Link me with her!

ur mom is right

prechbills1:
My fiance and I have been dating for the past 3years. I attained 24 last week, I wanted to get married to her last year but I just wanted to wait till I attain 24.

The problem I have now is my mom. She is opposing our marriage because my fiancee is 5 years older than me, I'm 24 while she's 29. My dad has already endorsed the marriage, I'd have liked to go on with the marriage but I don't think going into marriage without both parents blessing is sensible that's why I need my mom's blessing and endorsement.

My fiance has good character, she's very kind and intelligent, I can't afford to lose her because of pressures from my mom at least I'm an adult.

I don't know what's happening, my mom endorsed our relationship but she doesn't endorse our marriage just because she's 5years older than me. The thing is, I can't leave this lady ,not now not ever, she have done so many things for me.

in fact she even promised to provide 80% of the things needed for the marriage!. She is rich, yes she is, the house I'm in living in now belongs to her, I moved in with her in 2016.

The truth is I love her and I can't afford to lose her because of my mom's wish. Both her parents and my dad have given us go ahead for marriage but my mom still doesn't want me to marry because of age and my fiance is beautiful.

I don't know what do now ,that's why I think I need advice from you guys,.I don't know if I should go ahead with the marriage without my mom's endorsement/blessings.

please advice

Is she the one you love or the comfort she provides?

TheUpsetGirl1:
later guys will start calling us golddiggers, so what are you guys going to call this one

thief go and marry your mate

oildigger!!
ole, you better go and marry your mate, ,no wonder biacan said you depend on a commissioner's daughter for livelihood.

thief

we call it Gold digger too

Send me ur fiancées phone number.. She needs counseling

prechbills1:
My fiance and I have been dating for the past 3years. I attained 24 last week, I wanted to get married to her last year but I just wanted to wait till I attain 24.

The problem I have now is my mom. She is opposing our marriage because my fiancee is 5 years older than me, I'm 24 while she's 29. My dad has already endorsed the marriage, I'd have liked to go on with the marriage but I don't think going into marriage without both parents blessing is sensible that's why I need my mom's blessing and endorsement.

My fiance has good character, she's very kind and intelligent, I can't afford to lose her because of pressures from my mom at least I'm an adult.

I don't know what's happening, my mom endorsed our relationship but she doesn't endorse our marriage just because she's 5years older than me. The thing is, I can't leave this lady ,not now not ever, she have done so many things for me.

in fact she even promised to provide 80% of the things needed for the marriage!. She is rich, yes she is, the house I'm in living in now belongs to her, I moved in with her in 2016.

The truth is I love her and I can't afford to lose her because of my mom's wish. Both her parents and my dad have given us go ahead for marriage but my mom still doesn't want me to marry because of age and my fiance is beautiful.

I don't know what do now ,that's why I think I need advice from you guys,.I don't know if I should go ahead with the marriage without my mom's endorsement/blessings.

please advice

Elope..... When grandkids start to pop, she would grant her blessings (if you still require it)..........

OP is a troll.

If you are yorouba u can go on and marry but if you are igbo don't even try it.

I have my reasons

just wondering how can a 24years old boy control a woman who's almost 30.

Are you marrying her because of love or money ,if the formal is your answer bro go ahead with the marriage .it is you that is getting married not your mother

Her only objection is the age gap? What does she think will happen? Talk to her honestly and frankly if her only objection is the age gap then you will also have to state your reasons for wanting to marry her.

You are no longer a child sometimes you have to go against the tide even if that tide is mother. Does she not want to see you happy? This is what you need to explain to her.

You better marry your sugarmama and move on.

prechbills1:
My fiance and I have been dating for the past 3years. I attained 24 last week, I wanted to get married to her last year but I just wanted to wait till I attain 24.

The problem I have now is my mom. She is opposing our marriage because my fiancee is 5 years older than me, I'm 24 while she's 29. My dad has already endorsed the marriage, I'd have liked to go on with the marriage but I don't think going into marriage without both parents blessing is sensible that's why I need my mom's blessing and endorsement.

My fiance has good character, she's very kind and intelligent, I can't afford to lose her because of pressures from my mom at least I'm an adult.

I don't know what's happening, my mom endorsed our relationship but she doesn't endorse our marriage just because she's 5years older than me. The thing is, I can't leave this lady ,not now not ever, she have done so many things for me.

in fact she even promised to provide 80% of the things needed for the marriage!. She is rich, yes she is, the house I'm in living in now belongs to her, I moved in with her in 2016.

