov: 12:34pm On Apr 13, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:

You were obviously the one who has comprehension problems no need for this epistle.
You have a point though.Your problem is ego it's written all over your post because you have a joystick as a man you believe you automatically have sense.
There are families in which the man is the breadwinner and all what you believe the lady would exhibit the wives who contribute no quarter to the family do so.

I don't know what your problem is, so I can't proffer a solution. I think you re living in dream land. When you wake up we can talk. Go back to that guys post and read it slowly.
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 12:36pm On Apr 13, 2018
VictorRomanov:


I don't know what your problem is, so I can't proffer a solution. I think you re living in dream land. When you wake up we can talk. Go back to that guys post and read it slowly.
I don't have time and I read it all.It is no dreamland Mr man.

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Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 1:25pm On Apr 13, 2018
Una still dey here ....na wa ohh
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by ObaOloye: 7:30pm On Apr 13, 2018
SafetyFirst:
Boy, listen to your mother o!

Trust me when I say that this is the best advice you can get here... Are you a man or a woman Na you go born pikin na abi since na she dey marry you...
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 12:49pm On Apr 14, 2018
Small girl undecided
highqueen:

lol,not atall.
I never reach 24 oo.

I need those dolls.tongue

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Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 2:26pm On Apr 14, 2018
victorian:









Lol, I have a 2012 Range Rover mint black as a second car given to me by husband.

Before I got married, I was driving a Sienna Suv 2007 pure white.

So I change cars at will.

Am not like you.

I bought my Sienna at the age of 28.

I bet your cars u claim to have is daddy's car or imaginary ones.

And why will I sponsor my marriage?
Am not unfortunate like your fiancee who is paying her own bride price, instead of a real man paying her bride price and sponsoring the marriage. She chose to marry you with her hard earned money, that's her problem not mine.
My husband married me and paid my dowry with his own money.. I didn't marry myself.

So go and seat down, kid
mehn dis lady is loadedcheesy.. Cc neezar,UDUJ,DonPiiko cheesy

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Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 2:28pm On Apr 14, 2018
If una see my white and black hummer 3 wey I give out on my birthday una go know say amoshine when amoshine
lefulefu:
mehn dis lady is loadedcheesy.. Cc nezarr,UDUJ,Donpiiko cheesy
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by highpriestess: 2:33pm On Apr 14, 2018
DonPiiko:
Small girl undecided
abi ooo.
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by highpriestess: 2:33pm On Apr 14, 2018
DonPiiko:
Small girl undecided
abi ooo.
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 2:35pm On Apr 14, 2018
Go and buy better phone, this one that makes multiple comments on your behalf na wa o. Whenever I chase girls I like to buy them good phones , ask your boyfriend to do the same. He should not be drinking chivita juice for nothing
highpriestess:

abi ooo.
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by highpriestess: 2:37pm On Apr 14, 2018
DonPiiko:
Go and buy better phone, this one that makes multiple comments on your behalf na wa o. Whenever I chase girls I like to buy them good phones , ask your boyfriend to do the same. He should not be drinking chivita juice for nothing
lol,it's actually where I am,the network is fluctuating. grin

lool,I'm satisfied with the phone I'm using.grintongue
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by UDUJ(m): 2:40pm On Apr 14, 2018
lefulefu:
mehn dis lady is loadedcheesy.. Cc neezar,UDUJ,DonPiiko cheesy

Lefu all of us na mega millionaires like e-money for internet cheesy grin

I take everything I read online with a pinch of salt.

In Nairaland, everybody is an alpha male, independent woman, millionaire/billionaire, handsome dude, pretty lady etc etc cheesy grin

So who are the broke, ugly ones na cheesy

In Nairaland you can be whomever you want to be

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