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Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by matrixme(m): 10:49pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
your own is even better. What if she had kept the child secret till after the wedding and you're just finding out about the whole plan of recent? Please man up and accept full responsibilities for the child. Afterall some people without children are adopting other people's own and living happy lives. A girl grows fast and before long, she will be out of your lives to marry and take care of her husband. 12 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Dollabiz: 10:49pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
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Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by sexymoma(f): 10:49pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
You are just been selfish 18 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by oyatz(m): 10:49pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Forget your family's sentiments sir. Take the 7year old girl in, let her feel at home ,enjoy motherly care and watch how God will open the doors of heaven to bless you. Your home will be more stable if you make this sacrifice to make your wife happy. NairalandFAYOSE: 15 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Ibime(m): 10:50pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
NairalandFAYOSE: I would give you the same advice as everyone else has given, but with a name like Fayose, I don't think you are a reasonable man. 50 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Aliii(m): 10:50pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Bro I know it's difficult but there are some certain things will do for people that God sees and bless us ..helping a child is never a lost ..just do it for the sake of God it's never the fault of the child to be born that way ,I bet you after a while the child is with you if the man comes to take the child again you wouldn't release 5 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by damola1: 10:50pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
First advise is a hit. Legally adopt the child. 3 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by pafo(m): 10:50pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
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Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Sleezwizz: 10:51pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
NairalandFAYOSE: So u didn't know she was AFTER ONE before u married her? U f*cked up with that ur statement... 71 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by bluefilm: 10:51pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
What kind of baby is this one that everyone is rejecting? Chai. Some people just have tough luck in this world and for so many of such persons, it starts right off from birth! It's a pity. 17 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by henrybomb(m): 10:52pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
If you love your wife enough and knew she had a kid, you guys can just sort things out, the child needs love 2 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Sleezwizz: 10:52pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
NCANTaskForce: Weyrey ni e 13 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Nofav0rs(m): 10:52pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
The kids father couldn't have the kid anymore cuz he's now married yet wants your wife to have the kid knowing she's also married. TF! Why didn't he take the kid to his own parents? If his (your wife's baby dad) wife loves him, why wouldn't she also accept the kid? Why should it be problem? So many deadbeat dads everywhere 23 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Funjosh(m): 10:52pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Marriage issues nowadays ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by saajus: 10:53pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Accept the girl. Treat her like your own. 1 Like |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Nobody: 10:53pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
reyscrub: The truth is bitter, when they are of age they will always want to be with their real father. Blood is thicker than water. 12 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by seun70(m): 10:53pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
This is the best advise you can get. SUPERPACK: 7 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Viking007(m): 10:53pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Humblesam:I think the op is just another troll. 6 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Nobody: 10:54pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Oh come on. 1. You knew beforehand that she had a daughter and yet you proceeded to marry her regardless. 2. We assume she's a good, respectful, dutiful, submissive wife in every way you want. 2. She's begging in a humble and placatory manner. If you have enough resources, you should admit the young girl. This shouldn't be a problem. 10 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by dingbang(m): 10:54pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Funjosh:I dey tell you.. 2 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by TheGreatIYANU: 10:55pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
NairalandFAYOSE: Chai my brother! My heart bleeds... Please bros, I Completely understand your situation, I do. But PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE! Don't deprive an INNOCENT young girl of her mother! That girl has done absolutely nothing to deserve been thrown around to various parties. Please my dear brother, PLEASE! Take her as yours. You stated clearly that her mother (your wife) has great qualities that endeared you to here in the first place. Who's to say the daughter will not possess such qualities and even better?! That girl would be a blessing to you and your family bro. Take her as your own. Nurture her, train her up in the way of the Lord... She will turn out to be a great blessing to you in the nearest future. I bet you! 14 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Johnrake69: 10:55pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
She is just an innocent girl. It shouldn't be an issue. Adopt her. Love her and see the result. I really don't see any special thing about the biological connection with a child. 8 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by isnovic(m): 10:55pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
SUPERPACK: Dude this is the best advice by far. Do not just take her in, love her as your own but be sure to complete them papers. The world is deep. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by selemempe: 10:55pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
NairalandFAYOSE:if u love ur wife...then take that child and love her too..u are lucky its a girl...she would grow to see u as dad more than a guy 4 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by poseidon12: 10:56pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
reyscrub: Good. I will suggest you formally adopt the boy. Otherwise his biological father may come to claim him after you have done all the hard work of raising him. 3 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Felixv: 10:56pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
If she has her mother’s attributes then she can be a good role model to your kids. Good luck 1 Like |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Nobody: 10:56pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
NairalandFAYOSE: what kind of human being are you sir? she may not be your child, but she is your wife's child.. 11 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by JaffyJoe(m): 10:56pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
PUSSYBBQGRILLS: You guys are always quick to throw the "if you truly love her" tag around in cases like this. First of, sit down ![]() 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by ashpee(m): 10:56pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
In this life... Every opportunity you have to "father" a child, do not hesitate. Most times such children turn up being the saving grace of some families. If you love your wife, there's no harm helping her raise a child she had. 8 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by babyfaceafrica: 10:56pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
it is because of these type of issues. I advise to be wary of people who are "after one". getting married on a d fresh slate is always better.. no baggage.. but people will say love is blind..so oga you know she has a child before you marry her... carry your cross 16 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by sandra50(f): 10:57pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
NairalandFAYOSE:Please for the sake of God let that child stay with you and treat her like your own child..it's only God that gives children..you don't know that God will protect your own children from any harm if you take care of that child?do it for God that gave you those children and has been protecting your kids from harm 3 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Imustreturn(m): 10:57pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
NairalandFAYOSE:now u have a bigger problem bro. I think I do understand u well. But don't forget that your the man and your decision is finally. Think about it brother. That gal might be your saviour 2mro. Smiles I believe u understand how life works bro. From the way you spoke seems u don't like her already its not about your family ryt it you bro. Work on your self man. 9 Likes |
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