The truth is I love her and I can't afford to lose her because of my mom's wish. Both her parents and my dad have given us go ahead for marriage but my mom still doesn't want me to marry because of age and my fiance is beautiful.

I don't know what do now ,that's why I think I need advice from you guys,.I don't know if I should go ahead with the marriage without my mom's endorsement/blessings.

please advice

diamond digger
becos the babe get money u no want lose her

bettyLad:
just wondering how can a 24years old boy control a woman who's almost 30.

Why does it have to be about control? A marriage cannot be mutually beneficial or it has to be a master and slave sort of arrangement to be called a marriage?

Arondizuogu:
Give your mom an ultimatum: I'm getting married that's final, either you come or you don't come. Age doesn't play any role in marriage.. if you are matured enough and so is she then I see why not? My GF is 10 years older than me and I currently don't care. Both our families know.

are u 4 real, yeah?

The minute you said this, "I can't leave her because she has done so many things for me..." was when I concluded your mom to be right.

Let's tell ourselves the bitter truth. You don't love her, just what she provides. You don't have a valid reason, just the fact that she provides for you.

I'm sure you already have what to do in mind, so I wish you all the best.

hajoke2000:
it's only in this century that we see it as a bad thing..


there are many couples out there who are also like u .....just like Peter okoye amongst others.


URS is just 5yrs that of Peter is 10yrs ..

age is not a barrier.

Leave that peter thing, that's not his real age.

that's celebrity age abi u think sey na only footballer dey falsify their age ni.

MissRaine69:

Why does it have to be about control? A marriage cannot be mutually beneficial or it has to be a master and slave sort of arrangement to be called a marriage?

i dunno 4 all these alpha males oo.....everything control......mtcheeeeeeewwwwwwww

MissRaine69:

Why does it have to be about control? A marriage cannot be mutually beneficial or it has to be a master and slave sort of arrangement to be called a marriage?

abeg leave dat one jaaree notin dey dere

Since it's the mom opposing, then there is something at stake

Cadec007:
are u 4 real, yeah?

Yeah I am.

Guy, do what you will. Your mother is not going to live your life for you

prechbills1:

she'd only provide 80% of the things needed for the marriage, I'd provide 20.

I don't know why you guys reason this way

Guy, go ahead with the marriage, just tell your mum, it's your decision to make, since your dad is with you on these, ure good to go, Don't mind all these mofos and hypocrite telling you trash and gold diggers, If only they meet such a girl like your girlfriend, They won't even think twice b4 marrying her off. They are jealous of your success. I wish you well in your marriage jare, If the marriage will be held in Ibadan, call me, I would love to grace such beautiful occasion.

They say what an elder can see while sitting down, a child cannot see it even if he climbs a palm tree. My bro, you are too young to get married now, you have a whole lot to learn in life. To me, it's no big deal marrying her but look at it from this angle. What will happen if you guys have issue and she abuses you in term of finance, or she get bored of you and decide to do things her way. Although still doesnt count but you should look into the long run of the marriage, don't let love lead you, use your head cos a mistake in first marriage can never be written off, and can affect the rest of your life. Peace

Arondizuogu:


Yeah I am.

u try oo.....i only fantasize dating an older lady in ma dreams.....thought only celebraties get whoever they want

einsteine:
OP is a troll.

well said

Is your mother the one entering the marriage if not the two of you.
As long as you love her go for her.

Cadec007:
u try oo.....i only fantasize dating an older lady in ma dreams.....thought only celebraties get whoever they want

Lol. If you like someone and they like you, then I don't see why not?

Boy read your Bible where it admonishes depending on a woman for living. It does not last,unless she can establish you with her money.....marry her only when you can feed yourself without her....simple

One Day she will give you the slap of your life and remind you she's not your mate on any level. Na that time your eye go clear.. you can't afford to lose her, as if you will die if you do.
Beta wake up and listen to your mother.

TheUpsetGirl1:
later guys will start calling us golddiggers, so what are you guys going to call this one

thief go and marry your mate

oildigger!!
ole, you better go and marry your mate, ,no wonder biacan said you depend on a commissioner's daughter for livelihood.

thief

ahahahahahhahah, oil digger wan kill me with laugh

prechbills1:


bro at least at 24 I've achieved basic things in life.
I just want to know if I should go ahead without my mom's endorsement and bleasings.

basic things like?