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Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Luciferhimself: 11:07pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
greggng: I don't pollute people's minds |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by kunle75(m): 11:08pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
cvibe2: Sumbo ajaba now adeoye. I shared my personal experience too |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by babyfaceafrica: 11:08pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
maestroferddi:you get brain...people think it is easy taking someone else child into your home..it ain't easy......the the. guy should have put it I to consideration before getting married to his wife..now he has no choice than to allow the gal into the home..else he will be seen as wicked...... 1 Like |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Dammylois(f): 11:08pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
So you people are tossing the innocent child around cos of what people will say and whatever like it's her fault. this can demoralise the child in future please, or you think because she's small she doesn't know what's going on? Be sympathetic..... Abeg allow your wife take her child in biko, after all she didn't hide it from you..... I see nothing wrong in taking her as your own, if you can't accept your wife's child then I doubt you'll ever lend a helping hand to outsider..... Just do proper documentation cos that silly sperm donor may wake up one day to start nonsense.... God bless your family 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by skylowlow: 11:09pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
I'm just pissed off reading this.. Op smh for you. 1 Like |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by 12345baba(m): 11:09pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Accept the child my friemd |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by jaxxy(m): 11:09pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
dominique: If hes inconsiderate wat will u say about the. Childs father who threw his daughter out bcis hes married? Not dat d woman demanded custody? The truth is he can't be forced to take the child, sameway if the reverse was the case he can't force his own child on the lady especially if this was cleared up b4 their marriage. The lady and her ex have to sort it out since the kid can't stay in any of their homes because they are both married. I wud say the father(ex) has to keep the child and accommodate her in his new home or find an alternative. I really feel for this kid. 11 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Amberon11: 11:10pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Never you ever refer to your as such. Stand on your ground. You're not married to your family. You're married to your wife. NairalandFAYOSE: 2 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Tinamoore(f): 11:11pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
You were fully aware that your wife has a daughter before you married her not that she kept it a secret from you.Agreed that the daughter living with you was not the initial plan but then circumstances have changed. In this case I think accepting the girl will be the better thing to do because: 1 From your write up, she is not going about it in a forceful way but pleading. She even sent the girl to her mum pending when you have a change of mind. 2 Sir, if the table is to be turned around and you find yourself in your wife's position, what exactly would you want her to do? Please reconsider your decision.I know it may be hard for you because it was not in the initial plan. But then the girl in question is your wife's flesh and blood.how happy do you think she will be in your home knowing fully well that her daughter is homeless, all thanks to you her husband. One of my guiding principle in life is " Do unto others as you would like them to do unto you". Apply this principle Sir and you will wholeheartedly accept the girl. 4 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Amberon11: 11:12pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
If you're thinking of rejecting your wife's child then oga you're a wicked soul. NairalandFAYOSE: 3 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by kunle75(m): 11:12pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
misolataiwo: Thank you maybe Kardashian family will come to mind . Their stepfather did most of the work and today you can see result 2 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Sleezwizz: 11:12pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Sap0: Total rubbish and uncalled for 5 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by babyfaceafrica: 11:12pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
tiredoflife:lmao..I agree.. person wey marry after one..wetin he expect? 1 Like |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by lastclaire4(f): 11:12pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
NairalandFAYOSE: With the way you are going, please don't be hostile to that child if you want your marriage to work. You knew she had a child before marriage you should have put all the "what if" into consideration. The truth is your wife will never leave her child outside to be maltreated by another woman. If you want your wife to really show you love, treat that child the way you treat your kids and see. 2 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Nobody: 11:12pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
bluefilm: I feel so sad for the girl. In between 2 parents dt dont want her. Smh. She will grow up and resent all her half siblings if shes abandoned like this. This op is just a selfish demon. All these pple dt live fake lives, controlled by what people will say. They don't even know their own self. Zero character. Nonsense! |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by miqos02(m): 11:12pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
So nice to see a Nairaland thread devoid of tribal insults. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by babyfaceafrica: 11:13pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Amberon11:if he is wicked..then the father that threw her to the mother because he is getting married is what? 8 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by HeWrites(m): 11:13pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
sexymoma:Being 3 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by cvibe2: 11:13pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
NairalandFAYOSE: This is an unwise thing to say. If you had a problem with her being after one, why marry her? 4 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by GRACEGLORY: 11:15pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Without all contradictions... She's your daughter. It's not blood or water, nor sex that determines father hood, it's relationship. She isn't your step, half, nor a small fraction daughter to you, she's your full blown daughter, who has same rights as the ones you have by sex, blood, and water. Your soul tie with the mother earns her such ticket of full blown father-daughter relationship. The earlier you understand that the earlier your headache disappears. 4 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by MsGood(f): 11:15pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
NairalandFAYOSE:. Sir, you're a man and the head of your family, don't let people control your family. 3 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by InvertedHammer: 11:15pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
NairalandFAYOSE:/ I believe that you are naturally wicked. Are you telling me that you cannot train another person's child? But in this case, a child of your present wife. I cannot believe what I just read. A girl needs her mother to guide her through teenage years. I guess you already know what the future holds for you. You think you are better than those families that get wiped out in a single accident? I wish there is a way around it because I will advise your wife not to bring the girl close to a devil like you because you fit the profile of someone who will kill or maim a step-child with the level of hatred in your soul. / 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Nobody: 11:16pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Nofav0rs:So what's your point bros.. Should he accept the kid or not? 1 Like |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by babyfaceafrica: 11:16pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
jaxxy:I agree 100% 3 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by tjadeba(m): 11:16pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
NairalandFAYOSE: You are a selfish wicked and thoughtless guy...very immature and need not to have gotten married to a single mum...do your worst nigga 1 Like |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by maestroferddi: 11:16pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
JaffyJoe:I tire o. Naija peeps can pretend. Snake oil salesmen sincerity all over the place. If this seedy outpouring of empathy I am reading here is genuine, how come our society is so wicked? 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by nnamezie87(m): 11:17pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Take that girl as ur daughter... Do a proper documentation and adopt her as ur child , torture her, care for her , integrate her into ur family and you will see your wife going extra mile to please U. If d mother is good, then ,there may be traits of the mother in her which will make her play a "big aunty" role to your children. This is a test from God...if you fail, your are doomed. Take this advise and U will live to appreciate it in the nearest future. |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Brightgem(f): 11:17pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Gosh... the tone of the post is sickening. You are doing the woman a favour tone, by even getting married to her. It should be a union of love and understanding, which one be she shdnt bring another's man child to me in my house, same womb that held that child held all of urs too, ur kids are siblings to this child. you should have even accepted the child fess then come and ask us what shd be ur ground rules. Nansense! Why shd u care what the kid becomes tomorrow like some are saying, can't u just take care of the child just because... Stop talking like u own the mother a did her a favour marrying her... I dnt blame you sha, its all these ladies that wnt hear u shdnt be opening leg anyhow, sex has become cheap and abused... the result? Poor kids like this, tossed around, she already knows who rejected her and she will never forget... poor child. 7 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by femichill: 11:18pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
It's so funny how people talk. It's easier to give advice when you are not in that position. The child father denied his own child. The child grandma denied the same child. So, because he is the child stepfather, it is now his crime to take the child without us knowing his financial condition. I feel for u bro. However, make a decision you will stand by. 12 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by madami123: 11:18pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
That what you sign up for
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Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by cvibe2: 11:19pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
This is a fake story by the OP. |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by femichill: 11:19pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Odobopa:His decision. This should not be forced on him 1 Like |
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